,,Ies” cu o tip\u0103 de 47 ani.\u00a0 <\/strong>Oric\u00e2t de puternic e mindsetul meu,deja m\u0103 chinui s\u0103-mi \u021bin sentimentele \u00een fr\u00e2u! <\/strong><\/p>\n Sunt desp\u0103r\u021bit de vreo 6 luni dup\u0103 o c\u0103s\u0103torie de 12 ani ferici\u021bi,al 13-lea cu ghinion,din care am doi copii, fat\u0103\/b\u0103iat, 12\/9 ani. <\/strong><\/p>\n Tipa este divor\u021bat\u0103 de 3 luni, dar c\u0103snicia ei s-a terminat \u00eencet-\u00eencet, la fiecare escapad\u0103 a so\u021bului ei, practic \u00eenc\u0103 din tinere\u021bile lor. Iar via\u021ba sexual\u0103 li s-a \u00eencheiat de 8 ani, c\u00e2nd scula i-a f\u0103cut o fars\u0103 \u0219i… aia a fost. S-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit \u0219i de inim\u0103,deci nimic maraton, nimic Viagra (trist). <\/strong><\/p>\n Problema mea este 1. tragem hard c\u0103 suntem la \u00eenceput \ud83d\ude1c \u0219i nu a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 fie atras\u0103 doar de presta\u021biile mele la pat (cu toate c\u0103 \u00eei plac enorm), dar \u0219i de caracterul meu. <\/strong><\/p>\n 2. Chiar dac\u0103 la fizic e beton (la piscin\u0103 sunt invidioase cele de 25-30 ani), nu vreau s\u0103 fiu r\u0103ut\u0103cios \u0219i s\u0103 zic c\u0103 ,,fa\u021ba e \u00een repara\u021bie”\ud83d\ude1c, dar \u00ee\u0219i cam arat\u0103 v\u00e2rsta. <\/strong><\/p>\n Sunt in cea\u021b\u0103 deoarece m\u0103 cople\u0219e\u0219te cu maturitatea \u0219i sinceritatea ei. Asear\u0103 mi-a zis c\u0103 mi se lumineaz\u0103 fa\u021ba dac\u0103 vorbesc de fosta so\u021bie, probabil c\u0103 o iubesc \u00eenc\u0103 \u0219i fiindc\u0103 \u0219i-a g\u0103sit pe unu’ ,,de la oi” ,mi-a spus (\u00eempotriva intereselor ei) c\u0103 poate ar fi mai bine sa o aduc \u00eenapoi! A zis c\u0103 oricum i-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem aman\u021bi, dar cred c\u0103 \u00een sinea ei \u0219tie c\u0103 sunt prostul fidel \u0219i m-ar pierde. Nu se pune problema c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 scape de mine (dup\u0103 cum probabil g\u00e2nde\u0219ti), deoarece ne sim\u021bim super bine \u00eempreun\u0103, fizic \u0219i psihic! Pfff, complicate sunt c\u0103ile Domnului!\ud83d\ude05<\/strong><\/p>\n Nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2t de relevant e, dar fosta mea so\u021bie e mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 cu 7 ani dec\u00e2t mine,poate m\u0103 influen\u021beaz\u0103 acest lucru.<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Aici, m-am sim\u021bit obligat\u0103 s\u0103-l \u00eentreb pe om c\u00e2\u021bi ani are.<\/p>\n R: 41.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Chiar nu mi se pare at\u00e2t de mare diferen\u021ba voastr\u0103 de v\u00e2rst\u0103. \u0218ase ani? Basically, e ca \u0219i cum a\u021bi fi f\u0103cut gr\u0103dini\u021ba \u00eempreun\u0103, mai ales c\u0103 ambii sunte\u021bi trecu\u021bi de 40.<\/p>\n C\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i arat\u0103 v\u00e2rsta? C\u00e2nd am citit remarca asta de un gust absolut \u00eendoielnic, am aruncat un ochi pe pozele tale de Facebook. Sincer, nu e ca \u0219i cum tu nu \u021bi-o ar\u0103\u021bi, cu dob\u00e2nd\u0103 \u0219i bonifica\u021bii. Ai genul de fa\u021b\u0103 pe care numai o mam\u0103 ar putea-o iubi. Sau o femeie care nu \u021bine cont de aparen\u021be. Nu te mint, dac\u0103 te-ai holba la mine \u00een metrou, a\u0219 schimba vagonul. So, mai u\u0219or cu critica de looks. Pariez c\u0103 tipa nu candida la Miss Univers sau ceva.<\/p>\n Nu for\u021beaz\u0103 nota cu nimic? Atunci, unde e problema? Problema e c\u0103 te cam \u00eendr\u0103goste\u0219ti \u0219i sim\u021bi c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi lunec\u0103 p\u0103m\u00e2ntul de sub picioare? Foarte tare, ac\u021bioneaz\u0103. C\u00e2\u021bi oameni se pot l\u0103uda cu pove\u0219ti de iubire adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u0219i pasiune autentic\u0103 \u00een vie\u021bile lor? Foarte pu\u021bini. Bucur\u0103-te de ceea ce ai, bucur\u0103-te c\u0103 ai g\u0103sit o femeie minunat\u0103 \u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219te momentul.<\/p>\n Ce dac\u0103 are 47 de ani? Ce-ar fi s\u0103 \u00eencet\u0103m s\u0103 mai trat\u0103m femeile ca pe ni\u0219te cifre, \u0219i s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ele ca la oameni comple\u021bi, cu tot ce au de adus \u00een vie\u021bile noastre?<\/p>\n \u00ce\u021bi arat\u0103 dragoste? Face sex cu tine din toat\u0103 fiin\u021ba ei \u0219i vizibil nu geme numele altuia? Te \u00een\u021belege? Ai partener de comunicare? Pariez c\u0103 are multe calit\u0103\u021bi, specifice unui om cu experien\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n P\u0103i, fr\u0103\u021bioare, bucur\u0103-te de ceea ce ai, zi-i mul\u021bumesc lui Dumnezeu, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti credincios, sau \u0219ansei, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti ateu, \u0219i savureaz\u0103 momentul.<\/p>\n C\u0103 nici tu n-ai 20 de ani.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n Foto: pixabay.com<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i place Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei? 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