{"id":19488,"date":"2020-05-03T13:55:20","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T10:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19488"},"modified":"2020-05-03T15:34:29","modified_gmt":"2020-05-03T12:34:29","slug":"aceste-clisee-ne-dor-cringe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/aceste-clisee-ne-dor-cringe\/","title":{"rendered":"Aceste cli\u015fee ne dor: cringe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hai c\u0103 a \u00eenceput s\u0103 apar\u0103 timid hate-ul. Mult prea modest fa\u0163\u0103 de ce m\u0103 a\u015fteptam, semn c\u0103 Antena nu mai are capacitatea de alt\u0103dat\u0103 s\u0103 creeze antieroi.<\/p>\n

\u015ei a reap\u0103rut termenul meu preferat \u00een comentarii: “cringe”.<\/p>\n

Termen cu care m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u015fi anul trecut, c\u00e2nd a ie\u015fit reclama, \u015fi la \u00eenceputul anului, c\u00e2nd a ie\u015fit piesa.<\/p>\n

E un termen umbrel\u0103, care acoper\u0103 teribil de multe genuri \u015fi apecii, \u015fi, ce e mai important: \u00eel scute\u015fte pe p\u0103rerist de nevoia intelectual\u0103 de a argumenta un punct de vedere.<\/p>\n

Cel mai amuzant e c\u0103, \u00een cazul clipului “Jet”, cringe-ul era \u00een scenariu, cum ar veni, pentru c\u0103 linia pove\u015ftii era similar\u0103 cu evolu\u0163ia unui film horror. Machiajul \u015fi \u0163inuta aveau elemente de manga \u015fi cosplay. Nu era lookul cu care s\u0103 ie\u015fi \u00eentr-o mar\u0163i s\u0103 iei lapte de la Mega Image.<\/p>\n

Cu alte cuvinte, s\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 era cringe era chiar un compliment, pentru c\u0103 \u0103sta e motorul artistic al filmelor de groaz\u0103 dintotdeauna: s\u0103 insufle teama, oripilarea \u015fi suspansul \u00een spectator.<\/p>\n

Acum, aflu (de la extrem de pu\u0163ini, slav\u0103 Domnului, ceea ce repet, e de natur\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eengrijoreze echipa de PR a Antenei)\u00a0 c\u0103 \u015fi un banal dialog de hookup \u00eentre o domni\u015foar\u0103 lihnit\u0103 de iubire \u015fi un b\u0103iat care \u015fi-a pierdut interesul e cringe. Din nou. Ce termen convenabil, c\u00e2nd nu ai argumente.<\/p>\n

De ce s\u0103 ne investim neuronii \u00een a g\u0103si explica\u0163ii, c\u00e2nd putem lipi o etichet\u0103, pur \u015fi simplu?<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd le explici c\u0103 o etichet\u0103 nu te satisface, tot ei:<\/p>\n

“Trebuie s\u0103 accep\u0163i feedbackul negativ.”<\/p>\n

P\u0103i dac\u0103 eu trebuie s\u0103 accept feedbackul negativ, \u015fi voi trebuie s\u0103 accepta\u0163i feedbackul meu negativ la feedbackul vostru negativ.<\/p>\n

Sau suntem am\u00e2ndoi adep\u0163ii libert\u0103\u0163ii depline de expresie, ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vii cu ar\u0163agul sculat, vii \u015fi cu anusul lubrifiat \u00een asumarea no\u0163iunii c\u0103 po\u0163i primi ceea ce oferi, sau suntem am\u00e2ndoi mimoze \u015fi ne r\u0103nesc etichetele \u015fi insultele.<\/p>\n

Cumva, e o decizie pe care ar trebui s-o iei \u00eenainte s\u0103 sari la bereg\u0103\u0163ile altora.<\/p>\n

Iar legat de termenul “cringe”? \u00cemi spune c\u0103 persoana care-l folose\u015fte este extrem de ignorant\u0103. C\u0103 nu cunoa\u015fte genul horror, o bun\u0103 parte din romantismul din literatur\u0103, curente muzicale precum heavy metal, punk sau rave, trendul Halloween \u015fi, pe scurt, o bun\u0103 parte din entertainment care se bazeaz\u0103 exact pe induc\u0163ia fricii \u015fi a suspansului \u00een spectator.<\/p>\n

Iar eu g\u0103sesc acest tip de ignoran\u0163\u0103 foarte “cringe”. \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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