{"id":20142,"date":"2020-07-28T16:06:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T13:06:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20142"},"modified":"2020-07-28T16:20:32","modified_gmt":"2020-07-28T13:20:32","slug":"trendul-femeilor-mature-care-dau-la-facultati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/trendul-femeilor-mature-care-dau-la-facultati\/","title":{"rendered":"Trendul femeilor mature care dau la facult\u0103\u0163i"},"content":{"rendered":"

St\u0103team la pove\u015fti zilele trecute cu o prieten\u0103. O femeie de cam 35 de ani. \u015ei \u00eemi zice: Lorena, o s\u0103 r\u00e2zi de mine.
\n-De ce, m\u0103mic\u0103, s\u0103 r\u00e2d eu de tine? Te-ai … f\u0103r\u0103 prezervativ?
\n-Nu. Am dat la facultate.
\n\u015ei \u00eemi spune o facultate pe care-\u015fi dorea s-o fac\u0103.
\nT\u0103cere lung\u0103 pe fir. Apoi eu:
\n-\u015etii ce te rog? F\u0103 ca la sitcom. Marcheaz\u0103 cu hohote din off partea unde ar trebui s\u0103 r\u00e2d.
\n-Nu \u0163i se pare ridicol c\u0103 am dat la facultate, la v\u00e2rsta mea? <\/p>\n

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-Care plm v\u00e2rsta ta? 35 e o v\u00e2rst\u0103 absolut superb\u0103. \u015ei ce e de r\u00e2s \u00een faptul c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i? Baft\u0103 \u015fi mult succes. <\/p>\n

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\nAzi, vorbesc la telefon cu altcineva \u015fi \u00eemi spune pe un ton u\u015for ironic de o cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 comun\u0103, de vreo 45 de ani, c\u0103 a dat la facultate.
\n-Bravo ei, m\u0103 bucur pentru ea.
\nPrecum se vede, nu sunt un partener bun de b\u00e2rfe r\u0103ut\u0103cioase.
\n-Da, m\u0103i, Lorena, dar 45 de ani?
\n-E o v\u00e2rst\u0103 matur\u0103, la care \u015ftii exact ce vrei \u00een via\u0163\u0103, iar dac\u0103 lucrul pe care \u00eel dore\u015fti e s\u0103-\u0163i completezi educa\u0163ia, nu v\u0103d problema.
\n-Da, m\u0103i, dar 45 de ani???
\n-Chiar \u015fi 75. Tipa vrea s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e \u015fi lupt\u0103 pentru asta. Spre deosebire de noi, care \u00een acest moment b\u00e2rfim ca dou\u0103 g\u0103ini proaste. <\/p>\n

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\nMi se pare un lucru foarte bun faptul c\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de femei, de 35, 40, 45 de ani vor s\u0103 aib\u0103 o facultate un plus \u015fi sunt dispuse s\u0103 bage munca.
\n\u015ei \u015fti\u0163i de ce, oameni buni? <\/p>\n

Termini liceul la 19 ani. La ce facultate dai?
\nDe cele mai multe ori, unde te preseaz\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii, s\u0103 se laude vecinelor c\u0103 Mi\u015fulic\u0103 al nostru a intrat la management, de zici c\u0103 a \u015fi devenit general manager odat\u0103 cu confirmarea admiterii.
\nDe multe ori, la facult\u0103\u0163i care sun\u0103 bine pe h\u00e2rtie, dar nu au nici un fel de aplicabilitate concret\u0103 pe pia\u0163a muncii.
\nPentru c\u0103 la 20 de ani, \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 rostul unei facult\u0103\u0163i e s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i ceva din care trebuie s\u0103 pui o p\u00e2ine, sau m\u0103car o salat\u0103 de crudit\u0103\u0163i cu tofu, pe mas\u0103, toat\u0103 via\u0163a. \u00cenc\u0103 nu pricepi dinamica asta. Dai la Litere c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 te lauzi prin c\u00e2rciumi c\u0103 e\u015fti scriitor, apoi, peste cinci ani, te angajezi la mall casier\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar chiar \u015fi cei care dau la facult\u0103\u0163i cu utilitate practic\u0103. La 20 de ani, \u00een ce m\u0103sur\u0103 e accentul pe \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at? V\u0103 spune fata: deloc. Scopul t\u0103u e s\u0103 te bucuri de tot ce are de oferit studen\u0163ia, de ora\u015ful universitar cu 45689 de c\u00e2rciumi cool, de faptul c\u0103 ai ie\u015fit de sub papucul p\u0103rintesc, de petreceri, de combina\u0163ii, de via\u0163a de noapte \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. Iar \u00een sesiune, toce\u015fti un volum uria\u015f de informa\u0163ie din care nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne nimic. <\/p>\n

La 35 – 40, ai petrecut deja destul, ai bifat toate edi\u0163iile de Electric Castle, \u015fi de Afterhills, \u015fi de Sziget, \u015fi ce alt plm festival \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut \u0163ie, \u0163i-ai f\u0103cut plinul de aventuri la cort \u015fi de \u00eenchis clubul la 5 diminea\u0163a, \u015fi nu te mai fur\u0103 teama c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea va tr\u0103i cea mai cool experien\u0163\u0103 vinerea asta, numai tu o s\u0103 stai acas\u0103 ca fraierul s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eenve\u0163i la drept penal. <\/p>\n

\u015ei tot la 35 – 40, ai viziunea modului \u00een care informa\u0163ia acumulat\u0103 de tine la \u015fcoal\u0103 poate fi aplicat\u0103 \u015fi utilizat\u0103 \u00een via\u0163a de zi cu zi, \u015fi cum te poate face mai bun \u00een cariera pe care deja o ai. <\/p>\n

Taman de aceea, v\u00e2rsta de 35 – 40 mi se pare V\u00c2RSTA IDEAL\u0102 pentru facultate. V\u00e2rsta c\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 ai un scop, nu te mai duci dup\u0103 fent\u0103, ci stai concentrat\u0103 pe obiectiv. <\/p>\n

\u015ei acum, c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 \u015fcoala din tot universul s-a mutat pe Zoom, po\u0163i face de acas\u0103 \u015fi facultatea din Kuala Lumpur, dac\u0103 satisfaci criteriile de admitere \u015fi consideri din varii motive c\u0103 e cea mai bun\u0103 pentru tine. <\/p>\n

So, da, gagici. Merge\u0163i la \u015fcoal\u0103. E cea mai bun\u0103 decizie pe care o pute\u0163i lua. Plus c\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163atul conserv\u0103 prospe\u0163imea \u015fi agilitatea neuronilor. <\/p>\n

“Dar nu m\u0103 consideri prea b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103?” <\/p>\n

Boss, eu cred c\u0103 omenirea a judecat gre\u015fit lucrurile astea p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Un om tr\u0103ie\u015fte, s\u0103 zicem, 80 de ani. Primele dou\u0103 decenii sunt copil\u0103ria \u015fi adolescen\u0163a. C\u00e2t e de fair s\u0103 aloci un singur deceniu, 20 – 30, \u00een care omul s\u0103 fie t\u00e2n\u0103r \u015fi s\u0103 lupte pentru visele lui, \u015fi de la 30 \u00een sus, s\u0103-l repartizezi mintal la “b\u0103tr\u00e2ni” pentru cinci decenii? <\/p>\n

Nu, boss. Hai s\u0103 calcul\u0103m a\u015fa. 20 de ani, copil\u0103rie \u015fi adolescen\u0163\u0103. Restul de 60 \u00eei \u00eempar\u0163i \u00een 3 decenii \u00een care e\u015fti t\u00e2n\u0103r \u015fi faci ce vrea mu\u015fchiul t\u0103u, dac\u0103 numitul mu\u015fchi te \u0163ine, \u015fi 3 \u00een care e\u015fti b\u0103tr\u00e2n. Dar chiar \u015fi a\u015fa. Dac\u0103 un om de 65 de ani hot\u0103r\u0103\u015fte c\u0103 el are determinarea \u015fi energia pentru \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt superior, WHY. THE F. NOT? <\/p>\n

So. Care face\u0163i facult\u0103\u0163i la maturitate, ave\u0163i felicit\u0103rile mele sincere \u015fi din inim\u0103. Un om care vrea s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai bun e un om pe care \u00eel voi respecta \u00eentotdeauna. <\/p>\n

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