Te rog mult s\u0103 m\u0103 aju\u0163i cu un sfat c\u00e2nd poti. \u015etiu c\u0103 sun\u0103 a \u00eentrebare de Bravo Girl, dar cum a\u015f putea s\u0103 \u00eemi fac prietene noi?:))
\nAm 31 de ani, lucrez \u00eentr-un colectiv de b\u0103rba\u0163i cu care m\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg bine, mai ie\u015fim ocazional, \u00eens\u0103, \u00een afara serviciului, nu sunt invitat\u0103 la ie\u015firile lor, deoarece to\u0163i sunt c\u0103s\u0103tori\u0163i, iar eu sunt singur\u0103.
\nPrietenele mele bune (alea doua -trei) au familie \u015fi ne vedem destul de rar, deoarece sunt ocupate cu so\u0163ul\/copiii\/job etc, iar singurele ie\u015firi se desf\u0103\u015foar\u0103 la ele acas\u0103.
\nMai aveam c\u00e2teva amice cu care ie\u015feam la club\/cafea\/film, \u00eens\u0103 mereu aflam c\u0103 pe la spatele meu spuneau tot felul de lucruri ur\u00e2te despre mine, de\u015fi singurul motiv era aspectul meu fizic, drept pentru care am rupt rela\u0163iile de prietenie.
\nEu sunt genul de om care \u00ee\u015fi vede de treaba lui, nu-mi plac b\u00e2rfele, nu judec pe nimeni \u015fi caut s\u0103 fiu o prieten\u0103 bun\u0103 pentru ceilal\u0163i.
\n\u00cens\u0103 am r\u0103mas singur\u0103, rar mai ies din cas\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu am cu cine. \u015etiu, pot merge \u015fi singur\u0103 la teatru\/film etc, \u00eens\u0103 simt nevoia de socializare. \u015ei p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, de a avea un grup cu care s\u0103 ies, s\u0103 cunosc \u015fi eu pe cineva.
\nSt\u00e2nd singur\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103, nu o s\u0103 mi-l aduc\u0103 pe F\u0103t Frumos la u\u015f\u0103.
\nM-am mai \u00eenscris la cursuri, conferin\u0163e, pentru a mai cunoa\u015fte oameni noi, \u00eens\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 rezultat. Spune-mi, te rog, \u00een opinia ta, unde pot s\u0103 cunosc \u015fi eu ni\u015fte femei mi\u015fto cu care s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eemprietenesc?<\/p>\n
Mul\u0163umesc frumos!
\nX. <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n
Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n
Exact despre cursuri urma s\u0103-\u0163i vorbesc.
\nNu, nu conferin\u0163e, c\u0103 alea sunt one-time occasions \u015fi oricum nu au nici un farmec. Nu cunosc nici un om care s\u0103 zic\u0103: Ce a\u015f putea eu face mi\u015fto azi? \u015etiu!! Hai s\u0103 merg la o conferin\u0163\u0103.
\nSun\u0103 a locuri \u00een care te trimite firma \u00een team building \u015fi tu te plictise\u015fti p\u00e2n\u0103 la lacrimi. <\/p>\n
Dar nu exist\u0103 curs la care am fost – \u015fi am fost la destule! – de unde s\u0103 nu \u00eemi completez agenda \u015fi lista de Facebook cu c\u00e2teva persoane noi. <\/p>\n
Poate c\u0103 problema e undeva la tine. \u015ei seam\u0103n\u0103 cu problema b\u0103ie\u0163ilor care sufer\u0103 de exces de zel, \u015fi sunt at\u00e2t de dispera\u0163i s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o iubit\u0103, c\u0103 sperie pe toat\u0103 lumea. <\/p>\n
Fie c\u0103 e\u015fti extrem de timid\u0103, \u015fi creezi greu conexiune cu al\u0163ii, fie e\u015fti genul care se agit\u0103 ca un c\u0103\u0163el care vrea s\u0103 ias\u0103 la plimbare, d\u0103 cercuri – cercuri \u00een jurul omului \u015fi respir\u0103 rapid cu limba scoas\u0103 – iar oamenii tolereaz\u0103 greu acest tip de energie de la al\u0163i oameni. <\/p>\n
Mergi la cursuri \u015fi fii chill. Bucur\u0103-te c\u0103-i vezi pe al\u0163ii, pune-le \u00eentreb\u0103ri oneste despre ce mai fac \u015fi ascult\u0103 cu interes r\u0103spunsurile, dar f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 cotrope\u015fti. \u015ei treptat se vor \u00eenfiripa prietenii. <\/p>\n
\u015ei mai ales, dac\u0103 vezi c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 nu rezoneaz\u0103 cu tine, f\u0103 un pas gra\u0163ios \u00een spate. S\u0103 nu ajungi s\u0103 v\u00e2nezi aten\u0163ia altora cu tot dinadinsul. <\/p>\n
O ga\u015fc\u0103 foarte mi\u015fto de femei din majoritatea ora\u015felor rom\u00e2ne\u015fti \u015fi din mai multe \u0163\u0103ri str\u0103ine e pe pagina mea, Lorena Lupu Artist Page<\/a><\/strong>. D\u0103 like \u015fi interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103. Nu pu\u0163ine prietenii la cataram\u0103 au luat fiin\u0163\u0103 \u00een sec\u0163iunea mea de comentarii, iar eu m\u0103 bucur c\u00e2nd oamenii se apropie unii de al\u0163ii prin mine. Gagicile mele sunt selectate s\u0103 fie inteligente, gentile \u015fi sufletiste, pentru c\u0103 am un cringe la oameni pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i, \u015fi \u00eemi doresc un col\u0163i\u015for de internet \u00een care s\u0103 m\u0103 simt \u00een largul meu. Am parte de destule rahaturi \u00een afar\u0103, m\u0103car \u00een micul meu regat virtual s\u0103 fie bun\u0103tate, umor \u015fi afec\u0163iune. <\/p>\n Nu garantez c\u0103 o s\u0103 ias\u0103 cu tine din prima, dar vei g\u0103si conversa\u0163ie \u015fi la 4 diminea\u0163a. <\/p>\n Alte g\u0103\u015fti mi\u015fto de femei sunt, de obicei, \u00een ad\u0103posturile de animale. Po\u0163i s\u0103 te oferi s\u0103 faci voluntariat o dat\u0103 pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, pentru c\u0103 tipele alea muncesc de le sar ochii \u015fi dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini \u00een plus sunt man\u0103 cereasc\u0103 pentru ele. Plus, tot la ad\u0103posturile de animale ai \u015fansa s\u0103 nimere\u015fti b\u0103rba\u0163i decen\u0163i \u015fi ok, care investesc timp \u015fi resurse \u00een mod altruist pentru o cauz\u0103 nobil\u0103. Genul care nu \u00eentreab\u0103 “cf” \u00een mesageria privat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 are treab\u0103. <\/p>\n Alte g\u0103\u015fti mi\u015fto de femei g\u0103se\u015fti pe la aerobic, sal\u0103, orice fel de sport. Bine, recomand s\u0103 iei o or\u0103 de test, \u00eenainte s\u0103 faci abonamentul, s\u0103 te convingi c\u0103 e genul de grup care se \u00eemb\u0103rb\u0103teaz\u0103 \u015fi se sus\u0163ine reciproc, nu genul de grup care, cum iese cineva, \u00eencepe: Ai v\u0103zut-o, fat\u0103\u0103\u0103, pe aiaaaaa? \u015ei dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ie\u015fi cu cineva la un film, nimic nu te opre\u015fte s\u0103 iei dou\u0103 bilete pentru seara urm\u0103toare \u015fi s\u0103 dai status pe Facebook: Internetul \u0103sta e plin de fete care \u00ee\u015fi doresc prietene la fel de intens cum \u0163i le dore\u015fti tu. Trebuie doar s\u0103 dep\u0103\u015fe\u015fti blocajele, care \u00eei fac pe unii mult prea \u00eenchi\u015fi \u015fi pe al\u0163ii obositor de agasan\u0163i. <\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i blogul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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\nFetele care fac sport sunt fete care vor s\u0103 arate bine, \u015fi de obicei au \u015fi via\u0163a social\u0103 adecvat\u0103. <\/p>\n
\nFetelor, am \u015fi eu dou\u0103 bilete la filmul Nu spargi nuci cu pxla, produc\u0163ie coreean\u0103, 2019. Care ai chef s\u0103 vezi filmul cu mine? <\/p>\n
\nLorena. <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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