Mitul c\u0103 pisicile sunt animale reci \u015fi distante a fost creat de narcisi\u015fti. De acele persoane care credeau c\u0103 prin insisten\u0163\u0103 \u015fi futere la icre creezi coerci\u0163ie asupra unei pisici s\u0103 te iubeasc\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 te accepte. <\/p>\n
Realitatea e c\u0103 procesul acesta merge mult mai repede dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i asumi c\u0103 pisica decide \u00een ce ritm vrea s\u0103 se apropie de tine \u015fi o la\u015fi \u00een pace, s\u0103 nu se simt\u0103 amenin\u0163at\u0103, stresat\u0103 \u015fi h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103 se simt\u0103 ca acas\u0103. <\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 ai \u015fi copii, va fi o bun\u0103 lec\u0163ie de r\u0103bdare \u015fi autocontrol pentru ei. <\/p>\n
Pasul 2 e s\u0103 o hr\u0103ne\u015fti tu cu m\u00e2na.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015etii vechiul proverb: Dragostea trece prin stomac? Dac\u0103 prime\u015fte cele trei mese ale zilei din m\u00e2inile tale, iubirea e garantat\u0103. \u015ei pentru tine, activitatea de hr\u0103nire a unei pisici e incredibil de relaxant\u0103. Pisicile sunt prezen\u0163e benefice \u015fi lini\u015ftitoare. <\/p>\n Joac\u0103-te cu ea.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nici m\u0103car nu trebuie s\u0103 intri pe ceva site scump \u015fi s\u0103-i cumperi cine \u015ftie ce juc\u0103rii hipstere\u015fti artizanale de 55 lei bucata. F\u0103 o h\u00e2rtie \u015fomoiog \u015fi leag-o de un b\u0103\u0163 cu o sfoar\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce se relaxeaz\u0103 \u00een casa ta, o s\u0103 se bucure de alergat \u015fi de joac\u0103. Adu p\u0103turica lor \u00een pat cu tine.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pe Pulic\u0103 l-am salvat de pe strad\u0103 sub form\u0103 de pui abandonat. \u00cenc\u0103 avea ochi\u015fori alba\u015ftri deschi\u015fi \u015fi trebuia hr\u0103nit cu lapte praf special. I-am amenajat un co\u015fule\u0163, dar a pl\u00e2ns p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd l-am luat \u00een bra\u0163e \u015fi l-am lipit de mine, a\u015fa cum ar fi f\u0103cut m\u0103-sa. “Ah, dar stai, boli”. <\/p>\n Ah, dar stai. Reparazitare \u015fi vaccinuri obligatorii c\u00e2nd o iei, apoi periodic. <\/p>\n Respect\u0103-i me-time.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cum ziceam, pisica e mai complicat\u0103 \u015fi mai individualist\u0103 dec\u00e2t un c\u00e2ine, \u015fi, periodic, vrea s\u0103 stea singur\u0103, s\u0103 se uite pe geam, s\u0103 se urce pe dulap sau pe un raft pe care i-l amenajezi tu pe post de “cat stop” undeva deasupra \u015fi s\u0103 chill \u00een singur\u0103tate. Respect\u0103 asta \u015fi las-o \u00een pace. C\u00e2nd \u00eencepe s\u0103 se frece de tine, las-o s\u0103 seteze ea nivelul de apropiere.<\/strong> Nu, asta nu e o permisiune care se \u00een\u0163elege de la sine din prima. Imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i c\u0103 vine King Kong la tine \u015fi te ia pe sus. C\u00e2t de confortabil e, dac\u0103 nu \u015ftii sigur c\u0103 King Kong e bl\u00e2nd cu tine \u015fi are inten\u0163ii afectuoase? <\/p>\n Pisicile fug de noi \u015fi de ascund pentru c\u0103 sunt vulnerabile, pentru c\u0103 noi suntem imen\u015fi \u015fi pentru c\u0103 tehnic, le putem strivi sau ucide cu un singur gest, dac\u0103 ne propunem asta. Las\u0103-le s\u0103 se acomodeze \u00een ritmul lor, s\u0103 descopere singure c\u0103 le purt\u0103m de grij\u0103 \u015fi nu vrem r\u0103ul lor, ofer\u0103-le din m\u00e2na ta m\u00e2ncare \u015fi joac\u0103, s\u0103 te asocieze cu experien\u0163e pl\u0103cute \u015fi, lent, pas cu pas, vei ajunge s\u0103 te iubeasc\u0103. <\/p>\n Niciodat\u0103 necondi\u0163ionat dar plm. Iubire necondi\u0163ionat\u0103 vor doar abuzivii \u015fi fomi\u015ftii. \u0102ia care \u015ftiu c\u0103 nu pot oferi calitate \u00e0 la longue. Eu, care \u00eemi voi hr\u0103ni mereu pisica cu ce e mai bun \u015fi m\u0103 voi juca mereu cu ea, \u015fi o voi duce mereu la vet \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe, sunt perfect ok cu iubirea condi\u0163ionat\u0103. \u015ei asta pentru c\u0103 \u00eendeplinesc condi\u0163iile. <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u0103utam eu \u00een diminea\u021ba asta un subiect, pentru c\u0103 aveam mintea seac\u0103 \u0219i somnolent\u0103 de at\u00e2ta stat \u00een cas\u0103. It gets to you. 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\nE ora mesei. Iei o cutioar\u0103 de hran\u0103 umed\u0103 bun\u0103, sau fierbi ni\u015fte carne de pui cu ni\u015fte morcov \u015fi le amesteci bine, iei farfurioara cu m\u00e2ncare \u015fi o linguri\u0163\u0103 \u015fi o chemi: Pis – pis – pis.
\nC\u00e2nd va sim\u0163i miros de m\u00e2ncare bun\u0103, mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t boabele uscate, o s\u0103 vin\u0103 la \u00eenceput ezitant spre tine. O s\u0103 adulmece linguri\u0163a pe care o \u00eentinzi spre ea, o s\u0103 se uite suspicios spre ea \u015fi spre tine, o s\u0103 se retrag\u0103, dar \u00een cele din urm\u0103, foamea o va \u00eenvinge. O s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce tot din linguri\u0163\u0103.
\nUrm\u0103toarea o \u00eentinzi mult mai aproape de tine, \u015fi a\u015fa, treptat, cu r\u0103bdare \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 gesturi agresive, obi\u015fnuie\u015fti pisica s\u0103 se apropie de tine, c\u0103 nu e\u015fti un pericol \u015fi e\u015fti sursa m\u00e2nc\u0103rurilor mai bune.
\nLa un moment dat, o vei hr\u0103ni \u00een poal\u0103.
\nBondingul prin m\u00e2ncare e ncredibil de eficient. Toat\u0103 lumea iube\u015fte un bun buc\u0103tar. Dac\u0103 unul din prietenii t\u0103i scoate mereu o pizza proasp\u0103t\u0103 sau o musaca aburind\u0103 c\u00e2nd vii \u00een vizit\u0103, o s\u0103 cau\u0163i motive s\u0103 mai treci pe la el. <\/p>\n
\nRezerv\u0103-\u0163i zilnic m\u0103car o jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 de joac\u0103 cu pisica ta. Caut\u0103 jocuri pe net. Sunt destule. Ca \u015fi m\u00e2ncarea, joaca creeaz\u0103 conexiune \u015fi e totodat\u0103 un bun antrenament fizic.
\nNu uita c\u0103 la baz\u0103 felinele sunt v\u00e2n\u0103tori. Dac\u0103 le \u0163ii acas\u0103, \u015fi nu te joci suficient cu ele, o s\u0103-\u0163i zg\u00e2rie mobila \u015fi o s\u0103-\u0163i ascund\u0103 obiecte personale.<\/p>\n
\n\u015ei realitatea e c\u0103 dormitul al\u0103turi de o pisic\u0103 e printre principalele beneficii secrete de care te bucuri c\u00e2nd ai pisic\u0103. Sunt ni\u015fte animale moi \u015fi lini\u015ftite, care dorm ad\u00e2nc \u015fi respir\u0103 regulat \u015fi calm, \u015fi cumva, te trag \u015fi pe tine la cel mai bun \u015fi odihnitor somn din via\u0163a ta.
\nDac\u0103 m\u00e2\u0163a adoptat\u0103 de tine e deja adult\u0103, dar e dintr-o alt\u0103 cas\u0103, e mai greu s-o obi\u015fnuie\u015fti s\u0103 doamn\u0103 cu tine, dar nu imposibil. Dac\u0103 are o p\u0103tur\u0103 a ei, \u00een culciu\u015ful pe care i l-ai amenajat, pune p\u0103tura pe pat, l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine. O s\u0103 vin\u0103. Lor le place c\u0103ldura corpului omenesc \u015fi faptul c\u0103 suntem mai mari \u015fi le protej\u0103m de ipoteticii vr\u0103jma\u015fi – nou\u0103 ne place lini\u015ftea aproape hipnotic\u0103 a pisicii adormite.
\nDouble win. <\/p>\n
\nMie \u00eemi convine c\u0103 Pulic\u0103 nu m\u0103 streseaz\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua cu nevoie de iubire, c\u0103 nu sunt genul \u0103la de om.
\nSunt o cat-person. <\/p>\n
\nExemple:
\nDac\u0103 se freac\u0103 de m\u00e2na ta, e semn c\u0103 po\u0163i \u00eencepe \u015fi tu s-o m\u00e2ng\u00e2i, dar c\u00e2te pu\u0163in \u015fi numai c\u00e2t arat\u0103 c\u0103 le e confortabil.
\nDac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i sar \u00een poal\u0103, \u015fi stau ele de bun\u0103 voie c\u00e2teva minute, e semn c\u0103 le po\u0163i ridica de la podea \u015fi s\u0103 le \u0163ii \u00een poal\u0103. <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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