Pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 preocup\u0103 \u00eentrebarea asta \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 n-am g\u0103sit un r\u0103spuns pe placul meu, te voi \u00eentreba pe tine: Cum putem deveni mai independen\u021bi \u00een g\u00e2ndire \u0219i mai critici? mai lucizi \u0219i mai analitici?<\/p>\n
Mul\u021bumesc,
\nX. <\/strong><\/p>\n
Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n
Sunt dou\u0103 coordonate diferite: pe de o parte, g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103, lucid\u0103 \u0219i analitic\u0103, \u0219i pe de alt\u0103 parte, g\u00e2ndirea independent\u0103. O analiz\u0103 extrem de lucid\u0103 poate fi c\u00e2t se poate de conformist\u0103, pentru c\u0103 situa\u021bia \u00een sine e de a\u0219a natur\u0103. <\/p>\n
Exemplu: Sarcina la adolescente le d\u0103uneaz\u0103 at\u00e2t lor, c\u00e2t \u0219i societ\u0103\u021bii \u00een general. <\/p>\n
E corect, e lucid, dac\u0103 analizezi impactul sarcinii asupra adolescentelor po\u021bi scrie un eseu fabulos \u0219i 100% critic, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 produci m\u0103car o idee independent\u0103, original\u0103, diferit\u0103. <\/p>\n
\u0218i pot exista idei extrem de originale, de creative \u0219i de ie\u0219ite din comun, care s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu logica. Exemplu: primul om care a inventat conturul c\u0103c\u0103niu \u0219i \u0103la care a inventat frizura pe jum\u0103tate p\u0103r pe jum\u0103tate chelie pe care o port eu acum. <\/p>\n
Sigur, cele dou\u0103 direc\u021bii nu se exclud reciproc. Pot exista idei care s\u0103 fie lucide \u0219i totodat\u0103 originale, sau pot exista idei care s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 nici ra\u021biune, nici originalitate: familia tradi\u021bional\u0103, de exemplu. <\/p>\n
Acum, cum le dezvolt\u0103m pe fiecare \u00een parte? <\/p>\n
G\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103 se bazeaz\u0103 pe ra\u021bionament logic \u0219i pe o bun\u0103 cunoa\u0219tere a naturii omene\u0219ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0218i anume: Ascult\u0103 atent ce spun oamenii, identific\u0103-le scopurile \u0219i mecanismele de manipulare, respectiv ap\u0103rare. Nu te uita ce spune popa, uit\u0103-te ce face popa \u0219i mai cu seam\u0103, ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te popa. Diferen\u021biaz\u0103 vr\u0103jeala \u0219i minciuna de lucrurile reale care se ascund \u00een spatele lor. C\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 iei decizii, analizeaz\u0103 consecin\u021bele \u0219i \u021bine mereu \u00een minte raportul ce pierd \/ ce c\u00e2\u0219tig. <\/p>\n G\u00e2ndirea original\u0103 \/ independent\u0103 se bazeaz\u0103 pe individualitate \u0219i pe spirit personal.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pentru a accede la ea, trebuie s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti bine \u0219i s\u0103 te \u00een\u021belegi. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi identifici f\u0103r\u0103 ipocrizie \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 fals\u0103 virtute pl\u0103cerile, punctele vulnerabile, plusurile, minusurile, ce te face s\u0103 tic\u0103i \u0219i ce te face s\u0103 te pleo\u0219te\u0219ti. Apoi, dup\u0103 ce te-ai cunoscut foarte bine, s\u0103-\u021bi descoperi codul propriu de semne, vocea de sine st\u0103t\u0103toare, modul de a comunica specific numai \u021bie. <\/p>\n Ambele sunt drumuri ini\u021biatice: g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103, \u00een lumea din jur, g\u00e2ndirea independent\u0103, \u00een tine \u00eensu\u021bi. Dar nimic nu e mai pl\u0103cut. OK, poate vinul ro\u0219u sec. <\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n Lorena. <\/p>\n Foto: Getty Images. <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18829,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18827","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/gettyimages-932729844arxivbrain.jpg?fit=3000%2C1688&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18827","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18827"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18827\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18933,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18827\/revisions\/18933"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18827"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18827"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18827"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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