{"id":18974,"date":"2020-02-04T10:00:17","date_gmt":"2020-02-04T07:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18974"},"modified":"2020-02-04T10:00:17","modified_gmt":"2020-02-04T07:00:17","slug":"posta-redactiei-in-pat-cu-exul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-in-pat-cu-exul\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: \u00cen pat cu exul"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n

Bun\u0103, Lore,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sunt gay, am 24 de ani \u015fi am o rela\u0163ie stabil\u0103. \u00cencerc s\u0103 am o rela\u0163ie stabil\u0103. Al meu de acum mi-a zis toate lucrurile pe care le visam \u015fi eu de la o rela\u0163ie, \u015fi am acceptat s\u0103 m\u0103 schimb pentru el \u00een toate felurile \u00een care a vrut el. Sim\u0163eam c\u0103 e altceva \u015fi c\u0103 merit\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Singura parte care nu e ok \u015fi m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 \u00eengrozitor de tare e exul lui. Tipul \u0103sta \u00eei d\u0103 zilnic nu \u015ftiu c\u00e2te mesaje, \u00eei cere s\u0103 se vad\u0103, de\u015fi \u015ftie c\u0103 suntem \u00eempreun\u0103. Al meu zice c\u0103 nu mai e nimic, dar nu \u00eei poate da papucii mai hot\u0103r\u00e2t pentru c\u0103 oricum nu scap\u0103 de el. Alalt\u0103ieri ne-a sunat la u\u015f\u0103 un sfert de or\u0103, am vrut s\u0103 ies \u015fi s\u0103-l bag \u00een mor\u0163ii lui de at\u00e2rn\u0103tor, dar al meu nu m-a l\u0103sat, c\u0103 aud vecinii \u015fi c\u0103 nu e ok. Nu vrea s\u0103-l pun la punct \u015fi nu face nici el ceva clar s\u0103-l alunge, dar zice c\u0103 e cu mine.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toat\u0103 chestia asta m\u0103 scoate din min\u0163i de-mi vine s\u0103 bat oameni pe strad\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ce fac?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

Faci ceva scurt \u015fi cuprinz\u0103tor. \u00cei zici s-o fut\u0103 pe m\u0103-sa. Sau \u00een cazul vostru, pe ta-su.<\/p>\n

\u00cen vocabularul pickup arti\u015ftilor straight exist\u0103 termenul “mentalitate de abunden\u0163\u0103”. Adic\u0103, s\u0103 faci s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 ai op\u0163iuni, \u015fi c\u0103 e\u015fti idolul la femei, \u015fi c\u0103 toate femeile sunt disperate dup\u0103 tine, \u015fi cu asta \u00eei sugerezi celei pe care vrei s-o ag\u0103\u0163i c\u0103 e doar una din multe \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi ia num\u0103r de ordine la tine, c\u0103 poate a\u015fa o determini s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce m\u00e2ndre\u0163e are sub nas \u015fi s\u0103 lupte ea pentru tine.<\/p>\n

Evident, nu func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 dec\u00e2t cu gagici f\u0103r\u0103 self-esteem. Una cu un pic de respect pentru propria persoan\u0103 \u00eei c\u00e2nt\u0103 piesa mea Jet.<\/p>\n

Acum, ce face \u0103sta e s\u0103 practice mentalitate de abunden\u0163\u0103 \u00eentr-un cuplu stabil, iar asta mi se pare incalificabil. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een mod normal, dac\u0103 renun\u0163i la toat\u0103 libertatea ta emo\u0163ional\u0103 \u015fi sexual\u0103 pentru cineva, \u015fi \u00eei oferi exclusivitate, all games are off. \u0102la ofer\u0103 acela\u015fi lucru la schimb, sau s\u0103-\u0163i sug\u0103 pula, \u015fi nu la modul pl\u0103cut.<\/p>\n

Faptul c\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, \u0103la simte s\u0103 extrag\u0103 validare \u015fi confirmare stringing along un alt gigel ne spune c\u0103 \u00een mintea \u0103luia, exclusivitatea nu e reciproc\u0103.<\/p>\n

Drept care, c\u00e2nt\u0103 \u00een cor cu mine: Am pentru tine un singur secret: JET!!<\/p>\n

Cine nu vede \u00een tine \u00eentregul poten\u0163ial c\u00e2nd \u00eei pui totul pe tav\u0103 trebuie mutat \u00eenapoi \u00een catastiful de hookups \u015fi hai pa c\u0103 dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 vezi ce op\u0163iuni am eu, uite coad\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la Gala\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Ai doar 24 de ani. Ai o via\u0163\u0103 \u00eenainte. La un moment dat o s\u0103 apar\u0103 cineva care s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 la iubire cu iubire, \u015fi care s\u0103 te vrea PE TINE, nu pe tine \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 cine se nimere\u015fte prin zon\u0103.<\/p>\n

D\u0103-i papucii \u015fi spune-i s\u0103-\u015fi pupe exul \u00een cur.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

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