{"id":17642,"date":"2019-06-03T09:24:33","date_gmt":"2019-06-03T06:24:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17642"},"modified":"2019-06-03T09:46:59","modified_gmt":"2019-06-03T06:46:59","slug":"munca-sexuala-ar-trebui-legalizata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/munca-sexuala-ar-trebui-legalizata\/","title":{"rendered":"Munca sexual\u0103 ar trebui legalizat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam de mult timp s\u0103 scriu un articol pe acest subiect. De c\u00e2te ori un b\u0103rbat pe care nu-l cunosc \u0219i pe care nu sunt interesat\u0103 s\u0103-l cunosc se bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 cu mine pe strad\u0103, caut\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 din drum cu o conversa\u021bie pe care nu am nici un motiv s-o port, sau de c\u00e2te ori un b\u0103rbat pe care nu-l cunosc \u0219i nu sunt interesat\u0103 s\u0103-l cunosc \u00eencepe s\u0103-mi trimit\u0103 mesaje private mim\u00e2nd o familiaritate care nu exist\u0103 \u00eentre noi, \u00eemi tot propun s\u0103 scriu acest articol.<\/p>\n<p>Dar ieri, pe 2 iunie o organiza\u021bie comunitar\u0103 a lucr\u0103toarelor sexuale din Bucure\u0219ti, numit\u0103 SexWorkCall, a ini\u021biat un protest milit\u00e2nd pentru decriminalizarea muncilor erotice, pe care, din motive care \u021bin de ipocrizie \u0219i duble standarde, societatea o stigmatizeaz\u0103 \u0219i o trateaz\u0103 ca pe un act imoral, de\u0219i, \u00een definitiv, e o munc\u0103 extrem de grea, solicitant\u0103 \u0219i, dat fiind c\u0103 a persistat de-a lungul mileniilor, extrem de necesar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i nu e necesar\u0103 doar pentru beneficiarii direc\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>E necesar\u0103 \u0219i pentru femei. \u015ei iat\u0103 de ce: C\u00e2t de u\u0219oar\u0103 ar fi o zi \u00een care ai putea s\u0103-\u021bi vezi lini\u0219tit\u0103 de ale tale, offline sau online, pentru c\u0103 to\u021bi masculii \u0103\u0219tia horny s-au adresat unei lucr\u0103toare sexuale care \u00ee\u0219i face treaba \u00een deplin\u0103 legalitate \u0219i nu-\u021bi mai pretind aten\u021bie cu b\u0103gare \u00een seam\u0103 iritant\u0103, mai ales c\u0103 primul lucru din intro-ul t\u0103u, scris cu majuscule, e NU-MI DA MESAJE PRIVATE.<\/p>\n<p>Din c\u00e2te se vede, au fost relativ pu\u021bini participan\u021bi la protestul cu pricina, pentru c\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia, ru\u0219ine, ne v\u0103d p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00een poze, cine m\u0103 mai ia pe mine \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe. Irelevant c\u00e2\u021bi au fost, eu aleg s\u0103 le promovez mesajul, pentru c\u0103 mi se pare important.<\/p>\n<p>Hai s\u0103 pornim de la o metafor\u0103 simpl\u0103. S\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la o alt\u0103 nevoie primar\u0103: foamea.<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 mult mai mul\u021bi oameni care vor s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce dec\u00e2t oameni dispu\u0219i s\u0103 produc\u0103 sau s\u0103 prepare m\u00e2ncare? Da. \u0218i atunci societatea a g\u0103sit solu\u021bia elegant\u0103: restaurantul. Mergi, comanzi ce-\u021bi pofte\u0219te inima, pl\u0103te\u0219ti, ai plecat.<\/p>\n<p>Cam cum ar fi o lume \u00een care b\u0103rba\u021bi lihni\u021bi ar h\u0103r\u021bui sute de femei pe noapte cu &#8220;Hai, pisi, p\u0103pu\u015fa, f\u0103 \u015fi mie un piure de cartofi. \u015etii c\u0103 vrei \u015fi tu. E\u015fti o javr\u0103 ordinar\u0103 \u015fi o curv\u0103 dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103-mi faci piure de cartofi. Te-ai mai g\u00e2ndit cu piureul \u0103la de cartofi?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei c\u00e2nd se leag\u0103 ceva cu una: &#8220;Nu-mi place de asta, mi se pare cam buc\u0103t\u0103reas\u0103. Face \u015fi cartofi fran\u0163uze\u015fti. \u015ei salat\u0103 oriental\u0103. Auzi, drag\u0103, tu c\u00e2tor tipi le-ai f\u0103cut piure de cartofi p\u00e2n\u0103 acum?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Efectul ar fi c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea ar m\u00e2nca scovergi uscate. Femeile pentru c\u0103 ar fi intoxicate de dublul standard: h\u0103r\u0163uire lung\u0103 cu g\u0103titul &#8211; b\u0103nuieli \u015fi suspiciuni idioate legate de exact ce ai g\u0103tit p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci \u015fi cui, iar b\u0103rba\u0163ii, din lips\u0103 de op\u0163iuni.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei exact cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acum, ni\u015fte tic\u0103lo\u015fi cu ini\u0163iativ\u0103 ar r\u0103pi minore \u015fi diverse fiin\u0163e vulnerabile pe care le-ar for\u0163a fizic, prin tortur\u0103 \u015fi b\u0103taie, s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 pentru cantine interminabile, apoi tot ei le-ar umili \u015fi le-ar descalifica, \u015fi le-ar trata ca pe ni\u015fte fiin\u0163e lipsite de valoare, pentru c\u0103 s-a putut.<\/p>\n<p>Opa. Uite ce sinopsis superb de roman orwellian am produs doar g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 cum s\u0103 explic importan\u0163a legaliz\u0103rii prostitu\u0163iei pentru rom\u00e2na\u015ful de r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n<p>OK. Ideea e c\u0103 sexul cu partener nedorit e munc\u0103. Munc\u0103 grea, dificil\u0103, dezgust\u0103toare, cam ca vidanjatul. Iar persoanele care fac aceast\u0103 munc\u0103 ar trebui respectate, pentru c\u0103 ele \u0163in rahatul sub control.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexul ca munc\u0103 legal\u0103 ar reduce h\u0103r\u0163uirea \u015fi bullyingul.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 o activitate legalizat\u0103 \u00een acest sens face ca, \u00een loc s\u0103 se scurg\u0103 pe \u0163evile de evacuare corecte din cadrul canaliz\u0103rii, rahatul s\u0103 tot r\u0103bufneasc\u0103 \u00een vie\u0163ile femeilor normale: pe strad\u0103, pe internet, \u00een abord\u0103ri oribile, \u00een mesaje private oribile, \u00een insisten\u0163e oribile.<\/p>\n<p>Iar femeile se \u00eempart \u00een dou\u0103 mari categorii: cele care gust\u0103 acest gen de aten\u0163ie \u015fi cele care nu-l gust\u0103, \u015fi care nu au nici un motiv s\u0103-l suporte, a\u015fa cum, \u00een povestea cu m\u00e2ncarea, dat\u0103 de mine, Gigel nu ar avea nici un motiv s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la cap s\u0103-i fac o ciorb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 munca sexual\u0103 ar fi decriminalizat\u0103 \u015fi recunoscut\u0103 ca munc\u0103, tot acest av\u00e2nt erotic al gigeilor s-ar consuma unde trebuie, \u015fi atunci un om care face munc\u0103 creativ\u0103, cum fac eu, ar avea \u00een jur exclusiv oameni interesa\u0163i de con\u0163inutul creat, nu masculi horny, care de la un punct \u00eencolo \u00ee\u0163i dau reports pe Facebook, s\u0103 te pedepseasc\u0103 c\u0103 tu nu.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 tu da, ar umple acela\u015fi Facebook cu arogan\u0163e scabroase despre cum te-au trecut ei la catastiful de f***te.<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 extrem de multe presiuni nes\u0103n\u0103toase legate de sex, \u015fi o bun\u0103 parte dintre acestea s-ar rezolva dac\u0103 ar exista bordelul ca business oficial, unde s\u0103 te duci, s\u0103 te tratezi a\u015fa cum merg eu la masaj de relaxare c\u00e2nd m\u0103 doare spatele.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexul ca munc\u0103 legal\u0103 ar face ca aceast\u0103 activitate s\u0103 fie prestat\u0103 de cine \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte, nu de cine este constr\u00e2ns.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 videochatul e safe \u015fi bine pl\u0103tit face ca siteurile de specialitate s\u0103 fie pline de femei frumoase, educate, care fac o munc\u0103 pentru c\u0103, la finalul zilei, v\u0103d o recompens\u0103.<br \/>\nSigur, sexul fa\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 nu va fi niciodat\u0103 la fel de safe, c\u00e2t timp popula\u0163ia nu e educat\u0103. Dar \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care ar fi legalizat \u015fi, totodat\u0103, reglementat, o bun\u0103 parte dintre femeile care ar fi interesate de acest tip de munc\u0103 ar putea s\u0103 o practice \u00een condi\u0163ii decente, \u015fi nu ar ap\u0103rea ceva mult mai sinistru: traficul de carne vie.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 CEREREA EXIST\u0102, a existat dintotdeauna \u015fi va exista p\u00e2n\u0103 dispare omenirea. Umilirea prestatoarei de servicii sexuale, marginalizarea ei, scoaterea la periferia societ\u0103\u0163ii nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 reduc\u0103 oferta benevol\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 for\u0163eze crearea ofertei for\u0163ate: r\u0103piri de persoane, priv\u0103ri de libertate, sclavie modern\u0103, condi\u0163ii subumane.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexul ca munc\u0103 legal\u0103 ar crea, paradoxal, un control al condi\u0163iilor \u00een care se desf\u0103\u015foar\u0103 acest tip de activit\u0103\u0163i.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Alcoolul e legal. Prin urmare, produc\u0103torul pune pe sticl\u0103 c\u00e2te grade de alcool are produsul, ce altceva mai con\u0163ine, ce substan\u0163e poten\u0163ial d\u0103un\u0103toare, \u015fi \u00eei po\u0163i vizita fabrica, s\u0103 vezi dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acolo ce pretinde el c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Marijuana e ilegal\u0103. Prin urmare, suni un b\u0103iat. Nu \u015ftii ce \u00ee\u0163i aduce. Nu \u015ftii ce alt rahat con\u0163ine ceea ce \u00ee\u0163i aduce. Nu \u015ftii ce alte efecte secundare vor ap\u0103rea \u015fi cum va fi. Nici m\u0103car nu \u015ftii dac\u0103 b\u0103iatul \u0103la mai e \u00een libertate, sau, dac\u0103 nu mai e, nu \u015ftii dac\u0103 nu cumva \u00ee\u0163i bate \u015fi \u0163ie potera la u\u015f\u0103 s\u0103 te caute de droage prin cas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen care din aceste dou\u0103 exemple vorbim de consum \u00een condi\u0163ii de siguran\u0163\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Da, Lorena, dar \u0103ia care ajung \u00een spital, \u00een com\u0103 alcoolic\u0103&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Una e s\u0103-i spui medicului EXACT ce a b\u0103ut \u0103la, \u015fi alta e s\u0103+i spui c\u0103 a inhalat ceva praf alb, a c\u0103rui provenien\u0163\u0103 n-ar putea-o reconstitui nici Hercule Poirot.<\/p>\n<p>Mbun. Dac\u0103 legalizezi munca sexual\u0103, po\u0163i descrie exact ce servicii de paz\u0103 \u015fi protec\u0163ie s\u0103 existe la u\u015f\u0103, ce condi\u0163ii de igien\u0103 s\u0103 existe \u00een incint\u0103, c\u00e2te teste de s\u00e2nge s\u0103 efectueze angajatele \u015fi ce mijloace de protec\u0163ie s\u0103 se foloseasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Rom\u00e2nia ar avea mult mai pu\u0163ini bolnavi de SIDA \u015fi de sifilis dac\u0103 toate aceste condi\u0163ii ar fi fost \u00eendeplinite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexul ca munc\u0103 legal\u0103 ar crea venituri pentru stat.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cine pretinde c\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia nu e destina\u0163ie pentru turism sexual, ca Thailanda, e naiv sau e prost. Dac\u0103 activitatea exist\u0103 oricum, cam c\u00e2t de inadecvat s\u0103 fii tu, ca stat, s\u0103 cau\u0163i s-o pedepse\u015fti sau s\u0103 te faci c\u0103 nu exist\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103-i alipe\u015fti un cod CAEN \u015fi un impozit aferent de 16% pe venituri, mai ales c\u0103 ai datorii externe imense \u015fi ni\u015fte g\u0103uri \u00een buget de se aude ecoul?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexul ca munc\u0103 legal\u0103 ar \u00eencuraja competitivitatea \u00een domeniu.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lumea e dispus\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 bani grei pe un electrician bun. \u0102la care exceleaz\u0103 are recomand\u0103ri \u015fi solicit\u0103ri p\u00e2n\u0103 anul viitor pe vremea asta. Dar c\u00e2nd rom\u00e2na\u015ful se \u00eendur\u0103, rar, s\u0103 nu mai streseze necunoscute pe Facebook \u015fi s\u0103 dea un ban la domni\u015foare, nimere\u015fte de obicei ceva mediocru, pe fug\u0103, \u00een condi\u0163ii triste. Mi-au povestit prietenii mei b\u0103ie\u0163i ni\u015fte peripe\u0163ii de am murit de r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 profesia ar deveni legal\u0103, automat ar ap\u0103rea concuren\u0163a pe pia\u0163\u0103. Beneficiar, \u00een cazul \u0103sta, ar fi clientul.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>Prin legalizarea muncii sexuale, toat\u0103 lumea ar avea de c\u00e2\u015ftigat: femeile care vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta, femeile care nu vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta, b\u0103rba\u0163ii care nu \u00ee\u015fi doresc sau nu pot atrage o rela\u0163ie, statul.<\/p>\n<p>Singurul lucru de care ar trebui s\u0103 ne dezb\u0103r\u0103m e ipocrizia.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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