{"id":19700,"date":"2020-06-05T10:36:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T07:36:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19700"},"modified":"2020-06-05T10:53:24","modified_gmt":"2020-06-05T07:53:24","slug":"mihai-bendeac-si-femeile-independente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mihai-bendeac-si-femeile-independente\/","title":{"rendered":"Mihai Bendeac \u015fi femeile independente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>V\u0103 povesteam cum, la iUmor, Mihai Bendeac a scos o perl\u0103 care l-a f\u0103cut p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi pe Cheloo s\u0103 sar\u0103 din scaun \u015fi s\u0103 exclame: B\u0103, \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 voi zice\u0163i de mine c\u0103 sunt misogin.<\/p>\n<p>Perla aceea a fost: &#8220;Numai curvele afirm\u0103 despre ele c\u0103 sunt independente&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Evident, montajul care mi-a golit mie num\u0103rul de fluen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi sens l-a salvat \u015fi pe el de un scandal mediatic. Daaaar am povestit faza \u00eentr-un vlog pe YouTube, unde, mai nou, se pare c\u0103 am fani buni la s\u0103p\u0103turi. \u015ei iat\u0103 exact aceea\u015fi declara\u0163ie:<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-U7m9lTJJsQ?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>*<br \/>\nA\u0163i absorbit the wisdom? Great.<\/p>\n<p>Carevas\u0103zic\u0103, dac\u0103 o femeie \u00ee\u015fi declar\u0103 independen\u0163a, este curv\u0103, boarf\u0103 \u015fi \u015ftoarf\u0103, as opposed to studenta la medicin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Asta pentru c\u0103, \u00een min\u0163i\u015foara extrem de neted\u0103 a lui Bendeac, nu intr\u0103 situa\u0163ii at\u00e2t de frecvente din via\u0163a de zi cu zi a oric\u0103rei femei normale, precum:<\/p>\n<p>-familie care \u00ee\u0163i face program f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 po\u0163i, pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie \u015fi e obliga\u0163ia ta s\u0103 serve\u015fti<br \/>\n-\u015feful libidinos care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i strecoare bursucul la scorbur\u0103, de\u015fi tu e\u015fti de 100% bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103, angajat\u0103 pe criterii profesionale incontestabile \u015fi uneori munce\u015fti s\u0103 acoperi \u015fi incompeten\u0163a lui<br \/>\n-\u015feful misogin care \u00ee\u0163i neag\u0103 \u0163ie o m\u0103rire de salariu pe care o d\u0103 lui Gogu, de\u015fi tu bagi ore suplimentare de c\u00e2te ori e cazul \u015fi Gogu rupe u\u015fa de cum se termin\u0103 programul<br \/>\n-limbricul care te acosteaz\u0103 pe whatever re\u0163ea social\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 te frece la icre pentru c\u0103 nu-i a\u015fa, timpul t\u0103u e resurs\u0103 comunitar\u0103. Cine are chef \u00ee\u015fi ia la discre\u0163ie.<br \/>\n-boi ca Bendeac care au impresia c\u0103 pot umili actori veni\u0163i s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 treaba pentru care au fost invita\u0163i undeva, pe criteriul altor colabor\u0103ri, de\u015fi, dac\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigam iUmor, \u015fi pl\u0103team taxele, cred c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2neam cu mai pu\u0163ini bani dec\u00e2t a investit p\u00e2n\u0103 acum Standard Studio \u00een proiectele cu mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei a\u015fa mai departe. \u015ei a\u015fa mai departe.<br \/>\nCea mai pur\u0103 \u015fi cinstit\u0103 femeie trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi apere independen\u0163a \u00een n situa\u0163ii profesionale, personale \u015fi sociale, pentru c\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de idio\u0163i nu \u015ftiu ce metode s\u0103 inventeze s\u0103 i-o \u00eencalce.<\/p>\n<p>Amuzant \u00eens\u0103 e cum i-o opune curvei pe studenta la medicin\u0103. Dar ce te faci c\u00e2nd studenta la medicin\u0103 e dintr-o familie s\u0103rac\u0103 \u015fi-\u015fi face facultatea din bani pe care \u00eei c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 taman la videochat? Cunosc personal cazuri. Pe aia o judec\u0103m mai mult pe post de curv\u0103 sau pe post de student\u0103 la medicin\u0103, pe baza acestei logici \u00eencremenite \u00een bezn\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Oricum. M\u0103 bucur nespus c\u0103 prin\u0163i\u015forul a expus creierismul \u0103sta galopant \u015fi \u00eentr-un live personal, pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa reiese, \u00eencet &#8211; \u00eencet, cine spune adev\u0103rul. Po\u0163i edita preferen\u0163ial \u015fi tenden\u0163ios \u00een incint\u0103, dar nu po\u0163i edita preferen\u0163ial \u015fi tenden\u0163ios via\u0163a, respectiv caracterele reale ale oamenilor.<\/p>\n<p>Dar remarc\u0103m la Bendeac, exact ca la Colo, aceast\u0103 obsesie pentru curve, boarfe \u015fi \u015ftoarfe.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centrebarea normal\u0103 cu capul este: <strong>de ce \u00eei f&#8230; grija pe ace\u015fti cet\u0103\u0163eni ce fac ni\u015fte femei care nu le-au jurat lor nimic la altar, prin urmare, \u00een calitatea lor de cet\u0103\u0163eni liberi, au dreptul s\u0103 ia c\u00e2t kilometraj vor ele, dac\u0103 asta le face pl\u0103cere \u015fi e un mod agreabil prin care se pot \u00eentre\u0163ine? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen fond, nici o t\u00e2rf\u0103, boarf\u0103 sau \u015ftoarf\u0103 nu va lua vreun client \u00eempotriva voin\u0163ei lui dimpotriv\u0103. Ele ofer\u0103 un serviciu SOLICITAT. Un serviciu REMUNERAT. Acela\u015fi boss sc\u00e2r\u0163an care \u00ee\u015fi pl\u0103te\u015fte secretara cu minimul pe economie \u015fi \u00eent\u00e2rzie lun\u0103 de lun\u0103 cu salariul e dispus s\u0103 dea pe o or\u0103 de sex o sut\u0103 de euro, sau chiar mai mult. So&#8230;cine e mai c\u00e2\u015ftigat pe raport efort vs rezultate? Evident, t\u00e2rfa, boarfa \u015fi \u015ftoarfa.<\/p>\n<p>Dar din nou, nici o t\u00e2rf\u0103 nu va oferi servicii pe anusul lui Bendeac, ci pe p\u0103s\u0103rica proprie, a\u015fa c\u0103&#8230; de ce obsesia asta bizar\u0103 a lui Colo \u015fi a lui Bendeac fa\u0163\u0103 de ele? At\u00e2t de chinuitoare, c\u0103 m\u0103 expun \u015fi pe mine \u00een mod direct la rahatul \u0103sta, \u00een prime time?<\/p>\n<p>De ce obsesia lui Bendeac pentru &#8220;concedistele&#8221; de pe Instagram, dac\u0103 nu-\u015fi fac concediul din banii lui?<\/p>\n<p>Versiunea mea de r\u0103spuns este urm\u0103toarea:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ambele personaje au o nevoie patologic\u0103 de a umili \u015fi stresa femei. Ca form\u0103 de compensa\u0163ie pentru toate ne\u00eemplinirile din vie\u0163i\u015foarele lor. \u015ei atunci, pentru c\u0103 e 2020, \u015fi societatea nu-\u0163i mai permite s\u0103 abuzezi de femei pur \u015fi simplu, \u00ee\u015fi construiesc un pretext. &#8220;Dar dac\u0103 sunt curve, e ok&#8221;. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u015ei apoi, apar criteriile definitorii pentru curve. Cum se \u00eembrac\u0103. Cum vorbesc. Ce poze \u00ee\u015fi fac. Dac\u0103 au sau nu \u0163ig\u0103ri. Dac\u0103 iar\u0103 n-au \u015fapc\u0103. Noi \u015fi noi condi\u0163ii, care s\u0103 includ\u0103 c\u00e2t mai multe curve, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ajungem la criteriul \u0103sta fenomenal de selec\u0163ie: Dac\u0103 spun c\u0103 sunt independente.<\/p>\n<p>Arat\u0103-mi mie femeia care nu \u015fi-a ap\u0103rat minimum o dat\u0103 independen\u0163a de un cocalar intruziv \u015fi \u00eemi m\u0103n\u00e2nc \u015fapca.<\/p>\n<p>Dar am \u015fi eu un verdict similar, dar pe rut\u0103 contrarie:<\/p>\n<p>Orice b\u0103rbat obsedat de istoricul sexual al unor femei care nu-i datoreaz\u0103 raport \u015fi de care nu-l leag\u0103 un commitment are probleme psihice grave \u015fi necesit\u0103 tratament de specialitate.<\/p>\n<p>Privi\u0163i acest clip \u015fi spune\u0163i-mi dac\u0103 vi se pare normal ce \u00eei picur\u0103 acestei privighetori a neamului rom\u00e2nesc din ciocule\u0163. \u015ei \u00een continuare: dac\u0103 voi a\u0163i fi televiziune public\u0103, care are angajate femei, a\u0163i p\u0103stra contractul cu cineva care are o astfel de mentalitate, sau l-a\u0163i l\u0103sa s\u0103-\u015fi debiteze ideile pu\u0163ine \u015fi fixe pe propriul cont de YouTube, ca buna lui coleg\u0103 Dana Budeanu?<\/p>\n<p>Foto: <a href=\"https:\/\/evz.ro\/\">Evenimentul zilei<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, fii un partener la men\u0163inerea lui.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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