{"id":18638,"date":"2019-11-19T12:19:04","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T09:19:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18638"},"modified":"2019-11-19T12:19:04","modified_gmt":"2019-11-19T09:19:04","slug":"sfaturi-de-dating-de-la-taica-miu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sfaturi-de-dating-de-la-taica-miu\/","title":{"rendered":"Sfaturi de dating de la taic\u0103-miu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ca p\u0103rinte, taic\u0103-miu n-a existat. A fost unul din masculii \u0103ia feroci care, de cum dau de urlet de bebelu\u0219 \u0219i scutec\u0103raie, se sperie p\u00e2n\u0103-n r\u0103runchii fiin\u021bei de efort \u0219i se car\u0103 \u00eenv\u00e2rtindu-se. Deci, am crescut f\u0103r\u0103 el, \u0219i n-a cotizat vreun leu pensie alimentar\u0103. Plus c\u0103 maic\u0103-mea n-a f\u0103cut nici un demers s\u0103-i cear\u0103. \u0218i copil\u0103ria noastr\u0103 a fost o s\u0103r\u0103cie cu zurg\u0103l\u0103i.<\/p>\n

Am petrecut ani \u00een \u0219ir ur\u00e2ndu-l pe taic\u0103-meu cu pasiune \u0219i, probabil, \u0103sta e \u0219i motivul pentru care am avut probleme cu \u00eencrederea \u00een al\u021bii toat\u0103 via\u021ba. Oric\u00e2t de mult m-a\u0219 fi \u00eendr\u0103gostit de vreun gigel, de cum ap\u0103rea fenomenul “una spun \u015fi alta fac”, \u00eemi luam frumos vitez\u0103 \u015fi accelera\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103 pe ecranul meu interior se proiectau imagini cu noi adolescen\u0163i tr\u0103g\u00e2nd toat\u0103 seara de o bere pentru c\u0103 nu aveam bani niciodat\u0103 de a doua, \u015fi de fiecare dat\u0103, \u015fi pe prima ne-o f\u0103cea cinste c\u00e2te un suflet milos cu doi p\u0103rin\u0163i acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei tot din experien\u0163a taic\u0103-miu m-am prins c\u00e2t de vulnerabil\u0103 \u015fi de \u00eempov\u0103rat\u0103 devine o femeie din secunda \u00een care face copii, c\u00e2t de u\u015for pierde orice capacitate de a negocia pe toate planurile \u015fi c\u00e2t de greu \u00eei apar oportunit\u0103\u0163i – motiv pentru care eu la \u015fase ani \u015ftiam c\u0103 nu voi dori niciodat\u0103 copii. S\u0103 nu risc s\u0103 \u00eemi transform via\u0163a \u00eentr-o lung\u0103 sclavie, dac\u0103 din \u00eent\u00e2mplare nimeresc \u015fi eu genul incapabil de responsabilit\u0103\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Mbun. Numai c\u0103, cu v\u00e2rsta, am devenit un om mai \u00een\u0163elept. Nu, nu \u00een sensul \u00een care totu\u015fi o s\u0103 fac copii. Ci \u00een sensul \u00een care m-am prins c\u0103 e\u015fti ceea ce vrei s\u0103 fii. Po\u0163i alege s\u0103 fii victima p\u0103rin\u0163ilor t\u0103i care nu s-au g\u00e2ndit niciodat\u0103 la nevoile tale \u015fi eternul nefericit, sau po\u0163i s\u0103 fii un om liber de ranchiune \u015fi frustr\u0103ri, \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i tr\u0103ie\u015fti via\u0163a \u015fi libertatea la poten\u0163ial maxim, \u00eemp\u0103cat cu tine.<\/p>\n

Oook. \u015ei cu asta, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 comunic cu taic\u0103-meu. Nope, nu s\u0103 am grij\u0103 de el ca un vl\u0103star bun, de vreme ce nici el n-a avut niciodat\u0103 grij\u0103 de mine c\u00e2nd ar fi trebuit. Ci, pur \u015fi simplu, s\u0103 interac\u0163ion\u0103m omene\u015fte. Pentru c\u0103 taic\u0103-miu e un huligan boem \u015fi e foarte funny, cu condi\u0163ia s\u0103 nu-i fii copil sau s\u0103 nu fii \u00eentr-o pozi\u0163ie \u00een care s\u0103 ai a\u015ftept\u0103ri familiale de la el.<\/p>\n

St\u0103team ieri, eu cu taic\u0103-miu, \u00eentr-o bodeg\u0103 de muncitori cu teras\u0103 – pe motivele lui taic\u0103-meu, c\u0103 acolo se poate fuma, plus c\u0103 e cafeaua trei lei, nu zece ca \u00eentr-un loc fancy. Eu \u00eemi luasem my best boy drag – o geac\u0103 mare de denim, c\u0103ma\u015f\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103 cu carouri \u015fi blugi gri \u00eenchis, s\u0103 nu le fug\u0103 ochii muncitorilor la mine. \u015ei curgeau textele hazlii din taic\u0103-meu pe band\u0103 rulant\u0103, iar eu r\u00e2deam cu lacrimi.<\/p>\n

Deodat\u0103, se treze\u015fte:<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: Eu cred c\u0103 tu ar trebui s\u0103 te m\u0103ri\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Eu: Poate \u00eentr-o via\u0163\u0103 viitoare. \u00cen asta mi-e foarte bine a\u015fa.<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: Nu, serios, ar trebui s\u0103 te m\u0103ri\u0163i. Singur\u0103tatea e ur\u00e2t\u0103.<\/p>\n

Eu: Exact tu te-ai trezit s\u0103-mi spui asta.<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: Da p\u0103i nu-s eu singur? E ur\u00e2t.<\/p>\n

Eu: Tu de ce nu te \u00eensori?<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: O a\u015ftept pe maic\u0103-ta s\u0103 m\u0103 ierte.<\/p>\n

La asta, m\u0103 pufne\u015fte un r\u00e2s de dau cafea pe toat\u0103 masa. C\u00e2nd \u00eencarci o femeie de resonsabilitatea a doi copii, o la\u015fi s\u0103 se zbat\u0103 singur\u0103 \u015fi-i foots cu asta cei mai frumo\u015fi ani, riscul s\u0103 te ierte vreodat\u0103 e zero barat. Mai ales c\u0103 maic\u0103-mea \u00een ultima vreme nici nu-i r\u0103spunde la telefon.<\/p>\n

Eu: A\u015fteapt\u0103.<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: Dar tu dac\u0103 te m\u0103ri\u0163i s\u0103 iei pe unu de 25 de ani, hai cel mult 30.<\/p>\n

Eu: Motivul fiind?<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: C\u0103 \u0103stora le place s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. Unu care trece de 40 de ani devine be\u0163iv \u015fi ciufut. \u015ei o\u00a0 s\u0103 te plictise\u015fti cu el.<\/p>\n

Eu: Interesant. De ce devine be\u0163iv \u015fi ciufut?<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103+miu: Via\u0163a e ur\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2t\u0103 dup\u0103 40 de ani. Nimic nu e ca \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n

Eu: Bine, dar \u0103la de 30 nu ajunge \u015fi el la 40 de ani la un moment dat?<\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-miu: Dac\u0103 ajunge cu tine, nu simte.<\/p>\n

AHAHAHAHAHHAAAAAA.<\/p>\n

La asta am mai scos o ploaie de cafea pe n\u0103ri. Am c\u0103utat toat\u0103 via\u0163a elixirul tinere\u0163ii ve\u015fnice \u015fi nu \u015ftiam c\u0103 sunt chiar eu.<\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 internet, iart\u0103-\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163ii. O s\u0103 ai parte de ni\u015fte conversa\u0163ii cu ei de o s\u0103-\u0163i stea mintea. \u015ei e p\u0103cat s\u0103 le ratezi.<\/p>\n

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