{"id":18511,"date":"2019-10-07T10:06:26","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T07:06:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18511"},"modified":"2019-10-07T10:06:26","modified_gmt":"2019-10-07T07:06:26","slug":"posta-redactiei-prieteni-fara-beneficii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-prieteni-fara-beneficii\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Prieteni f\u0103r\u0103 beneficii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Drag\u0103 Lore,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Te salut din ora\u0219ul X, unde ai un fanclub foarte mare.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Problema mea e c\u0103 mi-am pierdut cel mai bun prieten.\u00a0 F\u0103ceam totul \u00eempreun\u0103: st\u0103team \u00eempreun\u0103 la cursuri, dac\u0103 lipsea i le d\u0103deam pe ale mele \u0219i dac\u0103 lipseam eu mi le d\u0103dea pe ale lui; ne \u00eemprumutam reciproc bani la nevoie; mergeam la filme vechi \u0219i la petreceri, vorbeam orice. Pe scurt, eram cei mai buni\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Acum dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, prietenul \u0103sta al meu m-a invitat \u00een ora\u0219. A luat un aer oficial \u0219i mi-a zis c\u0103 e foarte \u00eendr\u0103gostit de mine \u0219i c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 fim \u00eempreun\u0103. Eu m-am sim\u021bit mai prost dec\u00e2t oric\u00e2nd \u0219i am c\u0103utat s\u0103-i explic c\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 din punct de vedere emo\u021bional, \u0219i c\u0103 suntem at\u00e2t de buni prieteni, \u00eenc\u00e2t ar fi ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd a\u0219 ie\u0219i la un date cu tata.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>De atunci, s-a sup\u0103rat \u0219i nu mai r\u0103spunde la telefon. Mie \u00eemi pare r\u0103u de prietenia care a fost, mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 revenim la punctul 1, dar nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce m\u0103 sf\u0103tuie\u0219ti?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219 avea un singur sfat: las\u0103-l \u00een pace.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u0103la se l\u0103bea noaptea cu g\u00e2ndul la tine, oricum n-a existat o prietenie in the first place. Prietenia e non-erotic\u0103 prin defini\u021bie. Sau nu e prietenie.<\/p>\n<p>Te-ai sim\u021bi confortabil s\u0103 o arzi cu unul \u0219tiind c\u0103 \u0103la tocmai \u00ee\u021bi interpreteaz\u0103 orice gest nevinovat drept un semn de atrac\u021bie sau ceva de genul?<\/p>\n<p>Nu-i hr\u0103ni fanteziile, dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti atras\u0103 de el. E o cruzime inutil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Caut\u0103-\u021bi prieteni care au capacitatea s\u0103 fie prieteni. Nu to\u021bi oamenii pot, \u0219i dac\u0103 nu pot, nu e cazul s\u0103-i oblig\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tiu, e un pic dificil p\u00e2n\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti alt BFF cu care s\u0103 te aju\u021bi la bani \u0219i cursuri, dar nu imposibil.<\/p>\n<p>Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n<p>Lorena.<\/p>\n<p>Foto: pixabay.com.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i place Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18513,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/girl.jpg?fit=640%2C425&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18511"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18514,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18511\/revisions\/18514"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}