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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n
Nu romantismul \u00een sine e problema. Ci, mai degrab\u0103, faptul c\u0103 oamenii ca tine \u00ee\u015fi aga\u0163\u0103 romantismul de oricine trece pe acolo, \u015fi \u00eencep s\u0103 insiste, \u015fi s\u0103 insiste, \u015fi s\u0103 insiste.<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 cei ca tine vor foarte tare o prieten\u0103. \u015ei atunci, trage\u0163i de toat\u0103 lumea, \u015fi chestia asta tinde s\u0103 sperie oamenii \u015fi s\u0103-i fac\u0103 s\u0103 fug\u0103 de voi.<\/p>\n
Ca s\u0103 nu crezi c\u0103 e o problem\u0103 exclusiv masculin\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i voi da exemplul domni\u015foarei Y.\u00a0 Dup\u0103 care mi-am modelat eu personajul \u0103sta<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n Ea \u00ee\u015fi dorea un prieten la fel de mult cum vrei tu o prieten\u0103, \u015fi transmitea o energie lihnit\u0103 \u015fi vag psycho, care \u00eei f\u0103cea pe b\u0103rba\u0163i s\u0103 decreteze din start c\u0103 e bun\u0103 doar de dou\u0103 – trei numere. Dar ea credea, s\u0103raca de ea, c\u0103 oferind cel mai bun sex \u015fi fiind mereu disponibil\u0103, o va lua vreunul de nevast\u0103. Drept care, Facebook-ul ei ar\u0103ta a\u015fa.<\/p>\n Luni – Y – happy: Te yub tare de tot, yuby.<\/p>\n Mar\u0163i – Y – engaged. Yuby e the one. Selfie bot \u00een bot.<\/p>\n Miercuri: Y – single. To\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt porci.<\/p>\n Joi: Y – am un date \u00een seara asta. O s-o cunosc pe yubirea vye\u0163ii mele.<\/p>\n Vineri: Y – in love. Yubi mi-a tras-o toat\u0103 noaptea.<\/p>\n S\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103: Y (angry) Rasp la mesaje, m\u0103garule, nu da cu seen dup\u0103 ce mi-a \u00een\u0163epenit falca de c\u00e2t \u0163i-am supt-o!!!<\/p>\n E loialitatea fa\u0163\u0103 de un b\u0103rbat un lucru r\u0103u? E talentul de a o suge un lucru r\u0103u?<\/p>\n Nu \u00een sine, exact ca romantismul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n Dar s\u0103 sari de la 0 la 100 din primul moment e extrem de dubios, \u015fi \u00eei transmite interlocutorului c\u0103 ai ni\u015fte issues mai profunde, care nu \u0163in de persoana lui sau ei.<\/p>\n \u015ei nu, a \u00eencepe s\u0103 dai mesaje de hookup – c\u0103 sex nu vei face, te asigur eu, ci o s\u0103 iei doar block \u015fi injurii\u00a0 – NU e o solu\u0163ie. Dac\u0103 era, manosfera ar fi fost \u015fi azi a thing.<\/p>\n \u015ei atunci, ce func\u0163ioneaz\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n Nu c\u0103uta cu at\u00e2ta disperare o prieten\u0103. Nu te lihni \u015fi nu face ca popcornul \u00een cuptorul de microunde. Ia-o chill.<\/p>\n \u00cemprietene\u015fte-te cu tine \u00eensu\u0163i \u015fi \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 te bucuri de singur\u0103tate. Cl\u0103de\u015fte-\u0163i respectul fa\u0163\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ajungi profesional \u00eentr-un punct bun, iar \u00een momentul \u00een care nu mai emani energia aia disperat\u0103, de “c\u00e2nd \u00eemi g\u0103sesc \u015fi eu pe cinevaaa c\u0103 singur\u0103tatea suge ou\u0103 de cal”, o s\u0103 apar\u0103 femei atrase real de tine.<\/p>\n Complimentele sunt un lucru pl\u0103cut.<\/p>\n Dar \u00eentr-un fel le d\u0103 un b\u0103rbat echilibrat, care vrea desigur s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 o fat\u0103 dr\u0103gu\u0163\u0103, dar nu \u00ee\u015fi taie venele dac\u0103 a doua zi nu i se r\u0103spunde la telefon, \u015fi \u00een alt fel le d\u0103 cineva care investe\u015fte o \u00eent\u00e2lnire casual cu vibe-ul \u201e\u00cen seara asta m\u0103 \u00eensor sau mor\u201d.<\/p>\n \u015ei da, po\u0163i renun\u0163a la flori. Cel pu\u0163in p\u00e2n\u0103 o cuno\u015fti suficient s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dai seama dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 flori in the first place.<\/p>\n Poate tipa e ca mine, iar eu DETEST s\u0103 primesc flori. Tr\u0103iesc minimalist, nu am vaze \u00een cas\u0103. Singura floare pe care m-ar emo\u0163iona s-o primesc e Beauty Evening Rose de la Estee Lauder. OK, cu\u00a0 Daisy Eau So Fresh de la Marc Jacobs pe un foarte apropiat loc doi.<\/p>\n So, \u00een concluzie.<\/p>\n E romantismul un lucru r\u0103u? Sunt complimentele un lucru r\u0103u?<\/p>\n \u00cen sine, nu. Doar aplicate cu frenezie nes\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, \u00een cantit\u0103\u0163i industriale \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 un fundament real, par foarte fake \u015fi foarte scary. Fetele pe care le iei a\u015fa g\u00e2ndesc ca b\u0103rba\u0163ii care se foloseau de domni\u015foara Y: “Nu e nimic real sau stabilit \u00eentre noi, de ce naiba face a\u015fa?”<\/p>\n Las\u0103 rela\u0163iile s\u0103 se dezvolte pas cu pas \u015fi vei ajunge la adev\u0103ratul romantism. Cel bazat pe comunicare \u015fi stabilitate real\u0103, nu pe disperarea unuia de a trage de cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, ai avut vreodat\u0103 inten\u0163ia s\u0103-l sus\u0163ii dar ai tot am\u00e2nat, acum ar fi un moment foarte bun.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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