{"id":19416,"date":"2020-04-22T11:32:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T08:32:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19416"},"modified":"2020-04-22T11:32:01","modified_gmt":"2020-04-22T08:32:01","slug":"oportunistele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/oportunistele\/","title":{"rendered":"Oportunistele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ieri, am scris un text despre starea emo\u021bional\u0103 a b\u0103tr\u00e2nilor. \u0218i se \u00eenfige la cuv\u00e2nt una. C\u0103 “de\u015fi nu \u00eemi plac textele tale despre drepturile femeilor \u015fi limbajul dur, mi-ai c\u00e2\u015ftigat respectul cu acest text.<\/p>\n

Acum, cine m\u0103 \u015ftie de ceva vreme, \u015ftie c\u00e2t de tare m\u0103 irit\u0103 atitudinea “\u00ee\u0163i fac o imens\u0103 favoare c\u0103 te bag \u00een seam\u0103”, mai ales de la oameni care nu reprezint\u0103 nimic pentru mine. \u00cen general, e bine s\u0103 faci pe buricul p\u0103m\u00e2ntului c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt e cu basca \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 la u\u015fa ta, nu c\u00e2nd tu e\u015fti cu basca \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 la u\u015fa lor. Deci, am pornit la lectura comentariului cu o u\u015foar\u0103 iritare de la prezum\u0163ia c\u0103 am dus vreo lupt\u0103 s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftig respectul cuiva necunoscut de pe net.<\/p>\n

\u00cen schimb, partea la care individa a pierdut complet respectul meu – \u015fi ea e \u00een sec\u0163iunea mea de comentarii, nu eu cu miloaga \u00een anticamera ei – e punctul \u00een care a afirmat c\u0103 o deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 scriu despre drepturile femeilor.<\/p>\n

Deci, s\u0103 dezvolt\u0103m.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 Vulpescu, Sulea Sp\u0103taru sau orice alt b\u0103rbat de 50 de ani cu vizibile probleme emo\u0163ionale \u015fi morale se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenjure feminismul, e practic un mod de a recunoa\u015fte c\u0103 unicul mod \u00een care mai dau \u015fi ei de ni\u015fte pxzd\u0103 e s\u0103 confi\u015fti consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntul de la femeie.<\/p>\n

E o declara\u0163ie \u00een alb: “Subsemna\u0163ii cutare, fiii lui \u015fi lui, declar\u0103m prin prezenta c\u0103 nu vrea nimeni s\u0103 ne fxt\u0103 de bun\u0103 voie \u015fi nesilit\u0103 de societate, de aceea vrem ca femeia s\u0103 nu mai fie feminist\u0103, aka cu arma op\u0163iunii \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, ci feminin\u0103, adic\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 job, f\u0103r\u0103 bani ai ei \u015fi, ca atare, expus\u0103 \u015fi u\u015for de luat f\u0103r\u0103 mari eforturi.”<\/p>\n

Da, e lame, e jenant, dar po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi pe undeva. Un gras ur\u00e2t de 50 de ani va fxte femei tinere \u015fi frumoase abia \u00een ziua \u00een care pl\u0103te\u015fte o sex workeri\u0163\u0103 sau se \u00eentoarce Evul Mediu \u015fi le cump\u0103r\u0103 de la ta\u0163ii lor.<\/p>\n

Ce, mie nu mi-ar conveni s\u0103 fie botoxul \u015fi acidul hialuronic gratis? Ba mi-ar conveni. Totu\u015fi, pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg c\u0103 produsele de calitate \u015fi manopera care face s\u0103 nu ar\u0103\u0163i ca o p\u0103pu\u015f\u0103 de plastic made in China cost\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t o injec\u0163ie cu silicon industrial f\u0103cut\u0103 de doi b\u0103ie\u0163i de culoare \u00een col\u0163ul mai ferit al maidanului.<\/p>\n

\u0102\u015ftia nu pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103. Ghinionul lor.<\/p>\n

Dar c\u00e2nd persoana care neag\u0103 drepturile femeilor este o alt\u0103 femeie, nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i spun vac\u0103 tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u015fi oportunist\u0103. \u015ei iat\u0103 de ce.<\/p>\n

Istoric, femeile nu aveau nici un drept. Erau \u0163inute prin case ca ni\u015fte mobile, educa\u0163ia lor consta \u00een a se temeni frumos la domni, c\u0103 poate se milostive\u015fte vreunul s\u0103 le ia de neveste, menajul casei \u015fi f\u0103tatul. \u00cenc\u0103 mai auzi de la imbecili ur\u0103ri de opt martie cu: Pentru rolul vostru de neveste \u015fi mame.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 sugereze c\u0103 \u00een rest, nu e\u015fti nimic.<\/p>\n

Cu ce te deosebeai de o g\u0103in\u0103 ou\u0103toare? Doar prin faptul c\u0103 pe la finalul vie\u0163ii nu te t\u0103iau s\u0103 te fac\u0103 ciorb\u0103.<\/p>\n

De aici \u015fi legendara r\u0103utate a babelor. La v\u00e2rsta a treia, te cam prinzi c\u0103 ai risipit cei mai buni ani slug\u0103rind pe al\u0163ii, c\u0103 n-ai tr\u0103it pentru tine nici o secund\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 dincolo de moarte nu mai e nimic.<\/p>\n

OK.<\/p>\n

Datorit\u0103 femeilor inteligente \u015fi ambi\u0163ioase, care doreau o educa\u0163ie \u015fi control asupra propriilor vie\u0163i, \u015fi – important – b\u0103rba\u0163ilor suficient de inteligen\u0163i \u015fi empatici \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 femeile sunt oameni cu sentimente \u015fi nevoi, nu material de tras \u00een pxl\u0103 \u015fi fabric\u0103 de copii \u015fi sandvi\u015furi – s-a ajuns \u00eentr-un punct \u00een care: ai dreptul s\u0103-\u0163i alegi cariera, ai dreptul s\u0103-\u0163i alegi b\u0103rbatul, sau celibatul, de\u015fi mai comenteaz\u0103 unii aiurea la op\u0163iunea de celibat, dar dreptul exist\u0103. Ai dreptul s\u0103 pleci, dac\u0103 b\u0103rbatul te bate, te minte, te \u00een\u015feal\u0103 sau te manipuleaz\u0103. Ai dreptul s\u0103 \u00eencepi o via\u0163\u0103 nou\u0103. Custodia copiilor, \u00een caz de divor\u0163, \u0163i se acord\u0103 preferen\u0163ial \u0163ie. Ai o mul\u0163ime de drepturi \u015fi de libert\u0103\u0163i. cum n-au avut femeile \u00een nici o perioad\u0103 istoric\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar subliniez, toate acestea au fost posibile pentru c\u0103 ni\u015fte femei \u015fi ni\u015fte b\u0103rba\u0163i au luptat pentru ele<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Dar dup\u0103 cum dovede\u015fte istoria, exist\u0103 o ciclicitate a raporturilor umane. Dup\u0103 un libertinaj relaxat, ca acela al Romei, a urmat \u00eenchistarea extrem\u0103 \u015fi fanatismul religios al Evului Mediu. Drepturile femeilor, ale s\u0103racilor, ale persoanelor de culoare \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe, pot fi confiscate oric\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 se adun\u0103 suficien\u0163i nebuni tic\u0103lo\u015fi \u015fi vocea lor devine suficient de conving\u0103toare. S\u0103 nu ne ducem prea departe. Ajunge s\u0103 studiem cum, \u00een superba perioad\u0103 interbelic\u0103, a prins autoritate \u015fi amploare sinistra doctrin\u0103 nazist\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ei bine, \u00een condi\u0163iile astea, s\u0103 fii femeie \u015fi s\u0103 nu-\u0163i pese de drepturile femeilor echivaleaz\u0103 cu a fi o vac\u0103 tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u015fi oportunist\u0103, care se folose\u015fte cu neru\u015finare de tot ce au ob\u0163inut surorile ei \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii lumina\u0163i pentru ea, dar totodat\u0103, \u00eempinge c\u0103ru\u0163a istoriei \u00eenapoi, f\u0103r\u0103 a se g\u00e2ndi ce poate \u00eensemna asta pentru eventuale genera\u0163ii urm\u0103toare de femei.<\/p>\n

A\u015f vrea s\u0103 am putere s\u0103 le teleportez pe vacile astea tic\u0103loase \u015fi oportuniste \u00eenapoi \u00eentr-o epoc\u0103 \u00een care drepturile femeilor nu existau. S\u0103 se confrunte direct cu cu\u015fca social\u0103 \u00een care erau \u00eenchise femeile \u00een acele timpuri. S\u0103 stea o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eendure interminabile umilin\u0163e pentru ghinionul de a se fi n\u0103scut cu o pxzd\u0103. \u015ei apoi s\u0103 le readuc \u00eenapoi, la via\u0163a lor confortabil\u0103 de acum, la jobul unde beau cafele \u015fi b\u00e2rfesc toat\u0103 ziua, la parfumurile scumpe, hainele confortabile croite pe corpul lor \u015fi ma\u015fina proprietate personal\u0103, la telefonul de ultim model \u015fi Instagramul plin de poze din ultima lor vacan\u0163\u0103 exotic\u0103, unde s-au fxtut cu cine au ales ele, nu cu cine ar fi avut chef s\u0103 le pun\u0103 capr\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103 le \u00eentreb:<\/p>\n

-Ia zi, f\u0103, vac\u0103 tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u015fi oportunist\u0103, sunt importante drepturile femeilor sau nu?<\/p>\n

Uite, \u0103sta chiar ar fi plotline-ul unui poten\u0163ial film. Cam scump ca buget, c\u0103 presupune scene de epoc\u0103, dar al naibii de satisf\u0103c\u0103tor.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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