TROLLYWOOD: \u00cen ce lun\u0103 e\u015fti acum \u015fi c\u00e2nd ai aflat c\u0103 e\u015fti gravid\u0103?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Lavinia: Am 13 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Trei luni \u015fi ceva. Am aflat pe la mijlocul lui februarie. Eu am avut mereu un ciclu reglat de un ceas nem\u021besc, a\u0219a c\u0103, la 12 ore dup\u0103 ce nu a ap\u0103rut, am \u0219i intrat \u00een panic mode.<\/p>\n Nu \u00ee\u0163i doreai un copil \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103? \ud83d\ude00<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Sigur c\u0103 da, Americanii au zis c\u0103 bombardeaz\u0103 Iranul, Australia a zis c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 foc, chinezii au m\u00e2ncat liliacul, iar eu am zis : ce naiba, hai s\u0103 fac un copil \ud83d\ude42 \u00cen februarie, c\u00e2nd ai descoperit c\u0103 erai gravid\u0103, care era politica englezilor fa\u0163\u0103 de Covid?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00cen Februarie nici nu se prea \u0219tia mare lucru de Covid, auzisem c\u0103 e e pr\u0103p\u0103d prin Asia, dar nu \u00ee\u0219i imagina nimeni atunci c\u0103 lucrurile au s\u0103 evolueze at\u00e2t de repede. Englezii nu au nici acum o politic\u0103 prea strict\u0103 legat\u0103 de acest subiect, ei au fost cei care au implementat cel mai t\u00e2rziu m\u0103surile de distan\u021bare social\u0103.<\/p>\n Care a fost impactul imediat al sarcinii asupra vie\u0163ii voastre?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Primul impact a fost: nu, n-are cum, e stricat b\u0103\u021bul \ud83d\ude00 apoi, dup\u0103 ce l-am b\u0103tut pe Marius cu c\u0103ciula, am avut nevoie de o perioad\u0103 de vreo dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni ca s\u0103 m\u0103 adaptez. A fost un proces de adaptare de la panic\u0103 ini\u0163ial\u0103 la asumarea situa\u0163iei? <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n O s\u0103 fiu sincer\u0103. Nu am fost niciodat\u0103 genul acela de persoan\u0103 care s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doreasc\u0103 copii. C\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103, nu m\u0103 jucam cu p\u0103pu\u0219ile de-a mama, c\u00e2nd am crescut nu m-am gr\u0103bit s\u0103 m\u0103 m\u0103rit \u0219i s\u0103 fac repede-repede copii. Nu am t\u00e2njit c\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut c\u0103 prietenele mele se joac\u0103 cu odraslele. A nu se \u00een\u021belege gre\u0219it, nu am o problem\u0103 cu copiii, doar c\u0103 nu m-am v\u0103zut eu pe mine niciodat\u0103 \u00een postura asta. E \u00een regul\u0103. \u015fi chiar mul\u0163umesc c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i descrii aceste tr\u0103iri, de aceea te \u015fi invit s\u0103 vorbim despre subiect. e profund neinteresant s\u0103 \u00een\u015fir cli\u015fee cu o “gravidu\u0163\u0103” fericit\u0103.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n AFAR\u0102!<\/p>\n Nu-mi d\u0103 voie Iohannis afar\u0103, lol. <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Primul lucru pe care l-am f\u0103cut, c\u00e2nd am aflat, a fost s\u0103 banez cuv\u00e2ntul “gravidu\u021b\u0103” din casa mea. At\u00e2t pe el, c\u00e2t \u0219i orice alt diminutiv cretin gen burticu\u021b\u0103, m\u00e2nc\u0103ric\u0103, c\u0103c\u0103\u021bic\u0103 etc.<\/p>\n Cine voia s\u0103 le foloseasc\u0103?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Mult\u0103 lume \u00een jurul meu. Mama a fost prima care a primit \u00een\u0219tiin\u021barea. ))<\/p>\n \u015ei presupun c\u0103 ea s-a bucurat.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Da, a \u0219i desf\u0103cut o \u0219ampanie pe care o avea prin cas\u0103, \u00een timp ce vorbea cu mine pe Whatsapp. \u0218i tata a pl\u00e2ns, de\u0219i el zice c\u0103 nu \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n \u00cen timp ce tu?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Acela a fost tristul moment c\u00e2nd am realizat c\u0103 eu nu mai am voie s\u0103 beau. Sau s\u0103 fumez. Impactul acela a fost \u0219i mai mare, c\u0103ci am trecut brusc de la un pachet pe zi la jumate, apoi la cinci \u021big\u0103ri \u0219i tot a\u0219a.<\/p>\n Cum ai ajuns la acceptare? <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Treptat. Mult\u0103 conversa\u021bie \u00eentre mine \u0219i Marius. Am analizat tot, de la cum are s\u0103 ni se schimbe rutina noastr\u0103, la bani, la unde naiba punem patul copilului, la eterna rug\u0103: d\u0103 doamne s\u0103 fie bine, nu conteaz\u0103 ce e, fat\u0103-b\u0103iat, s\u0103n\u0103tos s\u0103 fie. \u015ei \u00een niciun caz gemeni (Marius provine dintr-o familie cu multe genera\u021bii de gemeni, inclusiv el are frate geam\u0103n).<\/p>\n Auzisem de Covid de prin ianuarie, dar aici, panica a ap\u0103rut pe la jum\u0103tatea lunii martie. Atunci a \u00eenceput lumea s\u0103 cumpere tot ce a prins, conserve, ap\u0103 \u00eembuteliat\u0103, h\u00e2rtie igienic\u0103.<\/p>\n A\u0219a ar\u0103tau rafturile pe la final de martie aici.<\/p>\n Cum a reac\u021bionat englezul de r\u00e2nd la politica ini\u021bial\u0103, cea de “imunizare”?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Sincer, ca \u0219i rom\u00e2nul de r\u00e2nd. Ce prostie e asta, acest virus nu exist\u0103, e fake news. Mint \u0103\u0219tia ca s\u0103 ne \u00eenchid\u0103 pub-urile \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai avem noi pe unde s\u0103 ie\u0219im.<\/p>\n Reac\u021bia ta care a fost?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Am fost undeva mai la mijloc, nici b\u0103tut\u0103-n cap s\u0103 cred c\u0103 e m\u00e2na reptilienilor la mijloc, nici s\u0103 iau cu asalt magazinele \u00een c\u0103utare de conserve \u0219i dezinfectant. Da, m\u0103 protejez, pentru c\u0103 e normal s\u0103 o faci, mi-am anulat excursia din aprile (voiam s\u0103 vin dup\u0103 Pa\u0219te acas\u0103) apoi la \u00eenceput de mai s\u0103 merg la veri\u0219oara mea. \u00cen Italia. Poate vrei s\u0103 faci interviu cu ea: cum e s\u0103 stai \u00een Lombardia cu doi copii mici \u00een perioada asta.<\/p>\n Sunt absolut deschis\u0103 \u015fi pare un subiect bun. C\u00e2nd s-a trecut de la imunizare la carantin\u0103 ca \u00een restul lumii, cum s-a sim\u021bit asta de la fa\u021ba locului?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Crezi c\u0103 doar rom\u00e2nul e inventiv \u0219i p\u0103c\u0103le\u0219te sistemul ca s\u0103 ias\u0103 din cas\u0103? Aici li s-a dat voie s\u0103 ias\u0103 doar pentru cump\u0103r\u0103turi, s\u0103 plimbe animalele sau o dat\u0103 pe zi, la jogging. Eu stau chiar vis-a-vis de un parc mare, \u00eei v\u0103d toat\u0103 ziua la pove\u0219ti \u00een parc, \u00eembr\u0103ca\u021bi \u00een haine de sport \u0219i se fac c\u0103 alearg\u0103 c\u00e2nd trece poli\u021bia, apoi revin la discu\u021bii, am un vecin care \u00ee\u0219i plimb\u0103 zilnic iepurele \u00een parc, iar la \u0219tiri l-am v\u0103zut pe unul cum plimba un acvariu. Tu \u015fi Marius c\u00e2t de serios respecta\u0163i carantina?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n S\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 eu am ie\u0219it rar din cas\u0103 \u00een perioada asta. Azi am fost s\u0103 fac ceva cump\u0103r\u0103turi, dar \u00een rest nu. El, pe de alt\u0103 parte, e considerat aici key-worker, c\u0103 lucreaz\u0103 \u00een domeniul livr\u0103rilor, a\u0219a c\u0103 merge zilnic la munc\u0103. Avem un bax de m\u0103nu\u0219i de unic\u0103 folosin\u021b\u0103, m\u0103\u0219ti, dezinfectant primit de la depozitul pentru care lucreaz\u0103, deci nu ie\u0219im din cas\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 echipament.<\/p>\n Ce po\u0163i face tu \u00een izolare, pentru sarcina ta \u015fi, \u00een afara ei, pentru tine? <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 fac p\u00e2ine, pr\u0103jituri, fac zumba singur\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103 (\u00eenainte mergeam la sal\u0103, dar acum nu pot din cauza carantinei, plus c\u0103 nu mai pot face exerci\u021bii intense din cauza sarcinii). Pentru sarcin\u0103 fac exerci\u021bii mai u\u0219oare de fitness, s\u0103 nu \u00eemi ies a\u0219a r\u0103u din form\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-mi fie mai u\u0219or dup\u0103 s\u0103 revin la greutatea ini\u021bial\u0103, m\u0103n\u00e2nc mai s\u0103n\u0103tos, de altfel prima poft\u0103 pe care am avut-o a fost salat\u0103 de spanac cu rucola \ud83d\ude00 . Iau vitamine. Exist\u0103 m\u0103suri suplimentare de grij\u0103 \u015fi preven\u0163ie pentru femei gravide? Sau e cazul s\u0103 existe?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Gravidelor, exact ca \u0219i v\u00e2rstnicilor, li s-a recomandat izolarea la domiciliu pe perioada asta, \u00een rest nimic special. DIn p\u0103cate, cum NHS-ul (National Health Service) e mega \u00eenc\u0103rcat cu pacien\u021bii de COVID, s-a renun\u021bat la servicile care nu sunt considerate urgen\u0163e, cum ar fi eco pentru gravide dac\u0103 nu e sarcin\u0103 cu risc.<\/p>\n Deci, practic, nu vei avea parte deloc de supraveghere medical\u0103 pe perioada sarcinii?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Am primit o moa\u0219\u0103, iar ea se ocup\u0103 s\u0103 fie totul ok. M\u0103 cheam\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi ia s\u00e2nge\/urin\u0103, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 totul e normal. Aici e diferit, prime\u0219ti o moa\u0219\u0103 c\u00e2nd te duci s\u0103 te \u00eenregistrezi, iar ea \u00ee\u021bi face analize, program\u0103ri \u0219i dac\u0103 na\u0219terea e natural\u0103, nici nu vezi vreodat\u0103 un doctor, cu ea na\u0219ti. Doar \u00een caz de cezarian\u0103 vine un doctor. Stai, ce? O s\u0103 na\u015fti acas\u0103?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Nu, na\u0219ti \u00een spital, doar c\u0103 nu vine un doctor, vine moa\u0219a. Partea proast\u0103, aici, e c\u0103 ai concediu maternal pl\u0103tit doar c\u00e2teva luni, nu doi ani ca \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, deci exist\u0103 \u0219i minusuri.<\/p>\n Acum, pe vremea pandemiei, c\u00e2t e de riscant s\u0103 na\u015fti \u00een spital?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Nu \u0219tiu, sper s\u0103 treac\u0103 pandemia p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een octombrie, c\u00e2nd am eu termenul.<\/p>\n Practic, tot ce ai \u00een acest moment e speran\u0163a?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Ceva de genul \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n C\u0103r\u0163ile Laviniei pot fi achizi\u0163ionate aici<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Tuturor ne place s\u0103 ne pl\u00e2ngem zilele astea: c\u0103 st\u0103m prost cu banii, c\u0103 nu avem contracte, c\u0103 st\u0103m \u00een cas\u0103 (cei \u00een carantin\u0103)...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19378,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/l2-e1586992633118.jpg?fit=2048%2C1576&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19376","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19376"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19376\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19388,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19376\/revisions\/19388"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19378"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nNu a fost planificat, sincer. A fost prima gre\u0219eal\u0103 de calcul \u00een 14 ani.<\/p>\n
\n\u0218tiu c\u0103 mai toate fetele se bucur\u0103, sar \u00een sus, alea-alea, dar la mine a fost pu\u021bin pe dos.<\/p>\n
\nAveam alte planuri vara asta, ni\u0219te bilete pe la concerte rock, vacan\u021be planificate… Bine alea oricum s-ar fi anulat din cauza Covid-ului, dar zic a\u0219a, s\u0103-\u021bi faci o idee. Nu aveam \u00een plan s\u0103 devin mam\u0103.<\/p>\n
\nC\u00e2nd au ap\u0103rut \u00een via\u0163a voastr\u0103 primele \u015ftiri legate de Covid?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\nCred c\u0103 diferen\u021ba dintre noi \u0219i ei e la produsele cump\u0103rate din magazine. \u00cen timp ce la noi g\u0103se\u0219ti greu f\u0103in\u0103, m\u0103lai \u0219i drojdie, la ei se bat pe conserve de sup\u0103 gata f\u0103cut\u0103, p\u00e2ine congelat\u0103 \u0219i paste. Englezii (desigur nu to\u021bi) nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103, c\u00e2nd li se termin\u0103 conservele, atunci s\u0103 vezi panic\u0103 pe ei. P\u00e2n\u0103 acum, tragedia cea mai mare a fost c\u00e2nd s-au \u00eenchis McDonalds \u015fi KFC.<\/p>\n
\nA, \u0219i m-am apucat de pictat. \ud83d\ude1b
\nNu \u00eemi schimb profilul artistic, doar am vrut s\u0103 \u00eencerc ceva nou.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/l1.jpg?ssl=1\")
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\nAm f\u0103cut \u0219i un clip idiot<\/a><\/strong> pentru Youtube cu ce po\u021bi s\u0103 faci c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti izolat. \u0218i ca s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 \u0219i restul lumii are ce face am pus la dispozi\u021bie gratis<\/a><\/strong> primul meu roman, Ultimul avanpost, pe site-ul celor de la Herg Benet.<\/p>\n
\nA, \u0219i e gratis, f\u0103r\u0103 dat bani \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i-n dreapta. F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 aduci vat\u0103 de acas\u0103, sau spirt, c\u0103 nu e \u00een spital, \u0219i prime\u0219ti timp de 2 ani asigurare dentar\u0103 gratis.<\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n
\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n