{"id":18766,"date":"2019-12-22T11:31:18","date_gmt":"2019-12-22T08:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18766"},"modified":"2019-12-22T11:31:18","modified_gmt":"2019-12-22T08:31:18","slug":"noi-nu-ne-cerem-scuze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/noi-nu-ne-cerem-scuze\/","title":{"rendered":"Noi nu ne cerem scuze"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am o cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cordial\u0103, aproape de grani\u021ba cu prietenia. O fat\u0103 care a parcurs traseul opus fa\u021b\u0103 de povestea clasic\u0103: cre\u0219ti \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, \u00ee\u021bi g\u0103se\u0219ti f\u0103tul-frumos peste hotare \u0219i fugi m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd p\u0103m\u00e2ntul. Fata asta avea o via\u021b\u0103 minunat\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, c\u00e2nd, brusc, \u0219i-a cunoscut jum\u0103tatea sufletului \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, a l\u0103sat tot \u0219i s-a mutat aici s\u0103 fie partenera lui \u00een mizerie \u0219i stres. <\/p>\n

Poveste care ar merita un articol de blog propriu, dar asta, cu alt\u0103 ocazie, \u0219i \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu ve\u021bi fi ocupa\u021bi cu s\u0103rb\u0103torile \u0219i mai sus\u021bine\u021bi \u0219i bloggingul rom\u00e2nesc de calitate. <\/p>\n

Discu\u021biile cu fata asta sunt absolut geniale, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u00e2t de gre\u0219i\u021bi suntem noi, ca na\u021bie. Povestea ea despre o divergen\u021b\u0103 de opinii, care a escalat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care au fost implica\u021bi\u0219i ter\u021bi, a rezultat c\u0103 ea avusese dreptate all along \u0219i c\u0103 cealalt\u0103 se b\u0103gase ca m\u0103raru-n ciorb\u0103 \u0219i ca nuca-n perete, drept care i s-a recomandat s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 de ale ei.
\n-So, happy ending, no? \u00eentreb eu.
\n\u0218i m\u0103 ia fata prin surprindere complet:
\n-She didn’t apologize. <\/p>\n

Adic\u0103 nu \u015fi-a cerut scuze.
\nLa care am \u00eenceput eu s\u0103 r\u00e2d \u00een hohote. <\/p>\n

-My dear, let me tell you something about Romania. Never ever expect apologies. Not even if they do something really nasty or mean to you. They might offer you money to compensate, but never ever expect an apology. <\/p>\n

V\u0103 traduc? Cred c\u0103 \u015fti\u0163i \u015fi singuri ce i-am spus. <\/p>\n

Cultura rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 este total opus\u0103 ideii de a-\u0163i cere iertare omului c\u0103ruia i-ai gre\u015fit cu ceva, mai m\u0103runt sau mai grav. A\u0163i citit acum c\u00e2teva zile pe acest blog povestea v\u00e2n\u0103torului \u00eemp\u0103timit care a \u00eempu\u015fcat c\u00e2inele de l\u00e2ng\u0103 st\u0103p\u00e2na lui, \u015fi c\u00e2nd s-a trezit fa\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 cu ea,prima lui reac\u0163ie a fost s-o \u00eenvinuiasc\u0103 tot pe ea, c\u0103 nu \u0163inea c\u00e2inele \u00een les\u0103, \u00een fucking p\u0103dure! <\/p>\n

E un element extrem de toxic infiltrat \u00een felul de a fi rom\u00e2nesc, \u015fi deriv\u0103 din mentalitatea de baz\u0103. Aceasta nu se bazeaz\u0103 pe conceptele de bine \u015fi de r\u0103u, ci pe acelea de \u015fmecher \u015fi de fraier. <\/p>\n

\u015emecherul e cel care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 “dea o lovitur\u0103”, \u015fi cu c\u00e2t \u00eei ies mai multe, cu at\u00e2t se simte mai fericit \u015fi \u00eemplinit cu sine. Fraierul e cel care nu \u015ftie s\u0103 contracareze “lovitura”, care cedeaz\u0103 la presiune, care pl\u0103te\u015fte oalele sparte. <\/p>\n

-So, basically, this bitch tried to out\u015fmecher you, and you resisted. You won and fraiered her. Not only will she not apologize, but she now resents you for fraiering her. <\/p>\n

St\u0103, se g\u00e2nde\u015fte lung. <\/p>\n

-Wow, that’s so twisted.
\n-Welcome to Romania. <\/p>\n

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