{"id":17393,"date":"2019-04-29T16:15:51","date_gmt":"2019-04-29T13:15:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17393"},"modified":"2019-04-29T16:44:09","modified_gmt":"2019-04-29T13:44:09","slug":"moartea-lui-razvan-ciobanu-si-homofobia-ortodoxului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/moartea-lui-razvan-ciobanu-si-homofobia-ortodoxului\/","title":{"rendered":"Moartea lui R\u0103zvan Ciobanu \u0219i homofobia ortodoxului"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da, \u0219tiu, subiectul e tratat de un sfert de internet \u00een acest moment, dar cred sincer c\u0103 discu\u021bia trebuie s\u0103 se amplifice \u0219i s\u0103 fie purtat\u0103 de c\u00e2t mai mul\u021bi. A\u0219a c\u0103, iat\u0103, o s\u0103 abordez \u0219i eu subiectul. <\/p>\n

A murit un creator de mod\u0103. Unii spun c\u0103 era extraordinar. Al\u021bii spun c\u0103 era discutabil. Unii spun c\u0103 era un om bun, iubitor, cu o inim\u0103 de aur. Al\u021bii spun c\u0103 f\u0103cea excese grave, din multe puncte de vedere. Unii spun c\u0103 era dependent de droguri. Al\u021bii spun c\u0103 era doar surmenat. <\/p>\n

Dar pentru ortodoxul care abia a luat lumin\u0103 acum dou\u0103 nop\u021bi, \u0219i a fost la o slujb\u0103 unde i s-a vorbit despre iertarea tuturor p\u0103catelor, toate aceste calit\u0103\u021bi, defecte, nuan\u021be se reduc la o singur\u0103 etichet\u0103: era gay. <\/p>\n

Era gay, \u0219i asta automat \u00eel calific\u0103 la oprobriu social, moarte violent\u0103, a\u0219a i-a trebuit. <\/p>\n

Eu nu voi da copy – paste la citatele absolut dezumanizante \u0219i dezgust\u0103toare din rubrica de comentarii a siteurilor de \u0219tiri, c\u0103 au f\u0103cut-o deja al\u021bii. Nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 leg de atitudinea lui Gigel 1, Gigel 2 sau Gigel 18. Vreau s\u0103 discut despre modul \u00een care ortodoxia propov\u0103duie\u0219te \u00een continuare acest dublu standard atroce. <\/p>\n

Pe de o parte, fraze abracadabrante despre iubirea fa\u021b\u0103 de aproape \u0219i smerenie. <\/p>\n

Pe de alta, rev\u0103rs\u0103ri de ur\u0103 asupra a tot ce e diferit: alt\u0103 religie, alt\u0103 na\u021bionalitate, alt\u0103 orientare sexual\u0103, alte preferin\u021be de via\u021b\u0103 social\u0103. <\/p>\n

Cum se \u00eempac\u0103 lumina \u00eenvierii \u0219i a iubirii de acum dou\u0103 seri cu \u00eenjur\u0103turile oribile de azi, adresate unui om care nu se mai poate ap\u0103ra? <\/p>\n

Nicicum. <\/p>\n

Din acest punct de vedere, consider c\u0103 biserica e un cancer social. Exact cum comunismul bol\u0219evic tr\u0103it de rom\u00e2ni timp de 50 de ani era comunism doar cu numele \u0219i \u00een realitate era o form\u0103 atroce de dictatur\u0103, o strivire cotidian\u0103 a drepturilor \u0219i libert\u0103\u021bilor cet\u0103\u021beanului, BOR e o propov\u0103duitoare a credin\u021bei \u0219i a valorilor cre\u0219tine: iubire, \u00een\u021belegere, iertare, doar cu numele. \u00cen realitate, e un organism de sp\u0103lare a creierelor, de \u00eendobitocire, de asmu\u021bire a idio\u021bilor utili \u0219i de cultivare a prejudec\u0103\u021bilor fa\u021b\u0103 de ce e diferit. <\/p>\n

Cum po\u021bi posta ceva de genul “Bine c\u0103 a murit un c*rist”, \u015fi a doua zi s\u0103 intri senin \u00een biseric\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 un fior de vinov\u0103\u0163ie?
\nExact a\u015fa cum tov. Nicolae Ceau\u015fescu \u0163inea un speech despre omul liber \u00een societatea multilateral dezvoltat\u0103, apoi trimitea potera s\u0103 mai \u00een\u015fface \u015fi bat\u0103 doi civili care ziseser\u0103 glume cu Ceau\u015fescu \u015fi-i auzise raportacul de serviciu, numit secretar de partid. <\/p>\n

Cu ce e util\u0103 homofobia?
\nSchimb\u0103 ea cu ceva orientarea sexual\u0103 a celor \u00een cauz\u0103? NU. De obicei iubirea are acest obicei s\u0103 devin\u0103 cu at\u00e2t mai puternic\u0103, cu c\u00e2t latr\u0103 mai mul\u0163i oligofreni \u00eempotriva ei. Citi\u0163i Romeo \u015fi Julieta.
\nTe face pe tine un om mai bun? Nu. Te face doar un gunoi plin de ur\u0103 \u015fi m\u0103cinat de ranchiune, oftici \u015fi r\u00e2ci.
\nTe afecteaz\u0103 concret cu ceva faptul c\u0103 anumi\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i iubesc b\u0103rba\u0163i, anumite femei iubesc femei \u015fi anumite persoane nu apar\u0163in mintal sexului care le-a fost atribuit cu na\u015ftere?
\nNU. <\/p>\n

Newsflash: to\u0163i ace\u015fti oameni au dreptul la via\u0163a lor cum ai \u015fi tu la a ta. <\/p>\n

\u015ei a\u015fa cum r\u00e2nje\u015fti tu cu satisfac\u0163ie la moartea lui, ai merita s\u0103 r\u00e2njeasc\u0103 al\u0163ii la moartea ta, care, inevitabil, va ap\u0103rea \u015fi ea \u00eentr-o zi, c\u0103 nici tu nu e\u015fti etern: “Ahaha, a murit un jeg prost \u015fi r\u0103u, lumea e un loc mai bun”.<\/p>\n

Singura diferen\u0163\u0103 e c\u0103 orientarea sexual\u0103 a lui R\u0103zvan Ciobanu nu afecta \u015fi nu privea pe nimeni altcineva, doar pe el \u015fi partenerii lui. Ura, \u00een schimb, e o molim\u0103 contagioas\u0103, care afecteaz\u0103 direct pe to\u0163i cei viza\u0163i de ea, indiferent dac\u0103 ace\u015ftia \u00eei datoreaz\u0103 ceva jegosului cu pricina sau nu. <\/p>\n

E\u015fti plin de ur\u0103 pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti s\u0103rac, prost \u015fi r\u0103u? Dar poate e invers. E\u015fti s\u0103rac, prost \u015fi r\u0103u pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti plin de ur\u0103 \u015fi asta e tot ce meri\u0163i.
\nSchimb\u0103 ceva \u00een tine, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 se schimbe ceva \u00een atitudinea altora fa\u0163\u0103 de tine. <\/p>\n

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