{"id":19259,"date":"2020-03-26T13:27:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T10:27:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19259"},"modified":"2020-03-26T15:42:49","modified_gmt":"2020-03-26T12:42:49","slug":"o-invitatie-la-calm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-invitatie-la-calm\/","title":{"rendered":"O invita\u021bie la calm"},"content":{"rendered":"

De ieri, carantina este oficial\u0103. Se st\u0103 \u00een case. Se st\u0103 cu copii ner\u0103bd\u0103tori \u0219i stresa\u021bi c\u0103 nu se pot juca pe afar\u0103, cu b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2na\u021bi: “O via\u0163\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 mi-a spus Ceau\u015fescu ce s\u0103 fac \u015fi ce s\u0103 nu fac, nu am ajuns la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenchid\u0103 Iohannis \u00een cas\u0103!!”,cu colegi de apartament care ascult\u0103 muzic\u0103 nasoal\u0103 sau c\u0103rora le put \u015fosetele. <\/p>\n

Ca o mic\u0103 ironie a vie\u021bii: P\u00e2n\u0103 acum, al\u0163ii r\u00e2deau de mine c\u0103 \u00eenchiriez o simpl\u0103 garsonier\u0103 \u0219i tr\u0103iesc cheap, acum eu sunt like “lol, bitches, cine se bucur\u0103 de lini\u015fte \u015fi pace, \u015fi de nefutai la icre toat\u0103 ziua?” <\/p>\n

Dar izolarea \u00een unul \u0219i acela\u0219i loc, \u0219i mai ales cu unii \u0219i aceia\u0219i oameni (if the case) e un izvor de probleme psihice \u0219i emo\u021bionale pe care le putem con\u0219tientiza \u0219i le putem procesa, \u00een\u021beleg\u00e2ndu-le.<\/p>\n

O v\u0103d pe social media: <\/p>\n

Se acumuleaz\u0103 \u00een oameni o tensiune \u015fi o irascibilitate de nedescris. <\/p>\n

\u00cei r\u0103spunzi extrem de politicos cuiva \u00een comentarii \u015fi brusc, \u0103la \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u0163ipe la tine de zici c\u0103 i-o footusei pe m\u0103-sa undeva unde nu-i pl\u0103cuse. Postezi o informa\u0163ie \u015fi o gr\u0103mad\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 \u0163ipe la tine, s\u0103 te fac\u0103 proast\u0103, s\u0103 fac\u0103 ei pe de\u0219tep\u021bii. Postezi o glum\u0103 \u015fi prime\u015fti zece mesaje private sup\u0103rate. <\/p>\n

\u015ei tu m\u0103car e\u015fti un creator de content care a ales ruta “hai s\u0103 fim echilibra\u0163i, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 trecem prin asta, hai s\u0103 z\u00e2mbim”. <\/p>\n

M\u0103 uit \u00eens\u0103 la \u0103ia care fac crize lungi c\u0103 nu \u015ftiu din ce vor tr\u0103i lunile astea, \u0219i care, pur \u0219i simplu, au o c\u0103dere psihic\u0103 public\u0103 pe conturile lor. <\/p>\n

Nu e nimic de r\u00e2s. Realmente, e o problem\u0103. Nu mai sunt traduceri, nu mai sunt campanii, nu mai sunt evenimente publice, to\u0163i entertainerii care nu au un contract cu statul stau pe acas\u0103 \u015fi se g\u00e2ndesc cu groaz\u0103 ce fac, dac\u0103 treaba se prelunge\u015fte, pentru c\u0103 veniturile lor sunt direct dependente de via\u0163a social\u0103. <\/p>\n

Sau oamenii care muncesc \u00een HORECA, au investit sume astronomice \u00eentr-un restaurant, hotel, pensiune, pl\u0103tesc un munte de utilit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi salarii, sunt controla\u0163o de sanepid \u015fi-n kur, dar nu pot avea nici un fel de venit. <\/p>\n

Sau makeup arti\u0219tii \u0219i hair stili\u0219tii care au investit mii de euro \u00een produse \u0219i instrumente, \u0219i acum stau pe bar\u0103. <\/p>\n

\u00cen\u0163eleg, e stres \u015fi e jale. Resimt \u0219i eu acest stres, pentru c\u0103 \u0219i veniturile mele sunt afectate grav. E real. <\/p>\n

Dar v\u0103 spun eu un lucru care \u00een mod cert NU folose\u015fte nim\u0103nui cu nimic \u00een panica asta generalizat\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Iar acest lucru este s\u0103 sari online, sau poate chiar offline, la bereg\u0103\u0163ile cuiva \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103-\u0163i descarci stresul pe persoane nevinovate, ignor\u00e2nd r\u0103ul pe care \u00eel fac cuvintele tale. <\/p>\n

E extrem de injust s\u0103 te r\u0103zbuni pe Vasilic\u0103 de pe Facebook pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti singur acas\u0103, sau, dimpotriv\u0103, mult prea \u00eenghesuit acas\u0103, stresat, frustrat sexual, \u00eengrijorat financiar \u015fi speriat de viitorul imprevizibil. <\/p>\n

Eu, dup\u0103 cum a\u0163i v\u0103zut \u00een festivalul de bullying online care a urmat dup\u0103 primul spot la videochat, sau cel care a venit dup\u0103 puesa Jet, pot fi grand maestru de ceremonii \u00een circ online \u015fi trec prin el cu fala unui cuirasat. <\/p>\n

Nu vrei s\u0103-mi pun mintea cu tine. C\u0103 dac\u0103 o fac, ascendentul meu \u00een Scorpion \u015fi o form\u0103 bizar\u0103 de clarviziune care m\u0103 face s\u0103-\u0163i intuiesc vulnerabilitatea m\u0103 vor ajuta s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i izbesc exact punctul care te doare mai tare. Nu am pic de mil\u0103 pentru un om care nu are decen\u0163a s\u0103-\u0219i controleze impulsurile tic\u0103loase, \u015fi mi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie glorios ce copil\u0103rie grea ai avut sau alte baliverne cu care \u00ee\u015fi scuz\u0103 unii mojicia. <\/p>\n

E\u015fti mojic(\u0103) cu mine – vai, opinia mea liber\u0103 – \u00cemi dai carte alb\u0103 s\u0103 te lovesc acolo unde te doare cel mai tare. C\u0103 \u015fi opinia mea e liber\u0103, biatch. <\/p>\n

Apoi tot tu faci filme \u00een taxi sau print screens s\u0103 te dai victim\u0103 prin popor, de\u0219i, dac\u0103 nu \u00eencepeai s\u0103 m\u0103 bully, eu nici nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 exi\u0219ti. <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mbun. Ce am vrut s\u0103 spun cu acest luung detour este c\u0103: pot face fa\u0163\u0103 balamucului la orice nivel, ba chiar s\u0103-l plusez p\u00e2n\u0103 dincolo de suportabil.
\nDar asta nu folose\u0219te nim\u0103nui acum. <\/strong><\/p>\n

ALEG s\u0103 stau calm\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 ofer content primordial pozitiv. ALEG s\u0103 descre\u0163esc frun\u0163i – call me Botox. Aleg s\u0103 r\u0103spund cu gra\u0163ie, s\u0103 ofer respect, s\u0103 fiu o oaz\u0103 de pace. <\/p>\n

PENTRU C\u0102 \u00ceN ASTFEL DE MOMENTE, OAZELE DE PACE SUNT CELE CARE ME \u0162IN ANCORA\u0162I \u00ceN BRUMA DE NORMALITATE CARE A R\u0102MAS.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

Alege s\u0103 fii \u015fi tu o oaz\u0103 de pace. Nu te mai certa degeaba, nu mai arde poduri, nu mai isca flame wars f\u0103r\u0103 sens pe Facebook, nu te mai panica. <\/p>\n

Orice epidemie trece. A trecut Ciuma Neagr\u0103 – iar atunci oamenii nici m\u0103car nu aveau internet, s\u0103 se sus\u021bin\u0103 emo\u021bional unii pe al\u021bii. A intrat sub control AIDS. A trecut SARS. \u015ei corona va trece. Poate nu \u00eentr-o lun\u0103, poate nici m\u0103car \u00een dou\u0103. <\/p>\n

Dar faptul c\u0103 te crizezi pe net aiurea NU o face s\u0103 treac\u0103 mai repede. <\/p>\n

Re\u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 fii calm. Ofer\u0103 iubire celor din jur, online sau offline. De fiecare dintre noi, de aptitudinea noastr\u0103 de a lua lucrurile cu maturitate, pas cu pas, de a g\u0103si \u00eent\u00e2i microsolu\u0163ii de moment, de a identifica aspecte pozitive \u00eentr-un vibe general negativ, depinde urm\u0103toarea perioad\u0103. <\/p>\n

Nu e u\u015for. \u015ei eu visez c\u0103 stau \u00een IOR, s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc o \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103 la cornet. S\u0103 m\u0103 plimb prin metrou \u015fi s\u0103 ascult conversa\u0163ii ridicole. S\u0103 creez campanii de social media creative pentru parteneri. S\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc cartof umplut cu minimum trei extra toppings la un fast food. S\u0103 beau vin sec pe o teras\u0103. <\/p>\n

DAR \u00ceN\u0162ELEG C\u0102 PE MOMENT NU SE POATE, \u015fi \u00een loc s\u0103 m\u0103 oftic c\u0103 toate astea sunt irealizabile acum, s\u0103 m\u0103 concentrez pe ceea ce se poate. <\/p>\n

\u015ei se poate s\u0103 renun\u0163\u0103m pentru o clip\u0103 la egouri, la frustr\u0103ri, la aceas\u0103 apuc\u0103tur\u0103 complet gre\u015fit\u0103, a instant gratification-ului, \u015fi s\u0103 travers\u0103m acest moment tensionat cu \u00een\u0163elepciune. <\/p>\n

Controleaz\u0103-l tu, nu-l l\u0103sa s\u0103 te controleze el pe tine. <\/p>\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 aceste momente ne vor \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a m\u0103car pu\u0163in s\u0103 renun\u0163\u0103m la pandaliile specific rom\u00e2ne\u015fti, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 a fost o lec\u0163ie necesar\u0103. Nu neap\u0103rat suficient\u0103, m\u0103car pentru unii. <\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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