{"id":18198,"date":"2019-08-14T11:56:16","date_gmt":"2019-08-14T08:56:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18198"},"modified":"2019-08-14T12:14:06","modified_gmt":"2019-08-14T09:14:06","slug":"deci-daca-ei-sunt-buni-noi-suntem-rai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/deci-daca-ei-sunt-buni-noi-suntem-rai\/","title":{"rendered":"Deci, dac\u0103 ei sunt buni, noi suntem r\u0103i??"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am un dialog absolut ireal cu homofobii rom\u00e2ni \u015fi unguri deopotriv\u0103, \u00een subsolul textului despre extremism \u00een Ungaria.<\/p>\n

\u015ei m\u0103 amuz.<\/p>\n

Cum ob\u0163ii un final fericit la frecu\u015furile interetnice rom\u00e2no-maghiare? D\u0103-le ceva comun de ur\u00e2t – gay-ii – \u015fi devin brusc cei mai buni prieteni.<\/p>\n

Una dintre cele mai frapante tehnici de manipulare – tind s\u0103 cred c\u0103 e tehnic\u0103 de manipulare – e discursul bazat pe polaritatea bun – r\u0103u.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 e\u015fti un aliat al drepturilor LGBT, apar \u0103\u015ftia \u015fi se n\u0103pustesc peste tine:<\/p>\n

“Aha, dac\u0103 tu spui c\u0103 a fi gay e bun, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 a fi conservator ca mine e r\u0103u?” se emana unul care se d\u0103dea “terorizat” \u015fi “agresat” de “pericolul” progresist.<\/p>\n

A fi conservator ca tine nu e r\u0103u \u00een sine, \u00een ceea ce prive\u015fte alegerile tale de via\u0163\u0103. Ai tot dreptul s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti cum vrei tu, c\u00e2t timp nu faci r\u0103u altora. Problema e c\u0103 a fi conservator ca tine vine la pachet cu reguli despre vie\u0163ile tuturor celorlal\u0163i. B\u0103rba\u0163ii trebuie s\u0103, femeile trebuie s\u0103. Gay-ii s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce vor ei la ei acas\u0103, DAR S\u0102 NU-I V\u0102D EU.<\/p>\n

\u015ei de ce, m\u0103 rog frumos, s\u0103 nu-i vezi tu?<\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 nici mie nu-mi face o pl\u0103cere deosebit\u0103 s\u0103 te v\u0103d pe strad\u0103, dar \u015ftiu c\u0103 strada e bunul nostru ob\u015ftesc, comun, \u015fi c\u0103 nu am cum s\u0103-\u0163i impun s\u0103 nu te v\u0103d.<\/p>\n

“Vai, ne sim\u0163im ataca\u0163i, teroriza\u0163i, h\u0103itui\u0163i pentru c\u0103 ne \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2n\u0103m s\u0103 fim pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i.”<\/p>\n

Well, wellcome to the show, asshole.<\/p>\n

Al\u0163ii se simt ataca\u0163i, teroriza\u0163i \u015fi h\u0103itui\u0163i pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 c\u0103ca\u0163i cu ochi ca tine, care pretind s\u0103-i eticheteze drept anormali sau bolnavi. Care \u00een mod real \u00eempart societatea \u00eentre “\u0103ia buni” (cei ce f*t p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103) \u015fi \u0103ia r\u0103i (cei ce nu-s interesa\u0163i de asta.)<\/p>\n

Genul \u0103sta de polaritate \u00eentre modul “corect” de a face lucrurile \u015fi cel “gre\u015fit” e taman felul vostru de a-i TERORIZA pe al\u0163ii, iar c\u00e2nd spun TERORIZA, m\u0103 refer la tot pachetul, de la abandon familial, bullying la \u015fcoal\u0103 \u015fi pe strad\u0103, ostracizare social\u0103, discriminare de toate tipurile, \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 la formele mai grave de abuz, ca b\u0103taia \u015fi crima.<\/p>\n

\u0162ie nu \u0163i se cere s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i schimbi modul de via\u0163\u0103 cu absolut nimic. Nu-\u0163i spune nimeni s\u0103 nu te vad\u0103 pe strad\u0103. Nu-\u0163i spune nimeni s\u0103 negi cine e\u015fti \u015fi s\u0103 mergi pe burt\u0103. Nu-\u0163i spune nimeni s\u0103-\u0163i negi felul de a fi. Nu-\u015fi condi\u0163ioneaz\u0103 nimeni educa\u0163ia propriilor copii de existen\u0163a ta.<\/p>\n

Apropo: c\u00e2t de tic\u0103loas\u0103 e aia cu “cum le explic eu copiilor mei”?<\/p>\n

Mi se pare infinit mai greu s\u0103 explic copiilor mei ura, r\u0103utatea, preten\u0163ia c\u0103 de\u0163ii strada \u015fi decizi cine poate defila pe ea \u015fi cine nu, preten\u0163ia c\u0103 a \u00een\u0163elege faptul c\u0103 al\u0163ii au acela\u015fi drept la via\u0163a lor cum am eu la a mea e “teroare” \u015fi “agresiune”.<\/p>\n

\u0102\u015ftia care se dau teroriza\u0163i de ideea c\u0103 al\u0163ii sunt diferi\u0163i ca ei \u015fi agresa\u0163i de dreptul LGBT de a fi LGBT cred c\u0103 n-au experimentat vreun sentiment real de agresiune sau pericol \u00een via\u0163a lor. \u015ei ar merita s\u0103 aib\u0103 parte, m\u0103car s\u0103 se nuan\u0163eze termenii \u00een mintea lor.<\/p>\n

Altminteri, acum \u00een\u0163eleg cum a c\u00e2\u015ftigat un extremist ca Orban alegerile. A luat o turm\u0103 din aceasta de pro\u015fti \u015fi a zis: “\u015eti\u0163i, pro\u015ftii tatii, dac\u0103 unul zice c\u0103 a fi gay e ok, insinueaz\u0103 c\u0103 a fi straight e r\u0103u”.<\/p>\n

“HUOOOOOOO! Cum s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 nou\u0103 al\u0163ii ce s\u0103 futem??”<\/p>\n

EXACT, dobitocii pulii pro\u015fti ca noaptea. Cum s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 nou\u0103 al\u0163ii ce s\u0103 futem, aici e problema. Numai c\u0103 nu e problema pe care v-o creeaz\u0103 LGBT \u015fi alia\u0163ii, ci problema pe care voi, dobitocii pulii pro\u015fti ca noaptea, le-o crea\u0163i lor.<\/p>\n

Nici un LGBT sau aliat n-a venit la voi s\u0103 v\u0103:<\/p>\n

-conving\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerca\u0163i sexul cu aceea\u015fi persoan\u0103<\/p>\n

-sugereze c\u0103 a fi straight e gre\u015fit<\/p>\n

-sperie c\u0103 ajunge\u0163i \u00een iad \u00een calitate de straights<\/p>\n

-bat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sunte\u0163i straight<\/p>\n

-umileasc\u0103 pentru preferin\u0163a voastr\u0103 sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n

-insinueze c\u0103 ave\u0163i vreo boal\u0103 sau anomalie.<\/p>\n

(De\u015fi a trimite dick pic unei femei necunoscute este \u00een mod cert o boal\u0103 \u015fi o anomalie.)<\/p>\n

Pe baza a ce mor\u0163ii vo\u015ftri v\u0103 da\u0163i voi victime??<\/p>\n

C\u00e2t misecuvenism grosolan, c\u00e2t\u0103 arogan\u0163\u0103 b\u0103\u015fit\u0103 se ascunde \u00een preten\u0163ia ca al\u0163i oameni s\u0103-\u015fi organizeze vie\u0163ile \u00een func\u0163ie de ce vrei tu s\u0103 vezi pe strad\u0103?<\/p>\n

Victimele a ce, c\u0103ca\u0163i cu ochi pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i??<\/p>\n

Victimele propriei intoleran\u0163e \u015fi prostii, poate.<\/p>\n

Iar legat de copii. Familiile disfunc\u0163ionale cu ta\u0163i be\u0163ivi \u015fi abuzivi \u015fi femei care cedeaz\u0103 psihic datorit\u0103 umilin\u0163elor sunt c\u00e2t se poate de straight. Re\u0163elele de trafic de minori, trafic de carne vie, r\u0103piri de persoane, pia\u0163a de carne vie sunt formate din straights ca voi. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cum \u00eei chinuie pe copii straights ca voi, comunitatea LGBT e fix ultimul lucru dificil de explicat.<\/p>\n

\u015ei apropo de diversele re\u0163ele citate mai sus: impresia lor c\u0103 pot dispune dup\u0103 voie de alte vie\u0163i nu e dec\u00e2t o prelungire a impresiei voastre c\u0103 al\u0163ii trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi ciunteasc\u0103 via\u0163a ca s\u0103 v\u0103 convin\u0103 vou\u0103 ce vede\u0163i pe strad\u0103. E doar o form\u0103 mai accentuat\u0103 a aceluia\u015fi egoism infect, toxic, jegos.<\/p>\n

Tu po\u0163i tr\u0103i cum vrei tu \u015fi nu te deranjeaz\u0103 nimeni s-o faci.<\/p>\n

Unica “teroare” care \u0163i se cere e s\u0103 la\u015fi \u015fi pe altul.<\/p>\n

Citeam zilele trecute un status al altui prost:<\/p>\n

“Ahaaa, politicianul cutare sus\u0163ine gay-ii \u015fi NU pe noi”.<\/p>\n

Automatismul “Cine nu e cu noi e \u00eempotriva noastr\u0103” e unul dintre cele mai grosolane tehnici de manipulare din istorie.<\/p>\n

\u00cen ce mod ar trebui s\u0103 te sus\u0163in\u0103 politicianul cutare pe tine?<\/p>\n

S\u0103-\u0163i apere dreptul t\u0103u de a fi straight? Cine \u0163i-l neag\u0103 in the first place? Dreptul t\u0103u de a ie\u015fi pe strad\u0103 dac\u0103 e\u015fti straight? \u0102hhhm, nu-l contesta nimeni?? Dreptul t\u0103u de a te \u00eensura cu Maricica, dac\u0103 \u015fi Maricica dore\u015fte???? Dar te oprea cineva?<\/p>\n

S\u0103 ceri genului \u0103stuia de prost b\u0103tut \u00een cap, care a tr\u0103it protejat \u015fi a f\u0103cut ce a vrut \u015fi cum a vrut de c\u00e2nd l-a c\u0103cat m\u0103-sa, s\u0103 priceap\u0103 c\u0103 \u015fi al\u0163ii ar trebui s\u0103 poat\u0103 tr\u0103i pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el e ca \u015fi cum ai cere pisicii s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e s\u0103 citeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n

Da, jegul pizdii prost ca noaptea, tu ai avut mereu libertatea pe care cau\u0163i s\u0103 o interzici altora. Ai merita o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 b\u0103tut p\u00e2n\u0103 la s\u00e2nge de o ga\u015fc\u0103 de golani, pentru simplul motiv c\u0103 nu le place muianul t\u0103u gre\u0163os \u015fi arogant, \u015fi atunci ai c\u0103p\u0103ta proprietatea termenilor de “agresivitate” \u015fi de “teroare”.<\/p>\n

Pe moment, tu e\u015fti agresivitatea \u015fi teroarea. Tu \u015fi pro\u015ftii de teapa ta. \u015ei nu pentru op\u0163iunile voastre de via\u0163\u0103. Ni se rupe de ele. Ci pentru constanta minimalizare a celor care nu sunt ca voi.<\/p>\n

Vomelor.<\/p>\n

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