{"id":19990,"date":"2020-07-08T10:33:22","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T07:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=19990"},"modified":"2020-07-08T10:33:22","modified_gmt":"2020-07-08T07:33:22","slug":"posta-redactiei-o-aventura-extraconjugala-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-o-aventura-extraconjugala-update\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: O aventur\u0103 extraconjugal\u0103. UPDATE"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rar mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca lumea s\u0103-mi scrie nout\u0103\u0163i legate de situa\u0163iile discutate \u00een Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei. Dar t\u00e2n\u0103ra care mi-a relatat aventura ei cu un b\u0103rbat \u00eensurat<\/a><\/strong> a revenit cu nout\u0103\u0163i ieri sear\u0103.<\/p>\n

Mul\u021bumesc, Lorena!
\n\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc mult c\u0103 mi-ai “ascultat” povestea \u0219i mai ales c\u0103 nu mi-ai judecat faptele \u0219i c\u0103 mi-ai luat ap\u0103rarea atunci c\u00e2nd unii \u0219i unele \u00eencercau s\u0103 m\u0103 jigneasc\u0103. \u00ce\u021bi mul\u0163umesc mult pentru atitudine!\u2764 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Legat de sfaturile pe care mi le-ai dat. Promit c\u0103 voi \u021bine cont de ele. L-am sunat asear\u0103 pe “domn” s\u0103-i spun c\u0103 totul s-a terminat \u00eentre noi. I-am spus c\u0103 nu neg c\u0103 mi-a pl\u0103cut ceea ce am tr\u0103it cu el, dar c\u0103 e timpul ca fiecare s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i vad\u0103 de via\u021ba lui. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Reac\u021bia pe care a avut-o m-a dezam\u0103git mult. Nu m\u0103 a\u0219teptam la a\u0219a ceva din partea lui. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 jigneasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eemi repro\u0219eze tot felul de lucruri, a spus c\u0103 sunt un nimeni \u0219i c\u0103 nu a ajuns s\u0103-i spun\u0103 una ca mine c\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103 la el, c\u0103 el a f\u0103cut nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2te pentru mine \u0219i c\u0103 m-a dus peste tot unde am vrut, \u0219i c\u0103 dac\u0103 e cineva care s\u0103-i dea cu \u0219utul \u00een fund celuilalt el e acela, c\u0103 eu sunt un nimeni ca s\u0103 renun\u021b la el, c\u0103 el nu e prost ca al\u021bii \u0219i c\u0103 nu r\u00e2de nicio c***\u0103 de el, c\u0103 el e cel care renun\u021b\u0103 la o c***\u0103, nu ele la el. <\/strong><\/p>\n

M-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u0219i s\u0103 am ni\u0219te nervi cum nu am mai avut niciodat\u0103. Nu am putut dormi toat\u0103 noaptea de nervi \u0219i de regrete c\u0103 m-am \u00eencurcat cu o astfel de jigodie de om. Nu \u00eel \u0219tiam a\u0219a,nu-i \u0219tiam aceast\u0103 latur\u0103 de jigodie! <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00centotdeauna s-a purtat ca un domn, asta era una dintre calit\u0103\u021bile pe care le apreciam la el, dar asear\u0103 parc\u0103 nu mai era el, nu \u00eemi vine s\u0103 cred c\u0103 a putut s\u0103 se comporte la modul \u0103sta at\u00e2t de nedemn pentru un b\u0103rbat, nu \u00eemi vine s\u0103 cred c\u0103 mi-a spus acele lucruri! <\/strong><\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 \u00eel \u0219tiam a\u0219a, jur c\u0103 l-a\u0219 fi respins din prima clip\u0103. Dar, tot r\u0103ul spre bine. Uneori e nevoie s\u0103 p\u0103\u021be\u0219ti \u0219i astfel de lucruri \u00een via\u021b\u0103 ca s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi din gre\u0219eli \u0219i alt\u0103 dat\u0103 s\u0103 te fere\u0219ti de astfel de oameni. Eu am vrut s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim frumos \u0219i s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m \u00een amintire clipele frumoase pe care le-am tr\u0103it \u00eempreun\u0103, dar el a ales s\u0103 se comporte ca o jigodie \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 s\u0103 regret c\u0103 l-am cunoscut \ud83d\ude21 <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, Lorena, \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi doresc s\u0103 ai parte \u00een via\u021ba numai de bine,s\u0103 ai parte de binele pe care \u00eel faci \u0219i s\u0103 fii r\u0103spl\u0103tit\u0103 cu mult bine pentru sufletul t\u0103u at\u00e2t de bun!\ud83e\udd17\u2764\ud83d\ude18<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

TE FELICIT.<\/p>\n

YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. BRAVO. D\u0103-mi voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i atrag aten\u0163ia c\u0103 nu ai motive de pl\u00e2ns \u015fi de nervi. Ai fost persoana care a ie\u015fit de sub influen\u0163a malefic\u0103 a unui narcisist. Felicit\u0103ri!<\/p>\n

Bine, eu, fiind mai a naibii de felul meu, i-a\u015f fi \u00eenchis de cum a \u00eenceput s\u0103 urle, \u015fi i-a\u015f fi dat un SMS: “\u015ei totu\u015fi, fraiere, c***a asta \u0163i-a dat cu \u015futul \u00een fund, lol. E\u015eTI P\u0102R\u0102SIT, LIMBRICULE. Cr\u0103pi de ciud\u0103!”, apoi l-a\u015f fi pus la numere filtrate. De ce s\u0103 turbezi tu \u015fi s\u0103 nu turbeze el?<\/p>\n

Bine, eu nu i-a\u015f fi c\u0103zut \u00een plas\u0103 din start, pentru c\u0103 v\u0103d tipologia asta de individ de la o po\u015ft\u0103 \u015fi \u00eei dau jet de la primele insisten\u0163e.<\/p>\n

*<\/p>\n

Altminteri.<\/p>\n

\u0162i-am scris din prima c\u0103 mi s-a p\u0103rut suspect at\u00e2t modul \u00een care \u015fi-a umilit so\u0163ia public, curt\u00e2ndu-te ostentativ, c\u00e2t \u015fi modul \u00een care s-a b\u0103gat ca un tembel \u00een rela\u0163ia ta nou construit\u0103 cu un b\u0103rbat liber, care dorea s\u0103 fie cu tine oficial. Ambele episoade mi-au indicat un egoist \u015fi un narcisist, care \u00eei vede pe cei din jur doar prin prisma utilit\u0103\u0163ii lor, \u015fi care nu \u0163ine cont de nevoile celorlal\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Probabil c\u0103 de acest tip de abuz verbal are parte so\u0163ia lui de c\u00e2te ori nu-i pune destul\u0103 sare \u00een ciorb\u0103.<\/p>\n

Bucur\u0103-te c\u0103 \u015fi-a dat arama pe fa\u0163\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 divor\u0163eze – s\u0103 nu-\u0163i poat\u0103 scoate ochii c\u0103 a divor\u0163at din cauza ta – \u015fi \u00eenainte s\u0103 te legi de el \u00een orice fel. \u015ei ia \u00eentregul episod ca pe o lec\u0163ie de via\u0163\u0103. O lec\u0163ie de via\u0163\u0103 pe care ai avut norocul s\u0103 n-o aprofundezi foarte tare.<\/p>\n

PS: Grij\u0103 mare. Anticipez c\u0103 \u00een dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni te va suna extrem de mieros cu “Nu am vrut s\u0103 spun ceea ce am spus, nu este ceea ce pare,\u00a0 hai s\u0103 ne vedem, s\u0103 vorbim, s\u0103 stabilim unde facem nunta”. “Care nunt\u0103?” “Deja am f\u0103cut rezerv\u0103ri \u00een Insulele Maldive”.<\/p>\n

Nu ceda! Dac\u0103 te duci \u00een Maldive, e \u00een stare s\u0103 te lase acolo, cu factura de la hotel \u00een bra\u0163e \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 bilet de \u00eentors \u00een \u0163ar\u0103. Ca s\u0103-\u0163i demonstreze c\u0103 el p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte c***e, nu c***ele pe el.<\/p>\n

Da, exact at\u00e2t de infantil e egoul de narcisist.<\/p>\n

Evit\u0103-l ca pe Covid-19.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi fi sus\u021bin\u0103tori de n\u0103dejde.<\/p>\n

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