{"id":18541,"date":"2019-10-19T18:06:55","date_gmt":"2019-10-19T15:06:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18541"},"modified":"2019-10-19T18:11:57","modified_gmt":"2019-10-19T15:11:57","slug":"curatenie-in-lista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/curatenie-in-lista\/","title":{"rendered":"Cur\u0103\u021benie \u00een list\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Azi, dragi cititori, vom trata un subiect care m\u0103 scoate masiv din s\u0103rite, \u0219i anume afirma\u021bia arogant\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de b\u0103\u0219ini mintale “Mi-am f\u0103cut curat \u00een list\u0103”.<\/p>\n

Ce presupune no\u021biunea de “cur\u0103\u0163enie \u00een list\u0103”? Semnul egalit\u0103\u0163ii \u00eentre persoane vii, cu vise, idealuri, puls \u015fi o lume interioar\u0103 \u015fi un sac de gunoaie pe care le azv\u00e2rli c\u00e2t colo \u00een ziua aceea din lun\u0103 c\u00e2nd te \u00eemb\u0103rb\u0103tezi \u015fi tu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i faci o sumar\u0103 cur\u0103\u0163enie.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 a\u015f avea c\u00e2te un cent pentru fiecare status de tip “Mi-am f\u0103cut curat \u00een list\u0103, am r\u0103mas pu\u0163ini da’ buni”, a\u015f fi la DNA acum, d\u00e2nd socoteal\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 ar fi cei mai jego\u015fi bani din univers.<\/p>\n

Cam c\u00e2t de lipsit de preocup\u0103ri reale \u015fi de merite temeinice s\u0103 fie cineva, s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 alt\u0103 tem\u0103 cu care s\u0103-\u015fi dea importan\u0163\u0103 dec\u00e2t faptul c\u0103 a \u015fters ni\u015fte oameni?
\nPardon, nu, nu a \u015fters ni\u015fte oameni. “A f\u0103cut curat”. A dat cu azv\u00e2rlita.<\/p>\n

\u015ei hai s\u0103 zicem, ok, dac\u0103 e un caz clasic de hate boner, cum am \u00eendurat eu c\u00e2nd Micutzu s-a pus cu glumele idioate \u015fi surzenia infantil\u0103 peste mine, se mai justific\u0103 s\u0103 \u015ftergi lume, pentru c\u0103 vin peste tine cu t\u0103v\u0103lugul, cu sutele, \u015fi ultima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd ai verificat, nu le datorai nimic acestor cet\u0103\u0163eni.<\/p>\n

Dar c\u00e2\u0163i care “fac curat” \u00een listele voastre au de tolerat \u00een mod real h\u0103r\u0163uire \u015fi ur\u0103?<\/p>\n

Majoritatea pun problema a\u015fa: “Fac curat \u00een list\u0103 pentru c\u0103 unii nu interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu mine”.<\/p>\n

\u015ei aici intervin eu \u015fi \u00eentreb: Dar ce datorie au \u0103ia s\u0103 interac\u0163ioneze cu tine? Ce oferi tu, s\u0103 meri\u0163i aten\u0163ia \u015fi timpul lor?”<\/p>\n

\u015ei bun, ok, \u0103ia nu interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu tine, dar tu c\u00e2nd \u015fi unde interac\u0163ionezi cu ei? Sau stai, tu nu \u00eei bagi \u00een seam\u0103 niciodat\u0103, doar a\u015ftep\u0163i ca Rapunzel \u00een turnul cel \u00eenalt s\u0103 treac\u0103 fe\u0163ii frumo\u015fi \u015fi s\u0103 se prosterneze \u00een fa\u0163a unicit\u0103\u0163ii tale?<\/p>\n

\u015ei ok, dac\u0103 atitudinea asta o are o pu\u015ftoaic\u0103 r\u0103sf\u0103\u0163at\u0103 de 18 ani, mna. I-au luat p\u0103rin\u0163ii de toate \u015fi crede c\u0103 toat\u0103 omenirea e substitut de p\u0103rin\u0163i.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd \u00eens\u0103 o are un nene sau o tanti de 40, cu o vag\u0103 calvi\u0163ie \u015fi patru b\u0103rbii, \u015fi cu un content de o plictiseal\u0103 atroce, chiar m\u0103 iau de cap. Sindromul printzesyka tah arat\u0103 cel mai caraghios la \u0103\u015ftia.<\/p>\n

Fii tu interac\u0163iunea pe care o vrei de la al\u0163ii. Ofer\u0103 aten\u0163ie dac\u0103 vrei aten\u0163ie, ofer\u0103 respect dac\u0103 vrei respect, ofer\u0103 umor dac\u0103 vrei umor \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. Mai ales c\u00e2nd tot ce ai \u00een comun cu o prin\u0163es\u0103 Disney e dovleacul de dinainte de a deveni calea\u015fc\u0103.<\/p>\n

“Cine vede asta, a r\u0103mas.”
\nMare chestie, m\u0103 pi\u015f cu jet pe clubul rafinat de supravie\u0163uitori ai procesului exigent de selec\u0163ie prin care m-ai trecut.<\/p>\n

Uite, Iulic\u0103 Fr\u00e2naru a tr\u0103it \u015fi el un moment de glorie \u015fterg\u00e2nd ni\u015fte lume pe Facebook. Pe care, \u00een majoritatea cazurilor, tot el o ceruse \u00eentru friendship.<\/p>\n

Priorit\u0103\u0163i vitale, nu \u015fag\u0103.<\/p>\n

Foto: pixabay.com.<\/p>\n

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Azi, dragi cititori, vom trata un subiect care m\u0103 scoate masiv din s\u0103rite, \u0219i anume afirma\u021bia arogant\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de b\u0103\u0219ini mintale “Mi-am f\u0103cut...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/vacuum-cleaner.jpg?fit=640%2C427&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18541"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18541\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18546,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18541\/revisions\/18546"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}