Cred c\u0103 o s\u0103 urmeze multe comentarii negative dup\u0103 acest mail, dar vreau s\u0103-\u021bi scriu pentru c\u0103 tu nu judeci \u0219i pentru c\u0103 dai sfaturi bune, \u0219i chiar vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d ce ai de zis.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Pe Y l-am cunoscut printr-un anun\u021b la matrimoniale. Tip c\u0103s\u0103torit, trecut de 40 de ani, se oferea s\u0103 sponsorizeze o student\u0103 dispus\u0103 la o rela\u021bie discret\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 complica\u021bii. Am sunat. Mi-a r\u0103spuns un om foarte pl\u0103cut \u0219i civilizat. Ne-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u00eent\u00e2i la o cafea \u00een ora\u0219, \u0219i pe la sf\u00e2r\u0219it, m-a pupat doar pe obraz \u0219i mi-a strecurat \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 un plic cu 300 de lei. “Asta ca s\u0103 \u015ftii c\u00e2t de mult \u00eemi placi”, mi-a zis.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015etiu c\u0103 noi, femeile, ar trebui s\u0103 fim demne \u015fi m\u00e2ndre, dar sunt student\u0103 la tax\u0103, \u015fi ai mei sunt s\u0103raci. Trimit m\u00e2ncare, c\u00e2t pot \u015fi ei, dar \u00een niciun caz nu pot acoperi taxa. M-am bucurat de bani \u015fi am \u00eenceput rela\u0163ia secret\u0103 pe care o dorea el.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Asta a fost \u00een martie, anul trecut. \u015ei c\u00e2teva luni a fost perfect. Ne vedeam \u00eentr-o garsonier\u0103 a lui, petreceam c\u00e2teva ore \u00eempreun\u0103. Nu mereu f\u0103ceam sex, uneori doar m\u00e2ncam ceva bun comandat de la un restaurant scump \u015fi povesteam, uneori doar ne uitam la un film \u015fi ne s\u0103rutam, uneori doar venea obosit \u015fi voia s\u0103 dormim \u00eempreun\u0103. Iar asta \u00eemi convenea, pentru c\u0103 \u015fi eu sunt super obosit\u0103 de la via\u0163a \u00een Bucure\u015fti.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Problema e c\u0103 \u00een ultima vreme a \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi dea din ce \u00een ce mai pu\u0163ini bani \u015fi din ce \u00een ce mai multe telefoane suspecte, c\u0103 nu \u015ftie dac\u0103 \u00eel plac cu adev\u0103rat, sau sunt cu el doar pentru bani, \u015fi c\u0103 ar dori s\u0103 fie iubit pentru ceea ce este, \u015fi c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 divor\u0163eze, dac\u0103 ar \u015fti ceva sigur. <\/strong><\/p>\n Eu nu prea \u015ftiu ce s\u0103 r\u0103spund la asta, pentru c\u0103 aranjamentul a fost clar din prima. El d\u0103 banii, eu dau aventura discret\u0103. Nic\u0103ieri nu a fost vorba de iubire sau de divor\u0163. \u00cemi place s\u0103 fac sex cu tipul, e bun la pat, dar dac\u0103 nu \u00eemi d\u0103 bani de tax\u0103, va trebui s\u0103 bat \u00een retragere. Cum s\u0103 i-o spun, s\u0103 nu sune ur\u00e2t \u015fi s\u0103 nu m\u0103 fac\u0103 curv\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n Mul\u0163umesc \u015fi scuze dac\u0103 m-am lungit,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Ini\u0163ial m\u0103 a\u015fteptam s\u0103 \u00eemi scrii c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i reduce bugetul pentru c\u0103 a cunoscut pe alta, \u015fi eram preg\u0103tit\u0103 cu “aventurile cu tipi afla\u0163i \u00een criza v\u00e2rstei mijlocii nu sunt contracte de munc\u0103 \u015fi nu vin cu clauze, better try getting a job, acolo ai legi care \u00ee\u0163i protejeaz\u0103 interesele”.<\/p>\n Dar se pare c\u0103 avem alt caz.<\/p>\n Eu nu am avut parte de acest gen de rela\u0163ie, dar am avut colaboratori sau patroni de v\u00e2rst\u0103 apropiat\u0103 de a sugar daddy-ului t\u0103u. \u0102\u015ftia, ni\u015fte tipi cu un fizic de t\u0103tici, fa\u0163a plin\u0103 de pori dilata\u0163i, colacul de os\u00e2nz\u0103 obligatoriu \u00een jurul taliei \u015fi chelie, \u00eemi povesteau cum au amante tinere \u015fi extrem de frumoase, \u015fi cum ele nu mi\u015fc\u0103 \u00een nici o direc\u0163ie dac\u0103 ei\u00a0 nu sar cu banul, \u015fi cum femeile nu te iubesc niciodat\u0103 pentru cine e\u015fti.<\/p>\n \u015ei mereu m-am mirat: oare domnii \u0103\u015ftia nu se uit\u0103 niciodat\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103?<\/p>\n Cum po\u0163i s\u0103 ceri ceva at\u00e2t de nerealist ca iubirea unei femei pe care ai ag\u0103\u0163at-o direct cu disponibilitatea de a cotiza? E ca \u015fi cum eu a\u015f pretinde ca de m\u00e2ine Enel s\u0103-mi livreze energie pentru cine sunt.<\/p>\n Iar \u0103\u015ftia au deja femei care s\u0103-i iubeasc\u0103 pentru cine sunt: nevestele lor. Dar nu le place faptul c\u0103 respectivele doamne nu mai sunt prosp\u0103turi. Guess what, asshole, nici tu nu mai e\u015fti prosp\u0103tur\u0103. Nu te mai min\u0163i singur cu privire la propria persoan\u0103 \u015fi nu vei mai avea drame.<\/p>\n Ce sugerez: S\u0103 atingi egoul extrem de fragil al unui tip aflat \u00een midlife crisis cu o discu\u0163ie \u00een care s\u0103-i reaminte\u015fti termenii \u015fi condi\u0163iile aventurii e riscant. Mai bine spune-i c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i pare r\u0103u c\u0103 lucrurile nu mai merg \u00eentre voi ca la \u00eenceput (wink – wink), spune-i c\u0103 dac\u0103 vina e a ta, \u0163i-o asumi, \u015fi c\u0103 poate e mai bine s\u0103 te retragi \u015fi s\u0103-l la\u015fi s\u0103 caute pe cineva care l-ar putea face fericit \u00een noile condi\u0163ii.<\/p>\n La 40 \u015fi ceva de ani, b\u0103rbatul e at his smartest. Dac\u0103 nu prinde aluziile subtile din textul de mai sus, chiar cred c\u0103 \u00eel po\u0163i l\u0103sa s\u0103 caute lini\u015ftit iubire adev\u0103rat\u0103 la doamne de v\u00e2rsta lui.<\/p>\n Ah, \u015fi am pentru tine \u015fi replica \u00een cazul \u00een care te face curv\u0103. “C\u00e2nd ai dat un anun\u0163 \u00een care ofereai bani contra sex, ce anume c\u0103utai, o virgin\u0103, haha?”<\/p>\n Cred sincer c\u0103, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 te \u00eencurci cu genul \u0103sta de tip, mai bine faci baby sitting sau \u015ftergi b\u0103tr\u00e2ne la fund. Acelea m\u0103car sunt contracte ferme \u015fi nu se modific\u0103 pe baz\u0103 de: dar oare m\u0103 iube\u015fti cu adev\u0103rat. Nici p\u0103rin\u0163ii bebelu\u015fului, nici baba nu se vor a\u015ftepta de la un punct \u00eencolo la adora\u0163ia ta necondi\u0163ionat\u0103.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Foto: pixabay.com.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i place Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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