Acest lucru, a men\u0163ionat Ana mai t\u00e2rziu, se \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een 1990. De\u015fi comunismul c\u0103zuse, mentalitatea de tartor bol\u015fevic se manifesta din plin.
\nCum?? o s\u0103 reac\u0163ioneze gigel milenial. Un cadru didactic, pus s\u0103 lumineze mintal copiii, s\u0103-i educe, s\u0103-i \u00eenve\u0163e s\u0103 fie oameni, \u00eencuraja bullying, umilin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi ur\u0103? Yeah. Am auzit pove\u015fti cu profesori care b\u0103teau copiii cu regularitate.
\nA circulat acum c\u00e2\u0163iva ani un viral cu o profesoar\u0103 care a dat \u00eentr-un copil \u015fi toat\u0103 lumea s-a indignat \u00een subsol.
\n\u00cen comunism, nu exista internet, dar presupun c\u0103 dac\u0103 s-ar fi g\u0103sit o manier\u0103 – porumbei zbur\u0103tori? – s\u0103 circule un clip cu un copil b\u0103tut de profesor, lumea ar fi aprobat \u015fi ar fi aplaudat ca focile.<\/p>\n
Simona: “Am avut un trimestru m\u00e2na st\u00e2ng\u0103 \u00een ghips ca s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163 s\u0103 scriu\/desenez cu dreapta.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Da. Exact at\u00e2t de stupid \u015fi de crud.\u00a0 \u00a0S\u0103 pui un membru s\u0103n\u0103tos \u00een ghips, s\u0103-l obligi s\u0103 se atrofieze, \u00een numele unei coerci\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 miz\u0103.<\/p>\n Dana: ” St\u00e2ngace, m-a pocnit \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103toarea p\u00e2n\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 scriu cu dreapta, cu care scriu oribil.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u0103 ai materia caligrafie, la care s\u0103 fii punctat dup\u0103 cum scrii cu CEALALT\u0102 M\u00c2N\u0102, mi se pare sabotaj deliberat \u015fi cu s\u00e2nge rece.<\/p>\n Arthur: “Exact la fel si cu mine. Eram scos \u00een fa\u021ba clasei s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 copiii de mine ca scriam cu st\u00eenga si l\u0103b\u0103r\u021bat”<\/strong><\/p>\n Ce e de r\u00e2s? CE E DE R\u00c2S? De ce tu, dasc\u0103l, ai \u00eencuraja genul \u0103sta de comportament? Pentru c\u0103 po\u0163i. Pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti o javr\u0103 \u015fi singurele tale mici satisfac\u0163ii deriv\u0103 din a vedea copii chinui\u0163i.<\/p>\n Francesca: “\u015ei \u00een familie, c\u00e2nd te educa mama cu b\u0103taia, s\u0103 scrii \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci cu dreapta… \u015fi toat\u0103 via\u0163a s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti \u00een lumea dreptacilor, cu toate mecanismele f\u0103cute doar pentru dreptaci.” <\/strong><\/p>\n Stai, ce? \u00cen familie? \u00cen loc s\u0103 fie aliata ta \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 te sus\u0163in\u0103, m\u0103-ta mai ad\u0103uga un layer de abuz \u015fi de traum\u0103? Dana: La mine a fost mai nasol, c\u0103 fiind la \u0219coala german\u0103, pe \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103torul meu \u00eel durea la basc\u0103 cu care m\u00e2n\u0103 scriam, \u00eens\u0103 m-a obligat maic\u0103-mea acas\u0103 s\u0103 scriu cu dreapta!<\/strong><\/p>\n Da. Chiar dac\u0103 aveai parte de un dasc\u0103l inteligent, care probabil c\u0103 \u015ftia c\u0103 esen\u0163ial era s\u0103 st\u0103p\u00e2ne\u015fti alfabetul \u015fi literele, nu s\u0103 fii armata poporului, osta\u015f 13567, familia avea grij\u0103 s\u0103 te adapteze la norme cu sila.<\/p>\n Anca: “La \u015fcoal\u0103 nu m-au l\u0103sat s\u0103 scriu cu st\u00e2nga, caligrafia a fost un chin, nu m-au legat, dar m-au a\u015fezat \u00een partea dreapt\u0103 a b\u0103ncii, a\u015fa \u00eenc\u00e2t dac\u0103 schimbam m\u00e2na, \u00eei d\u0103deam peste m\u00e2n\u0103 colegului de banc\u0103, el protesta, \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103toarea venea \u015fi o luam de la cap\u0103t, cu foaia, cu r\u00e2ndul.”<\/strong><\/p>\n Dap. Nu toat\u0103 lumea era fana abuzului declarat, pe fa\u0163\u0103. Unii c\u0103utau metode subtile de constr\u00e2ngere. Metode care implicau \u015fi disconfirtul unui ter\u0163 care n-avea leg\u0103tur\u0103. A cui e vina c\u0103 tu \u00eel pocne\u015fti pe Gigel? A ta, logic. Scroaf\u0103 mic\u0103, nu-l mai pocni pe Gigel, c\u0103 te fac poster.<\/p>\n Steliana: “Ehe, ca orice st\u00e2ngaci normal, beleaua era la mas\u0103! Cum s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc ciorb\u0103 cu dreapta, c\u0103 s\u0103rea lichidu’ din lingur\u0103!”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n I feel you, sis. Pune-m\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc cu st\u00e2nga \u015fi o s\u0103 ai meniul zilei all over me.<\/p>\n Dar \u015fi oamenii n\u0103scu\u0163i dup\u0103 comunism au aceste traume, l\u0103sate mo\u015ftenire de dasc\u0103li sp\u0103la\u0163i pe creier.<\/p>\n Diana: “Eu m-am n\u0103scut dup\u0103 revolu\u0163ie \u015fi am mers la \u015fcoal\u0103 \u00een 1997, tot am fost obligat\u0103 s\u0103 scriu cu dreapta, \u015fi pentru \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103toarea mea era un succes personal c\u0103 a reu\u015fit s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Imagina\u0163i-v\u0103 genul \u0103sta de ambi\u0163ie m\u0103runt\u0103 \u015fi meschin\u0103, s\u0103 te lauzi c\u0103 ai obligat un om cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 st\u00e2ng\u0103 perfect func\u0163ional\u0103 s\u0103 opereze contrar naturii lui \u015fi la final rezultatul S\u0102 PAR\u0102 OK.<\/p>\n S\u0103 PAR\u0102, nu s\u0103 FIE, pentru c\u0103 nu e ca \u015fi cum ar fi convertit-o real la condi\u0163ia de dreptaci.<\/p>\n S\u0103 ne fie clar, m\u00e2na dominant\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne aceea\u015fi pe tot restul vie\u0163ii. Dar constr\u00e2ngerea ta a creat o iluzie satisf\u0103c\u0103toare. Costul: at\u00e2ta disconfort \u015fi stres pentru un copil care, \u00een timpul \u0103la, putea citi, desena, scrie compuneri, \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a o limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103 \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/p>\n Xaara: “\u015ei i eu m-am n\u0103scut st\u00e2ngace. \ud83d\ude2d<\/span><\/span> Evident, am fost obligat\u0103 s\u0103 scriu cu dreapta. Nu mai \u0163in minte deloc conjunctura, doar c\u0103 mi-a fost foarte greu s\u0103 m\u0103 adaptez la \u015fcoal\u0103, s\u0103 m\u0103 dezvolt la fel de u\u015for ca ceilalti colegi.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n A\u015fadar, \u00een timp ce clasa se concentra s\u0103 ACTUALLY \u00ceN\u0162ELEAG\u0102 materia predar\u0103, copiii st\u00e2ngaci erau for\u0163a\u0163i la o sarcin\u0103 \u00een plus: s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 materia predat\u0103 \u00ceN TIMP CE se chinuiau s\u0103\u00a0 lucreze cu m\u00e2na mai slab\u0103.<\/p>\n Apoi, sunt \u015fi cazurile de cruzime care mergea p\u00e2n\u0103 la v\u0103t\u0103mare corporal\u0103.<\/p>\n Andreea: “Ambidextr\u0103, azi. Pentru c\u0103 m-au b\u0103tut, legat, dat cu lemn peste m\u00e2na stang\u0103… Am \u00eenc\u0103 cicatricile \u015fi un tremur u\u015for vizibil pe m\u00e2na stang\u0103.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Vasile: Aoleo, eu m-am ales cu ar\u0103t\u0103torul rupt cu indicatorul. Opera tov. \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tor, b\u0103ga-mi-a\u0219 p#la \u00een pensia lui!<\/strong><\/p>\n P\u0103cat c\u0103 prostia nu \u00eel doare pe purt\u0103tor. M\u0103car dac\u0103 l-ar durea pe el \u015fi\u00a0 l-ar \u0163ine ocupat, s\u0103 nu inoculeze durere altora.<\/p>\n Am \u00eencercat ieri sear\u0103, la oha, s\u0103 fac o salat\u0103 cu st\u00e2nga. Am f\u0103cut o t\u0103ietur\u0103 superficial\u0103 \u00een deget \u015fi am cedat nervos. M-ar interesa cum era \u015fcoala de buc\u0103tari profesioni\u015fti pentru st\u00e2ngaci.<\/p>\n \u015ei dac\u0103 tu credeai c\u0103 exist\u0103 limit\u0103 a stupizeniei, ei bine, nu.<\/p>\n Alexandra: “\u00cen Londra, mi s-a dat peste m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een restaurant pakistanez, pentru c\u0103 m\u00e2ncam cu st\u00e2nga. Iar \u00een Pakistan mi-au cerut s\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sesc localul din acela\u0219i motiv, pentru c\u0103 foloseam “the dirty hand” – cu argumentul c\u0103 Allah a f\u0103cut mana dreapt\u0103 pentru rug\u0103ciune \u0219i m\u00e2ncare \u0219i m\u00e2na st\u00e2ng\u0103, pentru \u0219ters la c*r.”<\/strong><\/p>\n Daniela: “\u00cenv\u0103\u0163\u0103toarea spunea c\u0103 (a fi st\u00e2ngace, n. r) e opera diavolului.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n I cannot. \u0102sta e punctul \u00een care \u00eemi d\u0103 cu ecran albastru.<\/p>\n Genul de oameni care cred sincer imbecilit\u0103\u0163ile astea ar trebui da\u0163i \u00eendelung cu capul de perete, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 se mi\u015fte ceva acolo. C\u00e2t de oligofren, de prost f\u0103cut gr\u0103mad\u0103, de incapabil de g\u00e2ndire critic\u0103 de sine st\u0103t\u0103toare s\u0103 fii, s\u0103 iei rahatul \u0103sta religios \u015fi s\u0103 nu-l pui niciodat\u0103 sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii?<\/p>\n Dar copiii st\u00e2ngaci traumatiza\u0163i fizic \u015fi psihic ai trecutului sunt pe faz\u0103 ast\u0103zi:<\/p>\n Vorica: “M\u0103 bucur c\u0103 am convins \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea fetei s\u0103 le lase pe cele dou\u0103 st\u00e2ngace din clas\u0103 s\u0103 scrie cu st\u00e2nga. 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\nEi, bine, da. Pentru c\u0103 m\u0103-ta era \u00eendoctrinat\u0103 c\u0103 a folosi predominant m\u00e2na st\u00e2ng\u0103 e un lucru r\u0103u \u015fi nu-\u015fi pusese niciodat\u0103 \u00eentrebarea: “Dar de ce, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103? Dac\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci omleta cu st\u00e2nga, nu se duce tot acolo?”<\/p>\n\n
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