Situa\u021bia \u00een care m\u0103 aflu e at\u00e2t de aiurea, \u00eenc\u00e2t mi-e ru\u0219ine s\u0103 scriu despre ea. Mi-e ru\u0219ine c\u0103 mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 mie \u0219i mi-e ru\u0219ine c\u0103 am ajuns aici.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Am 36 de ani \u0219i am fost \u00eentotdeauna o carierist\u0103. Dar de doi ani, am cunoscut b\u0103rbatul perfect. Foarte iubitor, foarte tandru, dornic de o familie, dornic de copii, f\u0103cea mereu ce promitea c\u0103 face. M-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit cum nu credeam c\u0103 m\u0103 pot \u00eendr\u0103gosti \u0219i ne-am c\u0103s\u0103torit dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni. \u0218tiu, \u0219tiu, o naivitate \u0219i o prostie, dar habar n-ai cum e s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it omul perfect.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Acum \u0219ase luni l-am n\u0103scut pe xxxx, copilul minunat care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 v\u0103d via\u021ba cu totul altfel. \u00cenainte s\u0103 vin\u0103 el, am tr\u0103it numai pentru mine. Acum, tot ce fac e pentru fiin\u021ba aia mic\u0103, frumoas\u0103, perfect\u0103, pe care o iubesc mai mult dec\u00e2t credeam c\u0103 pot iubi. \u0218tiu, sun\u0103 ca un cli\u0219eu, \u0219i o s\u0103 r\u00e2zi de mine. Dar e adev\u0103rul fiec\u0103rei femei care devine mam\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Din p\u0103cate, de prin ultimele luni de sarcin\u0103, so\u021bul meu a devenit extrem de rece \u0219i de distant. M\u0103 ajuta \u00een ce aveam nevoie, dar evita contactul fizic \u0219i avea un aer de parc\u0103 f\u0103cea totul cu sila. Dup\u0103 na\u0219tere, eu am intrat \u00een concediu de maternitate \u0219i el a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se retrag\u0103 \u0219i mai mult. Pleac\u0103 de acas\u0103 diminea\u021ba \u0219i vine seara t\u00e2rziu. Zice c\u0103 are mult de munc\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u0219i cheltuielile noastre au crescut.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0218i \u00eentr-o noapte, dup\u0103 ce am al\u0103ptat bebelu\u0219ul, am f\u0103cut ceea ce nu credeam c\u0103 o s\u0103 fac vreodat\u0103: m-am uitat \u00een telefonul lui. \u0218tiu, nu e frumos, nu e demn de o femeie, dar vedeam cu ochii mei c\u0103 ceva nu e \u00een regul\u0103. Am g\u0103sit \u0219i r\u0103spunsul, \u00een mesajele lui private de pe Facebook. O rela\u021bie \u00een toat\u0103 regula cu o tip\u0103 de 25 de ani, care lucreaz\u0103 la un fast food \u0219i \u00eei spune toat\u0103 ziua c\u0103 e horny \u0219i c\u0103 se g\u00e2nde\u0219te la p*** lui.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Eu te \u00eentreb, Lorena: C\u00e2nd \u021bie \u021bi se na\u0219te primul copil, minunea asta mic\u0103, perfect\u0103, \u00ee\u021bi arde s\u0103 auzi ce bun\u0103 e p*** ta de la o g\u00e2sculi\u021b\u0103? Cu cine m-am c\u0103s\u0103torit de fapt? \u0218i ce s\u0103 fac acum?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Cu prietenie \u0219i respect,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n M-am g\u00e2ndit mult \u0219i cu am\u0103r\u0103ciune cum s\u0103 formulez r\u0103spunsul. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 nu mi-e clar ce s\u0103-\u021bi spun, ci pentru c\u0103 mi se pare \u00een continuare halucinant c\u00e2t de egoi\u0219ti \u0219i de lihni\u021bi pot fi unii oameni.<\/p>\n \u00cen timp ce tu te luptai cu sarcina, pentru a aduce pe lume copilul lui, \u0103sta c\u0103uta chestii noi de care s\u0103-\u0219i frece… m\u0103 rog. Pentru c\u0103, probabil, \u021bie nu-\u021bi mai st\u0103tea mintea la de-astea. OBVIOUSLY. De vreme ce corpul t\u0103u se preg\u0103tea de na\u0219tere.<\/p>\n De ce ai mai aloca unuia ca \u0103sta chiar \u0219i o secund\u0103 \u00een plus din via\u021ba ta \u0219i a copilului t\u0103u?<\/p>\n Divor\u021b ASAP \u0219i las\u0103-l s\u0103 se bucure de fast food \u00een continuare. Partea cea mai sumbr\u0103 e c\u0103 pe urm\u0103torii 20 de ani \u0103sta o s\u0103 tot fug\u0103reasc\u0103 distrac\u021bii \u0219i tu o s\u0103 te chinui singur\u0103 cu responsabilit\u0103\u021bile de p\u0103rinte, \u015fi tot ce \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 statul rom\u00e2n e rahatul \u0103la de pensie alimentar\u0103 care nu ajunge nici de scutece.<\/p>\n Ce a\u015f face eu ar fi print screen la tot roman\u0163ul \u015fi solicitarea dec\u0103derii din drepturile p\u0103rinte\u015fti a amorezului feroc. A\u015fa, elimini din propria-\u0163i via\u0163\u0103 umilin\u0163a telefonului lunar: “Bun\u0103\u0103\u0103, a trecut data aceea a lunii cu o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, vrei te rog s\u0103…”, orice \u00eent\u00e2lniri viitoare cu javra, care s\u0103-\u0163i aminteasc\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 tu te preg\u0103teai de efortul suprem al na\u015fterii \u015fi \u0103sta fug\u0103rea pzzzd\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 fie acolo pentru tine \u015fi orice preten\u0163ii ale javrei, la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e, s\u0103 fie \u015fters la cur de copilul care a \u00eensemnat at\u00e2t de pu\u0163in pentru el.<\/p>\n E\u015fti o carierist\u0103, ai un CV remarcabil, nu va fi greu s\u0103 revii pe pia\u0163\u0103 dup\u0103 ce \u0163i se termin\u0103 concediul de maternitate \u015fi s\u0103 produci pentru doi.<\/p>\n Iar de individ deta\u015feaz\u0103-te c\u00e2t po\u0163i tu de repede. Ai f\u0103cut o gre\u015feal\u0103 c\u00e2nd ai pus botul la basme. Asum\u0103-\u0163i-o ca un om matur \u015fi remediaz\u0103 de urgen\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n Nasoal\u0103 \u0163eap\u0103, dar m\u0103car ai un copil frumos \u015fi asta te va ajuta s\u0103 treci peste.<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i doresc putere,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i place Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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