{"id":18033,"date":"2019-07-20T09:29:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-20T06:29:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18033"},"modified":"2019-07-20T09:29:25","modified_gmt":"2019-07-20T06:29:25","slug":"fii-interesant-nelule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/fii-interesant-nelule\/","title":{"rendered":"Fii interesant, Nelule!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cemi scrie o alt\u0103 prin\u0163es\u0103. \u015ei \u0163in s\u0103 precizez noul sens pe care \u00eel dau termenului de prin\u0163es\u0103. Prin\u0163esa e individa care b\u00e2ntuie netul de colo p\u00e2n\u0103 colo cu credin\u0163a nedisimulat\u0103 c\u0103 oamenii \u00eei datoreaz\u0103 lucruri. C\u0103 abonamentul ei de internet vine cu tine \u00een superofert\u0103 \u015fi pe cei 5 sau 10 euro pe care \u00eei d\u0103 lui UPC sau RCS \u00ee\u0163i poate da \u015fi \u0163ie ordine, c\u0103 tu iei procent de la \u0103ia sau ceva.<\/p>\n

\u015ei \u00eemi scrie c\u0103 e foarte ok c\u0103 eu nu vreau s\u0103 fiu abordat\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i – nu e ca \u015fi cum acest fapt era tem\u0103 de referendum sau de dezbatere public\u0103, s\u0103 am nevoie de ok-ul ei. Via\u0163a privat\u0103 a unui om nu are nevoie de “ok” de la al\u0163ii, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu include violuri sau abuzul unor fiin\u0163e incapabile de ap\u0103rare.<\/p>\n

Dar c\u0103 ea \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte s\u0103 fie.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 scriu \u015fi un articol \u00een care s\u0103-i educ pe b\u0103rba\u0163i cum s\u0103 abordeze interesant prin\u0163esele ca ea.<\/p>\n

Evident, a\u015f putea s\u0103 fac asta, dar \u00een punctul \u0103sta nu am absolut nici o motiva\u0163ie. Mai degrab\u0103 doresc s\u0103 punctez ce e gre\u015fit \u00een mentalitatea prin\u0163esei.<\/p>\n

“Eu \u00eemi doresc un b\u0103rbat.”<\/p>\n

OK, caut\u0103-\u0163i unul.<\/p>\n

“Dar \u00eemi doresc ca acel b\u0103rbat s\u0103 fie cel care s\u0103-\u015fi ia asupr\u0103-\u015fi sarcina de a m\u0103 aborda.”<\/p>\n

OK, majoritatea fac asta.<\/p>\n

“Dar totodat\u0103 s-o fac\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 mi se par\u0103 mie interesant”.<\/p>\n

\u00cen timp ce tu str\u00e2mbi din nas superior? <\/p>\n

Numai pe mine m\u0103 zg\u00e2nd\u0103re pe retin\u0103 excesul de preten\u0163ii pe metru p\u0103trat?<\/p>\n

Tu e\u015fti cea care \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte un b\u0103rbat, dar tot el s\u0103 trebuiasc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 un show interesant pentru prin\u0163es\u0103?<\/p>\n

De ce?<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 tu e\u015fti cea care \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte un b\u0103rbat, poate c\u0103 tu ar trebui s\u0103 fii cea care s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi asume responsabilitatea propriei dorin\u0163e, s\u0103 stea de vorb\u0103 cu diver\u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i, s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eentrebe lucruri despre ei, s\u0103 caute s\u0103-i cunoasc\u0103 mai bine, s\u0103-i \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 prin prisma a cine sunt ei \u015fi ce-\u015fi doresc, nu prin prisma listei de preten\u0163ii pe care le are ea de la ei.<\/p>\n

Nimeni nu are o datorie nescris\u0103 s\u0103 fie interesant pentru tine, dac\u0103 nu vrea. Poate c\u0103 e munca ta s\u0103 \u0163i-i faci interesan\u0163i, \u015fi dac\u0103 vrei un b\u0103rbat, ar fi cazul s\u0103 \u0163i-o asumi, prin\u0163es\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ini\u0163iaz\u0103 tu conversa\u0163ii, fii simpatic\u0103, fii cald\u0103 \u015fi normal\u0103 \u015fi descoper\u0103 tu latura interesant\u0103 din ei.<\/p>\n

F\u0103 tu munca, nu mai a\u015ftepta s-o fac\u0103 al\u0163ii pentru tine.<\/p>\n

\u00cemi aminte\u015fti de vaca aia oribil\u0103 care d\u0103dea status pe Facebook: “O s\u0103 fac cur\u0103\u0163enie \u00een list\u0103 \u015fi \u00eei scot pe to\u0163i cei care nu interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu mine \u015fi nu reac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 la post\u0103ri”.<\/p>\n

Dar tu interac\u0163ionezi cu ei, sau doar a\u015ftep\u0163i pe tronul t\u0103u imaginar s\u0103 vin\u0103 vasalii cu tributul? C\u0103 it goes both ways, you know.<\/p>\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 oamenii nu reac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 la post\u0103ri, poate nu au la ce.<\/p>\n

Evident, dup\u0103 acest status, i-am u\u015furat cur\u0103\u0163enia cu un combatant vinovat de lips\u0103 de interac\u0163iune: eu.<\/p>\n

Sau alta, care \u00eemi d\u0103 mesaj privat: “Te rog, d\u0103-mi accept”.<\/p>\n

Eu \u015ftiam c\u0103 o am \u00een list\u0103. M\u0103 uit. Nope. O \u00eentreb:<\/p>\n

“Dar tu nu erai \u00een lista mea?”<\/p>\n

“Ba da, dar te-am scos c\u0103 nu interac\u0163ionai”.<\/p>\n

“OK, then, stick with your decision.”<\/p>\n

“P\u0103i, nu, c\u0103 mie-mi plac articolele tale.”<\/p>\n

“Ghinion, trebuia s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u015fti la asta dinainte. Eu nu sunt dildo, s\u0103 m\u0103 bagi \u015fi sco\u0163i c\u00e2nd \u0163i se umeze\u015fte.”<\/p>\n

Cam multe prin\u0163ese \u015fi cam pu\u0163in\u0103 noble\u0163e.<\/p>\n

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