{"id":18462,"date":"2019-09-28T09:17:09","date_gmt":"2019-09-28T06:17:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18462"},"modified":"2019-09-28T09:17:09","modified_gmt":"2019-09-28T06:17:09","slug":"despre-sex-work-cu-un-prieten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-sex-work-cu-un-prieten\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre sex work, cu un prieten"},"content":{"rendered":"

-Auzi, Lorena. Cum se face c\u0103 o feminist\u0103 ca tine, care pledeaz\u0103 pentru educa\u021bie \u0219i putere pentru femei, sus\u021bine sex work?
\n-O feminist\u0103 ca mine sus\u021bine monetizarea oric\u0103rui skill la care excelezi, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi faci o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103. \u0218i se mai adaug\u0103 la asta excesul de deranj cu scop sexual pe care toate femeile \u00eel \u00eendur\u0103 de la necunoscu\u021bi. De ce s-ar culca o femeie cu un b\u0103rbat necunoscut \u0219i care nu are de ce s\u0103 o intereseze dec\u00e2t contra cost?
\n-P\u0103i pe \u0103ia po\u021bi s\u0103-i ignori.
\n-Fii sigur c\u0103-i ignor, dar \u00eenmul\u021be\u0219te c\u00e2te trei secunde de citit fiecare mesaj cu c\u00e2\u021bi sunt, plus frustrarea c\u0103 ace\u0219ti oameni au mintea \u00eemb\u00e2csit\u0103 de sex \u0219i nu vor vizita niciodat\u0103 pagina mea s\u0103 m\u0103 citeasc\u0103, ci doar s\u0103 inventeze tactici de hookup. Sex work ar lichida aceast\u0103 permanent\u0103 insisten\u021b\u0103 care ne tot bruiaz\u0103 vie\u021bile celor care nu suntem interesa\u021bi.
\n-P\u0103i da, dar sex work degradeaz\u0103.
\n-De ce, c\u0103 vrei tu?
\n-Nu, dar obiectiv, \u0219tii c\u0103 s-au f\u0103cut cercet\u0103ri care s\u0103 arate c\u0103 p\u0103strezi ceva din ADN-ul fiec\u0103rui b\u0103rbat cu care te culci?
\n-\u0218i nu mai po\u021bi de grija lor. Dac\u0103 de m\u00e2ine toate prostituatele Bucure\u0219tiului \u021bi-ar oferi s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex gratis cu tine, ai avea drame de genul: vaaai, dar \u00ee\u021bi las ADN-ul meu?
\n-Dar nu despre asta e vorba.
\n-Ba fix despre asta. Dac\u0103 toate femeile care ofer\u0103 servicii sexuale le-ar oferi gratuit de m\u00e2ine, nu v-ar preocupa nici pe tine, nici pe al\u021bii ce spun cercet\u0103torii englezi \u0219i a\u021bi trece la compostat pe band\u0103 rulant\u0103. Ceea ce demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu morala \u0219i grija e problema voastr\u0103, ci ideea de a pl\u0103ti.
\n-Da, dar nu e s\u0103n\u0103tos pentru ea.
\n-P\u0103i dac\u0103 nu e s\u0103n\u0103tos, pl\u0103te\u0219te-o f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 i-o tragi. A\u0219a ar\u0103\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti un bun cre\u0219tin \u0219i chiar te cred c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103 de femeia aia \u0219i de morala social\u0103.
\n-P\u0103i da, dar tu ai dori ca fiic\u0103-ta s\u0103 devin\u0103 curv\u0103?
\n-Nici tu nu \u021bi-ai dori ca fiu-tu s\u0103 devin\u0103 gunoier, dar orice ora\u0219 are nevoie de serviciu de salubritate pentru a se men\u021bine nivelul de igien\u0103. \u0218i \u021bine de fiecare dintre noi s\u0103 oferim copiilor no\u0219tri op\u021biuni profesionale \u0219i de educa\u021bie \u00een a\u0219a fel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu fie nevoi\u021bi s\u0103 devin\u0103 sex workeri sau gunoieri. Iar cine rateaz\u0103 ca p\u0103rinte s\u0103-\u0219i asume c\u0103 asta e, l-a durut \u00een c*r de viitorul copilului s\u0103u \u0219i \u0103sta e rezultatul.
\n-\u0218i atunci de ce se sup\u0103r\u0103 toate dac\u0103 sunt f\u0103cute curve? Am fost la una \u0219i mi-a explicat c\u0103 ea nu e curv\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu face blow job.
\n-Lol. Te-ai apucat s-o freci la cap c\u0103 e curv\u0103 \u00eenainte sau dup\u0103 sex?
\n-Dar n-am fre…
\n-Hai, bro, las-o jos. Tu faci sex pe bani, mie \u00eemi face o tanti curat pe bani. \u0218i eu, ca \u0219i tine, cred c\u0103 munca pe br\u00e2nci \u00een casele str\u0103inilor degradeaz\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tatea acelei doamne. Dar c\u00e2nd v\u0103d casa lun\u0103, nu m\u0103 apuc s\u0103 am aceast\u0103 conversa\u021bie idioat\u0103. Zic mersi c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eemi ia banii s\u0103 fac\u0103 o treab\u0103 la care nu se g\u0103sesc voluntari \u0219i pa.
\n-Dar \u0219tii c\u0103 depresia e foarte mare la sex workers.
\n-Dada, a\u0219a vin homofobii s\u0103-mi explice de ce depresia e mare la LGBT. La ambele categorii, depresia e uria\u0219\u0103 din cauza unui singur motiv: assholes like you. Care le fac via\u021ba iad.
\n-Eu nu….
\n-Serios, tu dup\u0103 un act sexual, cu testiculele proasp\u0103t golite, \u00een loc s\u0103 zici mul\u021bumesc frumos, te apuci s-o pistonezi mintal pe aia de ce e curv\u0103? \u0218i te mai miri c\u0103 e depresiv\u0103? Industria sexului e necesar\u0103, s\u0103 nu ne mai deranjeze necunoscu\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 putem tr\u0103i \u0219i noi pe internet \u00een pace. L\u0103sa\u021bi lucr\u0103toarele sexuale \u00een pace. Ar merita \u00eencadrare \u00een grupa de munc\u0103 I, ca minerii. <\/p>\n

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