{"id":17742,"date":"2019-06-14T10:32:48","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T07:32:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17742"},"modified":"2019-06-14T10:33:25","modified_gmt":"2019-06-14T07:33:25","slug":"bodypositivity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/bodypositivity\/","title":{"rendered":"#bodypositivity"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lorena se enerva peste m\u0103sur\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori auzea pe cineva vorbindu-i de r\u0103u pe gra\u0219i. Sau d\u00e2nd un status r\u0103ut\u0103cios despre gra\u0219i.
\nI se p\u0103rea o \u00eenc\u0103lcare a dreptului intim \u0219i inalienabil al omului de a face ce vrea, c\u00e2nd vrea, cum vrea, unde vrea \u0219i cu c\u00e2te calorii vrea. \u0218i da, ok, nu nega c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 zvelt\u0103 \u0219i cu corpul bine tonifiat \u00eei g\u00e2dila altfel baierele apetitului sexual. \u00cen schimb, nu i se p\u0103rea c\u0103 lumea \u00een general avea vreo obliga\u021bie s\u0103 arate, s\u0103 se \u00eembrace sau s\u0103 se afi\u0219eze \u00eentr-un fel care s\u0103 \u00eei plac\u0103 ei. <\/p>\n

\u0218i se certa Lorena mea pe toate re\u021belele sociale cu hateri de gra\u0219i \u0219i deciden\u021bi peste lookul altora de f\u0103cea spume la tastatur\u0103. Nu punea botul nici m\u0103car la minciunile alea ipocrite cu \u0103vai, este vorba despre s\u0103n\u0103tatea lor. C\u00e2nd \u021bipi m\u00e2rl\u0103nii dup\u0103 o fat\u0103 plinu\u021b\u0103 pe strad\u0103, nu de s\u0103n\u0103tatea ei \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103. Vrei doar s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi trec\u0103torilor cine e kel mai tare din parcare. <\/p>\n

A rupt prietenii pentru c\u0103 i-a auzit pe \u0103ia vorbind de r\u0103u persoane 100% decente \u0219i ok, strict pe baza num\u0103rului de kilograme. A refuzat s\u0103 fie parte din bullying, a subliniat mereu c\u0103 omul are \u00een primul r\u00e2nd o datorie fa\u021b\u0103 de propria fericire, \u0219i abia apoi fa\u021b\u0103 de fericirea altora, iar dac\u0103 fericirea personal\u0103 a cuiva const\u0103 dintr-o tripl\u0103 por\u021bie de chiftelu\u021be marinate, cine suntem noi s\u0103 ne interpunem \u00eentre om \u0219i chiftelu\u021bele lui? <\/p>\n

\u0218i a tr\u0103it Lorena mea fericit\u0103, \u00eempul\u0103ind cu sete hateri de gra\u0219i, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi fatidic\u0103 de vineri. Ora 17. Metrou. Pasaj Unirii. Aglomera\u021bie de nu aruncai un ac. <\/p>\n

Lorena mea trebuia s\u0103 ajung\u0103 extrem de urgent \u0219i de rapid undeva. Dar nu putea trece. Mul\u021bimea era destul de compact\u0103, \u0219i taman \u00een fa\u021ba ei se mi\u0219cau, \u00eennebunitor de lent, cele aproximativ patru buci ale unui nene c\u00e2t casa poporului. <\/p>\n

-Permite\u021bi, v\u0103 rog, s\u0103 trec? <\/p>\n

No answer. <\/p>\n

Pas\u0103mite, z\u0103c\u0103m\u00e2ntul de os\u00e2nz\u0103 se depusese \u0219i \u00een urechi. <\/p>\n

-Vreau \u0219i eu s\u0103 trec, permite\u021bi-mi, v\u0103 rog. <\/p>\n

Still no answer. <\/p>\n

\u0218i Lorena a f\u0103cut un pas mai lung \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i \u0219i-a croit drum cu cotul \u00een sl\u0103nini, la propriu, \u00een timp ce \u00een mintea ei r\u0103sunau urm\u0103toarele sentimente ginga\u0219e \u0219i feminine: <\/p>\n

-Bag pula \u00een fiecare colac de os\u00e2nz\u0103 care te face s\u0103 ocupi jumate de coridor \u0219i pe lung, nu doar pe lat, \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii de bomb\u0103 caloric\u0103 sc\u0103pat\u0103 \u00een libertate special s\u0103 \u00eencurci lumea normal\u0103 care are treab\u0103. Mar\u0219 la sal\u0103 \u0219i mi\u0219c\u0103-te mai cu talent, c\u0103ca-m-a\u0219 \u00een lingura pe care nu \u0219tii s-o pui jos la timp \u0219i \u00een m\u0103-ta nu te-a alungat de la mas\u0103 cu polonice \u00een cap, morman de sl\u0103nini \u0219i de ratare ce e\u0219ti. La munc\u0103 la canal cu tine, balabust\u0103! <\/p>\n

Morala: toleran\u021ba e un mit de weekend. <\/p>\n

\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n

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Lorena se enerva peste m\u0103sur\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori auzea pe cineva vorbindu-i de r\u0103u pe gra\u0219i. Sau d\u00e2nd un status r\u0103ut\u0103cios despre gra\u0219i. I...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17743,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/beautiful.jpg?fit=1300%2C1300&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17742"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17742\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17745,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17742\/revisions\/17745"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17743"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}