{"id":19166,"date":"2020-03-08T14:04:11","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T11:04:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19166"},"modified":"2020-03-08T14:04:11","modified_gmt":"2020-03-08T11:04:11","slug":"la-multi-ani-doamnele-mele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/la-multi-ani-doamnele-mele\/","title":{"rendered":"La mul\u021bi ani, doamnele mele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Niciodat\u0103 nu mi-a pl\u0103cut faptul c\u0103 m-am n\u0103scut biologic femeie. Nu m-am recunoscut \u00een modul \u00een care cei din jurul meu \u0219i societatea \u00een general descria femeia. Nu am \u00een\u021beles de ce ar trebui s\u0103 corespund setului de a\u0219tept\u0103ri pe care mul\u021bi le formuleaz\u0103 \u00een direc\u021bia femeilor. Nu m-a interesat niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 fiu frumoas\u0103, de vreme ce unica recompens\u0103 a frumuse\u021bii e libidino\u0219enia de la diver\u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi cu care nu vrei s\u0103 ai de a face. Nu m-a interesat s\u0103 m\u0103 joc cu p\u0103pu\u0219ile, s\u0103 sl\u0103besc – p\u00e2n\u0103 am intrat la facultatea de teatru, unde cultura fricii de castinguri \u0219i-a imprimat solid mentalitatea toxic\u0103 asupra mea, s\u0103 m\u0103 m\u00e2\u021b\u00e2i, s\u0103 m\u0103 milogesc suplimentar pentru lucruri care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 mi se ofere strict pe baza meritelor mele, s\u0103 mimez modestie, s\u0103 \u00eemi fie ru\u0219ine pentru habar n-am ce – acea “ru\u015fine feminin\u0103” f\u0103r\u0103 sens \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 motiv care le este indus\u0103 femeilor din fraged\u0103 pruncie \u015fi pe care o car\u0103 ca pe un balast emo\u0163ional toat\u0103 via\u0163a.<\/p>\n

Nu m-am recunoscut niciodat\u0103 \u00een nimic din toate astea \u015fi m-am \u00eentrebat serios de ce trebuie s\u0103 am acest corp, dac\u0103 pe interior nu coincide nimic cu ce \u00eemi spune societatea – \u015fi sec\u0163iunea de comentarii – c\u0103 e o femeie.<\/p>\n

Faptul c\u0103 sunt femeie mi-a r\u0103pit un num\u0103r interminabil de \u015fanse profesionale, pentru c\u0103 pe undeva, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 implicarea mea serioas\u0103, multora li s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103 ar fi o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 m\u0103 \u015fi “cucereasc\u0103”, \u015fi apoi, c\u00e2nd n-a mers, s-au r\u0103zbunat profesional. Cumva, de aceea am \u015fi ales s\u0103-mi investesc grosul eforturilor creative \u00een acest blog. At least, c\u00e2nd e\u015fti tu cu tine, nu \u00eencearc\u0103 nimeni s\u0103 te f…, \u015fi apoi s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune prin a-\u0163i cancela un volum uria\u015f de efort \u015fi implicare, din incapacitate de a vedea dincolo de penisul personal.<\/p>\n

Dar, c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u0163in acest blog, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 povestea mea este povestea majorit\u0103\u0163ii femeilor. Multe nu ne recunoa\u015ftem \u00een a\u015ftept\u0103rile societ\u0103\u0163ii, dar foarte multe se \u00eencadreaz\u0103 din diverse motive str\u0103ine de personalitatea lor real\u0103: frica de excludere, frica de a pierde iubirea celor apropia\u0163i, frica de s\u0103r\u0103cie, dorin\u0163a de a apar\u0163ine \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/p>\n

Suntem un grup de oameni care au fost pu\u015fi \u00een acela\u015fi sertar, exclusiv pe baza de\u0163inerii unui anumit organ genital. \u015ei apoi, sertarul respectiv a primit eticheta “slugi proaste care trebuie reduse la utilitate”.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 ie\u015fi din acest sertar e un act de curaj. \u015ei aceasta e menirea mea: s\u0103 inoculez curaj.<\/p>\n

La mul\u0163i ani, surorile mele de toate v\u00e2rstele, categoriile sociale, etniile. Nu l\u0103sa\u0163i societatea s\u0103 v\u0103 transforme \u00een simple unelte. Tr\u0103i\u0163i-v\u0103 vie\u0163ile a\u015fa cum v\u0103 dori\u0163i, libere de orice constr\u00e2ngere exterioar\u0103, de fric\u0103 \u015fi de ru\u015fine.<\/p>\n

Fi\u0163i voi \u00een\u015fiv\u0103, \u015fi crea\u0163i climatul care s\u0103 \u00eencurajeze \u015fi alte femei s\u0103 fie ele \u00eensele.<\/p>\n

V\u0103 mul\u0163umesc pentru c\u0103 m-a\u0163i ales.<\/p>\n

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