{"id":18696,"date":"2019-12-07T17:43:12","date_gmt":"2019-12-07T14:43:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18696"},"modified":"2019-12-07T17:50:16","modified_gmt":"2019-12-07T14:50:16","slug":"sa-fim-mai-buni-cu-anasana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sa-fim-mai-buni-cu-anasana\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0103 fim mai buni cu anas\u00e2na"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o zi, Gigel se trezi p\u0103truns de spiritul s\u0103rb\u0103torilor de iarn\u0103, \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00ee c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 fie mai bun de s\u0103rb\u0103tori. <\/p>\n<p>Existau o mie de modalit\u0103\u021bi prin care Gigel ar fi putut fi mai bun de s\u0103rb\u0103tori. Putea s\u0103 ajute b\u0103tr\u00e2ne s\u0103 treac\u0103 strada. S\u0103 ofere o chifl\u0103 cald\u0103 cer\u0219etorului din col\u021b. S\u0103 doneze pentru o mie \u0219i una de cauze caritabile. S-o sune pe m\u0103-sa \u0219i s\u0103 asculte cu r\u0103bdare unde o doare \u0219i tot ce a g\u0103tit s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103. S\u0103 lase un bac\u0219i\u0219 mai consistent chelneri\u021bei de la bodega din col\u021b. S\u0103 treac\u0103 pe la \u0219ase jum\u0103tate prin pia\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 cumpere ultimele trei kilograme de morcovi de la o b\u0103bu\u021b\u0103 d\u00e2rd\u00e2itoare de frig, s\u0103 mearg\u0103 femeia lini\u0219tit\u0103 acas\u0103 dup\u0103 o zi de cancer. <\/p>\n<p>\u0218i mai \u00een\u0219ir. Mam\u0103, c\u00e2te acte m\u0103runte de bun\u0103tate pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0219ir, dac\u0103-mi pun mintea. V\u0103 plictisi\u021bi, adormi\u021bi, v\u0103 trezi\u0163i \u015fi mai adormi\u0163i o dat\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>Dar nope, nu \u0103sta era modul \u00een care vedea Gigel bun\u0103tatea de s\u0103rb\u0103tori. <\/p>\n<p>Viziunea lui Gigel asupra bun\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii de s\u0103rb\u0103tori a fost s\u0103 vin\u0103 pe peretele meu de Facebook \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre c\u0103 nu las lumea s\u0103 nu fie de acord. <\/p>\n<p>Unde nu l\u0103sam eu lumea s\u0103 nu fie de acord? <\/p>\n<p>Intrase cineva, tr\u0103sese o concluzie care nu reie\u015fea de nic\u0103ieri din ce scrisesem eu \u015fi \u00eencepuse s\u0103 fac\u0103 mi\u015fto idio\u021besc pe tem\u0103, iar eu \u00eei atr\u0103sesem aten\u0163ia c\u0103 din p\u0103cate, sau din fericire, concluziile nu sunt pule s\u0103 sari direct cu botul la ele, mai trebuie s\u0103 implici \u015fi ce ai deasupra cavit\u0103\u0163ii bucale, mai exact \u00een zona cranian\u0103. Presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103 exist\u0103 ceva de acolo, nu doar \u015fuier de v\u00e2nt \u015fi periodic ecou. <\/p>\n<p>A atrage aten\u0163ia prostului c\u0103 mi-a atribuit ceva ce nu scrisesem nic\u0103ieri nu \u0163ine nici de acord, nici de dezacord, e pur \u015fi simplu un gest sanitar, s\u0103 spun a\u0219a. \u00cel aju\u0163i pe om s\u0103 deprind\u0103 ra\u021bionamentul logic corect. \u015ei anume, c\u0103 din A \u015fi B nu reiese C doar c\u0103 a\u0219a vrea el, ci mai trebuie s\u0103 solicite date, s\u0103 deduc\u0103 C. <\/p>\n<p>Din p\u0103cate, logica nu \u021bine nici de acord, nici de dezacord. C\u0103 de\u021bii date insuficiente pentru o concluzie e un fapt, nu o relativitate discutabil\u0103, obiect al unui sondaj de opinie. <\/p>\n<p>Altminteri, \u00een domeniile \u00een care e loc de opinii \u0219i de gusturi tind s\u0103 las lumea \u00een pace, s\u0103-\u0219i exprime liber viziunea, c\u00e2t\u0103 vreme o face pe un ton decent. <\/p>\n<p>\u0218i dac\u0103 nu ai suficient\u0103 corectitudine uman\u0103 s-o remarci \u0219i s-o apreciezi pe asta, nu m\u0103 interesezi nici ca cititor, nici ca interlocutor \u0219i nici m\u0103car ca sus\u021bin\u0103tor al blogului. (nope, Gigel nu e un sus\u021bin\u0103tor al blogului, dar chiar dac\u0103 ar fi fost, momentul \u00een care confunzi temele permeabile la opinii cu situa\u021biile \u00een care un prost se lanseaz\u0103 \u00een prezum\u021bii t\u00e2mpite m\u0103 face s\u0103 te invit s\u0103-\u021bi bagi eventualele dona\u021bii \u00een locul umbros \u0219i s\u0103 te duci \u00een orice alt col\u021b de internet vrei tu.) <\/p>\n<p>Revenind la bun\u0103tatea de s\u0103rb\u0103tori a lui Gigel \u0219i modul \u00een care se g\u0103sise s-o manifeste, hai s\u0103 facem \u00eempreun\u0103 ni\u0219te observa\u021bii. <\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Dac\u0103 bun\u0103tatea ta nu presupune s\u0103 schimbi cu ceva \u00een bine vie\u021bile altora, ci doar s\u0103 fu\u021bi la icre oameni care sunt irita\u021bi de asta, e doar o alt\u0103 form\u0103 de j\u0103vrism ordinar. <\/strong><br \/>\n\u0218i s-o vinzi drept bun\u0103tate e gluma ultim\u0103. <\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Dac\u0103 tu \u021bii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 fii mai bun de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, decizia ta nu \u00eemi creeaz\u0103 mie obliga\u021bii, \u0219i \u00een nici un caz obliga\u021bia de a tolera prostie \u00een numele bun\u0103t\u0103\u021bii tale. <\/strong><br \/>\nFii bun pe banii, resursele, nervii, r\u0103bdarea ta, nu pe ale altora. <\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Sunt unul dintre oamenii care NU for\u021beaz\u0103 pe nimeni s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 ca ei. Care NU pistoneaz\u0103 cu convingeri \u00een mesaje private pe absolut nimeni. Care NU caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi impun\u0103 un mod de a g\u00e2ndi. Care NU dau unfriend pe criterii de genul nu interac\u021bionezi suficient cu mine sau nu m\u0103 aprobi \u00eendeajuns. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tot ce-\u021bi cer e s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u00eenainte s\u0103 arunci cu comentariul. S\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 \u0219tii despre ce vorbe\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 ai parcurs ce am scris. S\u0103 faci un pas \u00een dep\u0103\u0219irea propriului analfabetism func\u021bional. <\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 asta e mai mult dec\u00e2t poate duce min\u021bi\u0219oara ta pl\u0103p\u00e2nd\u0103, d\u0103 naibii unfriend \u0219i pis\u0103loge\u0219te cu inep\u021bii pe altcineva. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o zi, Gigel se trezi p\u0103truns de spiritul s\u0103rb\u0103torilor de iarn\u0103, \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00ee c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 fie mai bun de s\u0103rb\u0103tori. 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