\u00ce\u021bi citesc blogul de ceva timp \u0219i multe dintre sfaturile pe care le-ai dat m-au inspirat.<\/strong><\/p>\n A venit momentul \u00een care trebuie s\u0103 i\u021bi scriu \u0219i eu.<\/strong><\/p>\n Long short story, am fost cu un tip 3 ani, dragostea vie\u021bii mele, eram oarb\u0103, surd\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103. Nu auzeam \u0219i nu vedeam nimic defect la el.<\/strong> Nu am mai vorbit timp de un an de zile, l-am avut blocat peste tot. Apoi si-a schimbat nr. de serviciu \u0219i mi-a trimis un sms, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 vorbim, eu eram \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 cu date-uri e\u0219uate \u0219i a\u0219a \u00een seara aia era la mine.<\/strong> Well…8 luni mai t\u00e2rziu sunt pu\u021bin cam blocat\u0103 \u00een situa\u021bia asta care este din ce \u00een ce mai complicat\u0103.<\/strong> \u00cemi este greu s\u0103-i pun punct, chiar dac\u0103 \u0219tiu ca este gre\u0219it pentru ca \u00eemi ofer\u0103 o fals\u0103 impresie de rela\u021bie, f\u0103r\u0103 responsabilitatea uneia. Adic\u0103 sex, mici discu\u021bii, nu foarte profunde sau serioase, e acolo l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine dac\u0103 am nevoie de ceva.<\/strong><\/p>\n So… nu prea \u0219tiu ce trebuie s\u0103 fac \u00een continuare.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 ai avut r\u0103bdare s\u0103 cite\u0219ti “micul roman” de mai sus.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cu mult\u0103 recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103,<\/strong> ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n P\u0103rerea mea, dup\u0103 tot acest \u0219ir interminabil de subterfugii \u0219i justific\u0103ri, c\u0103 vai, ar trebui s\u0103-l p\u0103r\u0103sesc \u0219i vai, dar totu\u0219i, apoi te duci \u0219i te culci cu tipul, este c\u0103 tu \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eel iube\u0219ti \u0219i \u00eel vrei pe \u0103sta.<\/p>\n \u0218i p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, exist\u0103 acel mit al dragostei perfecte, care vine din toate romanele, filmele \u0219i melodiile de amor, unde unul \u0219i acela\u0219i om e totul pentru tine \u0219i tu totul pentru el, blabla.<\/p>\n Realitatea arareori arat\u0103 a\u0219a.<\/p>\n \u0218i adeseori stric\u0103m rela\u021bii interumane normale, pentru c\u0103 le supunem unui filtru de a\u0219tept\u0103ri ca-n filme \u0219i romane, \u0219i prin asta \u00eel supunem pe om unei presiuni care nu seam\u0103n\u0103 cu iubirea din nici un punct de vedere.<\/p>\n \u0102sta a revenit \u0219i nu pare s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 mai plece. Din entuziasmul cu care i-ai s\u0103rit \u00een p… bra\u021be, nici tu nu pari gr\u0103bit\u0103 s\u0103 scapi de el, regardless of what beautiful theories you sell me.<\/p>\n \u00cemi spui c\u0103 a f\u0103cut efort s\u0103 schimbe ni\u0219te lucruri, ceea ce nu e pu\u021bin. Noi, oamenii, avem o capacitate de schimbare extrem de sc\u0103zut\u0103, \u0219i c\u00e2nd b\u0103g\u0103m munc\u0103 \u00een direc\u021bia asta, e semn c\u0103 ne dorim din inim\u0103 s\u0103 fim iubi\u021bi.<\/p>\n Apoi, spui c\u0103 nu v\u0103 oferi\u021bi fericire \u0219i stabilitate, dar, dup\u0103 dou\u0103 r\u00e2nduri, “e acolo, l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, dac\u0103 am nevoie de ceva”. Dac\u0103 asta nu sun\u0103 a stabilitate, cred c\u0103 mi-am pierdut eu dic\u0163ionarul.<\/p>\n Poate e o idee s\u0103-i spui: B\u0103pul\u0103, dac\u0103 tot nu sc\u0103p\u0103m unul de altul, hai mai bine s\u0103 vedem ce se poate face s\u0103 ne oferim fericire \u015fi stabilitate.<\/p>\n \u015ei n-o analiza\u0163i \u00eendelung, tr\u0103i\u0163i-o.<\/p>\n Uneori, oamenii teoretizeaz\u0103 prea mult despre fericire s\u0103 actually apuce s\u0103 fie ferici\u0163i.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>. 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\nNe-am mutat \u00eempreun\u0103 repede, foarte repede dup\u0103 3 luni de rela\u021bie, apoi m-a \u00een\u0219elat, l-am iertat, a facut alte 1 milion de faze nasoale, dar dac\u0103-l iubeam\ud83e\udd26\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f Dup\u0103 un an, am renun\u021bat s\u0103 mai st\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103, inten\u021bionam s\u0103 m\u0103 despart de el, dar am tras \u00eenc\u0103 2 ani de rela\u021bia aia. Era toxic\u0103, nu eram absolut deloc fericit\u0103.<\/strong>
\n\u00cen momentul \u00een care ajunsesem s\u0103 ne cert\u0103m mai mult dec\u00e2t sa vorbim am decis, de comun acord s\u0103 ne vedem fiecare de drum.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nAm zis atunci c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem prieteni just for sex \u0219i \u00een mintea mea povestea asta trebuia s\u0103 se mai repete de maxim 2-3 ori.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nEl tot insist\u0103 sa redevenim un cuplu, mie mi se pare schimbat \u00een unele aspecte care m\u0103 deranjau foarte tare, dar \u0219tiu c\u0103 fundamental este acela\u0219i om, cu care nu prea am avut puncte comune de la bun \u00eenceput. Plus c\u0103 ciorba re\u00eencalzit\u0103… \u0219i unde mai pui c\u0103 suntem destul de toxici unul pentru cel\u0103lalt \u0219i nu ne oferim fericire si lini\u0219te, stabilitate ca un cuplu normal.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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