\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, mul\u021bumesc pentru toate subiectele delicate \u0219i taboo pe care le abordezi pe blog.\u00a0 Da, prostitu\u021bia ar trebui legalizat\u0103<\/a>, da, unora ne plac mici<\/a>, da, escort service-ul ar trebui s\u0103 existe<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0218i pentru c\u0103 sunt femeie, o s\u0103 intru un pic \u00een detalii de ce mi-ar pl\u0103cea mie o escort\u0103 masculin\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n M\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc, \u00eentr-un limbo, o zon\u0103 \u00eentre “nu-mi doresc o rela\u021bie de lung\u0103 durat\u0103” \u0219i “nu-mi doresc aventuri de-o noapte” \u0219i dac\u0103 spun asta cu glas tare, cel din fa\u021ba mea se blocheaz\u0103, de parc\u0103 astea ar fi singurele st\u0103ri de agregare posibile. “Dar ce-\u021bi dore\u0219ti?!” <\/strong><\/p>\n Ei, fiecare din st\u0103rile de mai sus implic\u0103 ceva categoric \u0219i un plafon, pe c\u00e2nd eu \u00eemi doresc ceva care implic\u0103 curiozitate, flexibilitate \u00een g\u00e2ndire (“ok, nu c\u0103utam asta, dar s\u0103 vedem unde duce”) \u0219i ceva mai mult\u0103 aten\u021bie pe proces \u0219i pe timpul prezent.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0218i apropos de timpul prezent, a\u0219 apela la serviciile unei escorte ca s\u0103:<\/strong><\/p>\n –\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Am parte de o sear\u0103 frumoas\u0103 \u00een ora\u0219, cu o conversa\u021bie spumoas\u0103 (a\u0219 putea s\u0103-l aleg \u00een func\u021bie de interese \u0219i hobby-uri, nu?), f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 at\u00e2rne asupra noastr\u0103 acel “dar apoi mergem la mine\/la tine \u0219i facem sex, da?”). <\/strong><\/p>\n Apropo, ai observat c\u00e2t de greu g\u0103se\u0219ti oameni cu care s\u0103 ai conversa\u021bii mi\u0219to, mai ales la prima \u00eent\u00e2lnire, c\u00e2nd prima op\u021biune de subiect este “\u0219i tu ce faci?”, de parc\u0103 am ie\u0219it \u00een ora\u0219 ca s\u0103 vorbesc \u0219i mai mult despre munc\u0103? Legat de acest ie\u0219it \u00een ora\u0219, a\u0219 putea detalia pe vreo cinci pagini, c\u0103ci uneori ai chef de biciclit \u00een afara ora\u0219ului, alteori ai chef de citit pe malul lacului, alteori ai chef de oper\u0103 \u0219i alteori ai chef de jucat boardgames. Po\u021bi s\u0103 faci toate astea \u00een curs de dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni cu acela\u0219i b\u0103rbat, cu “iubi”? Doar dac\u0103 ai c\u00e2\u0219tigat lozul cel mare \u0219i iubi accept\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucrurile astea cu pl\u0103cere, curiozitate \u0219i nu d\u00e2ndu-\u0219i ochii peste cap \u0219i av\u00e2nd tot timpul aerul unui om care se sacrific\u0103 de dragul t\u0103u.<\/strong><\/p>\n –\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Fiu \u00eenso\u021bit\u0103 la un eveniment cultural\/monden unde mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 am un partener (de conversa\u021bie) de sexul opus. Pentru c\u0103 uneori, noi, femeile, avem nevoie de aten\u021bie, mult\u0103 aten\u021bie, doar aten\u021bie. \u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n –\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Merg la o nunt\u0103 a unor prieteni dragi, unde \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt numai cupluri \u0219i a\u0219 vrea companie \u00een acea sear\u0103, sau m\u0103car un partener dezinvolt de dans. (Ar exista oare criteriul \u0103sta, “bun la dans”?)<\/strong><\/p>\n –\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Merg cu el la rude \u0219i s\u0103-l prezint ca pe “iubit” \u0219i s\u0103 le \u00eenchid gura. \u00cen functie de rude, de gravitatea situa\u021biei, de abilit\u0103\u021bile lui (pe care ar trebui s\u0103 le aib\u0103, c\u0103 doar e profesionist), ar juca rolul unui partener agreabil sau, dimpotriv\u0103, ar fi genul insuportabil, care prin comportamentul s\u0103u ar \u00eenchide pentru urm\u0103torii doi ani subiectul “Dar tu c\u00e2nd te m\u0103ri\u021bi\/c\u00e2nd ne faci un nepo\u021bel\/c\u00e2nd intri \u00een r\u00e2ndul lumii\/c\u00e2nd ni-l prezin\u021bi pe prietenul t\u0103u misterios”.<\/strong><\/p>\n A se observa c\u0103 \u00een cazurile de mai sus am parte de companie, de aten\u021bie, dar nu s-a pus problema sexului. Dac\u0103 e genul de escort\u0103 care ofer\u0103 \u0219i servicii sexuale, atunci \u2013 fiindc\u0103 ar fi profesionist \u2013 ar pune mai mult accent pe preludiu (unless stated otherwise), nu s-ar gr\u0103bi s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la linia de sosire \u0219i, odat\u0103 ajuns acolo, nu s-ar gr\u0103bi s\u0103-\u0219i trag\u0103 \u0219osetele \u0219i tricoul, ci te-ar \u021bine un pic \u00een bra\u021be. Sau, m\u0103 rog, ar face ceea ce vrei tu, cu condi\u021bia s\u0103 nu te a\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103-\u021bi citeasc\u0103 mintea.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Poate am fost ghinionist\u0103, dar am impresia c\u0103, pentru unii “one night stand” \u00eenseamn\u0103 strict satisfacerea nevoilor\/ fanteziilor sale, iar nevoile partenerului cad undeva pe locul 7. Caz \u00een care m\u0103 \u00eentreb – u\u0219or retoric- dac\u0103 aveau o nevoie de satisf\u0103cut (\u0219i tu ai fost un instrument \u0219i at\u00e2t) sau au dorit s\u0103 aib\u0103 parte de o anumit\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 cu o fat\u0103 de care se simteau atra\u0219i (lucru care ar trebui s\u0103 implice mai mult\u0103 considera\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de partener).\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cen final, nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 pledez pentru o institu\u021bie a escortei masculine sau pentru demult uitata institu\u021bie a amantului. Apropo, Lorena, unde sunt aman\u021bii din ziua de azi? \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Yours truly,<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Da, pledezi pentru escorting masculin. Demult uitata institu\u021bie a amantului era moca \u0219i presupunea \u00een primul r\u00e2nd extrem de mult sex. Madame de Pompadour a f\u0103cut legea la Curtea lui Ludovic al XV-lea, dar asta \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 l-a tufut pe vl\u0103starul \u00eemp\u0103r\u0103tesc \u00een moduri \u00een care \u0103la nu fusese tufut \u00eenainte, cu un apetit sexual interminabil.<\/p>\n Pentru institu\u021bia amantului nu exist\u0103 “v\u0103leu, dar se a\u015fteapt\u0103 s\u0103 ‘mergem la mine – tine \u015fi facem sex’ “, ci “abia a\u015ftept<\/strong> s\u0103 mergem la mine – tine s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dizloc \u015fira spin\u0103rii \u00een moduri pe care nu le credeai posibile”.<\/p>\n Acum c\u0103 am l\u0103murit faptul c\u0103 nu, nu vrei un amant, ci o escort\u0103, restul argumentelor mi se par rezonabile. Cu precizarea c\u0103:<\/p>\n -\u00een cazul 1, cel cu conversa\u0163ia spumoas\u0103, po\u0163i prelua controlul dialogului dac\u0103 vezi c\u0103 \u0103la o arde plictisitor \u015fi crispat. Unii ascult\u0103 mult mai mult dec\u00e2t dezv\u0103luie, pentru c\u0103 nu \u015ftiu unde se pot aventura cu tine s\u0103 nu te ofensezi \u015fi s\u0103 nu pleci indignat\u0103 de la mas\u0103.<\/p>\n -la evenimentul cultural sau monden, partenerul de conversa\u0163ie se mai \u015fi aga\u0163\u0103 la fa\u0163a locului. Sigur, \u00een 90% din cazuri e gay, dar m\u0103car \u015ftii c\u0103 nu at\u00e2rn\u0103 faza cu mersul acas\u0103.<\/p>\n -curiozit\u0103\u0163ile rudelor pot fi lichidate \u015fi cu un extrem de sec \u015fi antipatic: Nu l\u0103sa grija s\u0103 fac\u0103 amor cu tine! Dac\u0103 te impui cu ideea c\u0103 via\u0163a ta privat\u0103 e PRIVAT\u0102, te vor l\u0103sa \u00een pace.<\/p>\n -po\u0163i evita one night standurile nasoale taman prin comunicare \u00eenainte. \u00cen loc s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti despre munc\u0103 cu \u0103la c\u00e2nd be\u0163i o cafea \u00eenainte, \u00eei poveste\u015fti cum vezi tu un one night stand \u015fi care sunt nevoile tale. \u015ei din dialog te prinzi dac\u0103 ai nimerit un prost egoist, caz \u00een care proiectul se am\u00e2n\u0103 pentru o dat\u0103 ce urmeaz\u0103 a fi comunicat\u0103 ulterior, sau un tip deschis s\u0103 ofere la fel de mult\u0103 pl\u0103cere c\u00e2t\u0103 prime\u015fte.<\/p>\n Acestea fiind precizate, da, cred c\u0103 o escort\u0103 masculin\u0103, cu condi\u0163iile pe care s\u0103 le po\u0163i bifa mai sus, \u015fi care s\u0103-\u0163i ofere mult\u0103 aten\u0163ie f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pretind\u0103 sex, sun\u0103 a idee bun\u0103.<\/p>\n S\u0103 remarc\u0103m la final paradoxul.<\/p>\n B\u0103rba\u0163ii ar pl\u0103ti s\u0103 fie tufu\u0163i, femeile ar pl\u0103ti s\u0103 nu fie tufute.<\/p>\n Sun\u0103 a titlu de carte.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>. Sau, mai nou, devino parte a comunit\u0103\u021bii mele pe Reddit<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Azi, am primit pe po\u0219ta redac\u021biei un mail despre escort service. 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