{"id":20191,"date":"2020-08-06T14:30:36","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T11:30:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20191"},"modified":"2020-08-06T15:23:07","modified_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:23:07","slug":"te-dam-afara-din-etnie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/te-dam-afara-din-etnie\/","title":{"rendered":"Te d\u0103m afar\u0103 din etnie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am intervievat-o cu ceva timp \u00een urm\u0103 pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/antonella-lerca-duda-femeie-transgender-roma-politiciana\/\">Antonella<\/a><\/strong>. La momentul \u0103la, era doar o persoan\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, dar simpatic\u0103, din lista mea de Facebook, cu care ne mai d\u0103deam comentarii, \u015fi pe care am vrut s-o sus\u0163in \u00een fa\u0163a hate-ului sp\u0103lat pe creier de la diver\u015fi gigei de pe net, biomas\u0103 inutil\u0103 care \u00ee\u015fi g\u0103se\u015fte ra\u0163iunea existen\u0163ei \u00een &#8220;ce r\u0103utate am mai f\u0103cut noi ast\u0103zi&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Cred sincer c\u0103 orice om are dreptul s\u0103 aib\u0103 un vis, s\u0103 lupte pentru un vis \u015fi, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care tu nu crezi c\u0103 omul respectiv e potrivit pentru func\u0163ia X, po\u0163i s-o ar\u0103\u0163i \u00een cabina de vot, \u00een niciun caz prin h\u0103r\u0163uire, reporturi \u015fobol\u0103ne\u015fti care s\u0103-i \u00eenchid\u0103 pagini, mesaje private b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103ne\u015fti \u015fi alte \u015ficane tipice gher\u0163oiului rom\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centre timp, v\u0103d cu c\u00e2t\u0103 tenacitate iese femeia asta, de una singur\u0103 sau cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 de voluntari, la strad\u0103 s\u0103 ob\u0163in\u0103 semn\u0103turi, cu c\u00e2t\u0103 \u00eend\u00e2rjire lupt\u0103 pentru ceea ce-\u015fi dore\u015fte, \u015fi cum caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi perfec\u0163ioneze comunicarea \u015fi manierele, pentru a fi un r\u0103spuns c\u00e2t mai bun la nevoile oamenilor, iar asta m\u0103 umple de o form\u0103 nou\u0103 de respect pentru ea.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, mai e un lucru.<\/p>\n<p>Lu\u0103m o femeie &#8220;autentic\u0103&#8221;, pe Gabriela Firea. (\u00cen m\u0103sura \u00een care de\u0163inerea unui vagin te face s\u0103 fii femeie.) Cu ce discurs vine ea \u00een campanie. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/gabriela-firea-vrea-barbati-puternici\/\">Cu un discurs care calc\u0103 \u00een picioare demnitatea femeii<\/a><\/strong>, \u015fi o plaseaz\u0103 &#8220;\u00een spatele b\u0103rbatului puternic&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Rom\u00e2nia are nevoie de femei politicieni care s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 demonstreze contrariul: c\u0103 o femeie poate fi pe locul 1, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 lupte \u015fi s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 perseverent \u015fi cu implicare s\u0103 fie pe locul 1, \u015fi c\u0103 locul unei femei con\u015ftiente de valoarea ei nu e \u00een spatele nim\u0103nui, ci \u00een pozi\u0163ia de v\u00e2rf, dac\u0103 ea \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte asta.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 e nevoie ca acest discurs s\u0103 fie promovat de o femeie trans, pentru c\u0103 cele &#8220;autentice&#8221; sunt prea la\u015fe \u015fi sper\u0103 c\u0103 au de c\u00e2\u015ftigat dac\u0103 fac sluj b\u0103rba\u0163ilor tr\u0103g\u00e2nd \u00een jos alte femei, asta e situa\u0163ia. Dac\u0103 noi nu \u015ftim s\u0103 lupt\u0103m pentru noi \u015fi una pentru alta, bine m\u0103car c\u0103 exist\u0103 femei trans s\u0103 fac\u0103 treaba \u00een locul nostru.<\/p>\n<p>E\u015fti femeie \u00een politic\u0103? Reprezint\u0103, sus\u0163ine \u015fi ap\u0103r\u0103 \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii femeile, sau mar\u015f \u00een plm la crati\u0163\u0103 \u015fi d\u0103 exemplu de nevast\u0103 tradi\u0163ional\u0103 de acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Dar poate cea mai dezam\u0103gitoare mizerie pe care am v\u0103zut-o\u00a0 recent e momentul c\u00e2nd i-a scris un coetnic rom Antonellei, s-o dea afar\u0103 din etnie.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fvilanova.antonella%2Fposts%2F3687969941231419&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"613\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Asta \u00eemi aminte\u015fte de bancul \u0103la celebru cu cazanele de smoal\u0103 \u00een iad, \u015fi cum la rom\u00e2ni nu e nevoie de paz\u0103, pentru c\u0103, de cum \u00eencepe unul s\u0103 se ridice pu\u0163in, restul sar s\u0103-l trag\u0103 \u00eenapoi.\u00a0 At\u00e2t de valabil \u015fi \u00een cazul etniei rome.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103-i sco\u0163i ochii c\u0103 s-a prostituat, \u00een condi\u0163ia \u00een care sex workul este practicat de un num\u0103r at\u00e2t de mare de reprezentante ale aceleia\u015fi etnii, mi se pare o abjec\u0163ie, o ipocrizie \u015fi o nesim\u0163ire.<\/p>\n<p>Poate dac\u0103 n-o scoteau de la \u015fcoal\u0103 la 14 ani, poate dac\u0103 n-o obligau s\u0103 se \u00eensoare silit cu o femeie, ignor\u00e2nd faptul c\u0103 nu ar\u0103tase nici un fel de interes sexual fa\u0163\u0103 de femei vreodat\u0103, poate dac\u0103 n-o b\u0103gau cu for\u0163a la spitalul de boli nervoase s\u0103 se sustrag\u0103 de obliga\u0163ii financiare pe care \u015fi le-au creat singuri for\u0163\u00e2nd o nunt\u0103 vizibil inutil\u0103 \u015fi d\u0103un\u0103toare pentru o persoan\u0103 transgender, poate dac\u0103 o l\u0103sau s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e o meserie potrivit\u0103 \u015fi n-o tr\u0103geau \u00een jos, nu ajungea pe strad\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nici un copil nu se na\u015fte cu idealul c\u0103 o s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex work.<\/p>\n<p>\u0162ine de p\u0103rin\u0163i s\u0103-i ofere RESURSE \u015eI OP\u0162IUNI care s-o \u00eendrume spre o carier\u0103 respectabil\u0103. \u015ei nu, insultele \u015fi b\u0103taia nu sunt resurse \u015fi nici op\u0163iuni.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen loc s\u0103 l\u0103tra\u0163i o femeie pentru c\u0103 a fost silit\u0103 de lipsa de oportunit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi sabotajul generalizat s\u0103 se \u00eentre\u0163in\u0103 prin corpul ei, mai bine vede\u0163i ce face\u0163i pentru propriile voastre feti\u0163e.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu le ajuta\u0163i financiar, voi ca p\u0103rin\u0163i, s\u0103 aib\u0103 un viitor stabil, s\u0103 aib\u0103 o profesie din care s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 nu depind\u0103 de un gogu care nu e garantat c\u0103 le va trata bine, risca\u0163i s\u0103 le aduna\u0163i \u015fi voi de pe marginea trotuarului.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei nu e vina lor. Trebuie s\u0103 supravie\u0163uiasc\u0103 \u00eentr-un fel.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 Partida Romilor sau orice alt\u0103 asocia\u0163ie similar\u0103 au e\u015fuat s\u0103 aduc\u0103 rezultate vizibile \u00een domeniu, a\u015f zice c\u0103 e un semn c\u0103 mai e nevoie \u015fi de al\u0163ii.<\/p>\n<p>L\u0103sa\u0163i capra vecinului \u00een pace \u015fi, dac\u0103 o mul\u0163ime de femei dintr-o comunitate se orienteaz\u0103 spre sex work: medita\u0163i lung \u015fi responsabil asupra adev\u0103ratei probleme:<\/p>\n<p><strong>CE ALTERNATIVE VIABILE \u015eI DECENTE LE OFERI\u0162I.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e &#8220;nimic&#8221;, sau dup\u0103 caz &#8220;abuz&#8221;, haipa, haimar\u015f \u015fi hailarevedere.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi fi sus\u021bin\u0103tori de n\u0103dejde.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe <a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am intervievat-o cu ceva timp \u00een urm\u0103 pe Antonella. La momentul \u0103la, era doar o persoan\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, dar simpatic\u0103, din lista mea de Facebook,&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9373,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/FACEPALM.png?fit=800%2C486&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20191"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20194,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20191\/revisions\/20194"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9373"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}