{"id":19964,"date":"2020-07-05T10:32:56","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T07:32:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19964"},"modified":"2020-07-05T10:32:56","modified_gmt":"2020-07-05T07:32:56","slug":"aceeasi-moneda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/aceeasi-moneda\/","title":{"rendered":"Aceea\u0219i moned\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ieri, am trimis ga\u015fca peste o cucoan\u0103 care se trezise c\u0103 ea e alesul lui dumnezeu pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt s\u0103 fotografieze oameni \u00een autobuz f\u0103r\u0103 acord \u015fi s\u0103-i porc\u0103ie pe wallul ei c\u0103, de\u015fi nu arat\u0103 a tinerei \u015fi frumu\u015fei, \u00ee\u015fi permit s\u0103 le fie cald \u015fi s\u0103 se \u00eembrace scurt \u015fi sub\u0163ire<\/a>, cum o facem noi, restul, care suntem piese d\u0103 piese \u015fi avem acceptul societ\u0103\u0163ii s\u0103 flutur\u0103m buca. Glumesc. Nici cucoana nu f\u0103cea parte dintre tinerei \u0219i frumu\u0219ei. <\/p>\n

\u015ei reac\u0163iile cititorilor mei au fost adecvate. “Cumpulamea \u00ee\u015fi permite.” <\/p>\n

Dar, bine\u00een\u021beles, au ap\u0103rut eternii \u015fi imuabilii semnalizatori de virtute. \u0102ia care vin mereu s\u0103 sell castrave\u0163i to the gr\u0103dinar. S\u0103 te \u015fcoleasc\u0103 nesolicitat. \u015ei au \u00eenceput: “c\u0103 acum sunte\u0163i \u015fi voi ca ea, c\u0103 ce v\u0103 diferen\u0163iaz\u0103 blabla”. <\/p>\n

Ne diferen\u0163iaz\u0103 faptul c\u0103 noi nu ne lu\u0103m de nevinova\u0163i care merg lini\u015fti\u0163i pe strad\u0103, ci de bully-ii care se leag\u0103 de ei degeaba. Pentru c\u0103 realitatea e c\u0103 nici un om trecut de 6 ani nu ar avea un motiv valid s\u0103 se lege de fizicul altuia \u015fi c\u0103 strada nu e podium de fotpmodele, ci un loc public, unde \u00ee\u015fi vede fiecare de treburile lui, \u015fi da, vara le e cald \u015fi gra\u015filor, \u015fi slabilor, \u015fi celor de greutate medie. <\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd domnul nostru Isus Christos a zis: Iube\u015fte-\u0163i aproapele, la asta s-a referit. Accept\u0103-l cum e, dac\u0103 nu te deranjeaz\u0103 direct cu nimic. Nu fi javr\u0103 ordinar\u0103 degeaba. <\/p>\n

Dar unii, ca individa de ieri, sunt javre ordinare degeaba. Din motive simple: c\u0103 pot<\/strong> \u015fi c\u0103 le place. <\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u015f mai ad\u0103uga un al treilea motiv \u015fi o voi face cu o paralel\u0103 cam vulgar\u0103. <\/p>\n

Mul\u0163i tipi ignoran\u0163i glumesc despre cum gre\u0219esc ei gaura \u00een sex, p\u00e2n\u0103 sunt ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi pegged prima oar\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce descoper\u0103 pe propria bort\u0103 c\u00e2t e de dureroas\u0103 penetrarea pe nepreg\u0103tite, devin zeii ne\u00eencorona\u0163i ai preludiului. Arsura aia chinuitoare \u00een str\u0103fundul g\u0103ozului \u00eei face \u00een\u0163elep\u0163i \u015fi empatici. <\/p>\n

Singurul mod \u00een care o javr\u0103 ordinar\u0103 poate fi scoas\u0103 din mindsetul de javr\u0103 ordinar\u0103 \u015fi educat\u0103 s\u0103 perceap\u0103 \u015fi unghiul p\u0103r\u0163ii opuse e exact pegging-ul. Metaforic, desigur. Fizic nu a\u015f pegui-o pe tanti nici cu 1.000 de euro ora. <\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 ce javra ordinar\u0103 \u00eencaseaz\u0103 o parte din stresul, durerea, umilin\u0163a, frica pe care le inducea cu at\u00e2ta satisfac\u0163ie altora, tinde s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 de cinci ori \u00eenainte s\u0103 fie javr\u0103 ordinar\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. <\/p>\n

Nu ai de ce s\u0103 menajezi jigodiile, nu ai de ce s\u0103 fii om cu ele. Sunt jigodii in the first place pentru c\u0103 al\u0163ii au tot fost oameni \u0219i au tot afi\u0219at superioritate moral\u0103. Jigodiile trebuie tratate cu o por\u0163ie generoas\u0103 de pxl\u0103 dacic\u0103 peste bot, s\u0103 vad\u0103 cam cum se simt oamenii pe care i-au desconsiderat \u015fi i-au chinuit. Educativ, a\u0219a. S\u0103 le deschizi mintea. S\u0103 le \u00eenve\u021bi omenie. <\/p>\n

E SINGURA CALE. <\/p>\n

Acum, pariez c\u0103 tanti nu va posta \u00een via\u0163a ei vreo imagine de body shaming. Va \u0163ine minte umilin\u0163a de ieri p\u00e2n\u0103-n groap\u0103. \u015ei a\u015fa, am salvat multe, multe persoane imperfecte fizic cu care tanti se \u00eent\u00e2lne\u015fte \u00een ora\u015f de expunere r\u0103ut\u0103cioas\u0103 \u015fi degradant\u0103, care nu folosea nim\u0103nui cu nimic, dar cu care tanti se mai \u00eemp\u0103una s\u0103 mai extrag\u0103 ni\u015fte likeuri de la sc\u00e2rbe similare. <\/p>\n

Bun\u0103tatea \u015fi ging\u0103\u015fia se rezerv\u0103 oamenilor buni \u015fi ginga\u015fi. <\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place acest blog, fii un partener la men\u0163inerea lui.<\/p>\n

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