{"id":18976,"date":"2020-02-05T11:30:23","date_gmt":"2020-02-05T08:30:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=18976"},"modified":"2023-02-05T07:15:35","modified_gmt":"2023-02-05T04:15:35","slug":"opt-reguli-ale-oprobriului-public","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/opt-reguli-ale-oprobriului-public\/","title":{"rendered":"Opt reguli ale oprobriului public"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2nd e\u015fti extrem de vizibil online, orice faci e \u00eencasat cu amplificator de o mie. Trebuie s\u0103 fii con\u015ftient de asta, indiferent dac\u0103 te apuci de blogging, vlogging, foto sau orice alt\u0103 form\u0103 de social media.<\/p>\n<p>Cu c\u00e2t te plac mai mul\u0163i, cu at\u00e2t te vor invidia \/ ur\u00ee din r\u0103runchi \/ s\u0103pa pe la spate mai mul\u0163i. \u015ei pe ace\u015fti mai mul\u0163i po\u0163i conta oric\u00e2nd, s\u0103 fac\u0103 balamuc \u015fi circ. \u015ei vizualiz\u0103ri, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 balamuc \u015fi circ.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0103se\u015fte oameni care te iubesc cu asiduitatea, persisten\u0163a \u015fi stabilitatea celor care te invidiaz\u0103. Not gonna happen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Cei mai mari influenceri sunt gangurile de hate.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eu \u00eemi doresc cititori cu care s\u0103 am ce s\u0103 comunic. Oameni care proceseaz\u0103 informa\u0163ie \u015fi au un punct de vedere. Am o alergie cu bube la idiot, de obicei \u00eemi pierd r\u0103bdarea c\u00e2nd \u00eei citesc inep\u0163iile, iar idiotul se oftic\u0103, \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u00eenjure, d\u0103 o copit\u0103 sau ia block \u015fi ne desp\u0103r\u0163im internautic.<\/p>\n<p>Gangurile de hate func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 pe atragerea unui num\u0103r c\u00e2t mai mare de idio\u0163i. \u0102\u015ftia vor s\u0103 se simt\u0103 inclu\u015fi \u015fi membri legitimi ai g\u0103\u015ftii, \u015fi atunci execut\u0103 slugarnic ceea ce li se spune.<\/p>\n<p>Din punctul \u0103sta de vedere, dac\u0103 eu m-a\u015f umple de draci pe un cet\u0103\u0163ean, n-a\u015f putea organiza o campanie de hate \u00eempotriva lui. Cititorii mei inteligen\u0163i, g\u00e2nditori cu capetele lor, ar zice: B\u0103i, Lore, dar \u0103sta nu ne-a f\u0103cut nimic. De ce ne-am lua noi de via\u0163a lui?<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103, s\u0103 zicem, grupul Autobaza 2.0 s-ar umple de draci pe acela\u015fi cet\u0103\u0163ean &#8211; \u00een 24 de ore i-ar ob\u0163ine ban de o lun\u0103 pe\u00a0 Facebook \u015fi un festival de hate de la mii de pro\u015fti manipulabili, care url\u0103 con\u0219tiincios la oricine le este pus \u00een vedere, apoi fac print screen cu \u00eenjur\u0103tura \u015fi o arat\u0103 la surs\u0103, s\u0103 fie m\u00e2ng\u00e2ia\u0163i tandru pe cap \u015fi s\u0103 ia likes de la restul pro\u015ftilor.<\/p>\n<p>Din punctul \u0103sta de vedere, gangurile de hate sunt adev\u0103ra\u0163ii\u00a0 influenceri social media.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Hate-ul este contagios.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Omul este, basically, un animal dotat pe alocuri cu discern\u0103m\u00e2nt. Accentul este pe &#8220;pe alocuri&#8221;. C\u00e2nd un grup suficient de mare de al\u0163ii \u00eei transmit no\u0163iunea c\u0103 e social acceptabil s\u0103 sf\u00e2rteci pe cineva, \u00een om se va na\u015fte setea de s\u00e2nge \u015fi o va face. Chit c\u0103 el personal n-are nici o treab\u0103 cu persoana \u00een cauz\u0103. Aptitudinea de a nimici pe al\u0163ii le inoculeaz\u0103 senza\u0163ia de putere tuturor irelevan\u0163ilor \u015fi impostorilor. E singura form\u0103 de putere pe care o vor cunoa\u015fte \u00een via\u0163a lor. A\u015fa au fost posibile Holocaustul, gulagurile \u015fi canalul Dun\u0103re &#8211; Marea Neagr\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Hate-ul d\u0103 un fals sentiment de expertiz\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o vreme, cineva \u00eencepuse un trend de &#8220;ia s\u0103 ne lu\u0103m de vestimenta\u0163ia lui Carmen Iohannis&#8221;. Subit, tot analfabetul care scrie miau legat ca pisica era atotcunosc\u0103tor pe lungimi de rochii, materiale, branduri \u015fi etichet\u0103 preziden\u0163ial\u0103. Tot analfabetul se trezise peste noapte Anna Wintour, pentru c\u0103 valul de ur\u0103 de la semeni \u00eei d\u0103dea aceast\u0103 certitudine, a valid\u0103rii sociale. \u015ei\u00a0 num\u0103rul de likes de la co-hateri \u00eei \u00eent\u0103rea pozi\u0163ia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. O utilitate a oprobriului public este c\u0103 \u0163i-i cam demascheaz\u0103 pe cei care te \u00eenconjoar\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Apele se separ\u0103 biblic. Se vede clar cine te pl\u0103cea pentru ceea ce oferi online \u015fi cine te lingea \u00een cxr pentru c\u0103 erai \u00een trend, iar c\u00e2nd trendul se \u00eentoarce \u00eempotriva ta, \u00eencepe s\u0103-i ling\u0103 \u00een cxr pe \u0103ia care te \u00eenjur\u0103, pentru c\u0103 genul \u0103la de om nu are afinit\u0103\u0163i reale cu persoane, ci v\u00e2neaz\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u0163i de afirmare.<\/p>\n<p>Oprobriul public este cea mai bun\u0103 sit\u0103 de caractere pe care o poate dori un om.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Tot oprobriul public \u00ee\u0163i reveleaz\u0103 \u015fi cine sunt prietenii pe care chiar po\u0163i conta.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pe vreme de pace, toat\u0103 lumea \u00ee\u0163i spune c\u00e2t e\u015fti de uand\u0103rful, \u00ee\u0163i c\u00e2nt\u0103 imnuri de slav\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i promite marea cu sarea \u015fi po\u0163i apela la noi cu orice.<\/p>\n<p>Realitatea \u00ee\u015fi arat\u0103 dantura \u015fi arama facial\u0103 abia c\u00e2nd \u00eencep toate maimu\u0163ele \u015fi to\u0163i idio\u0163ii utili s\u0103 te porc\u0103ie. Atunci se \u015fi dezv\u0103luie purt\u0103torii de coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103 din via\u0163a ta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Tot oprobriul public \u00ee\u0163i aduce prieteni \u015fi colaboratori noi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Partea bun\u0103 a hate-ului&#8230; da, exist\u0103 p\u0103r\u0163i bune \u00een orice, inclusiv \u00een hate &#8211; este c\u0103, \u00een marea de porc\u0103ieli, spume \u015fi crize, apar oameni pe care nu-i cuno\u015fti, care \u00ee\u0163i descoper\u0103 contentul \u015fi zic: b\u0103, da materialul \u0103sta e chiar mi\u015fto, care e faza cu pro\u015ftii \u0103\u015ftia. Loreno, hai s\u0103 facem chestii \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei prin chestii, m\u0103 refer la chestii profesionale, nu la eternii limbrici care cer\u015fesc sex de la mii de femei online \u015fi offline, \u015fi apoi tot ei sar cu eticheta de cxxve \u00een st\u00e2nga \u015fi \u00een dreapta, ca \u015fi cum ar exista cxxv\u0103 mai josnic\u0103, mai jalnic\u0103 \u015fi mai slinoas\u0103 dec\u00e2t ei.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Po\u0163i rezista cu bine unui val de hate dac\u0103 a) e\u015fti stabil pe ceea ce faci \u015fi b) te ui\u0163i lucid cine te hatere\u015fte.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Livreaz\u0103 lucruri \u00een care crezi, fii con\u015ftient de calitatea a ceea ce faci, \u015fi 4689 de marionete ale g\u0103\u015ftilor de hate nu te vor putea atinge cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Abia rezisten\u0163a \u00eei face pe pro\u015fti s\u0103 turbeze cu adev\u0103rat, \u015fi \u00een acest punct, tu \u00eei out-troll pe ei.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De ce am eu, un actor intens def\u0103imat \u00een industrie, genul de reach pe care al\u0163ii \u00eel c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 doar cu sus\u0163inerea unei televiziuni sau a mai multora? Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 iei la mi\u015ftouri trollul, \u0103la d\u0103 fr\u00e2u liber oceanului de frustr\u0103ri \u015fi ajunge s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u00een tine toate femeile care nu l-au iubit, \u00eencep\u00e2nd cu m\u0103-sa \u015fi termin\u00e2nd cu Gertruda de pe Tinder care l-a blocat c\u00e2nd i-a trimis poz\u0103 cu virguli\u0163a.<\/p>\n<p>Revine de 478 de ori pe toate re\u0163elele sociale s\u0103 se certe cu tine, \u015fi \u00een timp ce o face, \u00ee\u0163i aduce trafic, views, awareness de la al\u0163ii mai pu\u0163in pro\u015fti. \u015ei acei al\u0163ii mai pu\u0163in pro\u015fti r\u0103m\u00e2n cu tine.<\/p>\n<p>Cine spune c\u0103 autorul nu poate fi trollul ultim?<\/p>\n<p>Uite, ba poate. R\u00e2zi de pro\u015fti, ia-i drept desenele animate care sunt de fapt, \u015fi ei \u00ee\u0163i vor face PR gratuit \u015fi eficient, a\u015fa cum 579 de agen\u0163ii profesioniste nu vor fi \u00een stare.<\/p>\n<p>E foarte trist s-o spun, dar hate-ul e p\u00e2inea anilor 2020.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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