{"id":17416,"date":"2019-05-03T11:13:46","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T08:13:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17416"},"modified":"2019-05-03T11:13:46","modified_gmt":"2019-05-03T08:13:46","slug":"intermediarul-de-scandaluri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/intermediarul-de-scandaluri\/","title":{"rendered":"Intermediarul de scandaluri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cine spune c\u0103 Facebook \u015fi alte re\u0163ele virtuale sunt doar fic\u0163iuni \u015fi nu conteaz\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 studieze un pic dinamica du\u015fm\u0103niilor, a urilor \u015fi a rivalit\u0103\u0163ilor. Chestiuni de care eu una m-am l\u0103sat \u00een ultimii cinci ani, din dou\u0103 motive: a) consumul exagerat de timp b) haita de personaje toxice pe care scandalurile online le aduc.<\/p>\n<p>Pe de o parte, e adversarul. Extrem de agresiv, pus pe har\u0163\u0103, gata s\u0103 inventeze diverse rahaturi cu care s\u0103 te ponegreasc\u0103. Mereu la v\u00e2n\u0103toare pe peretele t\u0103u dup\u0103 citate pe care s\u0103 le rup\u0103 din context \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i mai arunce ni\u015fte ur\u0103 \u00een c\u00e2rc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, sunt pretenarii adversarului.<\/p>\n<p>Oameni care nu te cunosc, nu \u015ftiu nimic despre tine, \u00een schimb, pentru c\u0103 \u0103la a zis c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 latre la tine, vin cu turma, exact cu nivelul de discern\u0103m\u00e2nt al zombilor lui Night King, s\u0103 te rup\u0103 \u00een col\u0163i \u015fi gheare. \u0102\u015ftia func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 exact a\u015fa.<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Wn6HPuTJrgA?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>De multe ori m\u0103 \u00eentreb de ce \u00een cazul meu nu merge a\u015fa, c\u00e2nd am eu un conflict. Apoi m\u0103 prind c\u0103 eu m-am \u00eenconjurat de oameni care g\u00e2ndesc cu capul lor, iar \u0103\u015ftia nu opereaz\u0103 la ordin.<\/p>\n<p>Pe de a treia parte, e audien\u0163a specific\u0103 de b\u00e2lci.<\/p>\n<p>\u0102\u015ftia sunt oameni pe care nu-i intereseaz\u0103 articole, puncte de vedere sau alte lucruri constructive. \u0102\u015ftia au o singur\u0103 pl\u0103cere: Cine cu cine se ceart\u0103 pe Facebook \u015fi de ce.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei te prinzi din faptul c\u0103 nu-i vezi d\u00e2nd buluc dec\u00e2t la schimburile de plui \u015fi mor\u0163i de mum\u0103, unde troleaz\u0103 aiurea s\u0103 mai \u00eent\u0103r\u00e2te ga\u015fca, apoi dispar. Unde anume? E de ajuns dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i pe feed dup\u0103 alt\u0103 ceart\u0103. \u00cei g\u0103se\u015fti acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt dependen\u0163i de conflict \u015fi de insulte reciproce ca un incel de pornografie, \u015fi \u00eemi imaginez c\u0103, exact ca \u0103la, o freac\u0103 \u00een timp ce.<\/p>\n<p>Unde nu sunt scandal, ceart\u0103, lacrimi \u015fi muci, e plictiseal\u0103 pentru ei.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>Acestea, copiii mei, au fost elementele toxice evidente.<\/p>\n<p>Dar mai e ceva.<\/p>\n<p>Unii nici nu v\u0103 prinde\u0163i c\u00e2t de toxic e, de fapt, acest element, \u015fi mul\u0163i \u00eel lua\u0163i drept prieten.<\/p>\n<p>Dar nu v\u0103 e prieten. \u00cen realitate \u00eel doare \u00een penis de voi, \u015fi tot ce vrea e s\u0103 v\u0103 asmut\u0103 \u015fi mai mult.<\/p>\n<p>Acest element cu num\u0103rul 4 este intermediarul scandalurilor, sau, cu alte cuvinte, hoitarul circului.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 zicem, influencer A se ceart\u0103 cu influencer B. Se \u00eenjur\u0103, se porc\u0103ie, se bag\u0103, se scot, la final \u00ee\u015fi dau block reciproc.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen mod normal, aici s-ar termina.<\/p>\n<p>Dar intervin hoitarii circului, care \u00eencep s\u0103-l frece pe influencer A:<\/p>\n<p>-B\u0103, ce naiba, c\u00e2t de \u0163\u0103ran a fost \u0103la s\u0103 se ia de tine.<\/p>\n<p>-Da, zice influencer A, \u015fi a mai \u015fi f\u0103cut asta, asta \u015fi asta.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh, yeah!&#8221; se bucur\u0103 hoitarii circului. &#8220;C\u0103rni\u0163\u0103 de continuat panarama.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei se duc \u00een mailboxul influencerului B.<\/p>\n<p>-Uite, B, ce a zis A de tine!<\/p>\n<p>-B\u0103, da A \u0103sta nu se mai potole\u015fte o dat\u0103? E un nebun, un psihopat \u015fi un bolnav cu capul.<\/p>\n<p>Evident, copy paste \u015fi mesaj sau comentariu adresat lui A.<\/p>\n<p>-Uite, b\u0103i, A, ce a zis B de tine, p\u0103i se poate a\u015fa ceva?<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei tot a\u015fa, o lun\u0103, dou\u0103, zece, c\u00e2t se poate lungi pelteaua.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd un om \u00eemi d\u0103 mesaj privat \u00een care \u00eemi forwardeaz\u0103 o \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103 a cuiva, pentru mine e deja suspect. De ce vrea omul \u0103la s\u0103 m\u0103 implice \u00een scandal? De ce vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 for\u0163eze la reac\u0163ie? De ce nu ia el pozi\u0163ie, dac\u0103 acea \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103 merit\u0103 remarcat\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Tu ai observat-o, nu eu.\u00a0 Tu ai un punct de vedere fa\u0163\u0103 de ea, nu eu.<\/p>\n<p>Ei, bine, un procent solid de 90% din posibilit\u0103\u0163i e c\u0103 omul e intermediarul scandalului \u015fi te hr\u0103ne\u015fte con\u015ftiincios cu material inflamabil, s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 sari \u00een aer.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 te la\u015fi dus de nas \u015fi postezi \u015fi tu o mul\u0103, m\u00e2ine \u015ftii sigur c\u0103 mula aia e bine masat\u0103, s\u0103 prezinte \u015fi erec\u0163ie, \u015fi prezentat\u0103 pe tav\u0103 festiv\u0103 du\u015fmanului t\u0103u de clas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Scandalurile de Facebook care \u0163in mai mult de dou\u0103 zile se datoreaz\u0103 acestei specii abjecte de parazit uman.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103car oponen\u0163ii sunt sincer furio\u015fi \u015fi se poart\u0103 doar proste\u015fte.<\/p>\n<p>Hoitarul circului e marcat de o profund\u0103 durere anal\u0103 \u00een privin\u0163a temei \u015fi vrea doar s\u0103 se distreze pe socoteala cert\u0103re\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n<p>Verdict?<\/p>\n<p>De prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd cineva v\u0103 forwardeaz\u0103 un print screen, refuza\u0163i s\u0103 pune\u0163i botul la manipulare. Cel mult, \u00eentreba\u0163i direct haterul ce sper\u0103 c\u0103 va ob\u0163ine. Dac\u0103 haterul, exact ca unii din haterii mei mai vechi, \u015ftie c\u0103 nu va ob\u0163ine nimic \u015fi exact asta e problema, da\u0163i un scurt block general, at\u00e2t lui sau ei, c\u00e2t \u015fi grosului acestor elemente toxice \u015fi bucura\u0163i-v\u0103 de Facebook-ul cald \u015fi lini\u015ftit de dup\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Via\u0163a e prea scurt\u0103 pentru certuri.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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