{"id":19933,"date":"2020-07-02T13:44:29","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T10:44:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19933"},"modified":"2020-07-02T13:44:29","modified_gmt":"2020-07-02T10:44:29","slug":"nu-n-am-fost-niciodata-misandra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-n-am-fost-niciodata-misandra\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu, n-am fost niciodat\u0103 misandr\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un lucru care m\u0103 scoate de fiecare dat\u0103 din s\u0103rite e c\u00e2nd m\u0103 ia un prostan la perdaf c\u0103 \u0103h\u0103h\u0103h\u0103, ce misandr\u0103 e\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Genul \u0103sta de mormoloci au fost acuza\u0163i de misoginism toat\u0103 via\u0163a lor, pentru fapte reale, pentru faptul c\u0103 au agasat femei, pentru faptul c\u0103 le-au desconsiderat, pentru faptul c\u0103 le-au b\u0103gat str\u00e2mbe profesional, pentru faptul c\u0103 le-au insultat \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u00een min\u0163i\u015foara lor exist\u0103 real acest dublu set de standarde. Noi, b\u0103rba\u0163ii, avem dreptul s\u0103 orice. Voi, feneile, ave\u0163i dreptul s\u0103 nimic. \u015ei dac\u0103 una d\u0103 semne c\u0103 poate mai mult, repede ne sim\u0163im nesiguri \u015fi c\u0103ut\u0103m s-o discredit\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei atunci, obiceiul lor e s\u0103 sar\u0103 tot ei la beregat\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 te acuze de misandrie.<\/p>\n

Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 misandrie?<\/p>\n

Lipsa de respect \u015fi negarea drepturilor TUTUROR b\u0103rba\u0163ilor, atitudinea negativ\u0103 generic\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de to\u0163i, strict pe baza organului sexual.<\/p>\n

Eu am scris 3456890 de articole \u00een care am explicat c\u00e2t de gre\u015fit e s\u0103 aplici tratamente diferite oamenilor pe baz\u0103 de organ sexual, so, s\u0103 m\u0103 acuzi pe mine c\u0103 desconsider un b\u0103rbat doar pentru c\u0103 e b\u0103rbat e o dovad\u0103 de prostie cras\u0103, rea voin\u0163\u0103 sau ambele.<\/p>\n

Mii de b\u0103rba\u0163i sunt trata\u0163i perfect normal, omene\u015fte \u015fi respectuos, pe social media mea, exact cum sunt trata\u0163i omene\u015fte \u015fi respectuos \u015fi \u00een via\u0163a mea particular\u0103, dac\u0103, la r\u00e2ndul lor, OFER\u0102 omenie \u015fi respect.<\/p>\n

“Cum, nu e one way street? Numai noi merit\u0103m temenele, dar nu oferim tratament similar la schimb?”<\/p>\n

Heh, nu.<\/p>\n

Mii de b\u0103rba\u0163i \u00een\u0163eleg perfect aceast\u0103 dinamic\u0103 \u015fi o respect\u0103 \u00een rela\u0163iile cu femeile. Drept care, avem interac\u0163iuni omene\u015fti irepro\u015fabile. Chiar nu am nimic s\u0103-mi repro\u015fez \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n

Am sabotat vreodat\u0103 profesional un b\u0103rbat?<\/p>\n

Mnup.<\/p>\n

Dar destul de mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i m-au sabotat profesional pe mine.<\/p>\n

Am denigrat vreodat\u0103 pe nedrept un b\u0103rbat? (Adic\u0103, s\u0103 fi f\u0103cut afirma\u0163ii false, menite s\u0103-i strice imaginea \u015fi rela\u0163iile cu al\u0163ii?<\/p>\n

Mnup.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 am denigrat, a fost doar sub forma: am povestit ce mi-a f\u0103cut. FAPTE REALE. \u015ei dac\u0103 faptele lui sunt cele care l-au denigrat, poate c\u0103 solu\u0163ia ar fi s\u0103-\u015fi modifice faptele pe viitor.<\/p>\n

Pentru foarte mul\u0163i prostani, a fi misandr\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 exact acest lucru:<\/p>\n

C\u0103 nu taci legat de rahaturi care \u0163i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u015fi, pentru c\u0103 ai tupeul s\u0103 acuzi b\u0103rba\u0163i nesim\u0163i\u0163i de faptele lor reale nesim\u0163ite, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 discriminezi b\u0103rba\u0163ii.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mnup.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 unul face fapte reale nesim\u0163ite, se discrimineaz\u0103 singur. Nu oglinda e de vin\u0103 c\u0103-\u0163i reflect\u0103 un kkt pe fa\u0163\u0103, tu e\u015fti de vin\u0103 c\u0103 ai un kkt pe fa\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n

Am scris vreodat\u0103 m\u0103car vreo postare de tipul “cum s\u0103 chinuim b\u0103rba\u0163i nevinova\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103-i fierbem la foc mic”?<\/p>\n

C\u0103 citesc din astea destule pe pere\u0163ii altora.<\/p>\n

Mnup. Dac\u0103 mie nu \u00eemi place fiertura de nici un tip, nu o aplic altora.<\/p>\n

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C\u00e2nd un b\u0103rbat interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu mine, \u00eencep prin a acorda carte blanche. A\u015fa cum fac \u015fi cu femeile. Dac\u0103 purtarea lui las\u0103 de dorit, dac\u0103 e agresiv, dac\u0103 e agasant, dac\u0103 e misecuvenist, dac\u0103… dac\u0103… dac\u0103… sunt lucruri pe care LE IAU LA CUNO\u015eTIN\u0162\u0102 pentru c\u0103 SUNT ACOLO.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 e impecabil, iau la cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi acest lucru, pentru c\u0103 SE VEDE.<\/p>\n

\u015ei da, modul \u00een care te por\u0163i te trece la nivel de protocol aferent \u00een cartea mea, pentru c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc pe po\u015firca de 9 lei la pet\u00a0 de plastic c\u00e2t a\u015f pl\u0103ti pe un vin de rezerv\u0103. Nu din misandrie, c\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 dac\u0103 e\u015fti b\u0103rbat sau femeie. Ci din fairness pentru cei care sunt vinuri de rezerv\u0103. Care ar putea \u015fi ei s-o scalde prin via\u0163\u0103 fiind po\u015firci de 9 lei la pet de plastic, dar au standarde fa\u0163\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103 \u015fi fa\u0163\u0103 de propria conduit\u0103.<\/p>\n

So:<\/p>\n

Vrei laude?<\/p>\n

F\u0103 ceva demn de laud\u0103.<\/p>\n

Vrei apreciere?<\/p>\n

D\u0103-mi motive concrete s\u0103 te apreciez. \u015ei nu, l\u0103ud\u0103ro\u015fenia \u015fi fanfaronada nu intr\u0103 la motive de apreciere, ci la motive de r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n

Vrei tratament civilizat?<\/p>\n

Trateaz\u0103 civilizat.<\/p>\n

Vrei s\u0103 fii provit drept un om inteligent?<\/p>\n

Dovede\u015fte inteligen\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n

Vrei b\u0103gare \u00een block \/ mailuri \u015fi numere filtrate?<\/p>\n

Streseaz\u0103-m\u0103 cu inep\u0163ii \u015fi acuza\u0163ii nejustificate.<\/p>\n

O subliniez ultima oar\u0103. Nu pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti b\u0103rbat. Mi se rupe p\u00e2n\u0103-n cus\u0103tur\u0103 de sexul de care apar\u0163ii. Ci strict pe baz\u0103 de calit\u0103\u0163i personale non-gendered.<\/p>\n

Hope this helps. Care m\u0103 mai acuzi de misandrie vreodat\u0103, mediteaz\u0103 solid \u00eenainte dac\u0103 o s\u0103 mai ai vreodat\u0103 nevoie de mine. \u015ei roag\u0103-te s\u0103 nu. Pentru c\u0103 m\u0103iestria mea cu cuvintele se datoreaz\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd faptului c\u0103 nu le arunc la nimereal\u0103.<\/p>\n

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