{"id":20154,"date":"2020-07-31T10:24:23","date_gmt":"2020-07-31T07:24:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20154"},"modified":"2020-07-31T10:24:23","modified_gmt":"2020-07-31T07:24:23","slug":"posta-redactiei-s-o-parasesc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-s-o-parasesc\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: S-o p\u0103r\u0103sesc?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic oferim iubire cititorului nostru \u00een rubrica “Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei” , dar \u00een aceste momente grele de pandemie, le oferim mai des, c\u0103 \u00eemi scriu oamenii \u015fi nu vreau s\u0103 se adune un munte de emailuri ner\u0103spunse.<\/p>\n

Misiva de azi zice a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Salut, Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n

Te citesc din liceu, acum sunt la facultate, n-are importan\u0163\u0103 care, am terminat anul II. <\/strong><\/p>\n

O s\u0103-\u0163i spun scurt problema, c\u0103 m\u0103 plictisesc s\u0103 citesc mesaje foarte lungi \u015fi repetitive, \u015fi nu cred c\u0103 ai nevoie de at\u00e2tea detalii oricum. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sunt cu una din ultimul an de liceu. Eu am plecat la facultate la Bucure\u015fti, ea a r\u0103mas acas\u0103 s\u0103 munceasc\u0103. Dar ne iubeam super mult \u015fi am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 \u0163inem de rela\u0163ie. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Am g\u0103sit un job anul trecut, \u015fi c\u0103utau colegi, puteam c\u00e2\u015ftiga ni\u0219te bani ca referral, am \u00eencercat s-o conving s\u0103 se mute \u015fi ea \u00een Bucure\u015fti, s\u0103 stea cu mine, dar n-a vrut, de\u015fi salariul era ok. Zice c\u0103 nu \u00eei place capitala, e prea mult\u0103 g\u0103l\u0103gie \u015fi prea mult\u0103 lume. <\/strong>\u00a0Dar a promis c\u0103 o s\u0103 dea admitere la facultate.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evident, a venit vara anul trecut, ne-am distrat ok, dar din nou, n-a dat admitere la nici o facultate. Anul \u0103sta, p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 vin\u0103 Covid, mi-au zis unii de alt job tot aici \u00een Bucure\u015fti, am mai \u00eencercat s-o chem iar. N-a vrut. Ea are ideea c\u0103 o s\u0103 termin facultatea, m\u0103 \u00eentorc acas\u0103 \u015fi ne c\u0103s\u0103torim. Treaba e c\u0103 eu nu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eengrop \u00eentr-un or\u0103\u0219el, vreau s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc \u00eentr-un ora\u0219 mare cu oportunit\u0103\u021bi, poate chiar str\u0103in\u0103tate, \u00een niciun caz provincie.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Suntem \u00eentr-un punct cretin, \u00een care ea sper\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103zg\u00e2ndesc eu \u015fi eu speram s\u0103 se r\u0103zg\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 ea.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sunt un porc nesim\u0163it \u015fi un m\u0103gar dac\u0103 \u00eemi tot trece prin cap c\u0103 nu ajungem nic\u0103ieri \u015fi c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 despart de ea?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

E ok s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenjuri, nu m\u0103 sup\u0103r.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 te \u00eenjur, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eendepline\u015fti o condi\u0163ie esen\u0163ial\u0103: s\u0103 fii tu \u0163\u0103ran prost primul. Niciodat\u0103 n-am \u00eenjurat un om de bun sim\u0163 \u015fi n-o s\u0103 \u00eencep acum.<\/p>\n

Legat de problema ta cu fata, am eu o alt\u0103 problem\u0103: Cum au unele noroc de tipi care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 le ridice \u00een sus, s\u0103 le creeze oportunit\u0103\u0163i, s\u0103 le ajute s\u0103 devin\u0103 ceva mai bun \u015fi ele nu \u015fi nu?<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 te cuno\u015fteam la 20 de ani, cu c\u00e2t\u0103 ambi\u0163ie am eu \u00een mine, cred c\u0103 acum eram domnul \u015fi doamna Lupu. (\u0162i-era clar c\u0103 TU luai numele meu, da?) Din p\u0103cate, eu la 20 de ani am cunoscut doar din \u0103ia care \u00eemi explicau c\u0103 am prea mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een mine \u015fi c\u0103 vreau prea multe.<\/p>\n

So.<\/p>\n

Tu ai \u00eencercat s\u0103 faci pentru fata asta mai mult dec\u00e2t fac al\u0163ii \u00eentr-o via\u0163\u0103. Inten\u0163ia bun\u0103 a existat. \u015ei a durat doi ani. Plm, a mea s-ar fi terminat \u00een c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, dac\u0103 vedeam c\u0103 n-am cu cine.<\/p>\n

Unii oameni sunt stof\u0103 de pre\u015fedin\u0163i, iar al\u0163ii, stof\u0103 de portari. Asta e, n-ai cum s\u0103 transformi poliesterul \u00een m\u0103tase. Ia-\u0163i direct m\u0103tase.<\/p>\n

Ce voiam s\u0103 spun pe scurt este: d\u0103-o \u00een plm de limitat\u0103 \u015fi caut\u0103-\u0163i una care s\u0103 dream big cu tine. Oamenii care dream big \u00eempreun\u0103 se ridic\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103; oamenii cu vise mici te pun s\u0103 semnezi la intrare \u015fi sun\u0103 la manager s\u0103-i comunice c\u0103 ai sosit.<\/p>\n

Ceea ce nu e r\u0103u \u00een sine – a nu se \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 am ceva cu domnul portar – dar nu \u0163i se potrive\u015fte.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi fi sus\u021bin\u0103tori de n\u0103dejde.<\/p>\n

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