{"id":19207,"date":"2020-03-16T10:41:52","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T07:41:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19207"},"modified":"2020-03-16T10:41:52","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T07:41:52","slug":"posta-redactiei-profesorii-abuzivi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-profesorii-abuzivi\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: Profesorii abuzivi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n

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Salut, Lorena,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Am o sor\u0103 de 11 ani, e \u00een clasa a \u015fasea. Am fost weekend-ul trecut acas\u0103 \u0219i am stat la pove\u0219ti cu ea, de atunci tot \u201erumeg” ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac \u0219i m-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cer ajutorul. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi-a povestit cum proful ei de istorie pune b\u0103ie\u021bii s\u0103 se pupe \u00een fa\u021ba clasei, poart\u0103 discu\u021bii despre sex cu \u0103\u0219tia mici \u00een loc s\u0103 fac\u0103 istorie cu ei, \u00eei strig\u0103 pe b\u0103ie\u021bi \u201egay”, love\u0219te fetele peste fund (le strig\u0103 pe fete \u201eIspite”) \u0219i cum proful ei de bio \u00eei love\u0219te, ba peste cap ba pune copiii \u00een fa\u021ba clasei \u0219i le d\u0103 \u0219uturi \u00een fund. Ea mi-a zis c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i apere colegii, da mama i-a zis s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 nimic c\u0103 e un ora\u0219 mic \u0219i o s-o \u0219tie toat\u0103 lumea.<\/strong><\/p>\n

OK, mi-am zis, merg s\u0103 vorbesc cu ai mei s\u0103 v\u0103d care e situa\u021bia. Am tot \u00eencercat s\u0103 aduc \u00een discu\u021bie problema dar m-au ignorat grav, sau au zis c\u0103 sigur au f\u0103cut ei ceva s\u0103 o merite. Am f\u0103cut \u0219i eu ore cu profii respectivi, dar pe vremea aia nu prea \u0219tiam c\u0103 avem drepturi (\u00een plus nici nu \u00eemi amintesc foarte exact ce \u0219i cum, poate am reprimat eu amintirile, cine \u0219tie). <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ideea e c\u0103 nu sunt p\u0103rintele sor\u0103-mii, nu e ca \u0219i cum m\u0103 pot duce eu la \u0219coal\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 pl\u00e2ng sau la inspectorat \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219tept c\u0103 voi fi luat\u0103 \u00een serios, sau c\u0103 sor\u0103-mea nu o s\u0103 aib\u0103 probleme.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dar nu e OK. Nu e OK deloc. Sunt oameni copiii \u0103ia \u00eenainte de toate, cum s\u0103 te compor\u021bi a\u0219a cu ei?! Ce a\u0219 putea face?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eu una m-am s\u0103turat pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 tot \u00eenghit \u00een sec c\u0103 \u201easta, csf ncsf”. Oamenii \u0103\u0219tia nu ar trebui s\u0103 predea. PUNCT. Degeaba se complac ai mei c\u0103 nu e a\u0219a r\u0103u, c\u0103 m\u0103car prime\u0219te o educa\u021bie. Nu a\u0219a ar trebui s\u0103 fie pus\u0103 problema, nu trebuie s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim cu \u201ese putea mai r\u0103u” ci cu \u201eexcelent”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc frumos pentru aten\u021bie!<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

Evident c\u0103 ai dreptate, c\u0103 problema nu trebuie l\u0103sat\u0103 a\u015fa, \u015fi c\u0103 multe lucruri pe care mi le poveste\u015fti sunt absolut scandaloase, iar gesturile violente \u015fi cele cu conota\u0163ii sexuale sunt chiar ilegale.<\/p>\n

Problema p\u0103rin\u0163ilor t\u0103i se nume\u015fte conformism provincial. Vin dintr-un ora\u015f mic \u015fi \u015ftiu cum e. Gura lumii e pe locul I, tot ce simte oricine altceva pe locul II, confortul \u015fi starea de bine a propriului copil, undeva pe ultimul loc.<\/p>\n

Roag-o pe surioara ta s\u0103 discute cu colegii ei \u015fi s\u0103 vad\u0103 care sunt dispu\u015fi s\u0103 ias\u0103 public cu acuza\u0163ii \u015fi exemple clare legate de modul \u00een care sunt trata\u0163i. Grij\u0103 mare la la\u015fitatea specific rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. Asum\u0103-\u0163i c\u0103, \u00een discu\u0163ii din pauze, toat\u0103 lumea e indignat\u0103 \u015fi vrea dreptate, dar c\u00e2nd vine vorba de luat ac\u0163iuni concrete, f\u0103cut reclama\u0163ii \u015fi mers \u00eenainte cu ac\u0163iuni, dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i cu un sfert din vitejii de la \u00eenceput, te po\u0163i declara un om norocos.<\/p>\n

Mbun. Ia un carne\u0163el, noteaz\u0103 numele copiilor care sunt dispu\u015fi s\u0103 colaboreze & coroboreze, \u015fi discut\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii acestora. Dintr-o clas\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103, e greu de crezut c\u0103 to\u0163i vor fi oi \u015fi boi, gata s\u0103-\u015fi lase copiii s\u0103 fie chinui\u0163i a\u015fa.<\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 ce ai g\u0103sit p\u0103rin\u0163i cu stof\u0103 de revolu\u0163ionar, face\u0163i o pl\u00e2ngere la inspectorat, una la protec\u0163ia copilului, \u015fi una la poli\u0163ie. Preferabil s\u0103 re\u0163ine\u0163i c\u00e2t mai elocvent \u015fi detaliat situa\u0163ii concrete: “\u00een data de x ale lunii y, de la ora, profesorul a scos la tabl\u0103 pe y \u015fi pe z, le-a zis porci, m\u0103gari, apoi i-a dat cap \u00een cap”, spre deosebire de “url\u0103 mereu \u015fi bate copii”.<\/p>\n

Acum c\u0103 \u015fcolile sunt \u00eenchise cu coronavirus, po\u0163i face aceast\u0103 mic\u0103 recrutare de p\u0103rin\u0163i, iar dup\u0103 ce se redeschid \u015fcolile, fi\u0163i pe faz\u0103 cu antenele preg\u0103tite.<\/p>\n

Nu, violen\u0163a \u015fi libidino\u015feniile nu au ce c\u0103uta la \u015fcoal\u0103, \u015fi nu, educa\u0163ia nu are nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu astea.<\/p>\n

Baft\u0103 \u015fi succes.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

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