Nu la\u015fi o remarc\u0103 de rahat s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste tine.
\nA zis ceva jignitor, s-a b\u0103gat \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea, a ridicat tonul? \u00cel confrun\u0163i. Dar nu pe un ton m\u00e2\u0163\u00e2it \u015fi submisiv: “\u015etii, am auzit c\u0103 ai zis c\u0103 sunt gras\u0103 \u015fi \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 tu crezi asta”. Nu, frate. Tran\u015fant, ochi \u00een ochi: “Ai o prolem\u0103 cu greutatea mea, F\u0103nele? C\u0103 te aud c\u0103 ai de comentat”. “Care-i treaba, prietene, m\u0103n\u00e2nc cumva din banii lu’ m\u0103-ta?”
\nFoarte mul\u0163i viteji se c*c\u0103 pu\u0163in pe ei \u00eempr\u0103\u015ftiat \u015fi multcolor dac\u0103 \u00eei iei direct \u015fi din scurt, cu o privire care spune: “Nu-\u0163i datorez nimic, \u015fi dac\u0103 te bag ad\u00e2nc \u00een p***a m\u0103-tii, vei fi prima na\u015ftere oral\u0103 din istorie.” O s-o dea pe “vai, sora mea, n-ai \u00een\u0163eles tu bine”. “lol, h\u0103h\u0103, chiar nu am nimic cu tine, chiar \u00eemi placi, s\u0103 moar\u0103 mama”.
\nEsen\u0163ial: Orice ar spune, nu \u00ee\u0163i pierzi fermitatea \u015fi nici calmul. Chiar dac\u0103 tu c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u0219ti o ton\u0103, dac\u0103 munce\u015fti \u00eentr-un domeniu care nu presupune looks de fotomodel, nu are de ce s\u0103 se lege nici dracu de greutatea ta. M\u0103n\u00e2nci din banii t\u0103i. Cui nu-i place, s\u0103 nu se uite.<\/p>\n
Renun\u0163i la a fi o doamn\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0102la care a inventat prostia cu femeile care trebuie s\u0103 fie doamne le dorea pasive, mute \u015fi u\u015for de manipulat. Ca oile la st\u00e2n\u0103. Nu admi\u0163i interogatoriul stalinist.<\/strong><\/p>\n O tactic\u0103 de domina\u0163ie pe care o \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 b\u0103d\u0103ranii de la mizeriile umane care \u0163in siteurile de manosfer\u0103 e s\u0103 te bagi \u00een seam\u0103 cu necunoscu\u0163i sau cvasi-necunoscu\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 pui \u00eentreb\u0103ri obraznice pe un ton foarte enervant. Dac\u0103 persoana se intimideaz\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 dea din col\u0163 \u00een col\u0163, \u0163i-ai stabilit ascendentul. Nu permi\u0163i s\u0103 se vorbeasc\u0103 peiorativ despre tine, la persoana a III-a, c\u00e2nd e\u015fti acolo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Dac\u0103 ave\u0163i ceva s\u0103-mi transmite\u0163i, sunt aici. Dac\u0103 n-ave\u0163i, schimba\u0163i subiectul.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 e online, d\u0103-i block instant \u0163op\u00e2rlanului.<\/strong><\/p>\n Dac\u0103 orice remarc\u0103 nesim\u0163it\u0103 \u00eei ob\u0163ine c\u00e2te un block, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva sute de blocks va procesa, poate, memo-ul.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 e deranj la ore nepotrivite, nu r\u0103spunzi. (Dac\u0103 nu lucrezi la salvare, medic \u00een gard\u0103 sau orice alt job care implic\u0103 s\u0103 fii pe faz\u0103 la ora 4 am.) Dar dac\u0103 e\u015fti un om simplu, acas\u0103 la tine, NU r\u0103spunzi. Pur \u015fi simplu, nu admi\u0163i invazia timpului t\u0103u \u00een afara orelor la care nu e\u015fti oficial disponibil\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n Dac\u0103 e ceva profesional, revii \u00een business hours \u015fi spui: Am v\u0103zut un apel ratat, cu ce pot fi de folos.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 face glume libidinoase, \u00eel retezi \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 nu lase loc de interpret\u0103ri.<\/strong><\/p>\n C\u0103 dac\u0103 optezi s\u0103 fii politicoas\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 le treci cu vederea, \u00ee\u0163i auzi un rant de la cine \u015ftie ce labagiu c\u0103 e\u015fti curv\u0103, boarf\u0103 \u015fi \u015ftoarf\u0103.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i cere ceva pe un ton agresiv \u015fi b\u0103d\u0103ran, refuzi.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, cu mine nu se vorbe\u015fte a\u015fa. R\u0103spunsul final este “nu”.<\/p>\n \u00cenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 pleci din locuri.<\/strong><\/p>\n Unii te trateaz\u0103 nasol iar, iar \u015fi iar. Le spui din nou ce \u00ee\u0163i displace, iar ei insist\u0103. Te ridici frumos \u015fi pleci. Nu stai la discu\u0163ii \u015fi nu r\u0103spunzi la telefoane.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 promi\u0163i ceva (exemplu “Dac\u0103 te mai legi de greutatea mea, nu te mai caut \/ plec \/ whatever”), hang on to it. <\/strong><\/p>\n Nimic nu e mai penibil dec\u00e2t femeia care vede nesim\u0163ire \u015fi sfidare, spune c\u0103 face \u015fi drege, apoi nu face nimic. Practic, dovede\u0219ti c\u0103 nu onorezi ce spui \u0219i se poate p*\u0219a pe sufletul t\u0103u cu jet, c\u0103 tu e\u0219ti tot acolo.<\/p>\n Ai zis c\u0103 dac\u0103 te mai \u00eenjur\u0103 o dat\u0103, te mu\u0163i la mama?<\/p>\n Mut\u0103-te la mama. ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, fii un partener la men\u0163inerea lui.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cenc\u0103 exist\u0103 vloggeri, influenceri, siteuri \u015fi grupuri care \u00eempr\u0103\u015ftie abera\u0163ii de genul: “comportamentul agresiv \u015fi mitoc\u0103nesc te face s\u0103 fii b\u0103rbat adev\u0103rat”, “femeia trebuie...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18833,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/nope.png?fit=640%2C614&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19714"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19719,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19714\/revisions\/19719"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nFii doamn\u0103 cu domnii\/doamnele \u015fi cu persoanele la care \u0163ii. Ridic\u0103-\u0163i moral \u015fi uman prietenii, sus\u0163in\u0103torii, familia, dac\u0103 ai o familie ok, \u015fi oamenii care se poart\u0103 civilizat cu tine.
\nIa-o a\u015fa. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 tratamentul decent, polite\u0163ea \u015fi omenia sunt Minecraft, iar b\u0103f\u0103r\u0103nia \u015fi nesim\u0163irea sunt Doom Eternal.
\nDac\u0103 \u0103la intr\u0103 pe Doom Eternal, joci Doom Eternal cu el, \u015fi dac\u0103 se bag\u0103 pe Minecraft, joci Minecraft. E stupid ca unul s\u0103 intre pe Doom Eternal dar s\u0103 rag\u0103 la tine c\u0103 se a\u015ftepta s\u0103 joci Minecraft. Dac\u0103 vrei Minecraft, s\u0103 te v\u0103d pe serverul de Minecraft, bitch, sau f*ck off cu preten\u0163iile tale absurde. Cum mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii s\u0103 joc Minecraft cu cineva care nu e acolo??<\/p>\n
\nNope.
\nUltima persoan\u0103 care \u00ee\u0163i permitea s\u0103 te interogheze a\u015fa era m\u0103-ta, iar ea \u0163i-a pus pit\u0103 pe mas\u0103 18 ani. Dac\u0103 cineva necunoscut te ia la \u00eentreb\u0103ri, i le \u00eenchizi din robinet: “Totu\u015fi, nu e treaba ta, dac\u0103 nu gre\u015fesc”. “Te-ai angajat la poli\u0163ie?” \u015fi “E confiden\u0163ial, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u”.
\nBonus: dac\u0103 dai replicile astea cu u\u015foar\u0103 satisfac\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103 derivi pl\u0103cere din a-l trimite pe idiot \u00een banca lui.<\/p>\n
\nDac\u0103 nu te \u0163ii de ceea ce spui, de ce s-ar civiliza?<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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