{"id":19422,"date":"2020-04-24T09:27:20","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:27:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19422"},"modified":"2020-04-24T09:32:12","modified_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:32:12","slug":"momentul-introvertitului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/momentul-introvertitului\/","title":{"rendered":"Momentul introvertitului"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Povesteam ieri cu o prieten\u0103 pe care o sunasem s\u0103-i urez la mul\u021bi ani. St\u0103team la o bere virtual\u0103 \u0219i virtuoas\u0103. Poate chiar o Corona, haha. \u0218i cum st\u0103team noi la p\u0103l\u0103vr\u0103geal\u0103, stabileam \u00een glum\u0103 cum virusul \u0103sta a venit ca un fel de karma pentru toate grupurile extremiste.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i nu, nu credem nici c\u0103 a fost natura care s-a r\u0103zbunat, nici c\u0103 a fost un laborator malefic care \u0219i-a pus \u00een cap s\u0103 reteze domina\u021bia economic\u0103 a Chinei, pentru c\u0103 nu suntem fani ai conspira\u021biilor. Pur \u0219i simplu ne amuz\u0103m de situa\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pe de o parte, China. Prima putere mondial\u0103<\/strong>. \u021aara cu cea mai mare productivitate la hectar. \u021aara care a atins cincinalul \u00een patru ani \u0219i un sfert. Dar \u0219tim cu to\u021bii \u00een ce condi\u021bii. Cele mai abjecte condi\u021bii de munc\u0103. Zero drepturi pentru angaja\u021bi. Exploatare comunist\u0103 dezumanizant\u0103. Cele mai proaste materiale de produc\u021bie. Cele mai ieftine produse, care se stric\u0103 din trei utiliz\u0103ri \u0219i trebuie \u00eenlocuite.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m \u00een rapoartele interna\u021bionale legate de Covid, China raporteaz\u0103 82.000 de cazuri, de\u0219i tot at\u00e2tea avea \u00een ianuarie. Habar n-am ce au f\u0103cut. N-au mai consemnat cazuri de atunci? Au ars to\u021bi bolnavii de vii \u0219i i-au folosit ca materie prim\u0103 s\u0103 produc\u0103 diamante chineze\u0219ti? NU \u0218TIU.<\/p>\n<p>Cert e c\u0103 pe viitor, eu voi prefera s\u0103 investesc mai mult \u00een tot ce folosesc \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 tot ce cump\u0103r e produs oriunde altcineva. \u0218i o parte a popula\u021biei, sper, va proceda ca mine. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Dreapta extremist\u0103. <\/strong> To\u021bi cei care negau existen\u021ba virusului, to\u021bi partizanii imuniz\u0103rii, to\u021bi l\u0103barii cu aere de las-c\u0103-\u0219tiu-io-mai-bine au ajuns acum s\u0103 prelungeasc\u0103 regulamentele \u0219i legile de distan\u021bare social\u0103, pentru c\u0103 boala asta calc\u0103, nu fwte. C\u00e2nd \u00eensu\u0219i premierul britanic Boris Johnson a f\u0103cut Covid, mi-a pulsat un pic clitorisul de pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Manosfera \u0219i alt rightul.<\/strong> Toate aceste gunoaie abjecte \u0219i misogine care s-au \u00eenh\u0103itat prin 2012 \u0219i au devenit mainstream prin 2015 &#8211; 2016 cu discursul lor antifemeie, \u0219i cum femeia e mai slab\u0103 \u0219i cade mereu prima, \u0219i tocmai de aceea e cet\u0103\u021bean secund ca valoare \u0219i-au primit r\u0103splata: O BOAL\u0102 CARE AFECTEAZ\u0102 PRIMORDIAL B\u0102RBA\u021aI.<\/p>\n<p>Cine e slab acum, curve mici \u0219i obraznice?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i nu m\u0103 refer la b\u0103rba\u021bii ok, respectu\u0219i \u0219i de bun sim\u021b, ci la zombies sp\u0103la\u021bi pe creier de idei alt right care m-au stresat de at\u00e2tea ori cu duma expirat\u0103 a superiorit\u0103\u021bii b\u0103rbatului. So, mai \u00eentreb o dat\u0103: CINE E SLAB ACUM, T\u00c2R\u00c2TURILOR?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dar \u0219i extrema opus\u0103 \u0219i-a primit lec\u021bioara, c\u0103 <strong>femeile au ajuns toate la crati\u021b\u0103 \u0219i la<\/strong><\/strong> <strong>mop. <\/strong>Poate n-am f\u0103cut cu m\u00e2nu\u021bele mele personale at\u00e2ta m\u00e2ncare \u0219i cur\u0103\u021benie \u00een ultimii doi ani \u00eenn\u0103dit. C\u0103 nu st\u0103team acas\u0103. Dar c\u00e2nd stai acas\u0103, nu ai de ales. Faci curat, sau stai \u00een jeg. Nu po\u021bi pune de o cafea, b\u0103ga lenjeria de pat la un sp\u0103lat rapid p\u00e2n\u0103 termini cafeaua, \u00eentins pe usc\u0103tor, plecat, venit seara, g\u0103sit lenjerie curat\u0103, \u00eentins, culcat \u0219i restul casei mai vedem. Literally faci curat sau te confrun\u021bi tu personal cu haosul. \u0218i-\u021bi stric\u0103 feng \u0219uiurile. La fel \u0219i cu m\u00e2ncarea. C\u00e2t delivery s\u0103 comanzi? De ce s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti pre\u021buri de restaurant s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci la tine acas\u0103? Nope. Am t\u0103iat la ceap\u0103 zilele astea c\u00e2t\u0103 nu am t\u0103iat de c\u00e2nd m-am n\u0103scut.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lihni\u021bi dup\u0103 bani s-au v\u0103zut limita\u021bi \u00een venituri \u0219i obliga\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenchid\u0103 temporar \u0219andramalele.\u00a0<\/strong>To\u021bi a\u021bi lucrat minimum o dat\u0103 &#8211; sau de mai multe ori cu companii sau persoane care \u0219i-ar fi scos mamele la produs f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezite, dac\u0103 asta ar fi adus semnificativ mai mul\u021bi bani.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i aten\u021bie. Eu nu sunt omul care s\u0103 critice dorin\u021ba de a fi pl\u0103tit. O avem to\u021bi. To\u021bi vrem bani pentru munca noastr\u0103, pentru serviciile pe care le oferim.<\/p>\n<p>Dar e acel punct c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti \u00een stare s\u0103 calci pe cadavre pentru bani, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi exploatezi angaja\u021bii sau colaboratorii p\u00e2n\u0103 la limita absurdului, s\u0103 \u00eei nedrept\u0103\u021be\u0219ti flagrant pentru bani, \u0219i \u00een acel moment, meri\u021bi o lovitur\u0103 de la karma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To\u021bi extenua\u021bii \u0219i surmena\u021bii au putut lua o pauz\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen momentul \u00een care a venit Covid \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, eram \u00een punctul ced\u0103rii nervoase. Nu doar c\u0103 munceam de diminea\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 seara, dar m\u0103 \u0219i extenuaser\u0103 nervos to\u021bi \u021b\u0103r\u0103noii netului cu hate-ul lor pe piesa mea Jet. A fost pauza de care nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 am nevoie, lini\u0219tea pe care nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 mi-o doresc \u0219i luna de recuperare nervoas\u0103 pe care o meritam.<\/p>\n<p>Cred c\u0103 nu m-am mai sim\u0163it at\u00e2t de odihnit\u0103 \u015fi de re\u00eenc\u0103rcat\u0103 din uterul matern.<\/p>\n<p>Dar mai e un aspect. Unul un pic mai subtil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A fost momentul \u00een care introveriti\u0163ii acestei planete \u015fi-au primit revan\u015fa.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toat\u0103 via\u0163a, mai ales \u00een \u0163\u0103rile astea latine, unde lumea e bot \u00een bot \u015fi limb\u0103-n limb\u0103 cu al\u0163ii, introvertitul e perpetuu pedepsit pentru nevoia lui de singur\u0103tate \u015fi lipsa dorin\u0163ei de a se freca pe burt\u0103 cu to\u0163i neinteresan\u0163ii. Introvertitul e genul de om care prefer\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 treaba. I se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie de conversa\u0163ie, de temenele neproductive, de \u00eentre\u0163inut rela\u0163ii. Prefer\u0103 s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 timp \u00een preocup\u0103ri proprii, \u015fi dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva ore \u00een context social, abia a\u015fteapt\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eenchid\u0103 \u00een camera lui, s\u0103 fie singur.<\/p>\n<p>Introvertitul \u00eencaseaz\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u0163a urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n<p>E\u015fti un s\u0103lbatic! (o s\u0103lbatic\u0103)!<\/p>\n<p>Cine o s\u0103 te suporte?<\/p>\n<p>Mai spune \u015fi tu ceva!?<\/p>\n<p>Dar noi chiar nu comunic\u0103m??<\/p>\n<p>Fii mai prietenos!<\/p>\n<p>Fii mai sociabil!<\/p>\n<p>Fii mai outg\u0103uing!<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei \u00een filme &#8211; filme care m\u0103 ofenseaz\u0103 personal &#8211; c\u00e2nd e un personaj introvertit, el cunoa\u015fte mereu un prieten adev\u0103rat sau un grup de prieteni adev\u0103ra\u0163i care \u00eel \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 frumuse\u0163ea vie\u0163ii sociale \u015fi \u00eel &#8220;repar\u0103&#8221;. De ce m\u0103 ofenseaz\u0103? Pentru c\u0103 nici un introvertit adev\u0103rat nu se vrea reparat. A\u015fa suntem noi, mai singuri. \u015ei suntem perfect ok cum suntem.<\/p>\n<p>Mbun, acum c\u0103 doamna Corona s-a \u00eensc\u0103unat peste noi, e al naibii de satisf\u0103c\u0103tor s\u0103 fii introvertit \u015fi s\u0103 vezi extroverti\u0163ii chinuindu-se. Cam cum te chinuiau ei pe tine \u00een normalitate.<\/p>\n<p>Sigur, toate acestea sunt glumi\u0163e \u00eentre fete \u015fi nu trebuie luate \u00een serios.<\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe <a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Povesteam ieri cu o prieten\u0103 pe care o sunasem s\u0103-i urez la mul\u021bi ani. 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