{"id":17429,"date":"2019-05-04T09:10:19","date_gmt":"2019-05-04T06:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17429"},"modified":"2019-05-04T09:10:19","modified_gmt":"2019-05-04T06:10:19","slug":"lucruri-de-care-nu-e-cazul-sa-ti-fie-rusine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/lucruri-de-care-nu-e-cazul-sa-ti-fie-rusine\/","title":{"rendered":"Lucruri de care NU e cazul s\u0103-\u021bi fie ru\u0219ine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Omul modern nu se mai lupt\u0103 cu animale s\u0103lbatice, nu mai recolteaz\u0103 buruieni din c\u00e2mp, nu mai tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een pe\u0219ter\u0103. De aceea, duce o via\u021b\u0103 pe care ne place s-o numim &#8220;social\u0103&#8221;. Adic\u0103, e \u00eenconjurat de o mul\u0163ime de al\u0163i oameni: la munc\u0103, \u00een cercurile de prieteni, \u00een cercul familial, \u00een cercul vecinilor, \u015fi de c\u00e2nd cu social media, \u015fi \u00een grupul de oameni online care ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Unii dintre ace\u015fti oameni ne vor binele, vor s\u0103 ne construiasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne transmit\u0103 energie pozitiv\u0103 \u015fi afec\u0163iune. Iar al\u0163ii, evident, vor s\u0103 ne striveasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne minimalizeze, s\u0103 ne vampirizeze respectul de propria persoan\u0103, s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 s\u0103 ne \u00eendoim de noi \u015fi s\u0103 ne inoculeze ru\u015fine.<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, un exerci\u0163iu periodic de autoreflec\u0163ie, o discu\u0163ie prieteneasc\u0103 a ta cu tine, s\u0103 vezi ce faci gre\u015fit \u015fi ce po\u0163i face mai bine, e ceva ce ar trebui practicat \u00een fiecare diminea\u0163\u0103, la cafea. Dar s\u0103 nu confund\u0103m asta cu l\u0103turile pline de venin pe care \u0163i le arunc\u0103 diver\u015fi cocalari sau coc\u0103l\u0103rese, din diverse motive care nu au leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu tine \u015fi nu te intereseaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Taman de aceea, hai s\u0103 trecem \u00een revist\u0103 subiectele pentru care nu ai de ce s\u0103 te ru\u015finezi, pe care nimeni nu are de ce s\u0103 \u0163i le arunce \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 \u015fi la care reac\u0163ia s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie ceva de genul:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"giphy-embed\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A) V\u00e2rsta.<\/p>\n<p>Recent, a fost vestita tornad\u0103 din C\u0103l\u0103ra\u015fi. \u015ei un jeg a postat la el pe perete ceva de genul: P\u0103cat c\u0103 n-a luat femeile peste 30 de ani. Eu nu l-am onorat cu un reply: \u00een fond nici voievodul nu se \u00eencurca la vorb\u0103 cu orice talpa \u0163\u0103rii. Dar dac\u0103 a\u015f fi f\u0103cut-o, ar fi fost ceva de genul: P\u0103cat c\u0103 n-a luat IQ-urile sub 70.<\/p>\n<p>Pe un jeg random de pe Facebook \u00ee\u0163i e u\u015for s\u0103-l ignori, s\u0103-i dai jet din list\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 ui\u0163i c\u0103 a existat. Dar la un moment dat, o prieten\u0103 &#8211; excelent profesionist &#8211; a lucrat la un alt jeg. \u0102la o abuza verbal constant \u015fi la un moment dat i-a spus ceva de genul: Zi mersi c\u0103 ai un job la 32 de ani ai t\u0103i, c\u0103 e\u015fti deja b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Say what, b*ch?<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen secunda \u00een care unul aduce v\u00e2rsta voastr\u0103 \u00een discu\u0163ie, \u015fi nu are vreun motiv obiectiv s-o fac\u0103 (exemplu: medic nutri\u0163ionist stabilind necesarul de calorii); singura voastr\u0103 reac\u0163ie trebuie s\u0103 fie:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"giphy-embed\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nu conteaz\u0103 ce cifr\u0103 scrie la tine \u00een buletin, conteaz\u0103 ce \u015ftii s\u0103 faci \u015fi ce valoare po\u0163i s\u0103 aduci \u00een vie\u0163ile altora.<\/p>\n<p>Mai ales c\u0103 asta cu v\u00e2rsta e arm\u0103 cu dou\u0103 t\u0103i\u015furi: c\u00e2t e\u015fti t\u00e2n\u0103r, e urmat\u0103 de &#8220;Mda, habar n-ai de lume \u015fi via\u0163\u0103&#8221;, iar c\u00e2nd e\u015fti matur, de &#8220;Serios! P\u0103i, e\u015fti literalmente cu un picior \u00een sicriu.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Da, \u00eentr-o aventur\u0103 romantic\u0103 e ok s\u0103-\u0163i spui v\u00e2rsta, c\u0103 acolo se lucreaz\u0103 la un nivel de conexiune c\u00e2t mai profund, \u015fi mai bine s\u0103 auzi c\u0103 e o problem\u0103 c\u00e2t \u00eenc\u0103 nu te-ai implicat emo\u0163ional.<\/p>\n<p>Restul lumii nu are treab\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta ta, \u015fi dac\u0103-\u015fi face, e bine s\u0103 pui piciorul \u00een prag repede. De exemplu, \u00eemi scrie mie una: &#8220;Vai. Lorena, te citesc te plac blablabla vr\u0103jeal\u0103&#8221;. \u00cei r\u0103spund politicos: &#8220;Mul\u0163umesc, m\u0103 bucur&#8221;. \u015ei o d\u0103 brusc din fundul gr\u0103dinii: &#8220;Dar tu c\u00e2\u0163i ani\u00a0 ai?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dafuq, nu vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi \u015fi c\u00e2te plue am supt, m\u0103 enervez eu \u015fi aleg s\u0103 ignor. Trec vreo \u015fase luni, hopa aceea\u015fi idioat\u0103 cu un comentariu specul\u00e2nd despre c\u00e2\u0163i ani am.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;D\u0103-te-n mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii de proasta dracu&#8217; inadecvat\u0103, cu m\u0103-ta care nu te-a educat s\u0103 str\u0103inii nu se trag de br\u0103cinari ca neamurile tale din cort, nu \u0163i-am r\u0103spuns privat, drept care, e semn c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 m\u0103 freci public la icre? R\u0103spunsul final e: nu e treaba ta.&#8221; \u015ei, desigur.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>B) Greutatea\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2te kilograme ai, conteaz\u0103 la c\u00e2te kilograme te sim\u0163i tu bine. Dar indiferent c\u00e2te kilograme ai avea, nu e motiv de abuz verbal din partea nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n<p>Singurul lucru pe care nu e corect s\u0103-l pretinzi e disponibilitatea erotic\u0103 a cuiva care nu e atras de tine. Dar stai: genul \u0103sta de preten\u0163ie nu e corect nici la 100, nici la 75 \u015fi nici la 50 de kilograme.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen rest, ai dreptul s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti cum vrei tu, s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i cum vrei tu \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i organizezi via\u0163a cum sim\u0163i c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i e bine. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103, s\u0103 zicem, nu \u0163i-e bine, dar nu g\u0103se\u015fti dieta adecvat\u0103 \u015fi o arzi pe sl\u0103bit &#8211; \u00eengr\u0103\u015fat; \u00een continuare nu datorezi nim\u0103nui s\u0103 tolerezi abuz verbal, insulte \u015fi umilin\u0163\u0103 pentru asta.<\/p>\n<p>Te jigne\u015fte cineva din senin c\u0103 e\u015fti gras(\u0103)?<\/p>\n<p>Deja \u015fti\u0163i reac\u0163ia:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Arta autentic\u0103 e universal\u0103 \u015fi mereu actual\u0103.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nu m\u0103n\u00e2nci din banii lor, nu \u00ee\u0163i faci abonament la sal\u0103 din banii lor, nu \u00ee\u0163i iei \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103 de un kilogram noaptea de la nonstop pe banii lor, prin urmare, d\u0103-le flit. Dar nu doar a\u015fa, din v\u00e2rful p\u0103m\u0103tufului. D\u0103-le flit cu sete, din fundul r\u0103runchilor t\u0103i ampli, s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 s-au luat de persoana gre\u015fit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-i educi doar pentru tine. \u00cei educi pentru to\u0163i urm\u0103torii gra\u015fi care \u00eei vor ie\u015fi prostului \u00een cale. Dac\u0103 \u015fi-au luat perpulisul de la tine, garantat vor fi mai precau\u0163i data viitoare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C) Condi\u0163ia material\u0103 \/ statutul social.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Rahatul \u0103sta \u00eencepe de timpuriu, cu diverse vaci din familiile prietenilor t\u0103i care te \u00eentreab\u0103 &#8220;Cine sunt p\u0103rin\u0163ii t\u0103i, pui\u015for?&#8221; ca s\u0103 ajusteze nivelul de protocol accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei o metod\u0103 subtil\u0103 de umilire &#8211; manipulare a tic\u0103lo\u015filor e s\u0103 caute s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 te sim\u0163i prost tu cu tine dac\u0103 nu ai bani, ma\u015fin\u0103 scump\u0103, vil\u0103 \u00een cartier de lux \u015fi alte rahaturi inutile similare.<\/p>\n<p>Sincer? Banii sunt minuna\u0163i, dar numai ca mijloc, nu ca scop final. Sau, ok, \u015fi ca scop final, dar pentru a-\u0163i \u00eenfrumuse\u0163a via\u0163a, nu pentru a flutura din ei megaloman spre s\u0103raki.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt ma\u015fini, telefoane, notebooks, whatever la pre\u0163uri medii sau mici, care func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 sclipitor. Eu tastez acest text pe un HP de 1500 de kei. Mi-a pocnit vechiul laptop, un Lenovo de 3000 de lei, \u015fi l-am cump\u0103rat pe \u0103sta temporar, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eemi intrau ni\u015fte pl\u0103\u0163i pe care mizam \u00een trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Dar \u00ee\u015fi face treaba at\u00e2t de bine pe tot ce-mi trebuie, \u00eenc\u00e2t nici nu realizez c\u0103 valoreaz\u0103 jum\u0103tate din c\u00e2t costa \u0103la.<\/p>\n<p>Iar vila aia din cartier de lux, cu vecini ultra sc\u00e2rbo\u015fi \u015fi plini de fi\u0163e \u015fi aere? Honestly, dude, n-a\u015f da parcurile verzi interminabile \u015fi popula\u0163ia mereu simpatic\u0103 \u015fi cald\u0103 din cartierul Titan nici dac\u0103 de m\u00e2ine a\u015f \u00eencepe s\u0103 fac 100.000 de euro pe lun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i stabile\u015fti condi\u0163ia material\u0103 \u015fi statutul social care te fac s\u0103 te sim\u0163i tu. Mie \u00eemi place s\u0103 fiu artist freelancer, colaborator pe proiecte cu mai mul\u0163i parteneri, s\u0103 stau &#8220;semicentral&#8221; (cum scrie pe siteurile de imobiliare) \u015fi s\u0103 am pu\u0163in mai mul\u0163i bani dec\u00e2t cheltuiesc tr\u0103ind confortabil. Nu-mi refuz nimic, dar nici nu poftesc la restaurante de lux de patru ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Sunt happy a\u015fa. \u015ei cine caut\u0103 s\u0103-mi induc\u0103 vreo vinov\u0103\u0163ie legat\u0103 de cum crede el sau ea c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc are parte de &#8211; aud?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>D) Muzica, filmele, etc. tale preferate.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E un motiv pentru care \u00eencep fiecare recenzie la Game of Thrones cu &#8220;Dac\u0103 vii s\u0103 te lauzi etc. etc. etc.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Am dreptul la muzica \u015fi filmele mele a\u015fa cum ai \u015fi tu dreptul la muzica \u015fi filmele tale, \u015fi ca s\u0103 ar\u0103t c\u0103 nu e nimic de dispre\u0163uit nici m\u0103car \u00een fanii manelelor, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t ei ca persoane sunt oameni buni \u015fi decen\u0163i, am publicat acum ceva vreme \u015fi un <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/top-10-manele\/\">Top 10 manele<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei, da, am \u00eent\u00e2lnit mul\u0163i, mul\u0163i maneli\u015fti decen\u0163i \u015fi cumsecade. Stau \u00een cartierul Titan, remember?<\/p>\n<p>Singurele criterii valide de dispre\u0163uit alte persoane sunt: a) tic\u0103lo\u015fia b) prostia c) misecuvenismul.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen rest, las\u0103 oamenii s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 bucurie \u00een ce vrea sufletul lor c\u0103 au o singur\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nu au de ce s\u0103 renun\u0163e la pl\u0103cerile lor pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa vor A \u015fi B.<\/p>\n<p>Mai degrab\u0103 A \u015fi B ar merita ni\u015fte: <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>E) Orientarea sexual\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sigur: cu precizarea c\u0103 partenerul dorit trebuie s\u0103 fie adult \u015fi s\u0103 poat\u0103 exprima consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt valid.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen rest, nu e treaba nim\u0103nui cine te atrage, pe cine iube\u015fti, ce \u00ee\u0163i place s\u0103 faci \u00een pat \u015fi cum, \u015fi nici nu trebuie s\u0103 accep\u0163i vreo form\u0103 de minimalizare sau umilin\u0163\u0103 derivat\u0103 din faptul c\u0103 &#8220;nu e\u015fti normal\u0103&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, gigeii care te agaseaz\u0103 pe tine n-au fost numi\u0163i judec\u0103tori supremi \u00een tribunalul normalit\u0103\u0163ii.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, nu s-au \u00eent\u00e2lnit la o cafea cu Dumnezeu, care s\u0103-i fi numit apostoli propov\u0103duitori ai normalit\u0103\u0163ii.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, nu ai de ce s\u0103 admi\u0163i h\u0103r\u0163uire pe subiect, \u015fi nu ai de ce s\u0103 pierzi vremea cu oameni care te trateaz\u0103 ca pe ceva mai prejos pentru asta.<\/p>\n<p>Nici m\u0103car cu propria familie, dac\u0103 familia nu \u00een\u0163elege. <\/p>\n<p>S\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 de vie\u0163ile lor, sau dac\u0103 nu: <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/NBN2nFCVQDCDe\" width=\"477\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-NBN2nFCVQDCDe\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>F) Nevoia de singur\u0103tate.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E \u00eengrozitoare presiunea asta social\u0103 care ne \u00eendeamn\u0103 pe to\u0163i s\u0103 tr\u0103im dup\u0103 acela\u015fi tipar, c\u00e2nd un curs elementar de psihologie, lec\u0163ia unu, o contrazice.\u00a0 Lec\u0163ia unu e aia care vorbe\u015fte despre cele dou\u0103 tipuri majore de personalitate: introvertit \u015fi extrovertit.<\/p>\n<p>D-apoi s\u0103 mai intr\u0103m \u015fi \u00een nuan\u0163e.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, nu e nimic anormal \u00een a prefera s\u0103 stai singur\u0103 cu un vin \u015fi o pisic\u0103. \u00censeamn\u0103 doar c\u0103 e\u015fti introvertit\u0103, \u015fi jum\u0103tate din popula\u0163ie e \u00een secret ca tine. \u015ei mul\u0163i dintre \u0103\u015ftia se dau peste cap s\u0103 se nege pe ei \u015fi s\u0103 mimeze un chef de socializare pe care nu \u00eel au nici cu slujbe de la un sobor de popi.<\/p>\n<p>Nu datorezi explica\u0163ii nim\u0103nui pentru nevoia ta de singur\u0103tate \u015fi lini\u015fte, c\u00e2t\u0103 vreme e timpul t\u0103u liber. Cine are nevoie de tine te ia cum e\u015fti. Iar cine nu?<\/p>\n<p>Pariez c\u0103 pute\u0163i anticipa ce vine aici.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/w1XrYq5PsCbyE\" width=\"450\" height=\"480\" frameBorder=\"0\" class=\"giphy-embed\" allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/fuck-you-middle-finger-mrs-doubtfire-w1XrYq5PsCbyE\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Lol, \u0163eap\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>Permite\u0163i-v\u0103 luxul s\u0103 fi\u0163i ferici\u0163i exact a\u015fa cum sunte\u0163i \u015fi v\u0103 va fi mult mai simplu s\u0103 elimina\u0163i zgomotul de fond nedorit.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Omul modern nu se mai lupt\u0103 cu animale s\u0103lbatice, nu mai recolteaz\u0103 buruieni din c\u00e2mp, nu mai tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een pe\u0219ter\u0103. 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