{"id":20109,"date":"2020-07-26T11:51:16","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T08:51:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20109"},"modified":"2020-07-26T12:20:11","modified_gmt":"2020-07-26T09:20:11","slug":"antonella-lerca-duda-femeie-transgender-roma-politiciana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/antonella-lerca-duda-femeie-transgender-roma-politiciana\/","title":{"rendered":"Antonella Lerca Duda: femeie transgender, rom\u0103, politician\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zilele acestea, e mare controvers\u0103 pe social media \u015fi curg ignoran\u0163ele \u00een presa clasic\u0103. O femeie transgender, de etnie rom\u0103, care \u00ee\u015fi declar\u0103 cu candoare profesia de sex worker, a decis s\u0103 candideze la Consiliul Local al sectorului 2.<\/p>\n

Am o alergie la prejudec\u0103\u0163i, de aceea am invitat-o pe Antonella Lerca Duda, cu care eram prieten\u0103 pe Facebook, s\u0103-mi acorde un interviu. \u015ei fac un disclaimer din start: Dac\u0103 nu v\u0103 place Antonella, sunte\u0163i liberi s\u0103 n-o vota\u0163i sau s\u0103 n-o sus\u0163ine\u0163i. Dar dac\u0103 v\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fte l\u0103tratul inept \u00een sec\u0163iunea mea de comentarii, v-am blocat f\u0103r\u0103 h\u00e2r \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 m\u00e2r.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 a\u0163i fi trecut m\u0103car printr-un sfert din greut\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi traumele prin care a trecut ea, nu e sigur c\u0103 a\u0163i fi printre noi.<\/p>\n

TROLLYWOOD: Unde te-ai n\u0103scut \u015fi cum a fost copil\u0103ria ta?<\/strong>
\nLa Ia\u0219i sunt n\u0103scut\u0103. Ohooo, grea copil\u0103rie. M-am n\u0103scut intr-o familie de romi, eu \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u015fapte fra\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Familia ta cum era? Tradi\u0163ional\u0103? Cu ce se ocupau?<\/strong>
\nTradi\u021bionali. Neam de lingurari. Vindeau prin t\u00e2rguri aram\u0103 \u015fi obiecte din aram\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei o confec\u0163ionau acas\u0103?<\/strong>
\nDa. D\u0103deau focuri prin curte. \ud83d\ude02 Mare fum ce era \u00een P\u0103curari, 75. A\u015fa \u00eei zice la strad\u0103. Topeau arama \u015fi f\u0103ceau fel \u015fi fel de castroane, oale, ligheane. Apoi, le vindeau la t\u00e2rg. \u00cen fiecare duminic\u0103 luau c\u0103ru\u021ba \u015fi si se duceau la \u201ctalcioc\u201c. Un fel de t\u00e2rg sub podurile vechi. Acum, nu mai exist\u0103.
\nNoi luam c\u00e2inii in bra\u021be, ne urcam \u00een spate, ne bucuram c\u0103 mergem cu c\u0103ru\u021ba. Erai important dac\u0103 aveai cal \u0219i c\u0103ru\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 pe c\u00e2nd eram feti\u0163\u0103 mic\u0103, invidiam \u00een sinea mea romii cu c\u0103ru\u0163a, mi se p\u0103reau foarte cool \u015fi a\u015f fi vrut s\u0103 plec cu ei. \ud83d\ude00<\/strong>
\nEram descul\u021b\u0103. F\u0103i fat\u0103, \u0219i o dat\u0103 nu m\u0103 t\u0103iam. Acum, dracu, \u015fi prin papuci m\u0103 tai.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\ude00 Acum te-ai domnit. Dac\u0103 s-a \u00eenchis talciocul, ai t\u0103i mai fac obiecte din aram\u0103?<\/strong>
\nNu.\u00a0Tata a murit.\u00a0\u0218i mama e lini\u0219tit\u0103 acas\u0103.\u00a0Nu s-a dus mai departe tradi\u021bia.\u00a0C\u0103 fiecare a plecat pe unde a v\u0103zut cu ochii, dup\u0103 ceva mai bun.<\/p>\n

Revenind la copil\u0103rie. Avea\u0163i roluri masculine \u015fi feminine foarte bine definite \u00een familie, s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg.<\/strong>
\nClar. B\u0103rbatul, capul familiei. Femeia, m\u00e2ncare \u0219i copii.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd tu ai ar\u0103tat c\u0103 ai o latur\u0103 feminin\u0103 puternic\u0103, cum au reac\u0163ionat prima dat\u0103? <\/strong>
\nM\u0103 b\u0103teau. Tata \u00eemi d\u0103dea. \u0218i mama m\u0103 alinta. Las\u0103-l, m\u0103i, c\u0103 e mic, se proste\u015fte, \u00eei zicea mama.<\/p>\n

\u00cen ce moduri “te prosteai”? Ce f\u0103ceai propriu-zis?<\/strong>
\nLuam fusta mamei, mi-o puneam rochie. \u00cemi puneam prosopul \u00een cap \u0219i ziceam c\u0103 e p\u0103r lung, rupeam benzile de la casete audio \u0219i \u00eemi f\u0103ceam pe un \u0219nur coad\u0103 de p\u0103r, \u00eei furam ojele \u015fi machiajele \u0219i m\u0103 d\u0103deam cu ele \u0219i m\u0103 duceam a\u0219a \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 \u00een femeie pe afar\u0103 prin curte, s\u0103 m\u0103 joc cu fetele in praf sau ne puneam s\u0103 dans\u0103m pe manele la casetofon de \u0103la cu lumini\u021be.<\/p>\n

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Foto: Igor Szarafin.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Erai sexoas\u0103 de mic\u0103, cum ar veni.<\/strong>
\n\ud83d\ude00 Da da.<\/p>\n

Dar la romi nu exist\u0103 morala asta foarte sever\u0103, c\u0103 numai femeile cumin\u0163i sunt bune de neveste \u015fi alea care se machiaz\u0103 \u015fi se \u00eembrac\u0103 nu \u015ftiu cum sunt c***e?<\/strong>
\nNu la noi, mai mult la c\u0103ld\u0103rari, \u0103ia cu fuste cre\u0163e, sau la pleto\u0219i.<\/p>\n

Cum reac\u0163iona comunitatea, familiile din jur, la faptul c\u0103 tu preferai hainele de femeie?<\/strong>
\nTo\u021bi m\u0103 considerau un copil nevinovat care se joac\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 o s\u0103 ii treac\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd cre\u015fte mai mare.<\/p>\n

Cum a fost la \u015fcoal\u0103?<\/strong>
\n\u00cen clasele primare, a fost ok.
\nEram un fel de protejata profesorilor, c\u0103 aveam numai note bune \u0219i participam la fel \u0219i fel de olimpiade de fizic\u0103 \u015fi chimie, \u0219i luasem premiul \u00eent\u00e2i peste tot, eram un fel de premianta \u0219colii. \u0218i copiii nu m\u0103 b\u0103gau \u00een seam\u0103, era o \u0219coal\u0103 obi\u0219nuit\u0103 de cartier, unde, dac\u0103 \u00een pauz\u0103 aveai un pachet de biscui\u021bi picnic, erai \u015fmeker. Dac\u0103 nu aveai, erai bun la \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tur\u0103 \u0219i sperai s\u0103 vin\u0103 aloca\u021bia mai repede, s\u0103 semneze \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea carnetul de cec.<\/p>\n

Ce te-a motivat s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i at\u00e2t de bine?<\/strong>
\nMi a pl\u0103cut \u00eentodeauna \u0219coala \u0219i \u00eemi place s\u0103 studiez, s\u0103 \u00eemi pun \u00eentreb\u0103ri fel \u0219i fel, de la c\u00e2te galaxii exist\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la existen\u0163a lumilor paralele sau a altor viet\u0103\u021bi \u00een spa\u021biu. De la cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 chimia organic\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la cum \u00ee\u0219i face efectul un antibiotic.
\n\u00cemi place s\u0103 citesc, s\u0103 m\u0103 uit la documentare, \u015fi parc\u0103 \u00eemi g\u0103seam lini\u0219tea \u00een lumea aia a pove\u0219tilor nemuritoare cu balauri \u0219i fe\u0163i frumo\u0219i. M\u0103 sim\u0163eam ca o prin\u021bes\u0103 de venea F\u0103t-Frumos sau Pr\u00e2slea s\u0103 m\u0103 ia de acas\u0103. m\u0103 retr\u0103geam \u00een c\u0103r\u021bi \u0219i \u00een \u0219coal\u0103, pentru ca \u00eemi pl\u0103cea s\u0103 fiu apreciat\u0103, sim\u0163eam c\u0103 acas\u0103 \u00eei doare-n c%r de mine \u0219i de diplomele mele. Orice diplome aduceam acas\u0103, nu erau de ajuns. Unele chiar au intrat \u0219i pe foc, s\u0103 se aprind\u0103 mai bine.<\/p>\n

P\u0103rin\u0163ii t\u0103i nu \u00ee\u0163i sus\u0163ineau nevoia de a te educa?<\/strong>
\nBa da, m\u0103 trimiteau la \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i spuneau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 scriu \u015fi s\u0103 citesc, dar nu la modul \u0103la c\u0103 “vaiii, mergi la \u0219coal\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i”. \u00cei durea undeva dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 mergi sau nu<\/p>\n

Care era viziunea lor de viitor pentru tine?<\/strong>
\nNu aveau o viziune de viitor pentru mine, sau cel pu\u021bin nu am v\u0103zut vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi spun\u0103 ce s\u0103 fac. \u015etiu c\u0103, la un moment dat, mama spunea s\u0103 m\u0103 fac preot.
\nDar nu m-am f\u0103cut \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02<\/p>\n

Observ. \ud83d\ude00 Erau credincio\u015fi ai t\u0103i sau de unde ideea preo\u0163iei?<\/strong>
\nNuu, nici vorb\u0103. Se c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 bine ca preot.\u00a0Mai o coliv\u0103, mai un colac, mai o \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare.\u00a0Bani \u00een buzunar b\u0103ga\u021bi de enoria\u0219i.<\/p>\n

Ai avut vreo poveste de dragoste copil\u0103reasc\u0103?<\/strong>
\nDa. Un vecin al meu mai mare cu doi ani.<\/p>\n

Tu c\u00e2\u0163i aveai?<\/strong>
\nUnsprezece.
\nEram practic vecini de case \u0219i mergeam \u00eempreun\u0103 ba pe la lada de gunoi, ba pe la fier vechi, ba prin ora\u0219 de nebuni. Nimeni nu se g\u00e2ndea la vremea aia c\u0103 nu e voie s\u0103 se iubeasc\u0103 doi b\u0103ie\u021bi. Pentru toat\u0103 lumea, eram doar doi prieteni, vecini de cas\u0103.\u00a0 \u00centr-o zi, c\u00e2nd am mers dup\u0103 fiare vechi, am nimerit \u00eentr+un fel de ghetou de-\u0103sta vechi \u0219i ne-am pus pe c\u0103utat pe acolo fier.
\nNimic nu g\u0103sisem, dec\u00e2t c\u00e2teva \u021bevi. Am pus \u021bevile \u00een sac \u0219i ne-am pus jos pe o treapt\u0103 din interiorul acelui bloc p\u0103r\u0103sit, sa m\u00e2nc\u0103m ni\u0219te parizer. \u00cent timp ce m\u00e2ncam, m\u0103 uitam la el. \u00centodeauna mi-au pl\u0103cut ochii alba\u0219tri \u0219i el a\u015fa \u00eei avea. S-a oprit din mu\u0219cat \u0219i s-a uitat la mine: “Ce ai, u\u0103i ? Ce te ui\u021bi?”
\nAuzi, m\u0103, \u00eei zic eu, hai s\u0103 ne juc\u0103m de-a mama \u0219i de-a tata. \ud83d\ude02 Doamne, c\u00e2nd \u00eemi amintesc. Noi, doi copii, ne d\u0103duser\u0103m pantalonii scur\u021bi spre genunchi \u0219i ne uitam unul la altul.\u00a0 Nu, nu merge s\u0103 ne juc\u0103m, c\u0103 avem am\u00e2ndoi la fel, a zis el. \ud83d\ude02 R\u00e2d c\u00e2nd \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 eram mici \u0219i pro\u015fti.
\nAtunci, hai s\u0103 ne pup\u0103m, poate a\u0219a merge, \u00eei zic. \u0218i ne-am pupat.
\nPrima dat\u0103, a fost un pup rece, a\u0219a rapid, dup\u0103 care, am zis s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m cum citeam prin oracolele pe care le completam, cu limba a\u0219a pe din\u0103untru. \ud83d\ude02 Dar acel s\u0103rut a \u00eensemnat mult pentru noi, a devenit un fel de pecetluire a prieteniei noastre, de\u0219i \u0219tiam c\u0103 ceva nu e bine la b\u0103iat cu b\u0103iat.
\n\u00cen timp ce ne s\u0103rutam, a trecut o \u0163iganc\u0103 vecin\u0103 de a noastr\u0103. \ud83d\ude02 Sc\u00e2rba ne-a v\u0103zut, dar nu a zis nimic, a fugit \u00eentr-un suflet la p\u0103rin\u021bi sa le zic\u0103.<\/p>\n

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Foto: Raja Van Ik.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

Mi-e \u015fi fric\u0103 de ce urmeaz\u0103.<\/strong>
\nDup\u0103 ce am mai stat \u015fi am terminat parizerul, r\u00e2deam \u0219i ne pl\u0103cea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla.\u00a0 Sim\u0163eam c\u0103 suntem prieteni foarte buni, c\u0103 nimic nu ne desparte, c\u0103 de m\u00e2ine \u00eencolo, alerg\u0103m numai \u00eempreun\u0103 dup\u0103 fier \u0219i cupru.
\n\u0218i ne pornim spre cas\u0103.
\nAjungem acas\u0103 \u0219i vedem de la dep\u0103rtare, \u00een fa\u0163a u\u0219ii, mama mea \u015fi mama lui la cafea \u0219i \u0163igar\u0103 pe trotuar cu \u00eenc\u0103 vreo trei-patru vecini pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei \u0219i \u0163iganca care ne-a v\u0103zut.
\nC\u00e2nd am ajuns mai aproape, auzim \u0163iganca cum r\u00e2njea de se p**a pe ea, mama se ridic\u0103, ia de sub ea o nuia din vi\u0219in verde \u0219i fuge spre mine, eu ma uit in spate, s\u0103 v\u0103d dup\u0103 cine fuge. \ud83d\ude02 \u015ei m\u0103 prinde de bra\u0163ul drept \u0219i d\u0103-i, \u0219i d\u0103-i, \u0219i d\u0103-i.\u00a0 “M\u0103i, omosecsualule, ce ai f\u0103cut cu Daniel \u00een ghetou.”
\nAilalt\u0103 l-a luat pe Daniel de m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i l-a dus \u00een cas\u0103. \u015ei numai ce se auzea “auleuu, nu mai da, aulei, m\u0103 doare, aulei”. M\u0103 t\u00e2r\u00e2ia mama spre cas\u0103 de o m\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi m\u0103 b\u0103tea cu cealalt\u0103. Eu: pl\u00e2nsete \u015fi urlete, nu mai da, nu mai da, nu mai da.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude02 Ce circ.<\/p>\n

\u015ei dup\u0103 ce v-au b\u0103tut a\u015fa pe am\u00e2ndoi, v-au interzis s\u0103 v\u0103 mai vede\u0163i sau s\u0103 merge\u0163i \u00eempreun\u0103?<\/strong>
\nDa, clar, de m\u00e2ine nu te mai vezi cu Daniel. Ete p*la.\u00a0Noi plecam de acas\u0103 pe str\u0103zi diferite \u015fi ne \u00eent\u00e2lneam la ghetou.<\/p>\n

Nu era riscant acolo, dac\u0103 v-a v\u0103zut deja cineva?<\/strong>
\nDa’ ce, crezi c\u0103 noi \u0219tiam c\u0103 ne-a v\u0103zut \u0163iganca?\u00a0 Noi nici nu \u0219tiam de unde \u0219tiau. Dar eram mai precau\u021bi,\u00a0 nu mai st\u0103team pe sc\u0103ri. Ne b\u0103gam la \u00eentuneric,<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd s-a terminat aceast\u0103 poveste de dragoste? \u015ei cum?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, cam trist. La 17 ani, c\u00e2nd am plecat in Italia.<\/p>\n

Deci, tu ai avut o rela\u0163ie clandestin\u0103 cu Daniel toat\u0103 adolescen\u0163a, \u015fi nimeni n-a \u015ftiut?<\/strong>
\nYep. Mai aflaser\u0103 dup\u0103 nunt\u0103 fetele cu care umblam.<\/p>\n

Ce nunt\u0103?<\/strong>
\nLa 14 ani. Mi-a dat mama fat\u0103 la 14 ani, s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eensor cu japca. Logic c\u0103 eu nu am f\u0103cut nimic cu fata \u00een noaptea nun\u021bii \u0219i a doua zi, c\u00e2nd trebuia s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m \u00eentregii \u021big\u0103nii s\u00e2ngele pe cear\u0219af, p*la.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude02 Eu, \u00een noaptea nun\u021bii, probam rochia miresei \u0219i m\u0103 vedeam mare femeie \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02
\nDup\u0103 ziua nun\u021bii, au \u00eenceput toate \u201cdezastrele\u201c.<\/p>\n

Un moment. C\u00e2nd a venit vorba s\u0103 te \u00eensori \u015fi de ce?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, a\u0219a se face la \u021bigani, te \u00eensoar\u0103 familia. Face aranjamente cu alt\u0103 familie.\u00a0Din interese familiale, financiare etc.,\u00a0 tu nu e\u0219ti luat \u00een considerare, se face totul preg\u0103tit de ei. Tu numai te treze\u0219ti \u00eentr-o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u0103 ai costum de mire \u0219i c\u0103 duminic\u0103 ai nunt\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei tu nu ai dreptul s\u0103 spui dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place sau nu fata?<\/strong>
\nNu.\u00a0Bine, acum s-au mai emancipat, c\u0103 au intrat autorit\u0103\u021bile peste ei.\u00a0Nu mai e cum era atunci.<\/p>\n

\u00cen\u0163eleg. So\u0163ia nu s-a mirat c\u0103 \u00eei probai rochia \u00een noaptea nun\u0163ii?<\/strong>
\nNu, c\u0103 eu \u015fi ea ne cuno\u0219team, ne mai v\u0103zuser\u0103m c\u00e2nd ie\u0219eam cu fetele sa m\u00e2nc\u0103m semin\u021be prin parc. Era dintr-un cartier de aproape. \u0218i \u0219tia ca sunt mare femeie \ud83d\ude02
\nNici ea, nici eu nu \u0219tiam c\u0103 ne lu\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103. \ud83d\ude02 M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 o s\u0103 evite mama s\u0103 m\u0103 mai \u00eensoare.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut c\u0103 se m\u0103rit\u0103 cu tine, cum a reac\u0163ionat?<\/strong>
\nR\u00e2dea. \ud83d\ude02 \u015ei, in acela\u0219i timp, \u00eei era fric\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi, \u015fi de ce va urma.<\/p>\n

\u015ei cum a fost integrarea \u00een noua familie?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, nu. Dup\u0103 noaptea nun\u021bii, eu nu am ar\u0103tat diminea\u021ba cear\u0219aful cu s\u00e2nge, semn c\u0103 era virgin\u0103, pentru c\u0103 noi nu am f\u0103cut nimic. Deci, circul de pe lume, au \u00eenceput s\u0103 se certe familia mea cu familia ei, s-a stabilit s\u0103 se fac\u0103 judecat\u0103 \u0163ig\u0103neasc\u0103 mai pe dup\u0103-amiaza, s\u0103 vedem ce e de f\u0103cut pe mai departe.<\/p>\n

Dar de ce era obligatoriu s\u0103 faci \u00een noaptea nun\u0163ii? Poate era timid\u0103 \u015fi voiai s-o menajezi.<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, dac\u0103 a\u0219a e tradi\u021bia. \u00cen noaptea nun\u021bii, se consum\u0103 actul. Ca s\u0103 nu te treze\u0219ti dup\u0103 o lun\u0103 s\u0103 spui c\u0103 ai luat o fat\u0103 care nu e cinstit\u0103.
\nS-a f\u0103cut judecat\u0103. \u0218i au \u00eentrebat de ce eu nu \u00eemi fac treaba. \u0218i mama le-a spus c\u0103 mergem la doctor, poate o avea ceva, sau la preot. \u015ei s-a luat decizia ca, \u00eentr-o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, s\u0103 se g\u0103seasc\u0103 motivele, altfel familia mea pl\u0103tea pre\u021bul fetei dublu in b\u0103nu\u021bi de aur.<\/p>\n

Singura situa\u0163ie \u00een care pl\u0103te\u015fti c\u00e2nd nu f*\u0163i. <\/strong>
\n\ud83d\ude00 \u0218i atunci, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 mergem ba pe la preo\u021bi, ba pe la doctori, s\u0103 g\u0103sim un act, ceva , care s\u0103 dovedeasc\u0103 c\u0103 sunt anormal\u0103. \u015ei a\u0219a ne sp\u0103l\u0103m ru\u0219inea.<\/p>\n

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\u015ei ce a\u0163i rezolvat?<\/strong>
\nDup\u0103 ce am stat internat\u0103 o lun\u0103 aproape la Socola, un spital de psihiatrie din Ia\u0219i, un doctor str\u0103in care f\u0103cea universitatea la Ia\u0219i i-a spus doctorului care se ocupa de cazul meu c\u0103 eu nu am \u201ctulbur\u0103ri de comportament”, dup\u0103 cum spunea el, \u0219i c\u0103 e disforie de gen, de fapt.\u00a0Mama l-a \u00eentrebat: “domn doctor, ne da\u021bi la m\u00e2n\u0103 ceva \u201cisc\u0103lit”\u00a0 cum c\u0103 e bolnav?” “Da, da.” Gata, am r\u0103suflat u\u0219ura\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Mi se pare absolut oribil. Tu, o persoan\u0103 de 14 ani, \u00een plin\u0103 adolescen\u0163\u0103, c\u00e2nd al\u0163ii \u00ee\u015fi aleg liceul \u015fi se dezvolt\u0103 intelectual, s\u0103 stai la nebuni, doar pentru c\u0103 nu ai fost \u00een stare s\u0103 faci sex la ordin cu o persoan\u0103 pe care nu o iubeai. <\/strong>
\nWell, s\u0103 m\u0103 vezi pe mine \u00eenchis\u0103 cu gratii la nebuni. Groaznic.<\/p>\n

Poveste\u015fte-mi experien\u0163a.<\/strong>
\nNu vreau s\u0103 o retr\u0103iesc, pe bune. Nu m\u0103 simt confortabil.<\/p>\n

\u00cen\u0163eleg \u015fi respect asta. Bun. Dar oricum, studiile o dat\u0103 \u00eentrerupte pentru prostia asta au putut fi reluate?<\/strong>
\nNu. Adic\u0103 da, un an maxim. Dar \u0219i \u0103la \u00eentrerupt.<\/p>\n

De ce?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, dac\u0103 eram marginalizat\u0103 acas\u0103, nu m\u0103 mai b\u0103ga nimeni \u00een seam\u0103, spuneau c\u0103 sunt handicapat, cum s\u0103 am grij\u0103 de mine singur\u0103, s\u0103 merg la \u0219coal\u0103, s\u0103 m\u0103 preg\u0103tesc? Au venit o dat\u0103 dup\u0103 mine diriginta cu doi colegi Dar nimic.<\/p>\n

\u015ei tu, din copilul premiant \u015fi participant la olimpiade, ai ajuns s\u0103 te la\u015fi de \u015fcoal\u0103.<\/strong>
\nDa, trist. P\u0103i, de aia venise diriginta dup\u0103 mine. \u0218tia c\u0103 eu o s\u0103 fiu un caz pierdut, dar important.<\/p>\n

\u015ei dup\u0103 ce au demonstrat cu acte c\u0103 erai “anormal\u0103”, a urmat divor\u0163?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, da, clar, \u0219i-au luat fata acas\u0103 cum au adus-o, neatins\u0103.<\/p>\n

Iar pe tine lumea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 te marginalizeze.<\/strong>
\nTo\u021bi, inclusiv vecini, \u00cen afar\u0103 de Daniel.<\/p>\n

Bine, probabil c\u0103, public, nici el nu avea curaj s\u0103 vorbi\u0163i.<\/strong>
\nA, da. Dar, pentru mine, neb\u0103garea asta \u00een seam\u0103 \u0219i faptul c\u0103 m-au l\u0103sat \u00een pace m-a ajutat. C\u0103 am putut s\u0103 \u00eemi tr\u0103iesc adolescen\u0163a trans. M\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103cam \u00een femeie \u0219i lumea zicea c\u0103 nu are ce s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103, c\u0103 sunt nebun.<\/p>\n

OK, dar ce inten\u0163ionai s\u0103 faci mai departe? \u015ecoal\u0103 nu, c\u0103s\u0103torie nu, o rela\u0163ie public\u0103 asumat\u0103 cu b\u0103rbatul iubit nu. Ce voiai s\u0103 faci cu via\u0163a ta?<\/strong>
\nS\u0103 fug. S\u0103 fug \u00een alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103 cu el. Fapt \u00eemplinit.<\/p>\n

A, a\u0163i fugit \u00eempreun\u0103 de acas\u0103?<\/strong> C\u00e2nd, cum \u015fi unde?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, aflase el de pe la nu \u0219tiu ce anturaje de-ale lui, din Germania, c\u0103 astea ca mine, de vor s\u0103 fie femei, \u00een alte \u0163\u0103ri sunt tratate bine, \u0219i le fac \u0103\u0219tia p**d\u0103 gratis, le taie p*la \u0219i le fac femei. Eu proasta, credeam c\u0103 dac\u0103 merg dincolo devin prin\u021bes\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 vom tr\u0103i cu dragostea noastr\u0103 \u0219i cu aer.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude02
\nEi i-au povestit de transexuale. Atunci am aflat \u0219i eu ce sunt. \ud83d\ude02
\nP\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, eram gen homosexual cu disforie de gen.<\/p>\n

\u00cen\u0163eleg. \u015ei a\u0163i hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 fugi\u0163i \u00een Germania.<\/strong>
\nNu, am zis s\u0103 mergem \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 romantic\u0103 \u0219i am ales Italia. Vene\u021bia.
\nAm furat galbeni de la mama. \u0102ia de nunt\u0103. \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02 I-am b\u0103gat la amanet, \u0219i seara ne-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit la ghetou.\u00a0 La ora 00:00, aveam autobuz spre Italia, \u021bara \u00een care o s\u0103 g\u0103sim c\u00e2ini cu colaci \u00een coad\u0103. \ud83d\ude02 \u00ce\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 eram cea mai fericit\u0103, dar \u0219i el,\u00a0 Pe el, m\u0103-sa \u00eel \u00eensurase cu una, dar aia a pierdut copilul \u0219i el nu s-a mai atins de ea din noaptea nun\u021bii, st\u0103tea de umplutur\u0103 cu ea. Ne tr\u0103iam visul dragostei, s\u0103 fugi cu persoana iubit\u0103 \u00een lume.<\/p>\n

\u015ei avea\u0163i acte s\u0103 trece\u0163i grani\u0163a?<\/strong>
\nNu. Ne-am b\u0103gat la valize. \u0218i i-am dat bani la \u0219ofer. Bani frumo\u0219i, vreo trei mii de euro, pe atunci erau bani. Prin 2007,<\/p>\n

Dar \u00een 2007 cred c\u0103 putea\u0163i deja c\u0103l\u0103tori \u00een UE cu buletinul.<\/strong>
\nDar eram minor\u0103. Nu f\u0103cusem 18 ani \u00eenc\u0103. 17 ani \u0219i ceva aveam.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 mai a\u015ftepta\u0163i c\u00e2teva luni, putea\u0163i pleca legal \u015fi din anii \u0103ia s\u0103 \u00eenchiria\u0163i ceva, s\u0103 v\u0103 aranja\u0163i o via\u0163\u0103.<\/strong>
\nTu crezi c\u0103 la v\u00e2rsta aia g\u00e2nde\u0219ti?<\/p>\n

Corect, nu. \u015ei a\u0163i reu\u015fit s\u0103 ajunge\u0163i \u00een Italia printre valize?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, numai la grani\u021b\u0103 ne b\u0103ga la valize.<\/p>\n

Restul c\u0103l\u0103torilor nu g\u0103sea nimic ciudat \u00een asta?<\/strong>
\nNu, c\u0103 st\u0103team \u00een fa\u0163\u0103. \u0218i gen, eram neamuri de-ale \u015foferului. Jos, unde au valizele, aveau \u0219i o specie de pat. Unde se odihnea un \u0219ofer, c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt conducea. Chiar sub sc\u0103rile de la mijloc.<\/p>\n

Bun. A\u021bi ajuns \u00een Italia. Care a fost impactul vizual, c\u00e2nd a\u021bi dat cu ochii de lumea asta nou\u0103 pentru voi?<\/strong>
\nZici c\u0103 l-am apucat pe Dumnezeu de picior , am zis c\u0103 aici e de noi. \ud83d\ude0d Ne pl\u0103cea enorm.<\/p>\n

Ce a\u021bi v\u0103zut prima oar\u0103?<\/strong>
\nGara din Treviso, ora\u0219 l\u00e2ng\u0103 Vene\u021bia. Zici c\u0103 eram \u00een filmele pe care le vedeam la televizor.<\/p>\n

Avea\u021bi pe cineva la care s\u0103 merge\u021bi, sau era\u021bi pe cont propriu?<\/strong>
\nAveam un b\u0103tr\u00e2n, o rud\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rtat\u0103 a lui Daniel, care st\u0103tea intr-o casa abandonat\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 Vene\u021bia.<\/p>\n

\u0218i mo\u0219ul \u0219tia de rela\u021bia voastr\u0103?<\/strong>
\nNu. Eram doar doi prieteni C\u00e2nd am plecat, am fost \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 \u00een haine de b\u0103iat.<\/p>\n

Dar probabil c\u0103 s-a prins pe parcurs.<\/strong>
\nDa. \u0218i ce crezi, nu a zis nimic. Ba chiar mi se adresa la feminin, o dat\u0103 f\u0103cut coming out \u00een fa\u0163a lui.<\/p>\n

Tr\u0103ia \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, avea alt\u0103 educa\u021bie.<\/strong>
\nEra de peste zece ani acolo. Ne a primit la el, s\u0103 st\u0103m p\u00e2n\u0103 ne punem pe picioare.<\/p>\n

Ce ocupa\u021bii v-a\u021bi g\u0103sit?<\/strong>
\nNe-am b\u0103gat am\u00e2ndoi la cules de vie.<\/p>\n

Clasic rom\u00e2nesc. :)))<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, la negru, ce g\u0103seai te b\u0103gai. Am nimerit \u00eentr-o ferm\u0103 privat\u0103, tipul se ocupa cu vin \u00een familie, nu era industrie mare, gen fabric\u0103. A fost ok un an. Dup\u0103 un an, s-a terminat agricultura \u015fi a trebuit s\u0103 ne reprofil\u0103m.
\nEl intrase \u00een ni\u0219te anturaje de rom\u00e2ni care se ocupau cu droguri, fete etc.\u00a0\u0218i nu prea mai venea acas\u0103.\u00a0A\u0219a deodat\u0103, se schimbase.<\/p>\n

P\u0103i, g\u0103\u015ftile alea \u00eenv\u00e2rt mult mai mul\u0163i bani, iar banii corup<\/strong>
\nDa \u0219i asta, dar \u0219i drogurile. Se apucase de coca. \u0218i eu nu \u0219tiam.<\/p>\n

\u015fi coca e un obicei scump, nu-l finan\u0163ezi din cules struguri. \u00cen momentul \u0103sta, mai tr\u0103ia\u0163i cu mo\u015ful?<\/strong>
\nDa. Daniel intrase \u00een economiile noastre, s\u0103-\u015fi cumpere droguri. La struguri, luam c\u00e2te 100-300 euro pe zi. Aveam planuri mari. S\u0103 ne lu\u0103m chirie. S\u0103 ne schimb\u0103m jobul.<\/p>\n

Ce ai f\u0103cut?<\/strong>
\nP\u0103i, ce s\u0103 fac, au \u00eenceput certurile \u0219i scandalurile, p\u00e2n\u0103 l-am prins cu alta. Trans brazilianc\u0103. Eu \u00eencepusem s\u0103 iau hormoni \u00een Italia. \u00cen timp ce lucram la cules de vie, m-am \u00eemprietenit cu patroana \u0219i mi-a f\u0103cut rost de ele.<\/p>\n

Ce oameni buni \u015fi deschi\u015fi la minte.<\/strong>
\nDa. \ud83d\ude0d \u00cenc\u0103 mai p\u0103strez leg\u0103tura cu ei. Oameni minuna\u021bi<\/p>\n

Ce hormoni ai luat \u015fi cum s-au manifestat efectele?<\/strong>
\nAm luat hormoni pe baz\u0103 de estrogen. \u00cencepuser\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi creasc\u0103 s\u00e2nii, p\u0103rul, unghiile, s\u0103 devin mai feminin\u0103 \u00een voce. Mu\u0219chii mai mici, f\u0103r\u0103 prea mult p\u0103r pe corp.<\/p>\n

Mi se pare bizar c\u0103 Daniel \u0163i-a fost loial at\u00e2\u0163ia ani, a fugiit cu tine \u00een lume, apoi, brusc, s-a sucit cu 180 de grade.<\/strong>
\nDrogurile, sora mea.\u00a0Chiar pl\u00e2ngea uneori \u0219i spunea s\u0103 \u00eel iert.\u00a0P\u0103i, nu doar o dat\u0103 l -m iertat. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd\u00a0l-am prins cu alta \u00een cas\u0103.\u00a0Aia avea dou\u0103 grame de coca, \u0219i \u0103sta era disperat dup\u0103 tras pe nas, asta l-a ademenit cu droguri, doar ca s\u0103 i.o sug\u0103.\u00a0L-am prins \u00een timp ce f\u0103ceau oral.<\/p>\n

Bun, OK, c\u00e2nd i-ai prins \u00een flagrant delict, cum ai reac\u0163ionat?<\/strong>
\nSunt rece de obicei \u00een situa\u021bii de criz\u0103, deci am \u00eenchis usa \u0219i am ie\u0219it afar\u0103, nu \u00eemi venea s\u0103 cred. M\u0103 a\u015fteptam ca el s\u0103 vin\u0103 dup\u0103 mine, nimic.<\/p>\n

\u015ei?<\/strong>
\n\u0218i m-am dus la o prieten\u0103 pe care mi-o f\u0103cusem pe acolo, o rom\u00e2nc\u0103. I-am povestit tot.\u00a0El a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 sune \u00een disperare, dar nu i-am r\u0103spuns. A doua zi, am mers la el, \u0219i era varz\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103, sticle de bere goale pe jos, mizerie peste tot, \u0219erve\u021bele. Mo\u0219ul mi-a zis s\u0103 plec\u0103m \u00een dou\u0103-trei zile, c\u0103 asear\u0103 a dat drumul la muzic\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei a\u0163i plecat \u00eempreun\u0103, sau separat?<\/strong>
\nSeparat. El la ea, eu la prietena mea.<\/p>\n

Ai izbutit s\u0103 iei m\u0103car o parte din economii?<\/strong>
\nDa, ascunsesem la mo\u0219u’ ni\u0219te bani, c\u0103 partea lui nu mai exista, \u0219i \u00eencepuse s\u0103 \u00eemi fure chestii, sa le v\u00e2nd\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ia droguri: adida\u0219i, trening. Tot ce prindea. Din economiile pe care le salvasem, mi-am luat cu chirie o camer\u0103 de la fata asta rom\u00e2nc\u0103 pentru o lun\u0103 \u0219i am m\u00e2ncat.<\/p>\n

M\u0103 bucur c\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2nul a fost om cu tine p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t. Putea \u015fi el s\u0103 \u00eentrebe: care economii?<\/strong>
\nNu, a fost un om bun, \u0219i acum vorbesc cu el.<\/p>\n

Tot \u00een casa aia p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103 st\u0103?<\/strong>
\nDa. Nu te g\u00e2ndi c\u0103 o cas\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103 \u00een Italia e la fel ca una din Rom\u00e2nia. Avea lumin\u0103, ap\u0103. Doar c\u0103 nu st\u0103tea nimeni.<\/p>\n

Bun. Care a fost urm\u0103torul pas \u00een via\u0163a ta dup\u0103 ce ai plecat \u00een gazd\u0103?<\/strong>
\nM-am mutat la rom\u00e2nca asta, \u0219i tot vedeam c\u0103 ea seara se aranja \u0219i ie\u0219ea. Dormitorul ei era l\u00e2ng\u0103 al meu \u0219i observam.
\nEu m\u00e2ncam din ce bani mai aveam din economii \u0219i se cam terminau. \u00centr-o sear\u0103, dup\u0103 vreo lun\u0103 de c\u00e2nd st\u0103team la asta, deci practic f***sem banii, nu aveam \u0163ig\u0103ri \u0219i zic s\u0103 ies afar\u0103, s\u0103 iau ni\u0219te \u0163ig\u0103ri cu ultimul m\u0103run\u021bi\u0219 r\u0103mas. Dar am zis s\u0103 ies dup\u0103 ce iese ea afar\u0103, s\u0103 v\u0103d \u015fi eu ce face seara, c\u0103 \u00eemi tot puneam \u00eentreb\u0103ri.
\n\u0218i am ie\u0219it dup\u0103 vreo jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 dup\u0103 ea. M\u0103 duceam spre ma\u0219ina de tig\u0103ri. Acolo, noaptea nu sunt magazine non stop, doar automate de \u0163ig\u0103ri. \u0218i c\u00e2nd dau col\u021bul la o strad\u0103, o v\u0103d pe rom\u00e2nc\u0103. St\u0103tea rezemat\u0103 de geamul ma\u0219inii \u0219i vorbea cu \u0219oferul.
\nPrima dat\u0103, am crezut c\u0103 o fi vreun amic al ei, n-am b\u0103gat \u00een seam\u0103 \u0219i m-am dus s\u0103 iau \u0163ig\u0103ri. C\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors, aceea\u0219i priveli\u0219te, dar alt\u0103 ma\u0219in\u0103. Ceva e la mijloc, zic, \u0219i m\u0103 duc acas\u0103.
\nA doua zi, la cafea o, \u00eentreb direct a\u0219a pe \u0219leau:\u00a0 auzi, fat\u0103, da’ asear\u0103 ai f\u0103cut ceva? \ud83d\ude02 Asta s-a spart singur\u0103, cic\u0103 nu doar unu’.
\n\u0218i \u00eei zic: f\u0103i, fat\u0103, vreau \u0219i eu, uite, nu mai am bani, vine chiria.<\/p>\n

Dar tu \u00een punctul \u0103sta avusese\u015fi un singur partener sexual. <\/strong>
\nDa, soro, da’ m\u0103 p\u0103\u0219tea foame \u0219i puteam fi aruncat\u0103 din chirie.
\n\u0218i ea \u00eemi zice: P\u0103i, s\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 sunt tran\u015fii \u0103\u0219tia brazilieni, fac sute de euro pe strad\u0103. Practic, la o cotitur\u0103 dup\u0103 locul unde st\u0103tea ea seara, era o strad\u0103 paralel\u0103 cu vreo 20 de fete trans.
\nErau doua str\u0103zi diferite. Una unde erau doar fete biologice \u0219i una numai de tran\u015fi.<\/p>\n

Cum te-ai preg\u0103tit \u00een prima sear\u0103?<\/strong>
\nPrima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am ie\u015fit la strad\u0103, ar\u0103tam ca dracu, hahaha, nu \u015ftiam s\u0103 m\u0103 aranjez, \u00eemi d\u0103duse ea o fusti\u0163\u0103 de-aia de \u015fcol\u0103ri\u0163\u0103 \u015fi aveam un maieu roz, p\u0103rul prins \u00een coad\u0103, ruj ro\u015fu pe buse \u015fi un verde strident la ochi, plus, bonus, cercei de argint rotunzi, mari. F\u0103r\u0103 tocuri, cu sandale de alea cu flutura\u015fi \u00een st\u00e2nga.<\/p>\n

Cum te-au primit restul fetelor?<\/strong>
\nMare scandal. Am ajuns la strad\u0103 cu rom\u00e2nca \u015fi st\u0103team \u015fi eu l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea, dar vedeam c\u0103 ea tot urc\u0103 \u015fi coboar\u0103 din ma\u015fini, urc\u0103 \u015fi coboar\u0103, client dup\u0103 client, \u015fi eu nimic. I-am zis: f\u0103i, fat\u0103, eu m\u0103 duc pe strada tran\u0219ilor, fie ce o fi. M\u0103 duc pe strada paralel\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 pun \u0219i eu l\u00e2ng\u0103 o benzin\u0103rie, un peco, stau c\u00e2t stau, vine un client. O ma\u0219in\u0103 mi\u0219to de aia cu fi\u021be \u0219i un b\u0103iat t\u00e2n\u0103r la vreo 20 si ceva de ani. Deschide geamul \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2t.M\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021base asta acas\u0103 c\u00e2t s\u0103 cer \u0219i ce s\u0103 le spun, deci \u00eei spun 30 de euro oral \u0219i 50 anal, plus oral 100 acas\u0103 la mine. \u00cemi zice b\u0103iatul s\u0103 urc \u0219i mergem sub un pod. Sub pod, am l\u0103sat scaunele din fa\u021b\u0103 pe spate, \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 \u0103sta \u00een jos pantalonii, eu nimic, cum am urcat, a\u0219a am r\u0103mas \u0219i m\u0103 uitam la el, hahaha.
\nLa un moment dat, b\u0103iatul \u00eemi zice “hai, dezbrac\u0103-te, ce, e prima dat\u0103?” la care eu. foarte repede: “da”. B\u0103i, mare noroc cu b\u0103iatul asta t\u00e2n\u0103r, c\u0103 m-a luat \u00eencet, mi-a dat peste cap bluza, mi-a dat jos fusti\u0163a, m\u0103 pupa pe g\u00e2t<\/p>\n

Practic, a f\u0103cut dragoste cu tine.<\/strong>
\nA luat el ini\u0163iativa, c\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut c\u0103 eu sunt stan\u0103 de piatr\u0103.<\/p>\n

Cum te-ai sim\u0163it?<\/strong>
\nA, super, c\u0103 m-a luat \u00eencet tipul \u015fi, \u00een plus, era pasiv. \u00cen fine, trecem peste siropoase, m-a adus \u00eenapoi de unde m-a luat. C\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eendreptam spre locul de unde m-a luat, v\u0103d o ditamai matahala de trans de vreo 190 m, cu ditamai bidoanele afro, \u00een locul de unde plecasem. \u00cen g\u00e2ndul meu zic: Antonello, te-ai dat dracu. Nici bine nu opre\u015fte tipul ma\u015fina, deschid portiera aia, sbang, ea tr\u00e2nte\u015fte portiera s\u0103 o \u00eenchid\u0103 ca s\u0103 nu ies din ma\u015fin\u0103 \u015fi \u0163ip\u0103 la mine “d\u0103-i drumul de aici, cine te-a adus s\u0103 te pun\u0103 \u00een locul ei, aici e numai de tran\u015fi. Tipa brazilianc\u0103 credea c\u0103 eu sunt femeie \u015fi c\u0103 m-a adus rom\u00e2nca s\u0103 le iau locurile la trans.
\nCoboar\u0103 tipul din ma\u015fin\u0103: “ce ai cu fata, nu \u0163i-e ru\u015fine c\u0103 sunte\u0163i o m\u00e2n\u0103 de tran\u015fi \u015fi v\u0103 m\u00e2nca\u0163i \u00eentre voi pentru un client-doi \u00een plus \u015fi v\u0103 bate\u0163i pe locuri \u00een loc s\u0103 fi\u0163i unite.” Matahala se uita \u015fi t\u0103cea. La un moment dat \u00eei zice la tip, “p\u0103i da, m\u0103 b\u0103iatule, c\u0103 dac\u0103 era trans, uite o puneam s\u0103 stea \u00een cap\u0103tul str\u0103zii, unde se pun astea noi \u015fi nu avea nimeni nimic cu ea, dar a\u015fa, noi femei nu vrem pe strada noastr\u0103, c\u0103 le e ru\u015fine la clien\u0163i s\u0103 ne mai ia, c\u0103 a\u015fa vine o dat\u0103 la trans, o dat\u0103 la femei”. Tipul urc\u0103 \u00een ma\u015fin\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 zic\u0103 nimic. “Auzi, asta, crede c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie.” Eu \u00eencep s\u0103 r\u00e2d \u015fi \u00eei spun: “du-m\u0103 pe strada fetelor, bine c\u0103 am aflat unde pot s\u0103 m\u0103 pun” \u015fi m-am dus s\u0103 stau l\u00e2ng\u0103 rom\u00e2nc\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eei povestesc ce am p\u0103\u0163it cu brazilianca.<\/p>\n

De ce nu i-ai zis c\u0103 e\u015fti trans?<\/strong>
\nNu am vrut. Am aplicat strategie. Bine c\u0103 aflasem unde pot s\u0103 m\u0103 duc \u015fi unde sunt locurile de trans nou+venite. \u015ei,\u00a0 uite a\u015fa, am dob\u00e2ndit locul meu de munc\u0103.
\nLogic c\u0103, dup\u0103 aceea, ne-am \u00eemprietenit cu fetele trans \u015fi eu, \u015fi rom\u00e2nca. La \u00eenceput e belea peste tot, un pic de scandal, dup\u0103, o las\u0103 toate moale. P\u0103i, am ie\u015fit la Lizeanu \u015fi au s\u0103rit fetele pe mine, hahahaaa. \u015ei le-am spus, ho f\u0103, c\u0103 cine vrea p**da vine la voi, cine vrea p*la vine la mine.<\/p>\n

Fetele trans din Vene\u0163ia erau toate brazilience sau amestec de na\u0163ionalit\u0103\u0163i?<\/strong>
\nAmestecate. De la peruane p\u00e2n\u0103 la argentinience, bulg\u0103roaice \u015fi altele.<\/p>\n

Ai avut vreo prietenie mai apropiat\u0103 cu vreuna dintre ele?<\/strong>
\nCu toate. Ne adunam duminic\u0103 de duminc\u0103 vara la volei pe marginile r\u00e2ului sau la mare la plaj\u0103, s\u0103 juc\u0103m \u015fi s\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103m, deci era o mare familie. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi \u00een ziua de azi, dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i pe Facebook la mine, g\u0103se\u015fti poze cu mine \u015fi cu ele la petreceri, barbeque \u015fi circuri.<\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, \u0163ie \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acolo, cu rom\u00e2nca \u015fi cu ele. Prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd erai parte dintr-o comunitate, nu “ciudata”.\u00a0<\/strong>
\nDaaa. Stai c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dau un link s\u0103 ne vezi la barbeque, pe Youtube. Ele \u00eemi spuneau la rumana, gen rom\u00e2nca.<\/p>\n