{"id":19222,"date":"2020-03-19T12:26:42","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T09:26:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19222"},"modified":"2020-03-19T12:29:15","modified_gmt":"2020-03-19T09:29:15","slug":"problema-plictiselii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/problema-plictiselii\/","title":{"rendered":"Problema plictiselii"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da, \u00een\u0163eleg, se st\u0103 acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

Nu se st\u0103 acas\u0103 de pl\u0103cere, se st\u0103 acas\u0103 de nevoie. Se st\u0103 acas\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u00een lume circul\u0103 o boal\u0103, iar aceast\u0103 boal\u0103 pune vie\u0163i \u00een pericol, mai ales pe ale persoanelor \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u015fi pe ale celor cu imunitatea compromis\u0103. \u015ei chiar \u015fi oamenii tineri, cu s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u00een regul\u0103, experimenteaz\u0103 simptome foarte nepl\u0103cute. Am intervievat eu o fat\u0103, dar a avut o form\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103 a bolii. Alte articole mi-au dezv\u0103luit situa\u0163ii tragice, cu sufoc\u0103ri, vom\u0103, diaree care dura zile \u00een \u015fir, febr\u0103 continu\u0103 de 40 de grade, s\u0103 enum\u0103r doar c\u00e2teva simptome.<\/p>\n

Tu, cel care te plictise\u015fti acas\u0103, e\u015fti cazul norocos. O repet lent, s\u0103 lunece pe \u0163eava con\u015ftiin\u0163ei tale. E\u015fti cazul norocos. E\u015fti s\u0103n\u0103tos. Deocamdat\u0103. C\u0103 boala e foarte contagioas\u0103. Ai toate \u015fansele s-o iei. Nu te \u0163in autorit\u0103\u021bile acas\u0103 c\u0103 nu ar avea ce face cu tine. Te \u0163in acas\u0103 pentru siguran\u0163a ta. \u015ei a celor pe care tu, \u00eemboln\u0103vindu-te, i-ai putea pune \u00een pericol.<\/p>\n

“Dar m\u0103 plictiseeesc”.<\/p>\n

O citesc pe asta pe Twitter, pe Facebook, pe Instagram, pe LinkedIn. Nu am cont pe Snapchat sau Tik Tok, c\u0103 nu am chef s\u0103 aflu cum se plictise\u015fte lumea \u015fi acolo.<\/p>\n

Uite c\u00e2teva idei prin care ai putea s\u0103-\u0163i comba\u0163i sentimentul inutilit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi al izol\u0103rii.<\/p>\n

A. Dormi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nu \u015ftiu cum e via\u0163a voastr\u0103, dar a mea, c\u00e2nd intru \u00een Matrix, e destul de alergat\u0103. De c\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een distan\u0163are social\u0103, primul lucru pe care l-am f\u0103cut a fost s\u0103 recuperez odihna. S\u0103 \u00eemi re\u00eencarc bateriile. Da, func\u0163ionam ca un telefon care piuie pe ultima dunguli\u0163\u0103. \u015ei m\u0103 storceam s\u0103 mai dau ceva din mine.
\nDe c\u00e2nd cu izolarea social\u0103, dorm opt ore \u00eentre dou\u0103 \u015fi zece diminea\u0163a – da, \u015ftiu, nu e cel mai bun orar, dar atunci mi se face somn. Mai trag un pui de somn \u015fi dup\u0103-amiaza, s\u0103 fie acolo, de rezerv\u0103.
\n\u015ei c\u00e2nd zic “dormi”, zic: pune telefonul jos, \u00eenchide laptopul, stinge lumina \u015fi dormi. Bea un pahar de vin bun \u015fi bucur\u0103-te de odihn\u0103 \u015fi de relaxare. Ascult\u0103 lini\u015ftea. Respira\u0163ia animalului de companie, dac\u0103 ai. Savureaz\u0103 pacea.<\/p>\n

B. F\u0103-\u0163i o cur\u0103\u0163enie general\u0103 din aceea solid\u0103, cu mutat chestii & stuff.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cine are energie, dup\u0103 opt ore de munc\u0103, s\u0103 mute dulapuri \u015fi s\u0103 frece cu c\u00e2rpa cu detergent \u00een spatele lor, \u015fi apoi s\u0103 \u015fi cl\u0103teasc\u0103 bine? Fix nimeni.
\n\u015ei nici Maricica, dac\u0103 o chemi \u015fi-i dai 100 de lei, n-o s\u0103 fie de acord s\u0103 mute dulapuri de banii \u0103\u015ftia. O s\u0103-\u0163i fac\u0103 o cur\u0103\u0163enie din aia de ochii soacrei, dat cu mop \u015fi aspirator, \u015fters praf, \u015fters faian\u0163a cu laveta, v\u0103 pup\u0103m pe portofel.<\/p>\n

Acum, c\u0103 stai acas\u0103, f\u0103 \u015fi tu o dat\u0103 curat cum f\u0103ceau bunicii. Tot tu o s\u0103 te bucuri de aerul proasp\u0103t din locuin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi de mirosul fresh.<\/p>\n

C. Sorteaz\u0103-\u0163i obiectele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Am avut la un moment dat un articol despre c\u00e2te haine am reu\u015fit s\u0103 adun, \u015fi cum nu aveam loc de ele, \u015fi cum mi-am redus eu drastic garderoba. Stai acas\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua. Ai un munte de haine \u00een dulap. Dac\u0103 \u00eel deschizi, cad pe tine. Dar vin tare din urm\u0103 reducerile de la Fashion Days \u015fi de la Zara, \u015fi te ustur\u0103 ad\u00e2nc cheful s\u0103 mai iei cevaaaa. La pariu c\u0103 ceva asem\u0103n\u0103tor e deja gratis la tine \u00een dulap?
\nArticolul respectiv, aici<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

D. \u00cenva\u0163\u0103 o limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 visezi de dintotdeauna s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i engleza, franceza, italiana, whatever. Sunt o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de cursuri online, majoritatea accesibile ca pre\u0163. Pentru exerci\u0163iu, po\u0163i viziona filme \u015fi vloguri \u00een limba respectiv\u0103. Sau s\u0103-\u0163i iei un study buddy \u015fi s\u0103 exersa\u0163i \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n

Oamenii se combin\u0103 cu at\u00e2ta zel pentru sex, dar pentru ceva cu adev\u0103rat folositor nu s-ar combina.<\/p>\n

E) Sl\u0103be\u015fte.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acum, c\u0103 via\u0163a acas\u0103 e lipsit\u0103 de alerg\u0103tura obi\u015fnuit\u0103 \u015fi ai timp s\u0103-\u0163i prepari chestii healthy, po\u0163i \u00een sf\u00e2r\u015fit s\u0103 acorzi aten\u0163ie alimenta\u0163iei \u015fi exerci\u0163iului fizic. Ia de aici link<\/strong><\/a> la primul advertorial noom care-mi iese \u00een cale pe acest blog \u015fi testeaz\u0103 metoda pentru dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni cu numai un euro, genereaz\u0103-mi \u015fi mie ni\u015fte m\u0103run\u0163i\u015f dac\u0103 folose\u015fti linkul meu. D\u0103 drumul la Deezer sau Spotify, simte ritmul, f\u0103 mi\u015fcare. Ai tutoriale de aerobic, pilates, cardio, ce vrei tu, gratis sau cu costuri modice.<\/p>\n

Sau dimpotriv\u0103, antreneaz\u0103-te s\u0103 faci mai multe flot\u0103ri, sau mai multe abdomene. Tot nu faci nimic toat\u0103 ziua. F\u0103 ceva pentru corpul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n

F) Joac\u0103-te cu anim\u0103lu\u0163ul de companie.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Orice om care are c\u00e2ine, pisic\u0103, pas\u0103re de orice specie, porcu\u015for de Guineea, iepura\u015f, \u015ftie c\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 te plictise\u015fti cu un pet \u00een cas\u0103. C\u0103 sunt dilii, juc\u0103u\u015fe, zgubilitice \u015fi adoor\u0103 n\u0103zb\u00e2tiile \u015fi aten\u0163ia. Joaca cu anim\u0103lu\u0163ul e pl\u0103cut\u0103, haioas\u0103, relaxant\u0103 \u015fi, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i \u015fi r\u0103sfe\u0163i petul, e o oaz\u0103 de bucurie.<\/p>\n

G) Exerseaz\u0103-\u0163i aptitudinile de makeup.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 m\u0103 machiez”.<\/p>\n

\u00cen perioada asta, to\u0163i marii furnizori de produse cosmetice legitime, \u015fi Sephora, \u015fi Marionnaud, \u015fi Douglas, \u00eemi burdu\u015fesc mailul cu oferte peste oferte. Profit\u0103 de ocazie s\u0103 comanzi un fond de ten pe nuan\u0163a ta, un concealer cu dou\u0103 nuan\u0163e mai deschis, un kit de contur cu o nuan\u0163\u0103 mai \u00eenchis, un rimel, un tu\u015f, ni\u015fte farduri de pleoape, o pudr\u0103 mat\u0103 \u015fi un gloss hidratant.<\/p>\n

\u00cenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 le aplici, s\u0103 le estompezi, s\u0103 par\u0103 realiste, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i pun\u0103 \u00een eviden\u0163\u0103 ochii, pome\u0163ii, forma buzelor.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 ai tenul imperfect, ai tot acum oferte peste oferte la creme \u015fi seruri. Hidrateaz\u0103-\u0163i \u015fi tonifiaz\u0103-\u0163i pielea fe\u0163ei. Comand\u0103 fiole cu acid hialuronic \u015fi f\u0103-\u0163i tratament complet: maseaz\u0103 zilnic \u00een pielea fe\u0163ei \u015fi a g\u00e2tului c\u00e2te una.<\/p>\n

H) Vizioneaz\u0103 toate sezoanele unui serial. <\/strong><\/p>\n

De ce era lumea obsedat\u0103 de Game of Thrones? Iat\u0103 prilejul s\u0103 afli. De ce Orange Is The New Black a creat un adev\u0103rat trend? Netflix are r\u0103spunsul. Poate vrei ceva despre ororile chirurgiei plastice, ca Botched, sau o serie ingenioas\u0103 de interviuri, cum e Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee. De unde crezi c\u0103 mi-am format tehnica de intervievator? Citindu-le \u015fi v\u0103z\u00e2ndu-le pe ale altora.<\/p>\n

I) Sun\u0103-\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163ii.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poart\u0103 cu ei conversa\u0163ii reale, de parc\u0103 ar fi oameni. Mul\u0163i se pl\u00e2ng c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu-i trateaz\u0103 ca pe oameni, dar \u015fi ei \u00ee\u015fi trateaz\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii ca pe retarzi. Da, am m\u00e2ncat, \u0103h\u0103, ce-ai g\u0103tit, da, stai \u00een cas\u0103, pa.<\/p>\n

Crezi c\u0103 m\u0103-ta \u015fi tac-tu sunt pro\u015fti \u015fi nu sesizeaz\u0103?<\/p>\n

Bine, \u00een unele cazuri chiar sunt. Dar un motiv pentru care, pe contul meu, oameni de 60 de ani discut\u0103 cu aceea\u015fi relaxare ca aceia de 20 este c\u0103 eu \u00eei tratez pe to\u0163i ca pe oameni normali, cu nevoi, idealuri \u015fi vise.<\/p>\n

Mai pu\u0163in pe cocalarii \u015fi coc\u0103l\u0103resele care bubuie de mojicie \u015fi chef de har\u0163\u0103. \u0102ia \u00ee\u015fi iau deja tradi\u0163ionalul jet.<\/p>\n

Oricum, am avut o discu\u0163ie de-a dreptul adorabil\u0103 cu maic\u0103-mea despre amorul ei secret din adolescen\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n

Da, b\u0103i. \u015ei maic\u0103-ta a fost adolescent\u0103 \u015fi a iubit ca disperata pe unul care i-a fr\u00e2nt inima. \u015ei chiar o s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 poate povesti cu tine.<\/p>\n

J) \u00cempac\u0103-te.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 ai oameni cu care ai fost idiot f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrei \u015fi te mustr\u0103 con\u015ftiin\u0163a. \u015ei \u0103la sau aia st\u0103 acas\u0103, exact ca tine. D\u0103-le un telefon, vorbe\u015fte cu ei, recunoa\u015fte c\u0103 ai fost un bou apoteotic, cere-\u0163i scuze \u015fi elibereaz\u0103-\u0163i con\u015ftiin\u0163a de balast. E o senza\u0163ie uria\u015f\u0103 de eliberare s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i asumi o vin\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 faci pace cu cineva c\u0103ruia i-ai gre\u015fit.<\/p>\n

K) C\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 bani pe net.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siteuri ca WeWorkRemotely<\/a><\/strong>, Remote.co<\/a><\/strong> sau chiar sec\u0163iunea de remote de pe ejobs.ro<\/a><\/strong> \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 diverse op\u0163iuni profesionale pe care le po\u0163i valorifica de pe canapeaua de acas\u0103. Conexiune bun\u0103 la internet, un telefon \u015fi un laptop, \u015fi ia-\u0163i un job full time, part time, temporar sau project based, Canapeaua ta de acas\u0103 se va dovedi cel mai bun birou, nemaivorbind de faptul c\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i faci cafeaua cum \u00ee\u0163i place \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i faci nevoile la buda ta de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

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\u00cen concluzie: perioada de izolare a cum \u0163i-o faci. Activ\u0103 sau pasiv\u0103 (eu prefer versatilitatea though), amuzant\u0103 sau serioas\u0103, implicat\u0103 sau facil\u0103. Porne\u015fte-\u0163i motoarele creativit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi vei constata c\u0103 ai at\u00e2tea lucruri interesante de f\u0103cut, de n-o s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 mai ie\u015fi din carantin\u0103.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Da, \u00een\u0163eleg, se st\u0103 acas\u0103. Nu se st\u0103 acas\u0103 de pl\u0103cere, se st\u0103 acas\u0103 de nevoie. Se st\u0103 acas\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u00een lume circul\u0103...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18590,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/cat2-e1572646741836.jpg?fit=481%2C425&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19222"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19222\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19225,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19222\/revisions\/19225"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18590"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}