{"id":19282,"date":"2020-03-30T12:32:49","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T09:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19282"},"modified":"2020-03-30T12:40:56","modified_gmt":"2020-03-30T09:40:56","slug":"minutul-de-recunostinta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/minutul-de-recunostinta\/","title":{"rendered":"Minutul de recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sunt oameni care se v\u0103ic\u0103resc c\u00e2t e ziulica de lung\u0103, c\u0103 nu merge asta, c\u0103 nu merge aia, apoi la o \u00eentrebare de baraj, descoperi c\u0103 au \u015fansa de a lucra remote pe perioada carantinei \u015fi, din propriile lor case, f\u0103r\u0103 o or\u0103 de schimbat metrou, autobuz \u015fi eventual o birj\u0103, fac banii pentru care \u00eenainte pierdeau tot acel timp \u00een trafic.<\/p>\n

\u015ei nu, paragraful de deasupra nu e o metafor\u0103 introductiv\u0103 pentru ideile textului. E o discu\u0163ie real\u0103. C\u00e2nd jum\u0103tate din oamenii pe care-i cuno\u015fti au r\u0103mas complet f\u0103r\u0103 venituri, tu ai op\u0163iunea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i faci jobul de acas\u0103 pe aceia\u015fi bani, \u015fi totu\u015fi, tu e\u015fti victima tragic\u0103 a propriei vie\u0163i. Bruhuhu. <\/p>\n

Drept care, propun s\u0103 facem un execi\u0163iu colectiv, pe care \u00eel numim minutul de recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103. \u015ei anume: ne oprim un moment din num\u0103ratul flocilor de pe burt\u0103, sau orice alt\u0103 activitate de carantin\u0103, \u015fi ne g\u00e2ndim, fiecare \u00een parte, la cinci lucruri pentru care putem fi recunosc\u0103tori \u00een acest moment.<\/p>\n

Pentru mine, acestea vor fi:<\/p>\n

A) Angaja\u0163ii magazinelor, curierii \u015fi \u015foferii.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ace\u015fti oameni muncesc \u00een continuare full time \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi risc\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u00een fiecare moment pentru ca noi, restul, cei care ne v\u0103ic\u0103rim de declara\u0163ia pe r\u0103spundere proprie, s\u0103 putem s\u0103 fim aproviziona\u0163i cu tot ce ne trebuie, c\u00e2nd ne trebuie.<\/p>\n

A\u015f putea s\u0103 m\u0103 angajez chiar m\u00e2ine la Carrefour-ul de vizavi?<\/p>\n

Sigur.<\/p>\n

Au panou \u00een geam c\u0103 angajeaz\u0103 colegi.<\/p>\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, cu istoricul meu de sinuzite, rinite, bron\u015fite, \u015fi cu imunitatea mea compromis\u0103 care s\u0103 face s\u0103 se lipeasc\u0103 orice viroz\u0103 de mine ca marca de scrisoare, garantat a\u015f lua covid de cum s-ar uita un purt\u0103tor la mine pe furi\u015f \u00een trecere.<\/p>\n

Datorit\u0103 oamenilor care muncesc full-time \u015fi se expun, pot prafao ca mine s\u0103 se carantineze \u015fi s\u0103 evite a deveni focare de infec\u0163ie.<\/p>\n

B) Oportunitatea online de a schimba lucruri.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0103 complimenta la un moment dat maic\u0103-mea cum trec anii peste mine \u015fi nu se schimb\u0103 nimic. Apoi, adaug\u0103: bine, dar tu ai tr\u0103it o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de timp din blog, deci nu ai tras tare.<\/p>\n

“Da, c\u0103 a ridica din nimic un site cu 4000 de cititori pe zi e cacamaca, oricine poate”, r\u0103spund eu pasiv agresiv. “\u015ei atunci de ce nu \u00ee\u0163i faci \u015fi tu site? F\u0103 ca mine \u015fi ob\u0163ine rezultatele mele, c\u0103 nu e mare lucru”.<\/p>\n

Realitatea e c\u0103 da, trebuie b\u0103gat\u0103 munc\u0103 solid\u0103, consistent\u0103, \u015fi strategie de social media planning, dar mai e nevoie \u015fi de un pic de noroc, s\u0103-\u0163i identifici publicul \u015fi s\u0103 te conectezi la oameni.<\/p>\n

E o oportunitate pe care mi-am f\u0103urit-o singur\u0103, de la zero?<\/p>\n

Da.<\/p>\n

Dar e totu\u015fi o oportunitate.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd pot face o mic\u0103 diferen\u0163\u0103 prin intermediul acestei oportunit\u0103\u0163i, tr\u0103iesc o uria\u015f\u0103 satisfac\u0163ie. Pe care nu mi-o poate da nimic altceva.<\/p>\n

C) Via\u0163a pl\u0103cut\u0103 din ultimele dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Da, ok, m-am \u00eengr\u0103\u015fat \u015fi m-am be\u0163iv\u0103nit, dar prilejul de a sta \u00een cas\u0103 cu minunea asta de motan \u015fi de a lua via\u0163a \u00eencet este o pl\u0103cere real\u0103. Mai ales c\u0103 am exact carantina singuratic\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 companioni iritan\u0163i, pe care mi-am dorit-o. Citesc c\u00e2t de stresan\u0163i pot deveni membrii de familie dup\u0103 ore \u00een \u015fir petrecute \u00eempreun\u0103, \u015fi m\u0103 bucur de lini\u015fte, paharul de vin datorat celor de la punctul A \u015fi un film bun pe Netflix.<\/p>\n

\u015eti\u0163i cli\u015feul \u0103la cu timpul care trece turbat de repede, mult mai repede dec\u00e2t trecea pe c\u00e2nd eram noi mici?<\/p>\n

E o percep\u0163ie subiectiv\u0103 datorat\u0103 stresului la care eram supu\u015fi \u015fi nevoii de randament \u00een timp scurt.<\/p>\n

\u00cen aceste dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de carantin\u0103, timpul meu a fost normal. Ca atunci c\u00e2nd eram noi mici.<\/p>\n

D) Internetul\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la Ciuma Neagr\u0103, epidemia sinistr\u0103 care a ucis p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een 200 de milioane de oameni \u00eentre 1347 \u015fi 1351. Chiar \u015fi aceia care \u00ee\u015fi permiteau luxul de a sta izola\u0163i aveau doar patru pere\u0163i \u015fi biblia, \u015fi aceea plin\u0103 de ororile apocalipsei \u015fi alte dr\u0103g\u0103l\u0103\u015fenii de genul. Singur\u0103tatea era absolut\u0103, \u015fi \u00eentreruperea ei echivala cu expunere.<\/p>\n

Noi, acum, avem online-ul. Putem comunica cu al\u0163ii perpetuu. \u00cen scris, vocal, cu imagini. Pl\u0103tit, la telefon, sau gratuit, pe Whatsapp. Putem comunica cu cine vrem noi, cu condi\u0163ia s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi doreasc\u0103 \u015fi cel\u0103lalt comunicarea cu noi.<\/p>\n

Ce bine c\u0103 exist\u0103 internet \u015fi ce bine c\u0103 g\u0103sim mereu vocile altora, la distan\u0163\u0103, s\u0103 ne insufle curaj.<\/p>\n

E) Existen\u0163a animalelor de companie.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Despre motanul meu pufos Pulic\u0103 Splendoaremaxim\u0103 am scris 3563569 de articole \u015fi 6789 de statusuri, \u015fi lumea \u00eenc\u0103 mai vrea. Motanul \u0103sta \u015eTIE \u015fi simte c\u0103 ceva nu e \u00een regul\u0103, de aceea e nedezlipit de mine. \u015ei cum facem carantina \u00eempreun\u0103, nici unul nu avem de unde s\u0103 lu\u0103m nimic.<\/p>\n

Ce lucru minunat e s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti din \u00eent\u00e2mplare anim\u0103lu\u0163ul perfect pentru tine \u015fi s\u0103-l ai al\u0103turi timp de 16 ani, ca pe un fel de \u00eenger p\u0103zitor empatic \u015fi t\u0103cut? Bine, t\u0103cut e un fel de a zice, pentru c\u0103 Pulic\u0103 e foarte vocal. Faza mea preferat\u0103 e c\u00e2nd se duce \u00een baie \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 miaune de acolo, s\u0103 vin s\u0103-l salvez de… whatever du\u015fman imaginar. Sau s\u0103 testeze dac\u0103 vin s\u0103-l salvez just in case.<\/p>\n

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De c\u00e2te ori v\u0103 sim\u0163i\u0163i extrem de low – \u015fi da, unii mai \u015fi pozeaz\u0103 pentru efect melodramatic, sau pentru mila oamenilor, dar unii sunt genuinely low – face\u0163i acest exerci\u0163iu de recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103. V\u0103 mai reseteaz\u0103 de la mindsetul de “aoleleu” – cea mai toxic\u0103 chestie pe care v-o pute\u0163i face vou\u0103 \u00een\u015fiv\u0103 – la mindsetul de “uite ce bine m\u0103 simt cu tot ce am”.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 vre\u0163i, pute\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eel face\u0163i aici cu mine. Ce anume din vie\u0163ile voastre v\u0103 inspir\u0103 recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103? <\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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