{"id":19499,"date":"2020-05-05T13:00:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T10:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19499"},"modified":"2020-05-05T13:14:08","modified_gmt":"2020-05-05T10:14:08","slug":"posta-redactiei-iubitul-meu-l-a-gasit-pe-domnul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-iubitul-meu-l-a-gasit-pe-domnul\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Iubitul meu l-a g\u0103sit pe Domnul"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n

Salut, Lore, <\/strong><\/p>\n

Trec prin ceva ciudat. Mi-e team\u0103 c\u0103 iubitul meu se poc\u0103ie\u0219te \u0219i intr\u0103 cumva \u00eentr-o sect\u0103 dubioas\u0103 \u0219i nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac cu via\u021ba mea.<\/strong><\/p>\n

De rela\u021bia asta \u00eemi legam un viitor, \u0219i acum, el zice c\u0103 se \u00eentoarce c\u0103tre Dumnezeu, \u0219i brusc nu \u00eemi mai ofer\u0103 aten\u021bie. \u0218i stau \u0219i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 nu \u00eel intereseze dac\u0103 m\u0103 combin cu altul. \u00ce\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 m\u0103 doare.<\/strong>
\nMai nou, sus\u021bine c\u0103 nici nu m-a iubit vreodat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 a prins drag de mine pe parcurs. \u0218i drept e c\u0103 nu ne-am zis niciodat\u0103 niciunul c\u0103 ne iubim. S\u0103 \u00eei dau un timp s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i pun\u0103 la punct comportamentul? I-am spus c\u0103 m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu m\u0103 apreciaz\u0103. Poate s\u0103 cread\u0103 \u00een ce Dumnezeu vrea, dar s\u0103 m\u0103 aprecieze.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sau ar fi mai bine s\u0103-mi fac bagajele \u0219i s\u0103 plec?<\/strong><\/p>\n

X. <\/strong><\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n

Nu \u0219tii tu cum e cu religiile? Majoritatea pun femeia \u00een sertarul cu unelte de buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Primul semn c\u0103 un mascul o ia pe calea religiei e comportamentul dispre\u021buitor fa\u021b\u0103 de tine, care e\u0219ti doar o p\u0103c\u0103toas\u0103 \u0219i o ispit\u0103, dar una care s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219i m\u00e2ncare \u0219i curat.<\/p>\n

Ascult\u0103 orice vlogger habotnic cre\u0219tin, cite\u0219te orice blog de ortodoxie \u0219i vei afla c\u0103 femeia trebuie s\u0103 fie smerit\u0103, cuminte \u0219i s\u0103 nu pretind\u0103 aten\u021bie. Prietenul t\u0103u nu te trateaz\u0103 dec\u00e2t cum i se transmite c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 te trateze el, B\u0103rbatul, cununa crea\u021biei, buricul p\u0103m\u00e2ntului, pe tine, cea plin\u0103 de p\u0103cate ;i c\u0103reia ar trebui s\u0103-i fie ru\u015fine c\u0103 exist\u0103. <\/p>\n

Vestea proast\u0103 e c\u0103, oric\u00e2t i-ai explica, oric\u00e2t ai argumenta cu el, oric\u00e2t apel la ra\u021biune ai face, drogul unei ideologii care-i spune c\u0103 te poate trata oricum e mai puternic.<\/p>\n

La asta se adaug\u0103 \u0219i gravitatea unei afirma\u021bii de tipul “Eu nu te-am iubit niciodat\u0103”.
\nDe obcei, chiar dac\u0103 simt a\u015fa ceva, b\u0103rba\u0163ii prefer\u0103 s\u0103 mint\u0103, pentru a avea parte de sex \u015fi \u00een continuare. Dac\u0103 el \u00ee\u0163i spune \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 nu te-a iubit niciodat\u0103, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 fie \u00eel doare la ba\u015fche\u0163i de tine \u015fi de tot ce reprezin\u0163i tu \u00een via\u021ba lui \u0219i \u00een general, fie blufeaz\u0103 s\u0103 construiasc\u0103 un raport de control \u015fi umilin\u021b\u0103 cu tine, pentru c\u0103 \u015ftie sigur c\u0103 \u00eenghi\u0163i orice.<\/p>\n

Niciuna dintre versiuni nu e fezabil\u0103 pentru o fat\u0103 cu capul pe umeri. <\/p>\n

Mut\u0103-te c\u00e2t mai repede, pentru c\u0103, cu atitudinea lui de acum, mi se pare c\u0103 discu\u0163iile \u00een contradictoriu sunt inutile \u015fi nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i a\u0163\u00e2\u0163e \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2narea. Abia la vreo dou\u0103 luni dup\u0103 ce ai ie\u015fit pe u\u015f\u0103 \u015fi-\u0163i vezi de treburile tale, f\u0103r\u0103 telefoane, f\u0103r\u0103 cf iubi, f\u0103r\u0103 nimic, o s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 you mean business \u015fi o s\u0103 reapar\u0103 schel\u0103l\u0103ind.<\/p>\n

Iar tu o s\u0103 te ridici \u00een picioare ca o regin\u0103, \u00eel duci \u00een balcon \u015fi \u00eei ar\u0103\u0163i: “Uite, boss, biserica e acolo. Poate c\u0103 ai de num\u0103rat m\u0103t\u0103nii \u015fi te re\u0163in.”<\/p>\n

\u015ei un sfat de la un lup care a trecut prin multe:<\/p>\n

Nu investi niciodat\u0103 un om cu atributul de via\u0163a ta, cum ai f\u0103cut \u00een fraza: Mi-e team\u0103 c\u0103 iubitul meu se poc\u0103ie\u0219te \u0219i intr\u0103 cumva \u00eentr-o sect\u0103 dubioas\u0103 \u0219i nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac cu via\u021ba mea.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un om care te poate renega pentru prietenii lui imaginari nu este via\u0163a ta. Un om care accept\u0103 s\u0103 te trateze na\u015fpa pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa \u00eel \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 confra\u0163ii lui habotnici nu este via\u0163a ta.<\/p>\n

Via\u0163a ta valoreaz\u0103 mai mult, iar pentru a o tr\u0103i din plin, recomand urm\u0103torul mindset. G\u0103se\u015fte-\u0163i echilibrul \u00een tine \u00eensu\u0163i \u015fi \u00een singur\u0103tate. Accept\u0103-te, iube\u015fte-te, pre\u0163uie\u015fte-te. Tu pe tine.<\/p>\n

\u00cen secunda \u00een care faci lucrul \u0103sta, to\u0163i oamenii care te trateaz\u0103 aiurea, sau spun lucruri aiurea o s\u0103 \u0163i se par\u0103 bendeci. Aka, c\u00e2inii care latr\u0103 de dup\u0103 gard, \u00een timp ce caravana \u00ee\u015fi vede zglobie de drum.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n

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