\u00cen secunda \u00een care apare frica, orice emo\u0163ie pozitiv\u0103, grij\u0103, tandre\u0163e, afec\u0163iune, preocupare onest\u0103 pentru binele celuilalt ies pe fereastr\u0103 d\u00e2nd larg din aripi.
\nPoate c\u0103 un om care face lucruri din fric\u0103 de tine le face mai repede \u015fi mai con\u015ftiincios dec\u00e2t un om care le face din iubire. Dar te po\u0163i realmente bucura de lucruri pe care le-ai primit din fric\u0103?
\nPoate dac\u0103 e\u015fti un psihopat, da. Dar cine \u015fi-ar lega de bun\u0103voie \u015fi nesilit de nimeni via\u0163a de un psihopat? <\/p>\n
* \u015etiu, e total neortodox ca o femeie s\u0103-\u015fi doreasc\u0103 sexual b\u0103rbatul. Dimpotriv\u0103, femeia ortodox\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie o cre\u015ftin\u0103 frigid\u0103 \u015fi smerit\u0103 cu un vagin uscat ca de\u015fertul Sahara, care nu face sex dec\u00e2t ca obliga\u0163ie conjugal\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 contracep\u0163ie, s\u0103 simt\u0103 teama c\u0103 iar r\u0103m\u00e2ne bor\u0163oas\u0103 \u015fi mai fat\u0103 \u015fi al paisprezecelea copil sortit unei vie\u0163i de s\u0103r\u0103cie \u015fi lips\u0103 de calciu. <\/p>\n Dar acum s\u0103 privim treaba ca oameni care vor fi sili\u0163i s\u0103 convie\u0163uiasc\u0103. Cam c\u00e2t de anticlimactic e s\u0103 vezi \u00een ochii celuilalt o sclipire de groaz\u0103, de c\u00e2te ori pui m\u00e2na pe el? Pe ce b\u0103rbat normal ar excita con\u015ftiin\u0163a faptului c\u0103 femeia aia ar prefera s\u0103 fie \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 realitate, numai s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 sex cu tine? *<\/p>\n Frica exclude buna inten\u0163ie.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 e toat\u0103 lumea de acord cu mine c\u00e2nd spun: doi oameni lega\u0163i de frica unuia fa\u0163\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt nu \u00ee\u015fi doresc reciproc binele. Frica e temelia unui dezechilibru care nu poate duce dec\u00e2t la un deznod\u0103m\u00e2nt oribil, indiferent care dintre cei doi va avea p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 oportunitatea \u015fi for\u0163a de a-l strivi definitiv pe cel\u0103lalt. <\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Frica e opusul respectului.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0218i \u00een cazul fricii, \u0219i \u00een cazul respectului, cel\u0103lalt are o atitudine atent\u0103, prompt\u0103 \u0219i grijulie. E u\u0219or s\u0103 le confunzi, la o privire superficial\u0103. Ah, \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 un lucru: respectul presupune reciprocitate. Frica, doar coerci\u021bie. <\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Frica e opusul diametral al \u00eencrederii.<\/strong><\/p>\n Care e scopul c\u0103s\u0103toriei \u00een zilele noastre, c\u00e2nd \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii \u015fi femeile sunt independen\u0163i material \u015fi perfect capabili s\u0103-\u015fi gestioneze resursele? Dar, desigur, asta ar presupune ca religia ortodox\u0103 s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai pu\u0163in antifemeie. Ceea ce e \u00een sine o himer\u0103. <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>. 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\nFrica este opusul dorin\u0163ei.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nMai e de mirare c\u0103 to\u0163i mo\u015fii de la \u0163ar\u0103, unde ortodoxia e pe trend, sunt alcoolici \u00een grad avansat? <\/p>\n
\n\u0102la care inspir\u0103 fric\u0103 vrea doar s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 lucruri, preferabil unidirec\u0163ional, folosind frica drept substitut pentru o form\u0103 de recompens\u0103.
\nIar cel c\u0103ruia i se pretind lucruri f\u0103r\u0103 existen\u0163a unei recompense o s\u0103 simt\u0103 o ranchiun\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai intens\u0103, echivalent\u0103 cu volumul lucrurilor neapreciate pe care le face. <\/p>\n
\nDar \u00een timp ce, dac\u0103 vorbim de respect, omul e deschis la sugestii \u0219i ginga\u0219 \u00een maniere pentru c\u0103 crede c\u0103 meri\u021bi, pe baza calit\u0103\u021bilor tale, atunci c\u00e2nd vorbim despre fric\u0103, omul e atent, prompt \u0219i grijuliu din impunere exterioar\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu sentimentele lui reale. <\/p>\n
\nSingurul scop pe care \u00eel v\u0103d ca rezonabil \u015fi real e formarea unui parteneriat pe via\u0163\u0103. Doi oameni \u0163in unul la altul, reciproc, mai mult dec\u00e2t ar \u0163ine la restul lumii, \u015fi atunci aleg s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi devin\u0103 sprijin reciproc \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi pun\u0103 toate bunurile la comun, \u00een ideea c\u0103 unde-s doi puterea cre\u015fte, sau gen.
\nDe ce \u00eel alegi exact pe Ion \u015fi nu pe Gheorghe?
\nTaman pentru c\u0103 de Ion \u0162I-E CEL MAI PU\u0162IN FRIC\u0102 c\u0103 ar putea s\u0103 profite de momentele tale de vulnerabilitate \u015fi s\u0103 te \u0163epuiasc\u0103 apoteotic.
\nCu alte cuvinte,pentru c\u0103 \u00een Ion ai cea mai mare \u00eencredere.
\nPe scurt, sfatul corect \u015fi valid psihologic ar fi: Femeie, NU-\u0163i fie fric\u0103 de b\u0103rbatul t\u0103u. E cel mai pu\u0163in prost dintre to\u0163i semenii lui, drept care, te po\u0163i baza pe el. <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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