{"id":19227,"date":"2020-03-19T16:52:15","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T13:52:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19227"},"modified":"2020-03-20T01:33:59","modified_gmt":"2020-03-19T22:33:59","slug":"dana-budeanu-promoveaza-spartul-fetei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/dana-budeanu-promoveaza-spartul-fetei\/","title":{"rendered":"Dana Budeanu promoveaz\u0103 &#8220;spartul fe\u0163ei&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Scoas\u0103 de pe Post de Pro TV, odat\u0103 cu gunoiul sezonal, Dana Budeanu a ajuns, \u00eentocmai ca &#8220;influenceri\u0163ele&#8221; pe care nu rateaz\u0103 nici o ocazie s\u0103 le spurce, vlogger autonom pe YouTube. Unul urm\u0103rit, dac\u0103 st\u0103m s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la sutele de mii de vizualiz\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>Partea cea mai amuzant\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 nu e cum aceast\u0103 croitoreas\u0103 cu preten\u0163ii, nostalgic\u0103 dup\u0103 familia tradi\u0163ional\u0103 \u015fi b\u0103rbatul &#8220;mafiot&#8221;, \u0103la care nu face nimic \u00een rela\u0163ie, dar se a\u015fteapt\u0103 s\u0103 fie slug\u0103rit pentru simpl\u0103 de\u0163inere de organ sexual protuberant, debiteaz\u0103 o inep\u0163ie sinistr\u0103 dup\u0103 alta. Partea amuzant\u0103 e cum ultima ei sesiune de abera\u0163ii \u00eencepe cu un eveniment destinat femeilor. Punctez, femeilor. Femeilor, a c\u0103ror autoritate \u015fi pozi\u0163ie \u00een societate o erodeaz\u0103 prin tot ce debiteaz\u0103. \u015ei tot ea se pl\u00e2nge c\u0103 persoana care face program\u0103ri la eveniment e deranjat\u0103 de cocalari. Damn right e deranjat\u0103 de cocalari, pisi. Nu e nevoie de mult\u0103 logic\u0103 s\u0103 te prinzi c\u0103, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t discursul t\u0103u promoveaz\u0103 interesele celei mai retrograde \u015fi inepte clase a societ\u0103\u0163ii, \u0103ia vor fi cei care vor vrea s\u0103 te vad\u0103. \u015ei tot ea: &#8220;Simt c\u0103 nu v-a\u015f suporta nici o secund\u0103&#8221;. Obviously.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 te-ar lua \u00een b\u0103rbat a\u015fa cum \u00eei \u00eendemni pe ei s\u0103-\u015fi trateze partenerele, ai pleca pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een pumni.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2t de incon\u015ftient\u0103 s\u0103 fii legat de propriul interes de business, dac\u0103 nu de altceva, s\u0103 fii croitoreas\u0103 de dame, dar tot ce spui s\u0103 fie \u00een detrimentul clientelei tale, apoi tot tu s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi pe net c\u0103 te caut\u0103 doar bolovanii? Femei, sabota\u0163i evenimentele croitoresei. S\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 cu bolovanii. Partea nasoal\u0103 e c\u0103 bolovanii la care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 plac\u0103 ea se \u00eembrac\u0103 de la angro Europa \u015fi nu-i vor da niciodat\u0103 de lucru.<\/p>\n<p>Am v\u0103zut azi un status al Corinei B\u0103canu, \u00een care ne atr\u0103gea aten\u0163ia c\u0103 madam croitoreasa a trecut, \u00een ultimul ei videoclip, la \u00eencurajarea violen\u0163ei domestice.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fcorina.bacanu%2Fposts%2F10157460450237875&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"351\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Statusul Corinei include \u015fi o necesar\u0103 sesizare la parchet. Pentru c\u0103 ultimul lucru de care \u0163ara asta ar avea nevoie ar fi \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u015fte m\u00e2rl\u0103nie \u015fi brutalitate masculin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dar de ce nu suntem respecta\u0163i ca alt\u0103dat\u0103?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 unii dintre voi nu munci\u0163i ca alt\u0103dat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu ave\u0163i seriozitatea, disponibilitatea de a v\u0103 investi, aptitudinea de a construi \u015fi capacitatea de a face lucruri s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple a b\u0103rbatului de alt\u0103dat\u0103. Bunicul meu \u015fi-a construit casa de la zero. Respectul nu venea pentru c\u0103 avea un organ at\u00e2rn\u0103tor \u00eentre picioare, ci pentru c\u0103, prin munca lui, \u015fi-a ridicat singur o cas\u0103. Era un\u00a0 t\u00e2mplar bun, respectat \u015fi solicitat, care a mobilat toate casele cunoscu\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n<p>N-a avut nevoie s-o bat\u0103, s-o abuzeze sau s-o umileasc\u0103 pe bunic\u0103-mea s\u0103 fie respectat. De\u015fi pe vremea aia nu i-ar fi repro\u015fat nimeni dac\u0103 ar fi f\u0103cut-o.<\/p>\n<p>Pur \u015fi simplu, nu aveai cum s\u0103 nu-l respec\u0163i, prin a) cine era ca om b) ce \u015ftia s\u0103 fac\u0103 c) calitatea, punctualitatea \u015fi seriozitatea cu care \u00ee\u015fi f\u0103cea treaba. Impunea respect pentru c\u0103 era con\u015ftient de valoarea lui ca om, de valoarea serviciilor lui \u015fi de tot ce avea de oferit.<\/p>\n<p>Aceasta e, pe scurt, adev\u0103rata respectabilitate \u015fi newsflash: nu depinde de ce ai \u00eentre picioare. Depinde de caracter \u015fi de sistemul de valori.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru a o sus\u0163ine pe Corina \u00een demersul ei \u00een mod argumentat, m-am uitat \u015fi eu la ultimul Verdict.<\/p>\n<p>Mizeria \u00eencepe de la minutul 48 \u015fi partea cu b\u0103taia e doar apogeul. Mi se pare extrem de grav \u015fi modul \u00een care \u00eencepe: recomand\u0103rile f\u0103cute b\u0103rba\u0163ilor &#8220;s\u0103 nu fie sclavi \u00een cuplu&#8221;. &#8220;Dac\u0103 te trimite dup\u0103 ro\u015fii, adu ardei, dac\u0103 te pune s\u0103 faci ceva \u00een cas\u0103, stric\u0103. Tu nu faci dec\u00e2t sex \u015fi te ui\u0163i la meci&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Genul de b\u0103rba\u0163i care ar pune asta \u00een aplicare trebuie p\u0103r\u0103si\u0163i de urgen\u0163\u0103. S\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t supravie\u0163uiesc \u00eentr-o garsonier\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 curat, doar masturb\u00e2ndu-se \u015fi uit\u00e2ndu-se la meci.<\/p>\n<p>Da, dac\u0103 pl\u0103te\u015fti un salariu unei menajere, aia are motiva\u0163ie s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103, s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u015fi pia\u0163a, s\u0103 fac\u0103 ea toat\u0103 cur\u0103\u0163enia, pentru c\u0103 prime\u015fte o remunera\u0163ie la finalul lunii. Dac\u0103 ai o rela\u0163ie liber consim\u0163it\u0103 cu o femeie, \u00ee\u0163i asumi partea ta de efort domestic, sau femeia respectiv\u0103 are toate motivele logice \u015fi practice s\u0103 opteze pentru singur\u0103tate. Dac\u0103 tot face ea toat\u0103 munca, m\u0103car s\u0103 beneficieze ea de toate rezultatele.<\/p>\n<p>Respectul nu se ob\u0163ine prin nesim\u0163ire \u015fi minimalizarea eforturilor celuilalt, sau tratarea lor ca \u015fi cum \u0163i s-ar cuveni. Respectul se ob\u0163ine prin valoarea real\u0103 cu care po\u0163i s\u0103 contribui la binele celuilalt. Te trimite dup\u0103 ro\u015fii? Cump\u0103r\u0103\u00a0 \u015eI alte legume, pentru c\u0103 vezi c\u0103 se termin\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103. A g\u0103tit ea? Spal\u0103 tu vasele. \u015ei e valabil \u015fi pentru femeile care nimeresc un tip care g\u0103te\u015fte. Te cheam\u0103 iubi la el \u015fi te suprinde cu o minunat\u0103 lasagna de ciuperci, preferata ta? Perfect. Arat\u0103 aprecierea oferindu-te s\u0103 speli tu vasele.<\/p>\n<p>Rela\u0163ia s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u015fi echilibrat\u0103 poate exista NUMAI prin eliminarea misecuvenismului toxic. Mai bine v\u0103 oferi\u0163i am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 sp\u0103la\u0163i vasele \u015fi la sf\u00e2r\u015fit le sp\u0103la\u0163i \u00eempreun\u0103, glumind \u015fi r\u00e2z\u00e2nd, dec\u00e2t s\u0103-l face\u0163i pe cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 se simt\u0103 prostul sau proasta care s-a trezit slug\u0103 nepl\u0103tit\u0103. C\u0103 azi nu mai st\u0103 nimeni slug\u0103 nepl\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Haipa, dac\u0103 tot fac eu toat\u0103 munca, m\u0103car m\u0103n\u00e2nc eu toat\u0103 lasagna.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei s\u0103 trecem la minutul 51:10, unde \u00eencepe cel mai halucinant demers pentru violen\u0163a domestic\u0103: s\u0103-i dai un pumn s\u0103-i spargi fa\u0163a.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 femeia se pl\u00e2nge de ceva, e nemul\u0163umit\u0103, sau comunic\u0103 un lucru care nu-i place, trebuie lovit\u0103, s\u0103 i se fac\u0103 fric\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 nemul\u0163umirile pentru ea, ne poveste\u015fte croitoreasa. O ascult\u0103m imit\u00e2nd tonul feminin sub\u0163ire, ca \u015fi cum, dac\u0103 nemul\u0163umirea e comunicat\u0103 mai pe sopran, e mai pu\u0163in valid\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei tot Budeanu explic\u0103 mecanismul, &#8220;prin altoire&#8221;, femeia prinde fric\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 nu mai deschid\u0103 gura. Respectiv restul femeilor de la mas\u0103 v\u0103d acest tratament \u015fi li se face fric\u0103 prin asociere.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 asta nu e o endorsare a abuzului, ce e?<\/p>\n<p>Care e partea cea mai grav\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 acest discurs vine de la o alt\u0103 femeie. \u015ei poate fi folosit de categoria aia de \u0163op\u00e2rlani ca argument: Dac\u0103 o femeie spune c\u0103 e bine s\u0103 dau \u00een femei, s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 nemul\u0163umirile pentru ele, e un semn c\u0103 e ok. E ok ca rela\u0163ia s\u0103 func\u0163ioneze numai pentru \u00eendeplinirea nevoilor b\u0103rbatului, iar ale femeii pot fi ignorate \u015fi nimicite cu altoiul.<\/p>\n<p>Este cea mai antifemeie pledoarie pe care am v\u0103zut-o \u00een 2020.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dar Lorena, dac\u0103 Maricica e perpetuu nemul\u0163umit\u0103 de mine \u015fi m\u0103 comenteaz\u0103 public, ce fac?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Unu: \u00eencerci o discu\u0163ie matur\u0103 \u015fi echilibrat\u0103 cu Maricica, \u00een care o rogi frumos s\u0103 v\u0103 rezolva\u0163i problemele \u00eentre patru ochi \u015fi s\u0103 fi\u0163i echip\u0103 de fa\u0163\u0103 cu al\u0163ii, ca doi parteneri iubitori. Iar dac\u0103 Maricica insist\u0103 s\u0103 te fac\u0103 de r\u00e2s \u00een public, \u00eei mul\u0163ume\u015fti frumos pentru rela\u0163ia minunat\u0103 \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i iei la revedere.<\/p>\n<p>Uite un mod \u00een care pui cap\u0103t rela\u0163iei cu o femeie abuziv\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fii mitocan \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 contribui la problema violen\u0163ei domestice. \u015ei unicul mod \u00een care ob\u0163ii \u015fi respect, dac\u0103 persoana e echipat\u0103 mintal cu aptitudinea de a oferi respect. Iar dac\u0103 nu e, faci ca Ariana Grande: Thank you, next.<\/p>\n<p>Femei: boicota\u0163i-o pe croitoreas\u0103. Nu merge\u0163i la sindrofiile ei, nu \u00eei oferi\u0163i de lucru. nu valida\u0163i o individ\u0103 care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ob\u0163in\u0103 aten\u0163ie prin anihilarea drepturilor omene\u015fti care v-au fost recunoscute dup\u0103 mult efort \u015fi multe umilin\u0163e.<\/p>\n<p>Am mai scris-o \u015fi o s-o mai scriu: violen\u0163a domestic\u0103, \u00eencurajarea neglijen\u0163ei fa\u0163\u0103 de femei, plasarea lor pe un perpetuu loc doi s-a men\u0163inut de-a lungul istoriei pentru c\u0103 au existat mereu femeile enabler. Cele care au \u00eencercat s\u0103 devin\u0103 &#8220;unul dintre b\u0103ie\u0163i&#8221; f\u0103c\u00e2nd pact cu abuzatorii.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa cum invers, lupta pentru drepturile femeilor a fost sus\u0163inut\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencurajat\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i integri, c\u0103rora nu li se p\u0103rea c\u0103 merit\u0103 o coroni\u0163\u0103 \u00een plus pentru c\u0103, la loteria genetic\u0103, au tras lozul cu penisul.<\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 aceast\u0103 relicv\u0103 comunistoid\u0103 continu\u0103 s\u0103 abereze despre idealul mafiotului m\u0103 las\u0103 rece.<\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 aceast\u0103 relicv\u0103 comunistoid\u0103 vrea s\u0103 repun\u0103 pe tapet rela\u0163ia toxic\u0103, cu b\u0103rbatul care nu cump\u0103r\u0103 tampoane, &#8220;c\u0103 nu e sclav&#8221;, \u015fi &#8220;altoie\u015fte peste bot&#8221; o femeie care are lucruri de repro\u015fat \u00een rela\u0163ie e un semnal de alarm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 nevast\u0103-ta \u00ee\u0163i cump\u0103r\u0103 lame de ras, \u015fi tu \u00eei cumperi tampoane. Se nume\u015fte grija reciproc\u0103 de persoana iubit\u0103. Tot ce face un vagin s\u0103 fie vagin, moliciunea, umezeala, contrac\u0163iile, se datoreaz\u0103 existen\u0163ei acelui ciclu care vine o dat\u0103 pe lun\u0103. E pl\u0103cut s\u0103 faci sex? OK. asum\u0103-\u0163i c\u0103 asta vine la pachet cu tampoane.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei trebuie s\u0103 facem un efort colectiv s\u0103 nu ne mai uit\u0103m la rahat, indiferent c\u00e2t am r\u00e2de de imbecilit\u0103\u0163ile pe care le debiteaz\u0103 croitoreasa \u00een rest.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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