{"id":17771,"date":"2019-06-18T08:58:02","date_gmt":"2019-06-18T05:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17771"},"modified":"2019-06-18T15:09:33","modified_gmt":"2019-06-18T12:09:33","slug":"tanar-si-intelept","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/tanar-si-intelept\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e2n\u0103r \u0219i \u00een\u021belept"},"content":{"rendered":"

Salut, univers, sunt Lorena \u0219i am o confesiune de f\u0103cut: am avut anul \u0103sta trei luni de ban acumulate pe Facebook, \u0219i m\u0103 zbat cu greu prin a patra. Dar \u00een tot acest timp, pagina de autor \u0219i-a men\u021binut traficul, \u00een ciuda algoritmilor Facebook, \u0219i asta din dou\u0103 motive.<\/p>\n

Unul e ga\u0219ca incredibil\u0103 de cititori care vin singuri, din ini\u021biativ\u0103 proprie, s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce s-a postat nou, comunic\u0103 \u0219i interac\u021bioneaz\u0103, \u0219i nu am cuvinte s\u0103 mul\u021bumesc pentru asta.<\/p>\n

Al doilea e adminul meu, Andreea. Care face o treab\u0103 de nota zece, indiferent c\u00e2t hate \u00eei posta\u0163i pe la piesa zilei.<\/p>\n

Eu evit s\u0103 discut v\u00e2rste, dintr-un motiv foarte simplu. Niciodat\u0103 o femeie nu-\u0219i va comunica v\u00e2rsta \u0219i va fi urmat\u0103 de apreciere. Orice v\u00e2rst\u0103 ai enun\u021ba, reac\u021bia interlocutorului e una de dispre\u021b. P\u00e2n\u0103 la 30, aveam parte de “E\u015fti mic\u0103, habar n-ai de nimic”, dup\u0103 30, de “S\u0103 vezi cum o s\u0103 bat\u0103 ceasul biologic”.<\/p>\n

Cum vocea \u015fi talentul meu sunt absolut independente de un num\u0103r de ani, pur \u015fi simplu refuz s\u0103 discut v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u015fi asta e.<\/p>\n

Dar e destul de evident c\u0103 Andreea e semnificativ mai mic\u0103 dec\u00e2t mine. \u015ei ordinea lec\u0163iilor de via\u0163\u0103 nu e neap\u0103rat (\u015fi nu e \u00eentotdeauna) dinspre mine spre ea.<\/p>\n

\u00cei comp\u0103timesc sincer pe oamenii care ajung la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u015fi tr\u0103iesc cu impresia c\u0103 le \u015ftiu pe toate \u015fi nu mai au nimic de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at. Acesta, prieteni, e \u00eenceputul sf\u00e2r\u015fitului. Nu-i mai lua\u0163i de sus pe tineri, mai bine pune\u0163i-le \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u015fi asculta\u0163i cu interes r\u0103spunsurile, pentru c\u0103 pute\u0163i descoperi lucruri utile \u015fi pentru voi.<\/p>\n

Unii tineri, desigur. A\u015fa cum unii b\u0103tr\u00e2ni sunt \u00een\u0163elep\u0163i, iar al\u0163ii au trecut prin via\u0163\u0103 ca ra\u0163a prin ap\u0103 \u015fi mor la fel de pro\u015fti cum s-au n\u0103scut.<\/p>\n

A\u015fadar: \u00een ceea ce urmeaz\u0103, vreau s\u0103 enum\u0103r cinci lucruri pe care le-am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la adminul meu.<\/p>\n

A) Exist\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi dup\u0103 e\u015fec.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nu pot s\u0103 descriu frustrarea care m-a apucat c\u00e2nd am \u00eencasat primul dublu ban de c\u00e2te 30 de zile, pe ambele conturi personale.<\/p>\n

Mi-a venit s\u0103 \u00eenchid blogul \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eemi caut un job lini\u015ftit de birou, medium corporate, cu bonuri de mas\u0103 \u015fi asigurare medical\u0103 privat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar Andreea a fost cea care mi-a zis: Nope, don’t do that, we’ll make it work.<\/p>\n

\u0218i mi-a pus problema din perspectiva urm\u0103toare: 90% din oamenii care se apuc\u0103 azi de blogging nu ob\u021bin at\u00e2ta iubire \u0219i implicare de la cititori. Faptul c\u0103 mie mi-a ie\u0219it e un privilegiu, pe care n-ar trebui s\u0103-l bagatelizez. \u0218i oric\u00e2te banuri mi-ar da Facebook, nu m\u0103 pot bana din preferin\u021bele voastre, prin urmare, hang in there \u0219i hai s\u0103 g\u0103sim solu\u021bii de rezolvare a crizei.<\/p>\n

Acum e a doua lun\u0103 de ban de ambele conturi la interval de trei – patru zile, iar Page nu doar c\u0103 nu s-a pr\u0103bu\u0219it, dar a trecut de 20.000 de likeri \u0219i 22.000 de followeri, iar \u0103sta e \u00een mare parte meritul \u0219i efortul Andreei.<\/p>\n

B) Chiar PO\u021aI ignora pis\u0103logeala online, dac\u0103 \u021bi se rupe.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nu vre\u021bi s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi cum arat\u0103 mesageria privat\u0103 a Andreei. SUTE, SUTE de cf, hy bb, ke frumy e\u0219ti. E bombastic de frumoas\u0103, \u0219i atunci absolut to\u021bi idio\u021bii universului simt nevoia s\u0103 se bage \u00een seam\u0103 cu ea, s\u0103-i dea video, audio calluri \u0219i s-o \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 are prieten, de\u0219i ei arat\u0103 precum ni\u0219te cancere cu buletin \u0219i scriu miau legat ca m\u00e2\u021ba.<\/p>\n

Acum, iat\u0103 ce face Andreea.<\/p>\n

R\u0103spuns: NU FACE NIMIC.<\/p>\n

Nu, nu pierde timp s\u0103-i bage \u00een vagin matern. Are chatul pe off, cu sunetul amu\u021bit \u0219i pe mobil, \u0219i pe tablet\u0103. \u0218i desigur cu no video \u0219i audio calls.<\/p>\n

\u00cei las\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 singuri toat\u0103 ziua, iar seara arunc\u0103 un ochi \u0219i d\u0103 move to spam la toat\u0103 recolta.<\/p>\n

Zero emo\u0163ii, zero agita\u0163ie, zero “dar cum \u00ee\u015fi permit mui\u015ftii”.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd zic zero, e zero Kelvin, nu zero Celsius. N-are timp nici m\u0103car s\u0103 parcurg\u0103 “cf” p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t.<\/p>\n

\u00cen spam, \u0103ia probabil c\u0103 scriu poeme, romane, limerickuri. Pe a noastr\u0103 o doare at\u00e2t de ad\u00e2nc la basc\u0103, de-i ajunge la mo\u0163.<\/p>\n

Lec\u0163ie de rupere de plu\u0103, mai ales pe o re\u0163ea care nu mai pedepse\u015fte h\u0103r\u0163uirea, ci dimpotriv\u0103, reac\u0163ia la h\u0103r\u0163uire. Won’t bother reacting to any loser again.<\/p>\n

C) Exist\u0103 art\u0103 nou\u0103 \u015fi relevant\u0103, e treaba ta s-o cau\u0163i.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Faptul c\u0103 Andreea e mereu pe SoundCloud \u015fi pe Spotify, \u015fi pe Youtube new releases o ajut\u0103 s\u0103 aud\u0103 piese noi \u015fi interpre\u0163i cool mereu. \u015ei o face natural, zi de zi.<\/p>\n

Noi, cei care am crescut \u00een anii 90, suntem cumva obi\u015fnui\u0163i s\u0103 ne pun\u0103 MTV \u015fi radiourile pe tav\u0103 the next best thing, dar radiourilor de acum li se rupe \u015fi MTV difuzeaz\u0103 reality shows de rahat.<\/p>\n

Tu trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i cau\u0163i muzica nou\u0103 \u015fi fresh, a\u015fa cum tu trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i cau\u0163i literatura nou\u0103 \u015fi fresh, orice form\u0103 de art\u0103 nou\u0103 \u015fi fresh, pentru c\u0103 nimeni din pres\u0103 nu mai are interesul s\u0103 promoveze dec\u00e2t contra cost. \u015ei nu-i acuz.<\/p>\n

Suntem at\u00e2t de subfinan\u0163a\u0163i, to\u0163i, prin aceast\u0103 moc\u0103ciune general\u0103, c\u0103 nu avem de ales.<\/p>\n

D) Exist\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrei, \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i propui, o form\u0103 de arogan\u0163\u0103 a influien\u0163\u0103rului.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015ei luneci \u00een ea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i dai seama.<\/p>\n

Zilele trecute, o influien\u0163er\u0103 de pe contul meu a postat o glum\u0103 sadic\u0103. Lumea a reac\u0163ionat cu haha, as one does. Dar aia a s-a \u00eenfoiat brusc ca o mizd\u0103 nesuferit\u0103 \u015fi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 zbiere la cei care r\u00e2seser\u0103 de gluma ei, c\u0103cum \u00ee\u015fi permit.<\/p>\n

Am dat ochii at\u00e2t de ad\u00e2nc peste cap, c\u0103 era s\u0103 mi se aga\u0163e de cerebel.<\/p>\n

Apoi mi-am dat seama c\u0103, poate, pe unele subiecte, fac \u015fi eu pe vita ultrasuperioar\u0103, \u015fi nu e ceea ce \u00eemi propun, dar c\u00e2nd te obi\u015fnuie\u015fti s\u0103 fii auzit \u015fi urm\u0103rit de sute de oameni, tinzi s\u0103 nu mai ai r\u0103bdare s\u0103 explici acela\u0219i rahat de sute de ori fiec\u0103rui b\u0103g\u0103tor de seam\u0103 \u00een parte.<\/p>\n

Andreea r\u0103spunde frecvent \u00een numele meu pe Page \u0219i e pretenar cu toat\u0103 lumea. C\u00e2nd se mai nimere\u0219te unul care trage de dialog ca boschetarul de ciung\u0103, prefer\u0103 s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 ea dec\u00e2t s\u0103-l foot\u0103 \u00een bot.<\/p>\n

O mul\u021bime de cititori noi sunt adu\u0219i de ea.<\/p>\n

E) E minunat s\u0103 \u00eencerci lucruri noi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 nu fiecare Pies\u0103 a zilei e pe gustul meu, dar apreciez ideea. \u0218i mi se pare mi\u0219to c\u0103 avem multe new releases amestecate cu piese vechi. E o linie nou\u0103 \u0219i cool, \u0219i aduce cititori \u00een plus.<\/p>\n

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\u00cenconjura\u021bi-v\u0103 de oameni mai tineri, \u0219i c\u0103uta\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eei l\u0103sa\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 inspire, dragi maturi. O s\u0103 fi\u021bi suprin\u0219i de infuzia de energie \u0219i bun\u0103 dispozi\u021bie.<\/p>\n

Foto: pixabay.com<\/a><\/p>\n

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\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>. Sau, mai nou, devino parte a comunit\u0103\u021bii mele pe Reddit<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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