{"id":19812,"date":"2020-06-16T18:16:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-16T15:16:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19812"},"modified":"2020-06-18T00:37:04","modified_gmt":"2020-06-17T21:37:04","slug":"de-ce-identitatea-de-gen-e-importanta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-identitatea-de-gen-e-importanta\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce identitatea de gen e important\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am v\u0103zut breaking news. Parlamentul Rom\u00e2niei merge pe linia de radicalism de dreapta \u015fi vrea s\u0103 interzic\u0103 referin\u0163ele legate de identitatea de gen \u00een \u015fcoli \u015fi universit\u0103\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 identitatea de gen?<\/p>\n

\u00censeamn\u0103, pe \u00een\u0163elesul tuturor, c\u0103 identitatea ta particular\u0103 nu e dat\u0103 doar de ceea ce ai \u00eentre picioare, ci de toate tr\u0103s\u0103turile fizice, psihice, emo\u0163ionale care te caracterizeaz\u0103 pe tine \u00een particular.<\/p>\n

Adic\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eempar\u0163i clasa \u00een b\u0103ie\u0163i \u015fi fete, s\u0103 trimi\u0163i fetele la buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u015fi b\u0103ie\u0163ii la jocuri video, \u00eencerci s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi fiecare individ \u00een parte, \u00een func\u0163ie de personalitatea lui specific\u0103.<\/p>\n

Eu sunt unul dintre oamenii care au suferit enoooorm \u00een copil\u0103rie din cauza educa\u0163iei tradi\u0163ionaliste bazate pe dualitate b\u0103rba\u0163i \/ femei, pentru c\u0103 temperamentul \u015fi \u00eenclina\u0163iile mele nu sunt tradi\u0163ional feminine.<\/p>\n

Guess what: nu po\u0163i \u00eendesa masculinitate macho \u00eentr-un b\u0103iat cu o fire sensibil\u0103, cel mult po\u0163i s\u0103-l faci s\u0103-\u015fi urasc\u0103 via\u0163a, s\u0103 se simt\u0103 necorespunz\u0103tor \u015fi s\u0103 viseze la sinucidere, \u015fi nu po\u0163i \u00eendesa submisivitate tradi\u0163ional\u0103 \u00een cineva care nu e submisiv, cel mult po\u0163i s\u0103-l faci s\u0103-\u015fi urasc\u0103 via\u0163a, s\u0103 se simt\u0103 necorespunz\u0103tor \u015fi s\u0103 viseze la sinucidere.<\/p>\n

\u015ei da, lec\u0163ioarele despre cum trebuie s\u0103 cedezi \u015fi s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u015fti frumos la b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nie \u015fi agresivitate mi-au insultat inteligen\u0163a \u015fi la 2 ani, \u015fi la 3, \u015fi la 5.<\/p>\n

Elimin\u00e2nd ideea de identitate de gen \u015fi impun\u00e2nd din nou mentalitatea infinit de toxic\u0103, c\u0103 toate femeile trebuie s\u0103 fie \u00eentr-un fel \u015fi to\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163ii \u00een alt fel, nu doar c\u0103 limitezi posibilit\u0103\u0163ile creative \u015fi umane ale fiec\u0103rui individ \u00een parte, ci \u00eencurajezi presiunea, h\u0103r\u0163uirea, bullyingul la adresa celor care nu au fost crea\u0163i pe calapod dat.<\/p>\n

Cum a fost posibil ca anul trecut o \u0163ar\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 \u00een frunte cu dou\u0103 vedete tv s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 ca ni\u015fte copii de gr\u0103dini\u0163\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 eu am o voce mai groas\u0103 dec\u00e2t o femeie obi\u015fnuit\u0103?<\/p>\n

Noroc c\u0103 faza m-a prins dup\u0103 30 de ani, c\u00e2nd i-am b\u0103gat \u015fi pe cei doi, \u015fi pe fanii lor, \u00een mor\u0163ii de mam\u0103 aferen\u0163i \u015fi mi-am asumat vocea pe care o am, cum o am.
\nDar ghici c\u00e2nd tinzi s\u0103 iei \u00een serios aceste jigniri \u015fi s\u0103 le la\u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i afecteze respectul de tine?<\/p>\n

EXACT. \u00ceN \u015eCOLI \u015eI UNIVERSIT\u0102\u0162I. UNDE SORA VOASTR\u0102 A FOST \u00ceNDELUNG BULLIED PENTRU C\u0102 E DIFERIT\u0102, CHIT C\u0102 NU GRE\u015eISE NIM\u0102NUI CU NIMIC NICIODAT\u0102.<\/p>\n

\u00cenainte de a fi b\u0103ie\u0163i \u015fi fete, copiii sunt personalit\u0103\u0163i. Unele mai sensibile, altele mai ra\u0163ionale, unele mai submisive, altele mai dominatoare. Iar acest aspect e independent de echipamentul genital \u015fi constituie IDENTITATEA LOR DE GEN.<\/p>\n

Eliminarea identit\u0103\u0163ii de gen e un pas spre re\u00eentoarcerea spre seturi de drepturi diferite pentru b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi, respectiv, femei, \u015fi ghici cui \u00eei revine paiul scurt? Evident, nu b\u0103rba\u0163ilor. Ei vor putea din nou trage de muieri \u00een st\u00e2nga \u015fi \u00een dreapta, “c\u0103 a\u015fa sunt b\u0103rba\u0163ii”, \u00een timp ce femeile care vor ceda vor fi iar “curve” \u015fi cele care vor rezista vor fi din nou “scorpii”.<\/p>\n

Taman de aceea, mai mult dec\u00e2t un b\u0103ie\u0163el sau o feti\u0163\u0103, copilul t\u0103u e o persoan\u0103. Un om. Un om care \u00ee\u015fi poate crea propriul drum \u00een societate dac\u0103 \u00eel aju\u0163i s\u0103 fie el \u00eensu\u015fi, nu ciuntindu-l de mic s\u0103 se conformeze unui model binar adeseori croit doar s\u0103 limiteze femeia \u015fi s\u0103-i pun\u0103 pozi\u0163ia de start \u00een maratonul vie\u0163ii cu zece pa\u015fi \u00een spatele b\u0103rbatului.<\/p>\n

Eu nu sunt o femeie feminin\u0103, n-am fost o feti\u0163\u0103 feminin\u0103, via\u0163a mea a fost otr\u0103vit\u0103 de mult prea mult bullying legat de feminitatea mea nonexistent\u0103 \u015fi cred c\u0103 nimeni n-ar trebui s\u0103 treac\u0103 prin asta.<\/p>\n

P\u0103stra\u0163i identitatea de gen. Nu subordona\u0163i op\u0163iunile de via\u0163\u0103 ale oamenilor detaliului at\u00e2t de insignifiant care le at\u00e2rn\u0103 \u00eentre picioare.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, fii un partener la men\u0163inerea lui.<\/p>\n

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