{"id":17834,"date":"2019-06-25T11:15:28","date_gmt":"2019-06-25T08:15:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17834"},"modified":"2019-06-25T11:15:28","modified_gmt":"2019-06-25T08:15:28","slug":"baconschi-si-feminitatea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/baconschi-si-feminitatea\/","title":{"rendered":"Baconschi \u0219i feminitatea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oameni buni, m-am s\u0103turat de o t\u00e2mpenie pe care masculii feroci simt s-o enun\u021be periodic.<br \/>\n\u0218i anume: mvai, femeile erau mai fericite \u00eenainte de emancipare.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e2mpenia asta \u00eemi apare periodic \u00een vizor \u0219i m\u0103 zg\u00e2nd\u0103re crunt pe cerebel. Mai ales c\u0103 enun\u021batorii NU au f\u0103cut vreodat\u0103 vreun sondaj de opinie printre femei s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u00e2t de fericite erau. Mai ales c\u0103 multe femei min\u021beau public, s\u0103 se conformeze unor norme. Sau s\u0103 nu fie arse pe rug, Sau whatever.<\/p>\n<p>Lu\u0103m ultimul exemplu de mascul pus pe opinii despre cum se sim\u021beau femeile, \u0219i opa&#8230; Spre surprinderea general\u0103, nu e Costel Bossultan, likenkiat la jcoala vietzi. E chiar Teodor Baconschi, intelectual de marc\u0103, care zice precum urmeaz\u0103:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fteodor.baconschi.3%2Fposts%2F1588671007934561&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"299\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Cine e\u0219ti tu s\u0103 decizi dac\u0103 femeile se sim\u021beau bine \u00een pielea lor sau nu?<\/p>\n<p>Pe c\u00e2te persoane ai f\u0103cut sondaj s\u0103 stabile\u0219ti dac\u0103 se sim\u021beau bine \u00een pielea lor sau nu?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i chiar presupun\u00e2nd prin absurd c\u0103 ai f\u0103cut \u0219edin\u021be de spiritism \u0219i 57646789 de femei de dinainte de 1700 \u021bi-au confirmat c\u0103 le era ok s\u0103 fie acuzate de vr\u0103jitorie \u00een cazul oric\u0103rei ini\u021biative libere, \u0219i c\u0103 le era ok s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 banii lor, \u0219i scopurile lor de via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fie servite doar prin reprezentant: &#8220;doamna X&#8221;, \u015fi multe din muncile lor s\u0103 fie atribuite doar masculului pe care-l slug\u0103reau.<\/p>\n<p>Aceste femei care declarau c\u0103 erau fericite a\u015fa NU aveau informa\u0163ie despre lumea de oportunit\u0103\u0163i care se deschide c\u00e2nd E\u015eTI PROPRIUL T\u0102U ST\u0102P\u00c2N.<\/p>\n<p>Multe nu au nici azi habar. \u015ei tot at\u00e2rn\u0103 de mascul 1, 2, 3, n, milogind fericire de la el.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;Cultura complimentelor, derivat\u0103 din ethosul cavaleresc, nu f\u0103cea dec\u00e2t s\u0103 arate c\u0103 ele se bazeaz\u0103 pe o fals\u0103 inferioritate, afi\u0219at\u0103 ca atare, dar compensat\u0103 printr-o condi\u021bie de fond cu adev\u0103rat regal\u0103.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cu alte cuvinte, aveau mare trecere ipocritele care aveau r\u0103bdare de jocul \u0103sta idiot, \u00een care eu m\u0103 dau mic\u0103 \u015fi umil\u0103, s\u0103 zici tu &#8220;nu, nu, nu, e\u015fti special\u0103&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Dar luau \u0163eap\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u00een 90% din cazuri ERAU crezute \u015fi tratate de mici \u015fi umile, iar contribu\u0163ia lor la diverse lucruri era ceva \u00een\u0163eles de la sine.<\/p>\n<p>Cea mai bun\u0103 dovad\u0103: acum o genera\u0163ie, defini\u0163ia iubitului perfect era &#8220;nu bea \u015fi nu o bate&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Defini\u0163ia iubitei perfecte era: &#8220;gospodin\u0103 perfect\u0103, face toate treburile casei, g\u0103te\u015fte ca o mam\u0103 a bucatelor, st\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua s\u0103 frece \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie s\u0103 fie casa lun\u0103, zero preocup\u0103ri intelectuale, deh, femeie \u015fi ea.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei mai are \u015fi privilegiul deosebit de a f\u0103ta.<\/p>\n<p>Privilegiu pentru care \u00eei confisc\u0103m orice drept de a se afirma \u00een nume propriu. Dac\u0103 tot are un ovar productiv, la ce altceva s\u0103 spere \u00een via\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Las\u0103 c\u0103 maternitatea e un chin fizic \u015fi emo\u0163ional, las\u0103 c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i degradeaz\u0103 trupul \u015fi te leag\u0103 pe urn\u0103torii tz ani, las\u0103 c\u0103 dac\u0103 era \u00een afara h\u00e2rtiei numite c\u0103s\u0103torie, copilul era din flori \u015fi tu c&#8211;v\u0103 degradat\u0103 \u015fi dispre\u0163uit\u0103 social.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 via\u0163a \u00eentreag\u0103 era un slalom: zero educa\u0163ie &#8211; convinge pe unu s\u0103 te ia de nevast\u0103 &#8211; slug\u0103re\u015fte-l pe \u0103la \u015fi pe copii toat\u0103 via\u0163a &#8211; mori.<\/p>\n<p>Ce e cu adev\u0103rat regal \u00een asta?<\/p>\n<p>Nimic. E cea mai obscen\u0103 sclavie.<\/p>\n<p>Cultura complimentelor nu avea nici m\u0103car rolul de a compensa ceva \u00een aceast\u0103 condi\u0163ie cu adev\u0103rat oribil\u0103. Exista strict pentru c\u0103 periodic ni se scula nou\u0103 cavalerilor plua \u015fi era mai interesant s-o \u00eendes\u0103m \u00een ceva umed dec\u00e2t s\u0103 d\u0103m o lab\u0103 pe uscat.<\/p>\n<p>Azi, s-a oprit cultura complimentelor pentru c\u0103 \u00een sf\u00e2r\u015fit ne-am eliberat suficient \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 spunem: V\u0103 vedem. Citim dincolo de vr\u0103jeala de doi bani. Nu, mersi, nu ne culc\u0103m cu tine. Te g\u0103sim resping\u0103tor.<\/p>\n<p>De ce s\u0103 m\u0103 falsific eu la maximum, pentru satisfac\u0163ia altuia, ca apoi tot \u0103la s\u0103 pretind\u0103 c\u0103 eram mai fericit\u0103 \u00eenainte? E genul \u0103la de cinism de la care mi se strepeze\u0219te ficatul.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;Iat\u0103 c\u0103 am ajuns acum \u00een epoca \u00een care complimentarea unei femei e fie o tehnic\u0103 de seduc\u021bie desuet\u0103 (\u0219i deci resping\u0103toare) fie o adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u201dagresiune\u201d, care le reinventeaz\u0103 abuziv \u201dinferioritatea\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce trist\u0103 &#8211; \u0219i plin\u0103 de r\u0103utate &#8211; r\u0103sturnare spiritual\u0103!&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Da, dac\u0103 o complimentezi pe una care nu e atras\u0103 de tine. \u015ei care \u00een trecut se d\u0103dea peste cap s\u0103 MIMEZE c\u0103 e m\u0103gulit\u0103, s\u0103 nu te jigneasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ce S\u0102N\u0102TOAS\u0102 r\u0103sturnare spiritual\u0103, c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 mai r\u00e2njim aprobator la toate idio\u0163eniile.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, mul\u021bumesc, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103-mi povesteasc\u0103 diver\u0219i c\u0103 sunt frumoas\u0103, sexy, fabuloas\u0103, blond\u0103 \u0219i cu ochi alba\u0219tri. Prefer s\u0103 port discu\u021bii cu sens.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>Colac peste pup\u0103z\u0103, vine o proast\u0103 s\u0103 comenteze:<\/p>\n<p><strong>E oribil\u0103 at\u00e2ta isterie pentru emancipare a activistelor c\u0103rora nu le lipse\u0219te de fapt niciun drept. Acestor femei ur\u00e2te, cu gura mare \u0219i pl\u0103tite bine li s-a dus orice urm\u0103 de mister \u0219i feminitate. Ce b\u0103rbat mai poate fi atras de o femeie c\u0103reia nu-i ajunge feminismul nici ast\u0103zi, c\u00e2nd poate deveni ,,b\u0103rbat\u201d, dac\u0103 at\u00e2t o duce mintea?!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mul\u0163umesc, mi-e perfect suficient s\u0103 fiu pl\u0103tit\u0103 bine. Mi se rupe plua pe lung, pe lat \u0219i chiar pe oblic ce b\u0103rbat poate fi atras \u015fi ce b\u0103rbat nu. Preferabil niciunul, pentru c\u0103 vreau cititori cu creierul la ei, nu orbiteri.<\/p>\n<p>Misterul \u0219i feminitatea nu contribuie cu nimic la fericirea personal\u0103 a de\u021bin\u0103torului, so, a se scuti.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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