{"id":19292,"date":"2020-03-31T13:48:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-31T10:48:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19292"},"modified":"2020-03-31T13:48:27","modified_gmt":"2020-03-31T10:48:27","slug":"putem-vorbi-despre-cat-de-aberanta-e-regula-11-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/putem-vorbi-despre-cat-de-aberanta-e-regula-11-13\/","title":{"rendered":"Putem vorbi despre c\u00e2t de aberant\u0103 e regula 11 – 13?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lol, Loreno, care regul\u0103 11 – 13, c\u0103 \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, str\u0103zile sunt pline de oameni \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, \u00eei v\u0103d de la geam, c\u0103 eu, fraierul, \u021bin carantin\u0103 de la faza de recomandare.
\nDa, \u0219tiu. Chiar ieri, pe la 16, \u00een timp ce m\u0103 duceam cu declara\u021bie \u00een buzunar s\u0103 cump\u0103r m\u00e2ncare, am asistat la urm\u0103toarea scen\u0103: Doi poli\u021bi\u0219ti cu m\u0103\u0219ti pe fa\u021b\u0103, de vorb\u0103 cu dou\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2ne, complet libere de orice protec\u021bie: <\/p>\n

Poli\u021bist (pe un ton pa\u0219nic): Haide\u021bi, doamn\u0103, intra\u021bi \u00een cas\u0103, v\u0103 rog eu frumos.
\nUna dintre b\u0103tr\u00e2ne: Dac\u0103 m\u0103 duci tu \u00een bra\u021be.
\n\u00cencep s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 am\u00e2ndou\u0103.
\nLa faza asta, m-am \u0219i \u00eentristat un pic. C\u00e2t e de nedrept c\u0103 fizicul se rideaz\u0103 \u0219i se ur\u00e2\u021be\u0219te, dar tu pe interior r\u0103m\u00e2i aceea\u0219i persoan\u0103 predispus\u0103 la glume \u0219i cu chef de via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n

\u0218i sincer, dup\u0103 c\u00e2t am tot discutat cu b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd s\u0103-i rog s\u0103 stea acas\u0103, am \u00een\u021beles. E ca un fel de haiduceal\u0103 de v\u00e2rsta a treia, cu care se r\u0103zbun\u0103 pe noi to\u021bi pentru cei 25 de ani de sclavie din comunism. C\u00e2nd li se impuneau cele mai t\u00e2mpite reguli cu cele mai ridicole motiva\u021bii. Tu \u0219i eu am crescut \u00een libertate, ceea ce ni s-a cerut a fost \u00een linii mari rezonabil, iar dac\u0103 n-a fost rezonabil, am avut op\u021biunea s\u0103 ne b\u0103g\u0103m pwlile. Dac\u0103 ei \u00ee\u0219i b\u0103gau pwlile, consecin\u021ba era munca la canal. <\/p>\n

Apoi, mul\u021bi abia a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 covid, s\u0103 le dea peste nas copiilor care-i neglijeaz\u0103, nu-i sun\u0103 \u0219i nu-i ajut\u0103: Vezi, din cauza ta… <\/p>\n

Comunismul a fost o traum\u0103 colectiv\u0103, iar fronda asta a b\u0103tr\u00e2nilor e comportament post-traumatic. Nu vi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 p\u0103\u021bi\u021bi ceva oribil, s\u0103 zicem un abuz de la un partener sau o partener\u0103 \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, \u0219i apoi, c\u00e2nd so\u021bul – so\u021bia de acum spune ceva complet inofensiv, dar care v\u0103 treze\u0219te ca prin farmec amintirea acelei situa\u021bii, s\u0103 resim\u021bi\u021bi brusc o furie turbat\u0103, care v\u0103 ia min\u021bile? <\/p>\n

Eu am fost f\u0103cut\u0103 des proast\u0103, t\u00e2mpit\u0103 \u0219i etc. \u00een copil\u0103rie, ca mecanism educativ. Comenteaz\u0103 acum la o postare a mea “proasto”, as one does, \u0219i m\u0103 teleportezi brusc \u00eenapoi la 7-8 ani, c\u00e2nd maic\u0103-mea proasp\u0103t divor\u021bat\u0103 era cu nervii la p\u0103m\u00e2nt \u0219i din pro\u0219ti, idio\u021bi \u0219i boi nu ne scotea. O s\u0103 fac exact ce n-am putut face atunci de teama palmei p\u0103rinte\u0219ti: o s\u0103-\u021bi iau mor\u021bii \u0219i familia \u00een pul\u0103 lung \u0219i \u00eendesat, s\u0103 nu mai faci prost pe nimeni p\u00e2n\u0103 mori. <\/p>\n

Eu reac\u021bionez post-traumatic la limbaj \u0219i comportament abuziv, iar b\u0103tr\u00e2nii reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 post-traumatic la milit\u0103rie. <\/p>\n

Mbun, dup\u0103 ce am divagat at\u00e2t de lung, hai s\u0103 ne adun\u0103m boii de pe miri\u0219te \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 spun de ce mi se pare aberant intervalul orar 11 – 13 pentru acei b\u0103tr\u00e2ni care chiar respect\u0103 regulile. Sunt \u0219i din \u0103\u0219tia, dar cum stau \u00een casele lor, nu-i vezi \u0219i presupui c\u0103 nu exist\u0103. <\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 ora 11 e una \u0219i aceea\u0219i pentru toat\u0103 lumea, \u0219i dac\u0103 ies to\u021bi la ora 11, – a\u0163i ghicit – se face aglomera\u021bie la ora 11. \u0218i nu e ca \u0219i cum covid ia frumos pauz\u0103 de mas\u0103 \u00eentre 11 – 13. <\/p>\n

Am v\u0103zut de la geam coad\u0103 la magazinul de vizavi, cu b\u0103tr\u00e2nii care respectau carantina, \u0219i ie\u0219iser\u0103 to\u021bi la 11 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ia p\u00e2ine. Magazinul l\u0103sa \u00een\u0103untru c\u00e2te un grupule\u021b, iar restul a\u0219teptau pe trotuar. \u0218i a\u0219teptau lung, pentru c\u0103 cei din\u0103untru se mi\u0219cau \u00eenceti\u0219or, oricum nu se gr\u0103beau nic\u0103ieri \u0219i, o dat\u0103 pensionar, pierzi complet respect pentru valoarea timpului, mai ales pentru valoarea timpului altora. <\/p>\n

St\u0103teau b\u0103tr\u00e2neii mei la o distan\u021b\u0103 la \u00eenceput ok, dar pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce au \u00eenceput s\u0103 povesteasc\u0103, evident c\u0103 s-au adunat \u00een grupule\u021b. S\u0103 se vad\u0103, s\u0103 se aud\u0103. Unul s\u0103 fi avut covid din ga\u0219ca aceea, \u0219i la final, garantat \u00eel aveau to\u021bi. <\/p>\n

Al\u021bi b\u0103tr\u00e2ni folosesc aceste dou\u0103 ore s\u0103 se mai plimbe prin parc. “Dar ce nevoie au s\u0103 se plimbe?” perora \u00een mesageria mea privat\u0103 o t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103.
\n\u015ei atunci mi-am dat din nou seama ce neinteligen\u0163i emo\u0163ional sunt oamenii, iar \u015fi iar. Cum nu pot \u00een\u0163elege singur\u0103tatea infinit\u0103 a unui om care n-are net acas\u0103, fie c\u0103 nu-\u015fi permite, fie c\u0103 nu le are cu tehnologia, \u015fi cum nu pot \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 dac\u0103 tu, Gigel, \u00een\u0163epene\u015fti, te ridici un pic, te scuturi \u015fi e\u015fti ca nou, dar la v\u00e2rsta lor, lipsa mi\u015fc\u0103rii duce la degenerarea rapid\u0103 a mobilit\u0103\u0163ii. <\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 ies s\u0103 se plimbe to\u0163i odat\u0103, evident c\u0103 vor ocupa acela\u015fi num\u0103r limitat de b\u0103ncu\u0163e \u015fi vor termina st\u00e2nd bot \u00een bot. <\/p>\n

\u0102ia au animale au \u00een general dou\u0103 runde de pi\u015fare \u015fi c\u0103care cu ele, diminea\u0163a \u015fi seara. Nu la 11, nu la 13. Pulic\u0103 nu necesit\u0103 plimbat, m\u00e2\u0163\u0103 fiind, se ca\u0163\u0103r\u0103 el singur pe unde are chef, dar nevoile \u015fi le face \u015fi el diminea\u0163a \u015fi seara. <\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 ar fi mai fair s\u0103 le dai dou\u0103 ore de \u00eenvoire pe zi, dar s\u0103-i la\u015fi s\u0103 \u015fi le aleag\u0103 singuri. <\/p>\n

A\u015fa, nu \u00eei expui la cele mai mari riscuri exact pe cei care se conformeaz\u0103 regulilor. <\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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Lol, Loreno, care regul\u0103 11 – 13, c\u0103 \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, str\u0103zile sunt pline de oameni \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, \u00eei v\u0103d de la geam, c\u0103 eu,...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18374,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/old-woman-574278_640-e1568185645414.jpg?fit=556%2C361&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19292"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19293,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19292\/revisions\/19293"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}